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Demisexuality is being [B][I]unable[/I][/B] to find someone physically attractive or sexually attractive until you have a strong bond of trust with them. For me everyone looks exactly the same in terms of physical and sexual attractiveness. If i don't know you then you aren't hot or ugly, you're just you. I can't look at someone and go "oh man they're so hot!" except for people like my good friends or my partner. Also while being demi you can have a preference on gender, such as only males or only females or both. I feel like I'm explaining it poorly but yeah, that's Demisexuality. It's right between asexual and any sexuality. (I'm just waiting for someone to tell me that I'm just Pan or bi, that it doesn't need a label, or any of the other hundreds of things I've been told to make me feel bad about how I label my sexuality.)
That seems reasonably close to me. I can find people I don't know well attractive though, it just means absolutely nothing however.
Trust bonds? That's so gay. [sp]Sarcasm, sarcasm, sarcasm.[/sp]
Sexuality is very confusing.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];38532164'] [editline]21st November 2012[/editline] What exactly does one do on Trans day of Remembrance?[/QUOTE] Pay your dues to the Trans war of '08. Never forget.
I'm pretty much wanting to just going to give up with the whole sexuality thing because it's too confusing. [QUOTE=Jrock455;38532291]Oh I paid attention, I was just wondering because she said her brother is inside of her head and she wrote it, so maybe she has DID which I doubt but whatever[/QUOTE] I tried talking to her about it since I suffer from DID and while she displays several of the symptoms you can't make a diagnoses over the internet since you need to see a lot of a persons physical behaviour too. Really it's just not our place to talk about it. [I]I'd also like to apologise for snapping at Jrock455 yesterday. It was uncouth of me.[/I]
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38536933]I'm pretty much wanting to just going to give up with the whole sexuality thing because it's too confusing.[/QUOTE] Still havent figured mine out. Its a bit tough. Im learning theres like new ones each week.
[QUOTE=Tomo Takino;38537111]Still havent figured mine out. Its a bit tough. Im learning theres like new ones each week.[/QUOTE] Well I used to think I was into guys, but despite having plenty of offers I have only tried to once and that was during a tryst. I mean I've thought and fantasized about it, but always as a top and never a bottom, but I don't find guys attractive, I don't look at them when I'm out and about. Yet I find myself always going for women (and never having any luck, how I caught hold of my current girlfriend I have no idea), eyeing them up (and enjoying it) and so forth but rarely fantasize about them. Shiz is confusing.
Confusedasexual. Ill go with that.
And I'm a Pansexual, toot.
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38536933]I'm pretty much wanting to just going to give up with the whole sexuality thing because it's too confusing. [/QUOTE] People do tend to get confused with the hundred and one fancy labels for sexuality nowadays. Really, as long as you're happy just like whatever/whoever you like :3 Or just chill out, kick back and take your time to figure it out and/or find someone.
[QUOTE=Ban Camp;38537615]And I'm a Pansexual, toot.[/QUOTE] ANY PORT IN A STORM SKIPPER
[QUOTE=JDB;38537954]ANY PORT IN A STORM SKIPPER[/QUOTE] That's not being Pan. It's a sexual attraction or desire, love or emotional attraction to people of any gender/sex. Doesn't necessarily even involve sex.
it's basically bisexual for pretentious people
[QUOTE=Outworld D.;38538046]it's basically bisexual for pretentious people[/QUOTE] No it isn't. Bisexuality is generally sticking to the gender-binary, Pansexuality doesn't. Also fuck why do I keep getting pagequeens and having no content to add. :(
Not really. Especially seeing as Transgenders identify as the gender they are wishing to be. People aren't two genders at the same time. That's just how I see it. If I was going out with a born male transgendered to a female, I'd just say it's a woman.
[QUOTE=Outworld D.;38538115]People aren't two genders at the same time.[/QUOTE] That's incorrect. Some people do identify as both at once or even neither.
[QUOTE=Outworld D.;38538115]Not really. Especially seeing as Transgenders identify as the gender they are wishing to be. People aren't two genders at the same time. That's just how I see it. If I was going out with a born male transgendered to a female, I'd just say it's a woman.[/QUOTE] dont forget agender/bigender/genderfluid people
I sometimes feel like neither lol I dunno Chickens said Im genderqueer or some shit it doesnt bother me..
[QUOTE=Outworld D.;38538115]Not really. Especially seeing as Transgenders identify as the gender they are wishing to be. People aren't two genders at the same time. That's just how I see it. If I was going out with a born male transgendered to a female, I'd just say it's a woman.[/QUOTE] Pansexualism doesn't just apply to transgendered individuals, and just because someone has for example a female gender but a male sex doesn't mean they would display themselves as a female to others by getting HRT, surgery or dressing.
oh hey thats right mr. twizzle goes to my school i should figure out who you are
[QUOTE=Farrelm;38538459]oh hey thats right mr. twizzle goes to my school i should figure out who you are[/QUOTE] I'd advise against it. You could ask her, but don't push it or try to work out who she is.
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38538498]I'd advise against it. You could ask her, but don't push it or try to work out who she is.[/QUOTE] shes already said she wants to "stalk me in the halls", and someone else from fp (also goes to our school) has already seen her :v we've just been fairly vague about our descriptions of each other is all [editline]21st November 2012[/editline] id like to talk (privately) to someone else whos in a similar boat irl
Looks like one more person supportive of me, someone from my old school, woo
[QUOTE=Outworld D.;38538046]it's basically bisexual for pretentious people[/QUOTE] As much as I dont like this phrase it is a good one. Edit: Wow i meant it was funny GOSH.
You guys are fags jeez Bisexual and pan basically same thing
mmmm not really [editline]21st November 2012[/editline] if you don't understand or see anything outside of the gender binary don't try lumping together two sexualities
Let me rephrase No one cars [highlight](User was banned for this post ("Why reply" - MaxOfS2D))[/highlight]
i'm sure some people here can drive. olo i am so witty
i'm currently sat in my lounge, feeling like crap, lonely, wanting to rip off all my cloths and burn them all and just scream and then i saw everyone on here who is further along than me, who have people that care for them, who look great it makes me feel terrible, but also makes me want to work harder to get where i want
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