Super Friendly Social and Love Advice V6 - JUST FUCKING ASK HER OUT

[Heigou]

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;41922839]Have you guys ever had such a shit week(without crying or whining about it at all(because you understood that it was partially your fault)) that you actually cried when something small yet nice happened because you were so surprised that something happy can actually happen to you at all

or atleast teared up

it sounds dumb but it happened to me yesterday

it's never happened to me before till then haha[/QUOTE]

never happened to me because I'm a huge douchenozzle living in the middle of nowhere who does nothing but work out and has a shit personality

[Rhenae]

ohhey its my birthday.

[OogalaBoogal]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;41923515]ohhey its my birthday.[/QUOTE]

Happy Birthday!

Go have a cool party!

(wait is this bannable oh shit oh shit)

[Splash Attack]

Happy birthday Rhenae!

(I don't think it's bannable :tinfoil:)

[thisispain]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;41923515]ohhey its my birthday.[/QUOTE]

[img]http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp7x5w3Ssd1qikirwo1_400.jpg[/img]

[Heigou]

[QUOTE=thisispain;41923741][img]http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp7x5w3Ssd1qikirwo1_400.jpg[/img][/QUOTE]

thats me happy birthday bb

[editline]22nd August 2013[/editline]

just for u

[Riku2211]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;41923515]ohhey its my birthday.[/QUOTE]

Happy Birthday!

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;41922839]Have you guys ever had such a shit week(without crying or whining about it at all(because you understood that it was partially your fault)) that you actually cried when something small yet nice happened because you were so surprised that something happy can actually happen to you at all

or atleast teared up

it sounds dumb but it happened to me yesterday

it's never happened to me before till then haha[/QUOTE]

never really had that happen to me, I guess I've come close. I could really use something like that right now.

[Boss]

Im in a bit of a tricky situation ( I guess its a social problem)

So im nearly finished my education, well full time, so I've been looking for jobs.

JOB A - yes we wish to employ you hiring guy who is allowed to sign you on is on holiday for 3 weeks said he will sort you with a contract within a week whilst he's away. - Nothing in writing this could all fall through, I just have a mans word on this.

Job B -Offered a job recently need to reply to them with in 5 days.

Job A has better prospects I discussed on the phone with them about my situation he straight outwent, take the other job say yes. Then when we put the contract together for you within a week or two tell them you've been brought out as such. (I technically will be they are paying a fair amount more)

I just feel shitty about saying yes then fucking off but I dont want to be left out of pocket if the other job falls through.
1st world problems.

[AnnieOakley]

Hey there is this guy from jazz band who I have somewhat of an interest in but I don't think he's gay. I mean we're good friends but I don't know if I could admit I have feeling towards him. What do I do?

[Metherat]

[QUOTE=Rhenae;41911109]That and he is sleeping through the day, up at night he keeps saying he will try to fix it but then doesn't, he goes to be early and gets a different weird sleep schedule or whatever or when he does fix it he just goes right back to it the next night. I can understand having trouble sleeping but its cause he isn't doing anything. I had the same problem back home cause I did nothing in the day I wasn't tired at night. Its just one more little thing that becomes a big thing ya know? Hes just not really trying to fix it.[/QUOTE]

I have a friend with an equally fucked up sleep schedule- he got it from working the graveyard shift for about a year and a half, its basically impossible for him to sleep during the nighttime. He's been trying to change his sleep schedule for many years now, but its extremely difficult to disturb a sleep clock on your own. Your boyfriend is trying, but when his brain wants to sleep, he really can't stop it- its like starving yourself or stabbing yourself, your instinct for self-preservation is usually stronger than your own will.

[Rhenae]

[QUOTE=Metherat;41930703]I have a friend with an equally fucked up sleep schedule- he got it from working the graveyard shift for about a year and a half, its basically impossible for him to sleep during the nighttime. He's been trying to change his sleep schedule for many years now, but its extremely difficult to disturb a sleep clock on your own. Your boyfriend is trying, but when his brain wants to sleep, he really can't stop it- its like starving yourself or stabbing yourself, your instinct for self-preservation is usually stronger than your own will.[/QUOTE]

I disagree with that quite a bit, at least from person situation. Ive never had that trouble I change my sleep schedule daily from work and over the summer would just flip it around every so often when it got too ridiculous. Its far from some impossible task you just have to buck up and do it and keep it up a couple days.
Maybe working graveyard shift would ingrain it a bit more but thats certainly not the situation here

Anyway we talked and he has changed his number, updated his resume, and we were going to take it to a place I know is hiring at the moment but then we have a thundrstorm so cant. They'll get handed out soon though :)

[Agoat]

[QUOTE=Boss;41928746]Im in a bit of a tricky situation ( I guess its a social problem)

So im nearly finished my education, well full time, so I've been looking for jobs.

JOB A - yes we wish to employ you hiring guy who is allowed to sign you on is on holiday for 3 weeks said he will sort you with a contract within a week whilst he's away. - Nothing in writing this could all fall through, I just have a mans word on this.

Job B -Offered a job recently need to reply to them with in 5 days.

Job A has better prospects I discussed on the phone with them about my situation he straight outwent, take the other job say yes. Then when we put the contract together for you within a week or two tell them you've been brought out as such. (I technically will be they are paying a fair amount more)

I just feel shitty about saying yes then fucking off but I dont want to be left out of pocket if the other job falls through.
1st world problems.[/QUOTE]

Take Job B, if Job A pops up take that instead.

