Daily Life V6. "Drama, Cellular Devices, and the latest in military hardware" - General

tried and tested by a future US marine nardo

[QUOTE=notrabies;38143896]I am not a male model, not outgoing, and I don't regularly approach ladies. I know plenty of girls who aren't dating outgoing male models. You genuinely don't understand ladies, then imagine unrealistic scenarios based on your messed up perception, and then you get really angry at them. That sounds like something Hitler would do. Once again, your problem is that you refuse to put effort into this situation and want a girl to fall into your lap like a spoiled little kid. [/QUOTE] What makes me mad is everyone can get relationships with zero effort but here I am busting my balls for the past 5 years trying to find a girl worth my attention and nothing happens.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143917]What makes me mad is everyone can get relationships with zero effort but here I am busting my balls for the past 5 years trying to find a girl worth my attention and nothing happens.[/QUOTE] now you're implying lol it takes effort, you're just putting all the effort in the wrong place or something

[QUOTE=venom;38143920]now you're implying lol it takes effort, you're just putting all the effort in the wrong place or something[/QUOTE] Everyone else makes it look so effortless though.

[QUOTE=notrabies;38143819]Speaking of awesome 80's sound: [video=youtube;dg4IN9YD8jc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dg4IN9YD8jc[/video] I'd also highly recommend you check out the mixtape I got it from: [url]http://www.lowriderscollective.com/mixtapes/ak-kids-chocolate-curry-mixtape/[/url] The whole thing doesn't have an 80's sound but if you like electro you'll probably enjoy it. [/QUOTE] Personally, I'm looking for more stuff like this: [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nJkChqHO0d4&feature=BFa&list=FLMGz1bCAKlOe8lcuVA7xPFw[/media] I really like the main drum beat. It sounds really familiar but I cant quite place why, although for some reason I associate it with The Matrix.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143917]What makes me mad is everyone can get relationships with zero effort but here I am busting my balls for the past 5 years trying to find a girl worth my attention and nothing happens.[/QUOTE] bro, stop thinking about it, thats what screws guys like you up, you want girls, stop being such a self-conscious qqer, trust me bro, I was in your shoes a few years back, make the effort to use our advice dude; you'll be swimming in vag juice in no time its not really about the effort, or really its not the word i'd use :v: it just comes to you, it flows bro, you'll understand what all the facepunch guys are trying to do

I don't know if there's something wrong with me or if i've just not encountered the right kind of girls yet, since i don't really give a shit about the fact i've never had a girlfriend. In high school i was interested in a couple of girls, but the one i actually had the balls to ask out turned me down and i was ok with that, we're still friends even though she moved country. The only girls i've met throughout school were either complete assholes or just not interesting. I'm definately interested in girls, but not any of the ones i've ever talked to.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143917]What makes me mad is everyone can get relationships with zero effort but here I am busting my balls for the past 5 years trying to find a girl worth my attention and nothing happens.[/QUOTE] No one gets relationships with zero effort. Most people just keep their progress to themselves. Notice how I posted this earlier which you proceeded to pretend didn't happen: [QUOTE=notrabies;38143597]Let me ask you something, do you have regular daily conversations with the ladies you know? In both of my situations I was calling/texting the lady every single day for weeks before they asked me out. When I was in high school I made sure to wait in the hallways for my ex, meet up with her between classes, and meet her friends way before dating even entered the window. If you want a real relationship, she has to be your best friend before she can be your girlfriend. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=QQnMarine;38143944]bro, stop thinking about it, thats what screws guys like you up, you want girls, stop being such a self-conscious qqer, trust me bro, I was in your shows a few years back, make the effort to use our advice dude; you'll be swimming in vag juice in no time[/QUOTE] I can't just make myself stop wanting something I've wanted for 5 fucking years but never got.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143917]What makes me mad is everyone can get relationships with zero effort but here I am busting my balls for the past 5 years trying to find a girl worth my attention and nothing happens.[/QUOTE] >busting balls you're doing nothing at all >worth my attention suddenly, you're in a position to choose? when the fuck did that happen >everyone getting relationships with zero effort u wot m8

[QUOTE=notrabies;38143954]No one gets relationships with zero effort. Most people just keep their progress to themselves. Notice how I posted this earlier which you proceeded to pretend didn't happen:[/QUOTE] I guess we'll just say that I should forget about them if I don't get their number at least with in the first couple days of meeting them then. Kind of sounds like what you're trying to say.

oh my god dis guy

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143966]I guess we'll just say that I should forget about them if I don't get their number at least with in the first couple days of meeting them then. Kind of sounds like what you're trying to say.[/QUOTE] That's almost the opposite of what he's trying to say. Don't give up, chill out, and acknowledge that things are simpler than they appear. These aren't step-by-step instructions on how to get [del]laid[/del] a girlfriend, we're (mostly everyone else) just trying to give you the right mindset and the right idea to calm your frustration.

