Crossdressing/Transgender Megathread v. Socks are both a running gag and mandatory
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I wish I could tell anybody how I feel, but I'm really bad at explaining things and if I tell somebody I want them to understand how I feel and not just have some general idea.
And what if I'm just confused and this is not how I feel anyway. I'm just 15 I don't really know much.
[QUOTE=Tinter;38613746]I wish I could tell anybody how I feel, but I'm really bad at explaining things and if I tell somebody I want them to understand how I feel and not just have some general idea.
And what if I'm just confused and this is not how I feel anyway. I'm just 15 I don't really know much.[/QUOTE]
Lots of people seem to have the issue of "What if I tell people I'm trans but it turns out I'm just confused" Just tell them you're confused and having these feelings. Seriously, from what I can gather it's a damn confusing time, like many things in life. You don't have to be definite about it right away. Just explain to someone close to you how you feel. That way they'll know and if you do back out of wanting therapy/HRT etc there won't be the awkward situation of "Hey but you told me you wanted this!!!", they'll know you were still a bit confused on how you felt.
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];38613792']Lots of people seem to have the issue of "What if I tell people I'm trans but it turns out I'm just confused" Just tell them you're confused and having these feelings. Seriously, from what I can gather it's a damn confusing time, like many things in life. You don't have to be definite about it right away. Just explain to someone close to you how you feel. That way they'll know and if you do back out of wanting therapy/HRT etc there won't be the awkward situation of "Hey but you told me you wanted this!!!", they'll know you were still a bit confused on how you felt.[/QUOTE]
I just don't know how to explain that.
[QUOTE=Tinter;38613860]I just don't know how to explain that.[/QUOTE]
Well I've never had to do it but if I were you I'd sit down someone you trust (or if you're talking to a therapist or such) and just say something along the lines of "I think I may be transgender. I'm not 100% positive yet but I would like to look further into it" and go from there
[QUOTE='Rain [Amber];38613904']Well I've never had to do it but if I were you I'd sit down someone you trust (or if you're talking to a therapist or such) and just say something along the lines of "I think I may be transgender. I'm not 100% positive yet but I would like to look further into it" and go from there[/QUOTE]
Pretty much this. Rather than saying "I'm transgender", say "I think I'm transgender". It's a very minor, but very very important difference.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38613544]I never had a negative reaction yet to coming out as trans. It makes me feel guilty. Actually, the only negative reactions I had were from another transgirl who called me a fake because I didn't want SRS and some 13 year old homosexual furry on APB. And even that kid had another 13 year old friend who was incredibly intelligent, had the mindset of a 25 year old, and apologized for his friend mocking me for being trans.[/QUOTE]
How many times are you going to bring me up Kate? I get it, you got offended at something I said and took it out of context (like usual). Honestly, at this point, it only seems like you're bringing me up to prove a point that 'omg people on the internet disagree with me'. To clarify: I never called you fake, it's something I granted wouldn't do; I said I couldn't tell if you were going to be fake about it because of how the trend goes nowadays, what with angsty teenagers saying they're going to kill themselves for attention and whatnot cough cough.
inb4 box police (Looking at you, you know who you are).
so word twisting?
[QUOTE=HorizoN;38614362]so word twisting?[/QUOTE]
As is standard practice with people I won't discuss until they target me back, yes, word twisting and standard manipulations.
Edit: I said standard twice, redundancy hoooo~!
[QUOTE=Miracle;38614390]As is standard practice with people I won't discuss until they target me back, yes, word twisting and standard manipulations.
Edit: I said standard twice, redundancy hoooo~![/QUOTE]
so like my mum then? :v:
I never got why people do that, just rude IMO
[QUOTE=HorizoN;38614413]so like my mum then? :v:
I never got why people do that, just rude IMO[/QUOTE]
Because it's easier than growing balls and talking about your problems, to use an expression I know isn't the most welcome in this thread. It's more simply to win the hearts of minds of your surrounding people, than to deal with something you dislike yourself. Why work when your 'friends' or 'acquaintances' can do it for you?
