Daily Life V6. "Drama, Cellular Devices, and the latest in military hardware"

[WhatAmI]

I got friendzoned earlier this year, made a move on a girl I'd had my eye on for a while
She friendzoned me the next day, so I stopped being friends with her. I didn't give her an earfull, or ignore her or anything like that, just gradually avoided her

You make the friendzone, if she puts you in it, just stop hanging out with her. I don't hate her or anything. Just as someone put it, "You wanted to be more than friends, she didn't. She wanted to be friends, you didn't". I'm just not going to be known as one of those pathetic manlets who still follows the girl around that zoned him, shit's weak

[Stupideye]

[QUOTE=venom;38144086]uh

see i personally haven't tried to use facebook to meet people
but what i hear from my friends it has a relatively high success rate[/QUOTE]
friend from work always sat next to two hot girls in his math class, he didn't ask for their names but he saw one of them write down their name in their notebooks and he found them in the class list. looked them up on fb, added them and said "well it's easier if we all add each other to help each other out with problems" next thing you know he was chatting her up. success nigga.

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=Wulfram;38144119]this might be your problem[/QUOTE]

It was a girl I had be talking to a lot at school and I legitimately thought she liked me though. Hell if anyone other than me is to blame, it's her for being an attention whore.

[QQnMarine]

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144136]I got friendzoned earlier this year, made a move on a girl I'd had my eye on for a while
She friendzoned me the next day, so I stopped being friends with her. I didn't give her an earfull, or ignore her or anything like that, just gradually avoided her

You make the friendzone, if she puts you in it, just stop hanging out with her. I don't hate her or anything. Just as someone put it, "You wanted to be more than friends, she didn't. She wanted to be friends, you didn't". I'm just not going to be known as one of those pathetic manlets who still follows the girl around that zoned him, shit's weak[/QUOTE]

not helping, not helping at all; why are you here?

[Stupideye]

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144136]I got friendzoned earlier this year, made a move on a girl I'd had my eye on for a while
She friendzoned me the next day, so I stopped being friends with her. I didn't give her an earfull, or ignore her or anything like that, just gradually avoided her

You make the friendzone, if she puts you in it, just stop hanging out with her. I don't hate her or anything. Just as someone put it, "You wanted to be more than friends, she didn't. She wanted to be friends, you didn't". I'm just not going to be known as one of those pathetic manlets who still follows the girl around that zoned him, shit's weak[/QUOTE]
if you really wanted her you would have waited it out, I think you just giving up is weak

[Notrabies]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144100]
Yes that's the one you're thinking about.[/QUOTE]

Then proceed with the second part of my post. I know more than one shy girl and this is generally how their relationships start up.

[TaiwanesePrick]

Now I feel kind of shitty reading through these posts because even though I currently have a girlfriend, I'm 99% sure she's been into some guy she knows from church, and I'm kind of into this girl in my year in my English class, and I'm thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend and going after English class girl. English class girl's from Toronto, moved to Quebec, then Boston, then Harrisburg, and for some godforsaken reason ended up in my shithole of a town, Milpitas, CA. She's super cute and really smart, and she thinks it's cool that I'm into technology and military shit. She also likes my music.

I mean seriously, I think I'm going ok with this new girl and everything (I baked her cookies as thanks because she helped me with an assignment the night before it was due and she thought they were delicious), and I'm pretty sure my girlfriend would be kind of relieved that I know about church boy and am totally okay with her liking him and I really do want her to be happy, so....

But really, I think it would lift a lot of weight off both our chests.

[Nikpo]

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144136]I got friendzoned earlier this year, made a move on a girl I'd had my eye on for a while
She friendzoned me the next day, so I stopped being friends with her. I didn't give her an earfull, or ignore her or anything like that, just gradually avoided her

You make the friendzone, if she puts you in it, just stop hanging out with her. I don't hate her or anything. Just as someone put it, "You wanted to be more than friends, she didn't. She wanted to be friends, you didn't". I'm just not going to be known as one of those pathetic manlets who still follows the girl around that zoned him, shit's weak[/QUOTE]

wtf are you saying

i started seeing one of my best friends back in grade 8 (i think), and shit was kind of awkward so we stopped dating, but we were still tight until she went to a different high school

[WhatAmI]

[QUOTE=Stupideye;38144151]if you really wanted her you would have waited it out, I think you just giving up is weak[/QUOTE]

Maybe you're right, but I doubt it.

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

[QUOTE=QQnMarine;38144150]not helping, not helping at all; why are you here?[/QUOTE]

Because I'm bored

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

[QUOTE=venom;38144161]wtf are you saying

i started seeing one of my best friends back in grade 8 (i think), and shit was kind of awkward so we stopped dating, but we were still tight until she went to a different high school[/QUOTE]

Well, maybe because I'm not you? There's a difference between our scenarios

[Back_Slash]

69 new posts B)

[The Ultimate]

oh god all this reform going on in daily life, might as well do it too.

So I talked to the girl and after I told her my feelings, we talked. She just felt like it was too early and we should wait a bit before anything happens. I understand where she is coming from because I think I pushed my feelings onto her too quick and hard. Im glad we understand each other and right now my mind is at least in peace. I have moved on from her for now, and hope to see the bright future I have ahead of me.

[Notrabies]

[QUOTE=The Ultimate;38144211]oh god all this reform going on in daily life, might as well do it too.

So I talked to the girl and after I told her my feelings, we talked. She just felt like it was too early and we should wait a bit before anything happens. I understand where she is coming from because I think I pushed my feelings onto her too quick and hard. Im glad we understand each other and right now my mind is at least in peace. I have moved on from her for now, and hope to see the bright future I have ahead of me.[/QUOTE]

Ya done good. Communication is super important is this kind of situation.

