• My father is a pedohile, drug addict, convicted criminal, drunk and thief
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Call the cops, they take him, place your family under protection. Get a damn restraining order if that helps, cause if he breaks it, he'll be in deep shit anyway. If anything, call the cops, move away, and take up fake identities.
[QUOTE=ei8ht;25840635]It's not that easy. There is actually a driving fear that would prevent someone in this situation to NOT report an individual who happened to be abusive. A would probably act in the OPs footsteps, because of this underlying fear. You are afraid of this person finding out about you reporting them, or maybe you are afraid of what the police will do with the situation, such as ignore it completely, or not act with the appropriate measures for the situation. Please think logically about what you would consciously, and realistically do in this situation before posting an assumption about a post that could well hold truth.[/QUOTE] I did "think logically." I'm not in the OP's shoes so I couldn't tell what I would do then, and neither could ANY of you unless you are the OP. However, going on how I live my life in MY shoes I would tell someone, if I was the children's mother, or if I was the kid
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840541]I'm not the OP however. The OP brought this whole situtation upon himself, each of his relatives did. Mostly his mother, since they were just little kids when this happened. The mother had a shitload of options to prevent this. Filing for divorce, getting a restraining order, contacting the police. Then once OP and his sister came of age to understand what was going on, they could've called the police. But they didn't. They were shocked into "fear" by some cowardice act of their mother, because she wouldn't react, they learned not to react either.[/QUOTE] Please don't be so ignorant of the situation. Like I mentioned before, this is much easier to be said than done.
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[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840707]I did "think logically." I'm not in the OP's shoes so I couldn't tell what I would do then, and neither could ANY of you unless you are the OP. However, going on how I live my life in MY shoes I would tell someone, if I was the children's mother, or if I was the kid[/QUOTE] Yes, but you arent the OP, you are two differant individuals, and based on his situation, and the way he described it, he's probably too afraid to do anything.
How am I ignorant? I'm saying that no one can tell how they would react in the situation, unless they have been in the situation. Based on the person that I am today, I would tell someone. It seems like the logical conclusion to me to tell someone.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25839570]-snip- Just get those, keep them near your bed, juuust to be safe.[/QUOTE] Wouldn't it be terrible when his dad finds those weapons and uses against him?
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25840743]Yes, but you arent the OP, you are two differant individuals, and based on his situation, and the way he described it, he's probably too afraid to do anything.[/QUOTE] ...Which is what I said. I'm not the OP, you aren't the OP, we can't say how we would act in his situation.
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840754]How am I ignorant? I'm saying that no one can tell how they would react in the situation, unless they have been in the situation. Based on the person that I am today, I would tell someone. It seems like the logical conclusion to me to tell someone.[/QUOTE] But you arent the OP, or his mother, so you shouldnt be calling her a coward anyway. [editline]3rd November 2010[/editline] [QUOTE=CoolKingKaso;25840763]Wouldn't it be terrible when his dad finds those weapons and uses against him?[/QUOTE] He doesnt live with them.
[QUOTE=gamefreek76;25840678]I find it pathetic how you make the worst posts possible and then rate yourself. Bravo, sir.[/QUOTE] I think you have man buns under your T... I rate my comments dumb most of the time...because they are. Sorry for not taking facepunch as a communist driven consentration camp mein fuhrer :hitler:
Call the damn cops on him!
By Took Do you mean "Fuck" your sister right in front of you? :smithicide: god thats gross.
I'm calling her a coward because based off of what I read from the OP's post, it's what she is. There was an unsurmountable fear of her husband, and she did nothing about it. Now her kids have to suffer because of it. She didn't do anything to aid the problem, and by doing nothing, it made the husband's dominance grow.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25839570][img_thumb]http://vitanuova.loyalty.org/crowbar.jpeg[/img_thumb] [img_thumb]http://www.enemyforces.net/firearms/glock17.jpg[/img_thumb] Just get those, keep them near your bed, juuust to be safe.[/QUOTE] Never forgot, HL1: Gordon's Crowbar, It'll save you. :wink:
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840754]How am I ignorant? I'm saying that no one can tell how they would react in the situation, unless they have been in the situation. Based on the person that I am today, I would tell someone. It seems like the logical conclusion to me to tell someone.[/QUOTE] Although I don't in any way doubt that you would do this today the way you have been raised, you may, however, act differently if you grew up in such a household as the OP did. If this was the case, you may have a different reaction to the events at hand. I am not trying to insult you, just merely trying to see things from a different point of view.
