• Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. Socks are both a running gag and mandatory
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I'm really afraid of even thinking of transitioning because I always seem to end up regretting everything, and I don't wanna fuck up such an important decision. [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] I wish I could be more open about it too. It'd certainly make it easier.
[QUOTE=FlubberNugget;38140149]I think people should stop caring about what prefix people use to call them by, They aren't you, you are :)[/QUOTE] I would be so happy if somebody called me a she without me telling them to
[QUOTE=FlubberNugget;38140149]I think people should stop caring about what prefix people use to call them by, They aren't you, you are :)[/QUOTE] That doesn't stop it from hurting when you are falsely identified. Especially if it's on purpose. I get really sensitive over it when I've told someone numerous times.
[QUOTE=Maximo13;38140484]I'm really afraid of even thinking of transitioning because I always seem to end up regretting everything, and I don't wanna fuck up such an important decision.[/QUOTE] Well, although from what I know this is viewed almost as hateful in the trans community, detransitioning IS possible. Assuming you plan on doing HRT, the effect is reversible, and usually people take about 1 or 2 years before deciding they truly want to live this way if they're still on the edge. The whole point is that you don't have to make it a black and white decision, it makes more sense just to find out who you are personally than to hide your feelings in distress because you aren't sure what it is that you personally are. In short, there's no problem just trying it out, of course commitment would help and you would be sterile, but we can talk about that later. If the issue is just insecurity though, you should know that a lot of people - including myself - are in the same position. And we'll do anything to help! :)
Where do you get 1-2 years? I've [U]always[/U] been told that the first 6 months were a trial run of HRT, and after that the effects get harder and harder to reverse.
The thing is that the first 6 months are where the reversible changes are, but you can detransition at any point. Its just easiest at the first 6 months. Unless you've had Breast Augmentation, Facial Femeniziation, and SRS, its pretty easy to detransition at any given point.
[QUOTE=VIOLATION_SNG;38141661]Where do you get 1-2 years? I've [U]always[/U] been told that the first 6 months were a trial run of HRT, and after that the effects get harder and harder to reverse.[/QUOTE] The information I was looking at might have been people who are older, but then it just depends on how young you do it. Of course, not everyone goes for the full treatment and decides to have it as quick as possible, so for some people it could be intentionally longer as well. But what do I know... :|
[QUOTE=Skelmech;38142050]The thing is that the first 6 months are where the reversible changes are, but you can detransition at any point. Its just easiest at the first 6 months. Unless you've had Breast Augmentation, Facial Femeniziation, and SRS, its pretty easy to detransition at any given point.[/QUOTE] Breast augmentation? Can they shoot bullets like the fembots in Austin Powers or are the nipples USB ports?
[QUOTE=Maximo13;38140484]I'm really afraid of even thinking of transitioning because I always seem to end up regretting everything, and I don't wanna fuck up such an important decision. [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] I wish I could be more open about it too. It'd certainly make it easier.[/QUOTE] hi maximo i didn't know you were trans [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Jennifer...;38140851]I would be so happy if somebody called me a she without me telling them to[/QUOTE] I pm'd you did you see it or are you just ignoring?
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;38143322]Breast augmentation? Can they shoot bullets like the fembots in Austin Powers or are the nipples USB ports?[/QUOTE] They're cappuccino dispensers.
So I convinced my mom to get me a therapist. I haven't told her what for though, other than "problems i can't really discuss". I feel awful for not just telling her my desire outright, but maybe, with the help of my new therapist, I might work up the courage. I guess this means I'm at the beginning of the long road some of you have travelled. Wish me luck. I'll surely need it.
[QUOTE=xxfalconxx;38143707]So I convinced my mom to get me a therapist. I haven't told her what for though, other than "problems i can't really discuss". I feel awful for not just telling her my desire outright, but maybe, with the help of my new therapist, I might work up the courage. I guess this means I'm at the beginning of the long road some of you have travelled. Wish me luck. I'll surely need it.[/QUOTE] Mileage may vary, but from my experience it only gets easier from here. c:
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38143482]They're cappuccino dispensers.[/QUOTE] Are there versions with speakers in them?
