Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. Socks are both a running gag and mandatory
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[QUOTE=Rammlied;38342382]Ironic shitposting is still shitposting :v[/QUOTE]
How dare you.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;38334814]Shaylinn, Shanteia, Marlae, Ashlynn, Jewel, Lynn, and Starly. They're just waaay too unusual and trans girls pick names like that all the time.[/QUOTE]
I've actually met girls with almost all those names. :v:
So about that psychologist (who the endo referred me to) who labelled me as "immature", I faxed her diagnosis to my counselor and just as I suspected, she confirmed that her methods are archaic as fuck and not as experienced with transgenders (due to using male pronouns in the diagnosis and such), which means that I pretty much wasted around 2-3 whole months. :/
My counselor is going to try and find me someone else now. Hopefully it'll be better next time, because this psychologist pretty much wants to gatekeep me for over an entire year.
[QUOTE=J. Jett;38344231]So about that psychologist (who the endo referred me to) who labelled me as "immature", I faxed her diagnosis to my counselor and just as I suspected, she confirmed that her methods are archaic as fuck and not as experienced with transgenders (due to using male pronouns in the diagnosis and such), which means that I pretty much wasted around 2-3 whole months. :/
My counselor is going to try and find me someone else now. Hopefully it'll be better next time, because this psychologist pretty much wants to gatekeep me for over an entire year.[/QUOTE]
Good luck!
I'm excited and scared.
It's about a week and a half before I go down for thanksgiving and I'm gonna tell my brother and father. My mom says my brother will be supportive (hopefully) and once we get that settled we'll all tell my dad in the same week. I'm excited that it's finally going places but god damn I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared to tell them or say I'm not terrified of the trials ahead.
[QUOTE=Inufin;38324996]welcome[/QUOTE]
Thanks, I'm probably just gonna lurk, occasionally interject, and maybe have a few more outbursts.
[QUOTE=J. Jett;38344231]So about that psychologist (who the endo referred me to) who labelled me as "immature", I faxed her diagnosis to my counselor and just as I suspected, she confirmed that her methods are archaic as fuck and not as experienced with transgenders (due to using male pronouns in the diagnosis and such), which means that I pretty much wasted around 2-3 whole months. :/
My counselor is going to try and find me someone else now. Hopefully it'll be better next time, because this psychologist pretty much wants to gatekeep me for over an entire year.[/QUOTE]
Thats one of the things im kind of scared of when i see about seeing one :(
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38344794]I'm excited that it's finally going places but god damn I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared to tell them or say I'm not terrified of the trials ahead.[/QUOTE]
My parents and much of my family is old fashioned and are transphobic.
I'm too fucking scared to tell them, I think I'll just move out and leave it at that.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38344794]I'm excited and scared.
It's about a week and a half before I go down for thanksgiving and I'm gonna tell my brother and father. My mom says my brother will be supportive (hopefully) and once we get that settled we'll all tell my dad in the same week. I'm excited that it's finally going places but god damn I'd be lying if I said I wasn't scared to tell them or say I'm not terrified of the trials ahead.[/QUOTE]
Goddamn, excuse my choice of words, but you got balls... I would never, ever, ever dare to tell someone I know in real life, just like ereunity i'll just move out and leave it at that.
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38345521]My parents and much of my family is old fashioned and are transphobic.
I'm too fucking scared to tell them, I think I'll just move out and leave it at that.[/QUOTE]
I know your pain, I'm doing the same.
[QUOTE=VIOLATION_SNG;38346535]I know your pain, I'm doing the same.[/QUOTE]
move in with me
[QUOTE=therealderpy;38346316]Goddamn, excuse my choice of words, but you got balls... I would never, ever, ever dare to tell someone I know in real life, just like ereunity i'll just move out and leave it at that.[/QUOTE]
If I could I wouldn't but I can't exactly do it under the radar and show up one day as a girl... plus I know someone who's been on HRT for quite a while and is hiding from her parents by having to bind and what not in front of them. I'd rather not do that.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38356139]If I could I wouldn't but I can't exactly do it under the radar and show up one day as a girl... plus I know someone who's been on HRT for quite a while and is hiding from her parents by having to bind and what not in front of them. I'd rather not do that.[/QUOTE]
That's true... I suppose i'd have to either tell them or shut off all contact with them... which would be difficult to say the least, i'm still not too sure what I want, seeing certain pictures on this thread really makes me want to push to get HRT, but seeing some other pictures of transgenders make me think i'd rather stay how I am now, since I got no clue how i'd turn out after HRT, and I don't want to end up hating my body even more because I didn't turn out as "girly" as I thought I would be, if that makes any sense what so ever...
