• Why is being a virgin shameful?
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OP can't get laid so he makes thread hoping the other facepunch virgins will cheer him up
[QUOTE=mzathemind;19295003]Im sure the cavemen fucked because it felt good too. Also i think all you people who said the urge for sex is primitave are the ones who simple cant get action.[/QUOTE] Uh, the urge for sex IS primitive. We've evolved to like sex because then we're more likely to have it, so we get more species continuation. These days sex isn't just a penis fucking a vagina, there's usually an emotional attachment or passion to it - but at its core it is still your penis telling you to fuck something.
Because if you haven't gotten laid you're apparently a nerd who has no life. Actually, that's a quite fitting description here on Facepunch.
Im pretty sure that it's not that shameful.. The thing I find most shameful is that people like to fucking bullshit about it.
having sex makes you cool
Being a virgin normally indicates you haven't done socially well enough to get laid. This is what people tend to think and this is why people must not be a virgin. Personally, not bothered.
[QUOTE=Grabigel;19296050]I'd honestly say be a virgin as long as you can, or until you know you've met the right person. Once you do it, you'l never be clean again.[/QUOTE] I'd honestly say you should do what you feel comfortable with. If it feels right, do it. We are sexual beings, and it wouldn't be nearly as fun if we weren't meant to.
There is nothing bad about virginity and nothing bad about having sex too.
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[QUOTE=MegaJohnny;19288755] But if you're 40 and you're still a virgin you've probably either not got out there to meet all the potential mates in the world, or you do mix enough with women and you're just not good enough for them to want you.[/QUOTE] Or you're saving yourself for marriage? Or you have a phobia of STD's? There could be a ton of reasons for not having sex.
Most girls prefer virgin guys. They like it because then the guy doesn't go into bed with them with pre-conceived notions about what they "think girls like" and etc. A girl can sorta mold a virgin man to really please her.
Here's a pathetic thing I heard before. My girlfriend's 19. She's still a virgin. Perfectly acceptable in my eyes. In other people's eyes, they would brand her as a 'loser'. Virginity, in this day and age, is something people want to lose as soon as possible. I agree, sex is a natural urge, no matter what, no matter who you're with as long as they're not family and (usually) of the opposite sex. Most of the guys I know claim to have had sex before but I can tell they are lying. Nobody would want to have sex with their ugly asses, no way. We say we fucked a girl for social status, just so we can be more accepted. I choose to be honest. I say that I'm a virgin and would wait to lose it. Then some assholes come along and poke fun at me. Whatever. I have something special sand intend to kee it until I'm ready and have found the right person. Insisting to wait for sex in a very honotable trait in a lot of people's minds, and I agree with that. Wait for it and it'll be a very special, intimate, and greatest-feeling thing for you and your partner. God, I sound like my health teacher now. I am a virgin, and proud of it.
I am 14 and I am in no rush to loose my virginity.
I would rather keep my dignity than lose my virginity.
[QUOTE=Aman V;19296041]a butthurt virgin.[/QUOTE] :raise:
I've been in a relationship for almost a year now, but we both agree that 15 is a little early to be having sex at. I hate all these kids "going out" for a week and then fucking. Then breaking up a week later and the girl cries because they "loved" them.
if ur avirgin ur no kool
[QUOTE=doommarine23;19296063]Besides from you know, the emotional damage and possible sexual addiction by young careless immature teens or you know, the lack of love and emotion or just the fact that it's over-rated. :colbert:[/QUOTE] -Emotional damage? What is she gonna bite your dick? -Sexual addiction just sounds stupid anyone who thinks they are "addicted" to sex are retards. -May sound depressing but love isn't real.
[QUOTE=Aman V;19306893]-Emotional damage? What is she gonna bite your dick? -Sexual addiction just sounds stupid anyone who thinks they are "addicted" to sex are retards. -May sound depressing but love isn't real.[/QUOTE] Well, aren't [i]you[/i] the nihilist. :colbert:
[QUOTE=Gmod4ever;19307103]Well, aren't [i]you[/i] the nihilist. :colbert:[/QUOTE] Maybe so. :frown: Just the way I am.
It's not shameful really. Honestly, if I meet a guy who is a virgin, I find that extremely respectable. And that earns brownie points with me. But only if he's a virgin by choice. If he's a virgin just because he can't get any but WANTS to get some then.. there's not much different about him than any other person who just wants to get laid. It's only on the internet that people make fun of you really. And usually if you're a guy. A virgin girl is a plus to a lot of guys. But honestly, I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has slept around. I can't imagine what he may have picked up. My boyfriend has slept with one person before and even that has me paranoid. I told him he's getting checked before we get married. <<
lol at virgins trying to justify their reasons by saying only dumb people lose it etc
[QUOTE=YoMother;19307167]It kind of is since, you know, people are like, together.[/QUOTE] That doesn't mean its the "eternal love" everyone so dreams about. Love isn't real. It is natural attraction. Humans are animals. We naturally get bored of our mate after 3 - 4 years and look for a new one. We are not a "single mate for life" type of species like some people paint us to be.