[QUOTE=Miracle;38614487]Because it's easier than growing balls and talking about your problems, to use an expression I know isn't the most welcome in this thread. It's more simply to win the hearts of minds of your surrounding people, than to deal with something you dislike yourself. Why work when your 'friends' or 'acquaintances' can do it for you?[/QUOTE]
ah I see now, explains why my mum does it, have no idea how I missed that
[QUOTE=HorizoN;38614525]ah I see now, explains why my mum does it, have no idea how I missed that[/QUOTE]
It's pretty much the same concept for propaganda, just on a smaller scale. It's easier to demonize someone if you consider yourself their enemy, than to let their true intentions out. And it's all caused because someone offended someone else a majority of the time, such as this one.
Hey guys!
I am a guy that wants kids but then i feel weird cuz im too young to be thinkin bout dis stuff
[editline]27th November 2012[/editline]
Inufin would u like to make children
Great.
Go to work, KIDS EVERYWHERE.
Now I'm broody like fuck, depressed and downing milkshake and snacks to bury my pain :(
[QUOTE=Ereunity;38615808]Great.
Go to work, KIDS EVERYWHERE.
Now I'm broody like fuck, depressed and downing milkshake and snacks to bury my pain :([/QUOTE]
Could be worse, you could have a can of Easy Cheese. :v
[QUOTE=Miracle;38614324]How many times are you going to bring me up Kate? I get it, you got offended at something I said and took it out of context (like usual). Honestly, at this point, it only seems like you're bringing me up to prove a point that 'omg people on the internet disagree with me'. To clarify: I never called you fake, it's something I granted wouldn't do; I said I couldn't tell if you were going to be fake about it because of how the trend goes nowadays, what with angsty teenagers saying they're going to kill themselves for attention and whatnot cough cough.
inb4 box police (Looking at you, you know who you are).[/QUOTE]
Haha, out of context?
Since you suffer from memory problems (as you've told me numerous times before) allow me to jog your memory.
[quote]Soryu²: Alot of people who are trans become fucking prostitutes to save up enough money for the SRS
Soryu²: Do you not understand that?
Soryu²: Do you not see that what happens for one doesn't always happen for another?
T-Sonar.0: i know about that but I already said I dont want the surgery
Soryu²: Then why in the fuck are you doing it
Soryu²: You're not transsexual
Soryu²: You're fucking genderfluid
Soryu²: Theres no reason for you to even get hormones
Soryu²: You shouldn't even fucking care.
Soryu²: You're saying you're something, then saying you're something else 10 seconds after the fact.
Soryu²: That's worse.
T-Sonar.0: because I dont want to live as a guy? and I can be a girl without needing to have the surgery?
Soryu²: Yeah, and then everyone you love, if by chance they're not an accepting person, will literally go "Oh you still have your penis, lol bye":
T-Sonar.0: Its a chance, I know
Soryu²: It's not even a chance
Soryu²: It's literally a roulette
Soryu²: If you want my advice
Soryu²: Go all of the way
Soryu²: Or don't do it at all
T-Sonar.0: That's your opinion, not mine
Soryu²: It literally infuriates me the fact that you can sit here, say 'I want to live as a girl but I don't want to get rid of my current genetalia'
Soryu²: I'm aware that's my opinion
Soryu²: But your opinion sits on a flawed basis of belief.
Soryu²: While that is, also my opinion, I also know alot of transwomen who will see that and go "Are you fucking serious, what are you doing"
Soryu²: You can't have your cake and eat it too Katherine.
T-Sonar.0: And some would say its ok for transgirls to keep their penis and balls
Soryu²: Because you're going to be literally in the minority of people who does that, then proceeds to wonder why their life is so shitty and everyone persecutes them
Soryu²: Yes, and everyone also has an asshole, and they all use them
Soryu²: What's your point
Soryu²: Opinions vary as does a numerous amount of things, but what you're doing is literally defeating the purpose of an HRT
Soryu²: at that rate just be androgynous and stop priding yourself as a fucking transgirl
Soryu²: Because you're not.
T-Sonar.0: Yes I am
Soryu²: No, you're genderfluid.
T-Sonar.0: No I'm not
Soryu²: If you couldn't stand living as a guy, you wouldn't want to keep your penis, because it is a blatant reminder of a flaw you hate
Soryu²: You don't want to live as a guy but you wish to keep male genetalia
Soryu²: You're not a transgirl, Kat, you're a shemale.