I think my biggest problem is being able to approach them. I actually did try to approach a girl about a month ago but she seemed really uninterested. I haven't tried again since then.

[QUOTE=The Ultimate;38143910]tried and tested by a future US marine nardo[/QUOTE] aww i wanted it to be a surprise :C for all you guys also taep, why are you giving up so easily, and putting yourself down, and I know it's not going to help by saying their are just as many guys out their with the same problem, but you kind of have to relax man, getting a girl is a big thing for sure, but it's not something you should worry about all the time, keep in mind, your education and your money are more important in the long run; so what if you don't get a girl, at least you wont have to struggle with money and putting food on the table; or being a lazy douche surviving on welfare which some of the people; who some of them are married and have kids; some of them being like 17-19 years old struggle with life taep, you can always get a girl later bro

I remember posting about that on here too.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144005]I think my biggest problem is being able to approach them. I actually did try to approach a girl about a month ago but she seemed really uninterested. I haven't tried again since then.[/QUOTE] [QUOTE=Wulfram;38143775]every girl isnt the same[/QUOTE]

I just don't know how to make myself interesting when really I'm boring as fuck. If I do approach another girl it's going to be the same, I'll be trying to hard to make small talk and just generally be boring.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143966]I guess we'll just say that I should forget about them if I don't get their number at least with in the first couple days of meeting them then. Kind of sounds like what you're trying to say.[/QUOTE] No, that's what you're trying to read, I didn't write that. I'm saying the same thing I've been telling you since before you even got to college, you have to regularly talk with a lady before they will begin to care about you in a romantic way. You can talk to someone in person, over the internet, on the phone, in a group, in a class, etc. etc. You need to be on her mind, and that doesn't happen if you aren't involved in her life.

Okay let's start with the basics have you ever seen a girl? Could you identify one if you saw them?

[QUOTE=notrabies;38144037]No, that's what you're trying to read, I didn't write that. I'm saying the same thing I've been telling you since before you even got to college, you have to regularly talk with a lady before they will begin to care about you in a romantic way. You can talk to someone in person, over the internet, on the phone, in a group, in a class, etc. etc. You need to be on her mind, and that doesn't happen if you aren't involved in her life.[/QUOTE] See I would message the really shy girl on facebook but I'm worried about creeping her out.

protip: skirts

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144053]Okay let's start with the basics have you ever seen a girl? Could you identify one if you saw them?[/QUOTE] Yes. I'm not totally retarded.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144058]Yes. I'm not totally retarded.[/QUOTE] I hope to god you're not gonna fall for this like I did when I first came here

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144054]See I would message the really shy girl on facebook but I'm worried about creeping her out.[/QUOTE] uh see i personally haven't tried to use facebook to meet people but what i hear from my friends it has a relatively high success rate

I'm sorry man I'm just reading the stuff you post and you seem completely oblivious to what you are doing For example, earlier you were clueless as to why women don't usually approach men (short answer: nature), and later you referred to yourself as "the ugly loser wearing a slayer shirt" I just don't know what you are looking for here.

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144053]Okay let's start with the basics have you ever seen a girl? Could you identify one if you saw them?[/QUOTE] You're not really helping here man. [QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144054]See I would message the really shy girl on facebook but I'm worried about creeping her out.[/QUOTE] This actually makes some sense. Next time you see her complement her in some way completely out of the blue, even if it comes out shy and awkward, as she should understand that. Is this the lady that wears the occasional metal shirt? If so, that's an opening conversation right off the bat. [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144091]I'm sorry man I'm just reading the stuff you post and you seem completely oblivious to what you are doing For example, earlier you were clueless as to why women don't usually approach men (short answer: nature), and later you referred to yourself as "the ugly loser wearing a slayer shirt" I just don't know what you are looking for here.[/QUOTE] Okay now you're helping some, carry on.

when I was in grade 9 I asked out a girl on facebook and it failed so that's why I'm uncomfortable with using facebook to talk to girls. And yes this was a girl I actually knew not some random girl. [editline]22nd October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=notrabies;38144096] This actually makes some sense. Next time you see her complement her in some way completely out of the blue, even if it comes out shy and awkward, as she should understand that. Is this the lady that wears the occasional metal shirt? If so, that's an opening conversation right off the bat. [/QUOTE] Yes that's the one you're thinking about.

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144100] grade 9 [/QUOTE] this might be your problem

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38143614]Walking a fine line with the friend zone here. [editline]22nd October 2012[/editline] This makes no fucking sense. And I'm just going to get the "I already have a boyfriend" or "I just got out of a bad relationship" excuse anyway.[/QUOTE] friend zone doesn't really exist imo, it only exists as long a there is no physical attraction (but even then, looks aren't everything). being "friend zoned" doesn't last forever imo.