Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT
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Little update, girlfriend took a pregnancy test today and it was negative. Quite relieved as it had been making me worry on top of other things on my mind such as exams etc.
Probably still going to go to the doctors anyway to see what else maybe causing such latency, making sure its nothing serious.
[QUOTE=jamzzster;41098077]Little update, girlfriend took a pregnancy test today and it was negative. Quite relieved as it had been making me worry on top of other things on my mind such as exams etc.
Probably still going to go to the doctors anyway to see what else maybe causing such latency, making sure its nothing serious.[/QUOTE]
late periods are common, it's usually caused by stress.
Yeah as it is the end of college I did think that it was most likely to be stress. Though you just can't help the thinking of 'what if'..
That was a pretty nice date. She was a little awkward but that's because she's a bit shy.
My friend told me I had to say that we should do more things later once the date was over, but [i]she[/i] said so instead, so that's pretty stellar.
It was a good time, even though I still kind of have a thing for the last girl, which makes me feel guilty. I don't think that's such a big problem, though. I'm recovering. I think.
You're on the right track mate, glad it went great for you. Hope the next one's even better!
Yo prom kid, you bring beer n rubbers?
How did it go, rock out with your cock out?
[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;41097078]the movie was nothing like the book aside from a few similarities i was disappointed[/QUOTE]
I thought it was pretty good, actually. Most of the characters' personalities were just like I imagined them while reading the book.
[QUOTE=Megafan;41104232]I thought it was pretty good, actually. Most of the characters' personalities were just like I imagined them while reading the book.[/QUOTE]
Leo did a great (no pun intended) job in the scene where he first met Daisy. His childish hushing was so spot-on it reminded me of my own past crushes.
i liked it, i haven't read the book though so i'm probably the last person that should judge it
[QUOTE=Megafan;41104232]I thought it was pretty good, actually. Most of the characters' personalities were just like I imagined them while reading the book.[/QUOTE]
i do think it was a good film lol
i just don't think it was like the book
I remember my prom night, it was so much fun [sp]sitting at home with a jar of cake frosting.[/sp]
So does anyone know what we could do for a second date over the summer?
If it's sunny? Go down to a sandy beach and both get a 99 icecream. It's really relaxing, just dig your toes into the sand, sit back and chat.
maybe grope each other on a sand dune
Talking to people is really difficult with a 9-hour timezone difference
[QUOTE=loopoo;41105543]If it's sunny? Go down to a sandy beach and both get a 99 icecream. It's really relaxing, just dig your toes into the sand, sit back and chat.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=thisispain;41105552]maybe grope each other on a sand dune[/QUOTE]
Haha...
We live like an hour from the beach, so that sadly won't really work out too well.
No, it's better. You're a distance from anything that could come between you. Car ride could be fun too.
Me and my family would regularly make 2 hour trips to beaches (even though we had some closer :v:) cause they liked the drive and its nice to be further from home sometimes.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;41106255]Me and my family would regularly make 2 hour trips to beaches (even though we had some closer :v:) cause they liked the drive and its nice to be further from home sometimes.[/QUOTE]
All the beaches around our home were shitty pebble ones. One of my fondest childhood memories is when my dad said "Fuck this" and took us all to this amazing sandy beach 2 hours away from our home. It was incredibly windy and we spent all day flying kites, building sandcastles and swimming in the sea. One of my first dates (about 4 1/2 years ago!) was spent on the beach, toes in the sand, eating icecream and just enjoying each other's company, it's why I suggested it, cause I really had a great time.
Also, I think I might have a reclusive personality? Not that I mind, it suits me well. I don't typically want to go out, I'm happy enough staying at home doing my own thing, or going to town on my own to get stuff I want (for cooking or a new music album or whatever) and it's pretty nice. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a disdain for other people, I actually get on really well with other people (one of my friends commented that wherever I go, I always have a band of followers saying how I'm such a nice guy, I move countries a lot so I learnt how to make friends I guess). I've also noticed that when I [I]do[/I] hang out with friends, it completely drains me out, and I need like 3 days just to myself before I'm up for going out again. I'm actually thankful for being this way haha, cause this past year has been extremely ridiculously disconnected from my life (cause I flunked and had to move back out to the Middle-east where I know no one) so yeah. Anyone else the same?
[QUOTE=loopoo;41107175]All the beaches around our home were shitty pebble ones. One of my fondest childhood memories is when my dad said "Fuck this" and took us all to this amazing sandy beach 2 hours away from our home. It was incredibly windy and we spent all day flying kites, building sandcastles and swimming in the sea. One of my first dates (about 4 1/2 years ago!) was spent on the beach, toes in the sand, eating icecream and just enjoying each other's company, it's why I suggested it, cause I really had a great time.
