[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;29474099]i'm completely honest with my gf in a joking way
she asked me if she looked fat in this 80s jacket or something and i was like "Yeah, you look fat. haha just kidding" but i meant it
but she's really skinny too[/QUOTE]
did you fuck her after
Reach back like a pimp and I slap da hoe
I believe, after reading Cosmo, that if I am being completely honest to a woman, it must mean I am cheating on her.
[url]http://www.cracked.com/article_19066_7-psychotic-pieces-relationship-advice-from-cosmo.html[/url]
Yeah I think being honest is good, even if it may not be seen as the "nice" thing to do at the time.
OP has never talked to girls?
what if i don't like women?
The truth hurts.
[QUOTE=Roll_Program;29473024]I'm always honest with my boyfriend.
In a good relationship you shouldn't need to fucking lie to keep it up.[/QUOTE]
This really doesn't apply, and is a cry for attention. Obviously if you aren't a woman your input isn't needed.
Certain things you should lie about, others you should not, and it's up to you to gauge which ones are correct.
you look fat when you cry
When she asks if she looks fat, say no. Deep down inside, she thinks she's fat as hell. Give her a little reassurance that she isn't or get cut. That's just how it goes.
im only interstedi n girls 4 there boobies so i doesnt really got to be honetst it dont mater.
[QUOTE=BldrGyMnGy;29474759]Certain things you should lie about, others you should not, and it's up to you to gauge which ones are correct.[/QUOTE]
It also depends on her personality, whether or not she can deal with the truth and not dwell on it or misinterpret it as an insult. It's best not to test this unless you're sure she can take the truth and not be mad at you.
Yes but no need to be an asshole about it!
Adjust to the girl:
"Does this dress make me look fat?"
- No.
- Yes.
- Maybe you should try this other one on.
- No, you make it look fat.
- You're beautiful to me no matter how chunky your love handles get.
Those are all the correct and wrong answer. Some woman will appreciate the blunt honesty, others will want you to lie your ass off so she feels good about herself.
It's difficult to find someone that's honest.
Firstly, you have to have a good relationship, a real "click" with the other person. Then being honest should just be natural. Really, why does someone have to ask how to be honest?
If you love the person and genuinely care for her, it shouldn't be hard, unless you're a compulsive liar in which case you're forever alone (or will get found out eventually because women are magicians at detecting that).
Just an antecdote, this happened 4 days ago. A long time friend of mine just got her husband to confess that he was having an affair with another women. [b]Got him to confess[/b]. My friend and her boyfriend have known each other for 12 years, married for 4 (in their 30s now). Don't think that they don't know, guys.
With that said, it's not so much being "honest", but finding the right person. Because the rest comes naturally. If you're having to lie to keep things interesting, then there's something wrong in your relationship, period.
My former girlfriend told me to pack the day before we left to go somewhere and I didn't pack. The next day she said she was coming over to pick me up and asked me if I packed, If I would of said no she would go berserk. So, I lied and told her I was packed. I ended up getting packed before she came over and she didnt suspect a thing.
I don't understand why you need specificity to what group you should be honest towards. You should either be honest to most everyone, or not be. It makes sense to be more honest with people you trust more in that you can be assure that they won't try to expose you.
It's also good to note that honesty and arrogance can be pretty connected in that a person may be honest about their thoughts and feelings, but their thoughts and feelings completely revolve around themselves. This causes conflict because honesty requires truth, and bias dilutes truth.
I'm usually quite straight forward with my girlfriend and other friends unless it would be more of a hassle to tell the truth. I've lied to my girlfriend and family about doing drugs and I've never feel bad about it. I almost never lie, but when I do, I don't feel bad. As long as I know I can get away with it, there is no reason to be truthful when it will only complicate matters. That statement assumes that not being truthful wouldn't have any negative impact, for example: there really isn't any significant negative impact from smoking weed, therefore there are no negatives to lying about drug use granted that I get away with it.
Honesty is the best policy. If they don't like it, then they aren't meant for you. If your GF is trying on something and you think she looks retarded in it, but she thinks shes adorable. TELL HER! Otherwise she's going to go out to a party wearing that retro dress that hasn't been in style since the stone ages and she'll be the laughing stock of the world. And then what you may ask? YOU become the bad guy because YOU weren't honest and made her think she looked good in it. Now you're sleeping on the couch..if your lucky.
It's sort of impossible to do this as even if you tell the truth, the woman is ALWAYS correct, no matter what....so why bother?
You shouldn't be honest about your opinions and thoughts, but you should be honest about your actions.
Ehhh.
Lying is okay to an extent.
Definitely not a trouble in relationships I have been through.
Honesty is a good policy, unless it deals with a bro in which case the woman should never know.
I heard their periods attract bears.
...
BEARS! /caps
I get girls saying I'm "blunt" rather than appreciating honesty. Blunt being a negative thing.
[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;29474099]i'm completely honest with my gf in a joking way
she asked me if she looked fat in this 80s jacket or something and i was like "Yeah, you look fat. haha just kidding" but i meant it
but she's really skinny too[/QUOTE]
:psyduck:
Having a bitch should be like looking in the mirror, except prettier. You wouldn't lie to yourself, would you?
This is how it would look like OP.
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flTQWy6Aqx8[/media]
Minus the handjob and plus a slap across your face.
I tried being completely honest about pretty much everything with one of my girlfriends. It didn't go very well at all, and that's a understatement.
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