Soryu²: That's literally what it is.
Soryu²: Under definition, that's what it is.
T-Sonar.0: That's a pretty ignorant view point
Soryu²: Get as mad as me as you want.
Soryu²: That's what the defintion is
Soryu²: at me*[/quote]
You flat out told me I'm not transgender because I don't want to get SRS. You also stated the idea of non-binary transgenderism is flawed. Your opinion, fine, but you're a bitch about it. Just like you're a bitch about everything else.
I would have been fine if the conversation been more along the lines of:
You: I don't believe in the non-binary I think you should go all the way or not at all.
Me: Well that's what I believe.
You: Alright just wanted you to know.
Me: Ok.
Rather than.
You: YOU'RE NOT A FUCKING TRANSSEXUAL YOU'RE GENDERFLUID
Me: No I'm not
You: YES YOU FUCKING ARE FUCK SHIT PISS SWEAR WORDS AND ANGER GET MY POINT ACROSS
Me: Respect my view.
You: I DO BUT YOUR OPINION IS FLAWED JUST SAYIN
You're not trans cause I said so.
If you were really trans you'd go ahead with the scary, risky, body changing surgery without hesitation but you wont so no-one will ever love you.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38616489]Haha, out of context?
Since you suffer from memory problems (as you've told me numerous times before) allow me to jog your memory.
You flat out told me I'm not transgender because I don't want to get SRS. You also stated the idea of non-binary transgenderism is flawed. Your opinion, fine, but you're a bitch about it. Just like you're a bitch about everything else.
I would have been fine if the conversation been more along the lines of:
You: I don't believe in the non-binary I think you should go all the way or not at all.
Me: Well that's what I believe.
You: Alright just wanted you to know.
Me: Ok.
Rather than.
You: YOU'RE NOT A FUCKING TRANSSEXUAL YOU'RE GENDERFLUID
Me: No I'm not
You: YES YOU FUCKING ARE FUCK SHIT PISS SWEAR WORDS GET MY POINT ACROSS
Me: Respect my view.
You: I DO BUT YOUR OPINION IS FLAWED JUST SAYIN[/QUOTE]
Personal attacks from a saved chat log, don't you think this would be better in PM? I see the CD/T thread holds true to it's dramatic roots.
Yes, I spoke out of anger. Yes, I am morally biased on beliefs.
Odd, I'm failing to see the quote where you said I said you were fake.
My opinion is that it is flawed, I stated that, you took offense. Once again that's not wrong, that's my point of view on the issue. I have an opinion you should go all the way or not at all. But, of course I must be wrong here. Clearly right there I'm merely stating my same opinion as I have now, albeit less angrily.
Edit: Show me the line where I outright called you a fake, because that's what I'm referring to as out of context. Thanks.
Edit 2: Chickens, Jrock, T-Sonar, where's Paige? We're missing the last of your little 'THIS PERSON DISAGREES WITH ME THEY'RE ASSHOLES' group.
[QUOTE=Miracle;38616727]Personal attacks from a saved chat log, don't you think this would be better in PM? I see the CD/T thread holds true to it's dramatic roots.[/quote]
Hey you brought it to a thread to make yourself look innocent. Don't want the truth out? Keep it to yourself.
[quote]Yes, I spoke out of anger. Yes, I am morally biased on beliefs.
Odd, I'm failing to see the quote where you said I said you were fake.[/quote]
Being biased is fine but being a bitch is another thing. Even if it was out of anger that's no excuse.
Oh please the entire log was an implication of me being a fake don't even. You even called me a shemale. Come on now, you and I both know fine and well that's a slur to implicate someone not actually being female.
[quote]My opinion is that it is flawed, I stated that, you took offense. Once again that's not wrong, that's my point of view on the issue. I have an opinion you should go all the way or not at all. But, of course I must be wrong here. Clearly right there I'm merely stating my same opinion as I have now, albeit less angrily.[/QUOTE]
Again. It's less about your point of view and more about how you're rude about it to the point where it felt like an attack. How do you not get this?