That's really one of main fears, is that everything goes bad for me and I end up hating myself more
Neither you nor anyone else is going to be perfect. If you don't want to live as a man (or woman) then transition is worth it. You don't go through HRT to look attractive.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38356139]If I could I wouldn't but I can't exactly do it under the radar and show up one day as a girl... plus I know someone who's been on HRT for quite a while and is hiding from her parents by having to bind and what not in front of them. I'd rather not do that.[/QUOTE]
I expect I'll have to bind if I find a way to get onto HRT since people at work don't know I'm trans.
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38359259]I expect I'll have to bind if I find a way to get onto HRT since people at work don't know I'm trans.[/QUOTE]
What would even be the point of that?
Anyone familiar with the Adventures of Hucklebloopy finn? I need to write an essay on the difference between the illustration of the character Jim and his portrayal in the novel.
[QUOTE=Rammlied;38361065]Anyone familiar with the Adventures of Hucklebloopy finn? I need to write an essay on the difference between the illustration of the character Jim and his portrayal in the novel.[/QUOTE]
I am. You can add me.
[QUOTE=Jennifer...;38360709]What would even be the point of that?[/QUOTE]
I have a masculine voice which doesn't go well with breasts, not to mention customers would give me funny looks all day. I don't exactly want my colleagues to know I am trans either because then they would treat me differently.
Also binding is fucking hawt too so.
Binding is almost as uncomfortable as tucking. My FtM friend had me try on his binder and I had to take it off immediately.
But I'm full-time female everywhere I go. The only one at work who knows that I'm trans is my boyfriend.
[QUOTE=Riodoku;38358412]Neither you nor anyone else is going to be perfect. If you don't want to live as a man (or woman) then transition is worth it. You don't go through HRT to look attractive.[/QUOTE]
Oh no no, i'm not doing it to look attractive, i'm doing in the hope that I would actually like my body... my body right now has gotten to the point where I try to not look in the mirror because I hate what I see.... I just don't want to risk hating it even more if things don't go well with HRT.
What would HRT do to make it MORE unsightly in your eyes?
[QUOTE=Riodoku;38362203]Binding is almost as uncomfortable as tucking. My FtM friend had me try on his binder and I had to take it off immediately.
But I'm full-time female everywhere I go. The only one at work who knows that I'm trans is my boyfriend.[/QUOTE]
I personally only find tucking uncomfortable if I literally divebomb onto a seat. At which point I'll cry as my testicles scream in agony.
I have a high tolerance for long term pain since I get frequent muscle cramp and aches and 4 metal plates in my head. I ache 99% of the time, I don't think I'd feel any worse.
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38361717]
Also binding is fucking hawt too so.[/QUOTE]
no no no no no It's not hawt.... it IS hot though... hot and sweaty... and hard to breathe.... and tight... and and.... no... it's not that hawt when you're the one binding anyway lol
[QUOTE=LonelyTimeLord;38362703]no no no no no It's not hawt.... it IS hot though... hot and sweaty... and hard to breathe.... and tight... and and.... no... it's not that hawt when you're the one binding anyway lol[/QUOTE]
Hot an sweaty, shortness of breath, hard to breathe, tight.
Fuck you're really not helping, [I]you're making me want it more.[/I]
none of those things were meant to be a good thing though D:
[QUOTE=Riodoku;38362563]What would HRT do to make it MORE unsightly in your eyes?[/QUOTE]
I honestly got no idea.. it not living up to my expectations I suppose..
[QUOTE=therealderpy;38363186]I honestly got no idea.. it not living up to my expectations I suppose..[/QUOTE]
What [I]are[/I] your expectations of HRT to do to you?
Not everyone is going to look like Angelina Jolie through any kind of puberty. HRT will feminize your body, that's pretty much guaranteed for anyone below 25.
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