[Zarjk]

[IMG]http://i.imgur.com/NySjkCB.jpg[/IMG]

Life's good, for once.

[Jacob_sword]

So I found this girl when walking out of class and we just started hitting it off... like allot. Then next day we were texting/joking about how Facebook sucks then I joke saying I'll send you a friend request while I'm doing that I'm looking at her page and there are some pics of her kissing this dude. Which surprised me cause I usually pick up on that really quick so I text her and ask if she got a boyfriend. She said yes then no, I asked which is it. She said no but started asking like you trying to say something. In my head I was like OH FUCK. After some horrible dodging she said why don't you come over to my house. At the same time I was texting my brother told him if I get out of this without pushing her away I want you to call me Big Boss from now on. So I go to her house and after some awkward silence I straight out asked again she said no then asked if I had boyfriend (jokingly) I told her no. Then she asked if I had girlfriend I told her no and after that we both started flirting with each other. Then I left cause it was late. Next day met her again went to my house to hang out shes kinda of ocd so I have a big tub filled with old games and she started to organize it. I was like you don't have to do that. So she did it and was amazed how well she had done it. We went out to go swim in my pool and then we started to cuddle. After some joking go back inside and back in my room my dresser is a mess so joking she like if you kiss me I fix that too. So not being dumb jumped at that chance then she proceed to fold all of shirts and get them to fit in my dresser. The rest of the night was uneventful brought her back to her house. And know my typing this out to tell you guys. Heres an old pic of her
[t]https://sphotos-b-atl.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-frc1/998920_10201599805298235_2025139940_n.jpg[/t]
Her hair isn't like that anymore now its short and black.

But yeah its been 3 days and me and her are like crazy.

If there are any grammar mistakes please forgive me Its been long three days my head still isn't all together.

[CyanLime]

[QUOTE=Jacob_sword;41938853]So I found this girl when walking out of class and we just started hitting it off... like allot. Then next day we were texting/joking about how Facebook sucks then I joke saying I'll send you a friend request while I'm doing that I'm looking at her page and there are some pics of her kissing this dude. Which surprised me cause I usually pick up on that really quick so I text her and ask if she got a boyfriend. She said yes then no, I asked which is it. She said no but started asking like you trying to say something. In my head I was like OH FUCK. After some horrible dodging she said why don't you come over to my house. At the same time I was texting my brother told him if I get out of this without pushing her away I want you to call me Big Boss from now on. So I go to her house and after some awkward silence I straight out asked again she said no then asked if I had boyfriend (jokingly) I told her no. Then she asked if I had girlfriend I told her no and after that we both started flirting with each other. Then I left cause it was late. Next day met her again went to my house to hang out shes kinda of ocd so I have a big tub filled with old games and she started to organize it. I was like you don't have to do that. So she did it and was amazed how well she had done it. We went out to go swim in my pool and then we started to cuddle. After some joking go back inside and back in my room my dresser is a mess so joking she like if you kiss me I fix that too. So not being dumb jumped at that chance then she proceed to fold all of shirts and get them to fit in my dresser. The rest of the night was uneventful brought her back to her house. And know my typing this out to tell you guys. Heres an old pic of her

Her hair isn't like that anymore now its short and black.

But yeah its been 3 days and me and her are like crazy.

If there are any grammar mistakes please forgive me Its been long three days my head still isn't all together.[/QUOTE]

posting photos of your hookup to an anonymous forum seems kind of creepy to me to be brutally honest

[Loopoo]

I'm happy for you man, but she seems a tad bit on the weird side. Also, didn't really have to post a picture but okay!

[Jacob_sword]

Pics help you visualize better. Also when dids become anonymous everybody knows everybody here.
Also one question does it seem like are relationship is going really fast?

[Jacob_sword]

uh ok, do you guys think my relationship with this girl is going to fast?

[NoDachi]

gotta go fast

n hard

corr blimey

[Splash Attack]

I got to second base with my ex on our first date. You're doing just fine.

[Agoat]

[QUOTE=Jacob_sword;41939446]uh ok, do you guys think my relationship with this girl is going to fast?[/QUOTE]

you're young, go mach speed

[Heigou]

and if it doesn't work out you can still go mach speed on yourself

[rrkpp_]

if shes not pregnant youre not going too fast

[Zerokateo]

Fuck, what questions do I ask a girl to get to know her better? Also how in the world do I seem interesting? I do nothing!

[Loopoo]

Am I the only one who thinks the girl is a tad bit weird? Especially cause of the whole "Do you have a boyfriend?" "Yes... uh no". Just raises a red flag, and then the re-arranging your box of junk and stuff. I dunno, man. Just feel like she's a bit strange.

[editline]24th August 2013[/editline]

Wait, nevermind. You guys are really young so I guess it's not as weird.

[Heigou]

she can rearrange my junk any time

[SaWAH]

So I gained 15 pounds since I met my boyfriend. Never thought THAT would happen, but obviously.. I only ate once a day before I met him, so that's going to show.

I'm going to start working out TODAY. I'd like it if 3,5 years of weight could get off in 6 months.

[Loopoo]

Losing 15lbs in 6 months isn't too hard a goal tbh.

[FalcoLombardi]

Asked to take a break for first time. Don't know why but I am not in the mood to be wasting my last weeks of summer right now like this.

[E3245]

[QUOTE=Zerokateo;41948500]Fuck, what questions do I ask a girl to get to know her better?[/QUOTE]

Start by asking:
"Tell me about yourself", "What interests you?", "What's your most favorite/hated food, music, etc.?"