[QUOTE=Pascall;19307182]It's not shameful really. Honestly, if I meet a guy who is a virgin, I find that extremely respectable. And that earns brownie points with me. But only if he's a virgin by choice. If he's a virgin just because he can't get any but WANTS to get some then.. there's not much different about him than any other person who just wants to get laid. It's only on the internet that people make fun of you really. And usually if you're a guy. A virgin girl is a plus to a lot of guys. But honestly, I wouldn't want to be with a guy who has slept around. I can't imagine what he may have picked up. My boyfriend has slept with one person before and even that has me paranoid. I told him he's getting checked before we get married. <<[/QUOTE] Yes cause sleeping with more than 1 person instantly gives you STDs. The whole STD/AIDS media scare shit is stupid.
[QUOTE=Aman V;19307285]Yes cause sleeping with more than 1 person instantly gives you STDs. The whole STD/AIDS media scare shit is stupid.[/QUOTE] Getting checked is easy. It's not like it's a horrible long process that causes you distress. Better to be safe than sorry. Also, how on earth can you say "Love is not real"? I know an old married couple who has been together for 50 years and they still love each other. It's so obvious that they do too.
[QUOTE=YoMother;19307298]Love IS natural attraction genius.[/QUOTE] I don't know about that. Girls I've been with or have tried to get with I just can't say "I love you" to them cause I know I am lying. I don't "love" them. Sure I like them, we have things in common, and I am attarcted to them but saying " I love you, want to be with you forever, etc" is foolish and wrong.
[QUOTE=Pascall;19307326]Getting checked is easy. It's not like it's a horrible long process that causes you distress. Better to be safe than sorry. Also, how on earth can you say "Love is not real"? I know an old married couple who has been together for 50 years and they still love each other. It's so obvious that they do too.[/QUOTE] 1. I hate blood tests but thats just me personally, and I know I do not have any STDs. Really if I was your boyfriend I'd feel slightly offended that you think I'd have STDs. 2. My grandparents have been together for 60 something years and put on the mask that they love each other too on the outside and you wouldn't be the wiser. When really they honestly can't stand each other anymore. Being with one person for even 20+ years will make anyone want to find something new. [editline]09:36PM[/editline] [QUOTE=YoMother;19307392]So because you can't manage social relationships, love suddenly isn't real?[/QUOTE] I manage relationships just fine. Nowhere did I said I couldn't...
[QUOTE=Aman V;19307396]1. I hate blood tests but thats just me personally, and I know I do not have any STDs. Really if I was your boyfriend I'd feel slightly offended that you think I'd have STDs. 2. My grandparents have been together for 60 something years and put on the mask that they love each other too on the outside and you wouldn't be the wiser. When really they honestly can't stand each other anymore. Being with one person for even 20+ years will make anyone want to find something new. [editline]09:36PM[/editline] I manage relationships just fine. Nowhere did I said I couldn't...[/QUOTE] [quote]Doctors and health-care providers test for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) in several ways. Depending on the symptoms, they might do a physical examination of the genitals; test samples of fluids from the vagina, anus, throat, and urethra; or do a urine test. They might also do a blood test for HIV, syphilis, or hepatitis.[/quote] [url=http://www.sexetc.org/faq/std/1005]Source[/url] It's not always a blood test. That's only for the more dangerous STDs. It's usually a urine test. Easy peasy. And you're not my boyfriend. We both wonder what his ex-girlfriend could have done in HER past so it's better to be safe. Not all people are like you or your grandparents. I know for a fact that my parents love eachother and they're going on twenty years of marriage. It's not a mask. They have life problems just like any other couple, but they genuinely love each other. Love exists. Just because it's not obvious in your life doesn't mean that it isn't there. And if someone tries to turn that into a religious reference, don't.
[QUOTE=Aman V;19306893]-Emotional damage? What is she gonna bite your dick? -Sexual addiction just sounds stupid anyone who thinks they are "addicted" to sex are retards. -May sound depressing but love isn't real.[/QUOTE] - Rape? You didn't think of that right? - No, you're an idiot. You can get addicted to anything, including sex. - Guess what, it technically is to whoever is "in love".
[QUOTE=Taggart;19307561]- Rape? You didn't think of that right? - No, you're an idiot. You can get addicted to anything, including sex. - Guess what, it technically is to whoever is "in love".[/QUOTE] 1. This thread is for the most part talking about consenual sex and losing your virginity not rape 2. If you have that weak of a willpower to get addicted to sex or masturbation you need to sit down and think for a second. 3. Hmm.
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