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I'm not even going to respond to you anymore. You can say what you want, you can try to weave your way around things to create a gap in my logic that doesn't exist. You can say "I never said I was innocent" but you trying to make me seem like I took it out of context "as usual" is just an obvious attempt to make me look stupid and mean.
That's for the skype chat love.
Also after reading this thread a little more, it kinda made me die a little inside.
[QUOTE=don818;38616763]That's for the skype chat love.
Also after reading this thread a little more, it kinda made me die a little inside.[/QUOTE]
Yeah seriously, no wonder the GMF has field days with you guys. Never change and stay free.
no more, take it somewhere else.
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38616760]Hey you brought it to a thread to make yourself look innocent. Don't want the truth out? Keep it to yourself.
Being biased is fine but being a bitch is another thing. Even if it was out of anger that's no excuse.
Oh please the entire log was an implication of me being a fake don't even.
Again. It's less about your point of view and more about how you're rude about it to the point where it felt like an attack. How do you not get this?[/QUOTE]
Where did I say I was innocent dear? I said I took a line out of context, you posted a passage of a 2 hour chat where you blocked and removed me, and here you are two months later STILL going 'omg ur a bitch I don't want to talk to u'
The entire log, you mean the parts you left out where I even apologized and said 'Look, I'm afraid of you being that way and I don't want you to fuck up your life.' Where is that, Kate? Oh wait, not there, because it's not important if there's anything to alienate your opposition.
And no, I don't deny I'm a bitch, we all have our issues if you can recall yours, and I, like yourself (though I doubt this) is trying to work on myself, and better myself.
If you cared so much to save the conversation, stop ignoring me and we'll actually /discuss/ this.
Edit: Rating me dumb helps your point, box police.
Edit 2:
[QUOTE=T-Sonar.0;38616760]
I'm not even going to respond to you anymore. You can say what you want, you can try to weave your way around things to create a gap in my logic that doesn't exist. You can say "I never said I was innocent" but you trying to make me seem like I took it out of context "as usual" is just an obvious attempt to make me look stupid and mean.[/QUOTE]
I don't need to make you do it when you do it yourself. Just saying. :downs:
Did you seriously try to call Kate, Brandon, Chickebs, and I out as a group and then bring in Zoey and presumably Shaina? :I
Anyway can you quit acting like some self righteous child and stop the drama you stirred up? Thx in advance.
[editline]hi[/editline]
lol you and zoey are even rating each other to look good, gj.
[QUOTE=Skelmech;38616856]Did you seriously try to call Kate, Brandon, Chickebs, and I out as a group and then bring in Zoey and presumably Shaina? :I
Anyway can you quit acting like some self righteous child and stop the drama you stirred up? Thx in advance.[/QUOTE]
I read the thread on my own accord, where have I started defending any one person in this problem?
Keep your snide accusations to yourself, please. You're not helping.
[QUOTE=Skelmech;38616856]Did you seriously try to call Kate, Brandon, Chickebs, and I out as a group and then bring in Zoey and presumably Shaina? :I
Anyway can you quit acting like some self righteous child and stop the drama you stirred up? Thx in advance.[/QUOTE]
You're funny, I don't bring in backup like you guys do because I can actually speak for myself, unlike you, Paige, Brandon, Chickens, Candy (who I'm assuming is involved because omg box rating).
They read the thread of their own accord, I merely speak my mind, you don't like it? There's an ignore button- oh wait you already hit that didn't you, sorry.
[QUOTE=Skelmech;38616856]Did you seriously try to call Kate, Brandon, Chickebs, and I out as a group and then bring in Zoey and presumably Shaina? :I
Anyway can you quit acting like some self righteous child and stop the drama you stirred up? Thx in advance.[/QUOTE]
Actually I came into this thread before the shit storm at around 8 AM today.
[QUOTE=Luafox;38615604]Sounds pretty interesting, though I'm not sure how that would work with male hipbones :o[/QUOTE]
Who knows. Science has granted us the power to do many things. We've already been able to play God at parts. It's really only a matter of time. Could take 40 or 50 years but I dunno, I'm optimistic.
nah I don't ignore people through FP cause it makes threads hard to keep up with
Also lol you two.
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