Also, I think I might have a reclusive personality? Not that I mind, it suits me well. I don't typically want to go out, I'm happy enough staying at home doing my own thing, or going to town on my own to get stuff I want (for cooking or a new music album or whatever) and it's pretty nice. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a disdain for other people, I actually get on really well with other people (one of my friends commented that wherever I go, I always have a band of followers saying how I'm such a nice guy, I move countries a lot so I learnt how to make friends I guess). I've also noticed that when I [I]do[/I] hang out with friends, it completely drains me out, and I need like 3 days just to myself before I'm up for going out again. I'm actually thankful for being this way haha, cause this past year has been extremely ridiculously disconnected from my life (cause I flunked and had to move back out to the Middle-east where I know no one) so yeah. Anyone else the same?[/QUOTE]
We had to move constantly cause my dad was in the air force, so while I like making friends now I think of it as more of a chore, I prefer my 2-3 close friends. But essentially I'm the same way sans posse
[QUOTE=loopoo;41107175]Also, I think I might have a reclusive personality? Not that I mind, it suits me well. I don't typically want to go out, I'm happy enough staying at home doing my own thing, or going to town on my own to get stuff I want (for cooking or a new music album or whatever) and it's pretty nice. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a disdain for other people, I actually get on really well with other people (one of my friends commented that wherever I go, I always have a band of followers saying how I'm such a nice guy, I move countries a lot so I learnt how to make friends I guess). I've also noticed that when I [I]do[/I] hang out with friends, it completely drains me out, and I need like 3 days just to myself before I'm up for going out again. I'm actually thankful for being this way haha, cause this past year has been extremely ridiculously disconnected from my life (cause I flunked and had to move back out to the Middle-east where I know no one) so yeah. Anyone else the same?[/QUOTE]
i'm definitely the same way, i have no problem talking to people and making friends but i have no problem being alone and actually prefer it most of the time
[editline]20th June 2013[/editline]
well not really alone since i'm almost always talking to people on skype but i prefer being physically alone
Urgh, my girlfriend told her parents that she doesn't believe in mormonism anymore, they got really upset at her apparently, she says it's her fault she doesn't believe and she feels really guilty, I want her to make the choice in whether or not she believes, anyway to help her?
[QUOTE=Leader of Me;41108174]Urgh, my girlfriend told her parents that she doesn't believe in mormonism anymore, they got really upset at her apparently, she says it's her fault she doesn't believe and she feels really guilty, I want her to make the choice in whether or not she believes, anyway to help her?[/QUOTE]
the best thing to do is make sure she always know that her life is her own decision
[QUOTE=Boss;41102548]Yo prom kid, you bring beer n rubbers?
How did it go, rock out with your cock out?[/QUOTE]
I did. It went well.
on my equivalent to prom night I had a big fight with my then girlfriend who spent the night avoiding me for some weird ass reason
then we went to an after party/get together where she drank too much and then began to cry hysterically
then the next day she was talking about how great a time it was
yeah right bitch u ruined it
[QUOTE=Leader of Me;41108174]Urgh, my girlfriend told her parents that she doesn't believe in mormonism anymore, they got really upset at her apparently, she says it's her fault she doesn't believe and she feels really guilty, I want her to make the choice in whether or not she believes, anyway to help her?[/QUOTE]
Ive been through this with my own parents(Although catholic), I was lucky though since my dad doesn't really believe in much either my mom would call him for backup and he would be sorta ho-hum about it and she would get more frustrated, but couldn't really complain as much at me.
Its gonna be a long haul, just be there to support her and remind her that her beliefs are what they are. You can't just decide to believe something, you have to actually believe it, and if it isn't there it just isnt there. Its up to her not her parents. You don't have to be religious to have good morals.
Wow, I mean, my parents are Christian, I consider myself a Christian too although I don't go to church and all that.
My parents go to church every Sunday although my dad's a bit skeptical (I think he just goes to church because he thinks it may bring him luck to his business :v), but when it came to options and beliefs my parents have always been very tolerant.
Jeez, when I was an edgy teen and started listening to Heavy Metal and "Satan's music" and speaking blasphemy all around expecting to create some drama and conflict with "how hypocritical" religion was, my mom and dad would be like "meh, It's pass someday" humiliating all my edgy teen angst.
When I finally found myself I decided that I do believe in Jesus Lord AND SAVIOUR HALLELUJAH BROTHERS! (just kidding). I decided that I do believe in Christianity. But before that my parents never "forced me" or conflicted with me just because I didn't believe in anything. And I think that from them it's a really rational and Christian thing to do to let people realize what they want in life.
Knowing my parents as I know I think that even If I said to them that I was an Atheist they wouldn't mind.
So I always ask myself, what kind of Christians are those that force feed their beliefs on their children. Jeez relax, moms and dads out there. Most of your children are good boys and girls even if they don't believe in Jesus.
The only family members that "forced" me to go to church were my grandparents. But since I grew up the can no longer muster the force to get me out of bed so early on a Sunday so they gave up on cleansing my soul every Sunday.
I guess it depends much on the cultural roots of each country and how harsh religion is seen by the locals.
Speaking of dances, I remember one time on a band trip we went to New York then Philadelphia. We spent most of the day in Philly, then at night there was a party at the Hard Rock Cafe that they put together with a DJ, a bar (no alcohol obviously), and food. It was awesome. Spent the whole night dancing like a fool, and I even got to crowd surf. Fuckin' awesome. Until we had to wake up at 4 AM the next morning.
Also, I find myself constantly needing to hang out with my friends and stuff. I don't like being alone, I hate it most of the time. I'm much more in my element, and more enjoyable when I'm with company that I enjoy. Anyone else?
[QUOTE=PistolKid;41113211]Also, I find myself constantly needing to hang out with my friends and stuff. I don't like being alone, I hate it most of the time. I'm much more in my element, and more enjoyable when I'm with company that I enjoy. Anyone else?[/QUOTE]
I just started feeling like this a few weeks ago, except a lot of my friends are stay inside and videogame people
[editline]20th June 2013[/editline]
Starting to use facebook was one of the best decisions I've made in my life
The ability to just easily communicate people is just magical
[QUOTE=ZenX2;41113372]I just started feeling like this a few weeks ago, except a lot of my friends are stay inside and videogame people
[editline]20th June 2013[/editline]
Starting to use facebook was one of the best decisions I've made in my life
The ability to just easily communicate people is just magical[/QUOTE]
This is why I don't understand why like 90% of facepunch openly hate facebook when it makes talking to people so easy.
Then I remember 90% of facepunch probably never leave the house.
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