[Wulfram]

[QUOTE=Taepodong-2;38144146] Hell if anyone other than me is to blame, it's her for being an attention whore.[/QUOTE]

This is also your problem. In a failed relationship scenario, there is no one to blame, its just one person doesn't feel the same about the other. I'm still friends with most of the girls who turned me down. I don't blame them for it, nor do I blame myself for it. I just accept that anything beyond friendship wasn't going to work and I moved on.

[WhatAmI]

That's what I tried to say, but I was showered by boxes

[Fish Muffin]

"hey, i like your shirt. [METAL BAND NAME HERE] is one of my favorite groups, too. what other bands do you like"
"oh i like blah blah blah im a girl that you have seen wearing metal band shirts"
"oh nice i love those guys, theyre awesome."
"yeah i also like [OH NO A BAND THAT YOU DONT LIKE AND THINK ARE POSERS]"

DONT:
"Those guys are fucking poser emo faggots youre not a real metal head"

DO:
"Oh, yeah, those guys are okay. But i like [BAND] better. Hey, do you want to get something to eat between classes?"

now she will either say:
"Yeah, that sounds great!" (success)
"I cant, I have to go to [ACTIVITY]" (continue reading)
"Uhm, no thanks" (move on, just try to be friends)

if she gives you an excuse say:
"oh, when would be good for you, then?"

now she will either say no or set up a date with you.
bam.

now, once you are on said date, ask about her. ask what she likes, where she is from, what highschool was like, whatever. just ask some questions. just dont like, interrogate her. she will probably ask about you. be honest. if she asks you what you like, tell her. just dont be all "oh im really boring and lame and like video games and guns and the military"
instead, be "oh, i like playing some videogames, i like metal music, i like playing a game called airsoft. its similar to paintball, but it is more realistic. i like etc.."
be confident but not arrogant.

[Notrabies]

[QUOTE=Fish Muffin;38144257]"hey, i like your shirt. [METAL BAND NAME HERE] is one of my favorite groups, too. what other bands do you like"
"oh i like blah blah blah im a girl that you have seen wearing metal band shirts"
"oh nice i love those guys, theyre awesome."
"yeah i also like [OH NO A BAND THAT YOU DONT LIKE AND THINK ARE POSERS]"

DONT:
"Those guys are fucking poser emo faggots youre not a real metal head"

DO:
"Oh, yeah, those guys are okay. But i like [BAND] better. Hey, do you want to get something to eat between classes?"

now she will either say:
"Yeah, that sounds great!" (success)
"I cant, I have to go to [ACTIVITY]" (continue reading)
"Uhm, no thanks" (move on, just try to be friends)

if she gives you an excuse say:
"oh, when would be good for you, then?"

now she will either say no or set up a date with you.
bam.

now, once you are on said date, ask about her. ask what she likes, where she is from, what highschool was like, whatever. just ask some questions. just dont like, interrogate her. she will probably ask about you. be honest. if she asks you what you like, tell her. just dont be all "oh im really boring and lame and like video games and guns and the military"
instead, be "oh, i like playing some videogames, i like metal music, i like playing a game called airsoft. its similar to paintball, but it is more realistic. i like etc.."
be confident but not arrogant.[/QUOTE]

I'm quoting this so that Taep goes back and reads it again, because this is how you do it.

[Fish Muffin]

also, how to get a date, or if fail, know that she just plain isnt interested in you:
ask girl what she likes to do
>i like to [activity]
ask girl if she wants to do [activity] with you later today
OPTION A> yeah, that sounds great
B>i cant, im busy
c> no thanks

it follows the same pattern as i posted earlier. but the secret is asking to do something that you know they like.

[Taepodong-2]

Well I guess when they ask what my interests are I can say airsoft. They don't need to know I'm a massive chairsofter and it's more interesting than saying you only play video games.

[WhatAmI]

Dear god no
Don't say airsoft

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

Lie, lie if you have to

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144326]Dear god no
Don't say airsoft

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

Lie, lie if you have to[/QUOTE]

At least it makes it sound like I go outside.

[WhatAmI]

oh my god duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude
hnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng reading that made me cringe

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

Just say you like music or something, just don't elaborate TO THE MAX
Just say you like the killers, or something goddamn

[The Ultimate]

say extreme sports

[WhatAmI]

I gotta ask man, how old are you
Seriously

[Taepodong-2]

[QUOTE=WhatAmI;38144385]I gotta ask man, how old are you
Seriously[/QUOTE]

I'm in my first year of university. Figure it out yourself.

[WhatAmI]

I worked it out

[KILL001]

So today I was browsing a Japanese bookstore and I see this book titled, "GUNS OF THE WORLD - COMPLETE EDITION"

oh this is good ima check this out

(flips to AR15 page) hey, cool! AR15s... wait.. a sec... it says M16A2... why does it have an A1 upper

*looks closely at the blurred trades*
D I E M A C O
C 7

(puts book away) It's good to be a gun nut :downs:

[Notrabies]

Greatest remix ever:
[video=youtube;GYW7wJDJM0o]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYW7wJDJM0o[/video]

[Nikpo]

[QUOTE=notrabies;38144468]Greatest remix ever:
[video=youtube;GYW7wJDJM0o]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GYW7wJDJM0o[/video][/QUOTE]

i still can't get over that expression at 2:43-2:45

everytime

[Taepodong-2]

Ok so I think from now on I'm going to make it my goal to try to approach at least one girl every week until it becomes easy for me or I find someone I get along with, whichever comes first.

[WhatAmI]

do you have any friends who are women

[editline]23rd October 2012[/editline]

maybe you should ask them for advice