• Being Honest With Women
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Whenever I'm honest with women about myself, the relationship seems to end just as quickly as it starts... For a short-term relationship I would say it's fine to lie, but if you're looking for long-term stuff it's best to be honest from the beginning, since further on the woman might end up disappointed that you didn't live up to your bragging!
Lie to every single women about everything.
I learned my lesson about being honest. She had a crush on me, asked me out and she slept at my place. And while we were talking she told me that she had a boyfriend in another city, but they both cheat on each other. So i told her that i neither want to be the guy she comes over to to cry about her shitty boyfriend nor do i want to play a siderole in her life. I straight up told her how i feel about her and nothing else happened. Now i think i should just have lied to get some damn pussy at least. You see honesty gets you nowhere.
If someone asks my opinion I always ask if he wants my true opinion. If he says yes, then I just say what I think out loud.
Im only honest when they ask the questions, until then I do my own thing.
Never be completly honest with anyone. You lose friends. You lose partners. They will leave with personal information about you. If you lose them due to an argument, they will have you by the balls.
I try to be as honest as possible to my girlfriend about things. Like I never delete a message or anything on my phone or facebook when its a girl talking to me because im not hiding anything. But I always catch my girlfriend deleting chats with guys and shit even when ive secretly read them. brb yahoo! answers
[QUOTE=Melnek;29483862]Lie to every single women about everything.[/QUOTE] Umm yees... I am circumcised
I like guys to be honest with me. What kind of relationship is it if the guy can't really be himself around the girl? White lies aren't the end of the world, there's no need to say something that is flat out offensive even if it's true when there is no real benefit, but when it comes to sharing secrets, confessing when something is bothering you or acting like your real self you should be honest if it's a serious relationship. Not all of us are crazy gossips who will throw a fit if we hear something slightly negative. We're all human.
Facepunch guy that decides to be honest: "Ok honey from now on i''l be honest: i'm stressed out i wanna fuck like a rabbit all day every day you fucking whore!" she leaves him.
I'm always honest with women.
I lie about things they want to hear and which at the same time won't lead them into a deadly fit if they see through my lies.
I'm sure that if I loved someone enough and trusted them, I think I'd appreciate "It doesn't really suit you, maybe try on something a different colour?" better than "I like the way you wobble :saddowns:".
I'm gay. Fuck women.
[QUOTE=KlaseR;29485946]Facepunch guy that decides to be honest: "Ok honey from now on i''l be honest: i'm stressed out i wanna fuck like a rabbit all day every day you fucking whore!" she leaves him.[/QUOTE] Probably because he called her a fucking whore. I don't see a point lying to one of the few people you're supposed to be able to trust. By all means, withhold information you're not comfortable with sharing (childhood details, etc.) but don't lie to the person.
[QUOTE=MaverickIB;29473865]I have a feeling like most the people that are/will participate in this thread haven't even talked to women enough to be dishonest with them. Unless you lie to them about what time it is.[/QUOTE] holy shit lol You're not the only kid in the world who's had a date; rid yourself of this superiority complex.
When she asks if she looks fat (or scrawny, or too tall or whatever her hang up is), think carefully. Personally if you tell me honestly "yes it makes you look *insert whatever bad thing here*" I will not be angry BUT I will totally believe you that I don't look good. I will then decide I don't look good ever. Especially to you. And that will not be good for our sex life.
[QUOTE=verynicelady;29492066]When she asks if she looks fat (or scrawny, or too tall or whatever her hang up is), think carefully. Personally if you tell me honestly "yes it makes you look *insert whatever bad thing here*" I will not be angry BUT I will totally believe you that I don't look good. I will then decide I don't look good ever. Especially to you. And that will not be good for our sex life.[/QUOTE] I thought you was gone or some shit. Like demodded. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("This reply is not about the thread topic" - verynicelady))[/highlight]
[QUOTE=bellua;29472857]I was wonder what women think about men being completely upfront and honest with them and also guy what do you think about being honest and upfront with women?[/QUOTE] It's not a good idea at all.
Be honest with a woman if you feel it's the right thing. There is no reason to build a relationship upon lies. If you choose to stick a lie once in a while, fine. But expect the same in return. Mutual respect is an important factor of any relationship, romantic or friendly. Don't go around assuming the worst. Just felt like saying this. [editline]28th April 2011[/editline] [QUOTE=ultra_bright;29492089]I thought you was gone or some shit. Like demodded. [highlight](User was banned for this post ("This reply is not about the thread topic" - verynicelady))[/highlight][/QUOTE] Also, impressive ban.
I'm seeing someone and it's his really blunt honesty that I like. Obviously he's not so blunt that he's rude but he'll always speak his mind and be open about everything. I find it to be comforting as I know he'll 9 times out of 10 be honest with me :eng101:
My girlfriend threatened to leave me if I wasn't completely honest with her. When I was she threatened to leave me again. :psyduck:
"Do I look fat?" -Yes you do, deal with it, etcetera, etcetera.
[QUOTE=xXDictatorXx;29485831]What kind of relationship is it if the guy can't really be himself around the girl?[/QUOTE] a normal one society dictates we act weird around girls FOR A REASON! i don't want any of your feminist trash lady i like them good old days when the only words uttered in a man & woman's relationship is hi, i do, and i'm dead
I think it really depends on who the woman is because she could be like "omg f u ur a dik" or actually be mature and understanding but that's rare where I'm from.
[QUOTE=xenodrox;29473076]Honesty in a relationship? What? ... [i]what?[/i][/QUOTE] [media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yg2u_De8j5o[/media]
Do what you feel is best for him/her, the relationship, and yourself.
[QUOTE=bellua;29472857]I was wonder what women think about men being completely upfront and honest with them and also guy what do you think about being honest and upfront with women? I personally think that being upfront and honest with women is really important to having a healthy relationship. I know a lot of people who just aren't honest with their intentions and they just get no where with the relationships they try and develop. So what is your opinion?[/QUOTE] Women cheat more than men.
If I lie I'm being dishonest. If I tell the truth I'm just an asshole. Women never fail to amuse me. :/
I'm a firm believer in always being truthful to gals. A bucket of lies is no place to reside.
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