[QUOTE=DiscoInferno;38143322]Breast augmentation? Can they shoot bullets like the fembots in Austin Powers or are the nipples USB ports?[/QUOTE] Breasts filled with silicon. Notice it's silicon and not silicone, ultimate processing power and heating including.
[QUOTE=Tinter;38144431]Breasts filled with silicon. Notice it's silicon and not silicone, ultimate processing power and heating including.[/QUOTE] And then Pamela Anderson becomes an evil hyper-intelligent cyborg trying to take over the world.
[QUOTE=xxfalconxx;38143707]So I convinced my mom to get me a therapist. I haven't told her what for though, other than "problems i can't really discuss". I feel awful for not just telling her my desire outright, but maybe, with the help of my new therapist, I might work up the courage. I guess this means I'm at the beginning of the long road some of you have travelled. Wish me luck. I'll surely need it.[/QUOTE] Don't feel bad for that, things like this can be really rough and personal. Best of luck to you <3
[QUOTE=Chrysalis;38141557]Well, although from what I know this is viewed almost as hateful in the trans community, detransitioning IS possible. Assuming you plan on doing HRT, the effect is reversible, and usually people take about 1 or 2 years before deciding they truly want to live this way if they're still on the edge. The whole point is that you don't have to make it a black and white decision, it makes more sense just to find out who you are personally than to hide your feelings in distress because you aren't sure what it is that you personally are. In short, there's no problem just trying it out, of course commitment would help and you would be sterile, but we can talk about that later. If the issue is just insecurity though, you should know that a lot of people - including myself - are in the same position. And we'll do anything to help! :)[/QUOTE] Thank you. I usually drown in a glass of water though, so it's probably me. I worry about everything too much. I was even afraid to post in here because I know how some people are, but after lurking a bit, I saw everyone here is extremely nice and accepting. [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=l l;38143478]hi maximo i didn't know you were trans [/QUOTE] I don't really like to talk about it. Sorry.
[QUOTE=Jennifer...;38140851]I would be so happy if somebody called me a she without me telling them to[/QUOTE] Hey, you used something I drew as an avatar. That's really cool <3
I was wondering if you'd ever find that out, heh
[QUOTE=Tinter;38144431]Breasts filled with silicon. Notice it's silicon and not silicone, ultimate processing power and heating including.[/QUOTE] And this is the moment that I learned that Silicon and Silicone are two completely different things...
[QUOTE=Mr. Someguy;38146575]And this is the moment that I learned that Silicon and Silicone are two completely different things...[/QUOTE] Were you hoping for computer-boobs then?
No but he wanted to fuck his graphics card
told my therapist I'm trans. she did a surprise plot twist one eighty and told me she was born male. MIND IS OFFICIALLY FUCKED
Thats hot [editline]23rd October 2012[/editline] Also that makes talking to her 500x easier.
[QUOTE=Mr. Someguy;38146575]And this is the moment that I learned that Silicon and Silicone are two completely different things...[/QUOTE] I once though that too, but I thought CPUs running off of silicone was weird, went to google, and from then on never confused the two ever again.
[QUOTE=Tinter;38147325]I once though that too, but I thought CPUs running off of silicone was weird, went to google, and from then on never confused the two ever again.[/QUOTE] I just ended up assuming that silicone / silicon could be refined for multiple usages, never really put much thought into it.
[QUOTE=Mr. Someguy;38147383]I just ended up assuming that silicone / silicon could be refined for multiple usages, never really put much thought into it.[/QUOTE] I was thinking about boob computers, but enough about that. This is offtopic.
Told one of my friends how I feel and they were quite supportive, I still scared about my other friends though so I'm going to take time, lots of it most likely
[QUOTE=Kenjirus;38155355]Told one of my friends how I feel and they were quite supportive, I still scared about my other friends though so I'm going to take time, lots of it most likely[/QUOTE] Did that last week. It feels great doesn't it? I have only told one person so I'm in the same boat as you.
I got a new skirt the other day, but it was a bit dirty and I wanted to wash it before I got a photo. [URL="http://i.imgur.com/nxjRr.jpg"]Here[/URL]
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