Speaking of his sister, how did you get her and leave if he took her. Actualy, he didnt say he left with her, what.
definitely not rick rossin sucks bro
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840541]I'm not the OP however. The OP brought this whole situtation upon himself, each of his relatives did. Mostly his mother, since they were just little kids when this happened. The mother had a shitload of options to prevent this. Filing for divorce, getting a restraining order, contacting the police. Then once OP and his sister came of age to understand what was going on, they could've called the police. But they didn't. They were shocked into "fear" by some cowardice act of their mother, because she wouldn't react, they learned not to react either.[/QUOTE] If they were being abused for no reason, imagine if the dad knew if they called the police officers or if he was divorced. Knowing how sadistic the dad is from the OP, he wouldn't care about his family and would most likely kill them all.
[QUOTE=carcarcargo;25838560]Yeah isn't it great when your dad forces harmful substances on you.[/QUOTE] I would be happy. Just sayin.
[QUOTE=CoolKingKaso;25840884]If they were being abused for no reason, imagine if the dad knew if they called the police officers or if he was divorced. Knowing how sadistic the dad is from the OP, he wouldn't care about his family and would most likely kill them all.[/QUOTE] Pedro, seriously, think.
Hey so my dad is a pedo, junkie, criminal, drunkard and a crook, maybe I should make a thread on facepunch for advice instead of calling the cops.
[QUOTE=ei8ht;25840830]Although I don't in any way doubt that you would do this today the way you have been raised, you may, however, act differently if you grew up in such a household as the OP did. If this was the case, you may have a different reaction to the events at hand. I am not trying to insult you, just merely trying to see things from a different point of view.[/QUOTE] I agree, that if I had been brought up in the same way as OP, then maybe I would have acted differently, and maybe I wouldn't have. Who knows? All I'm saying is that the OP should have called the police, should have let someone know, when he began to understand the concept that what my dad is doing to me is wrong. Until he got to that age, it should have been his mother's job.
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25840922]I agree, that if I had been brought up in the same way as OP, then maybe I would have acted differently, and maybe I wouldn't have. Who knows? All I'm saying is that the OP should have called the police, should have let someone know, when he began to understand the concept that what my dad is doing to me is wrong. Until he got to that age, it should have been his mother's job.[/QUOTE] I dont think your getting it, they're [b]TOO SCARED OF HIM[/b] to do anything, because they fear they'll be hurt even more, or worse.
[QUOTE=CoolKingKaso;25840884]If they were being abused for no reason, imagine if the dad knew if they called the police officers or if he was divorced. Knowing how sadistic the dad is from the OP, he wouldn't care about his family and would most likely kill them all.[/QUOTE] I'm surprised why the father even had kids in the first place if he was (mad\ADD) kind of guy, anyway congratz op hope your safe now.
somebody should IRA his house. I'm sure those chaps are looking for work lately.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25840772]He doesnt live with them.[/QUOTE] True, but didn't he break into the door of their house the last time?
[QUOTE=CoolKingKaso;25840961]True, but didn't he break into the of their house the last time?[/QUOTE] No... They went to his...
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25840974]No... They went to his...[/QUOTE] Oh.
[QUOTE=AaronM202;25840942]I dont think your getting it, they're [b]TOO SCARED OF HIM[/b] to do anything, because they fear they'll be hurt even more, or worse.[/QUOTE] I understand that part, but you can't live your life in fear, especially when there are options right in front of you. Venting to an internet forum is an option, but it's pointless. You have to take a stand for yourself, and not be afraid.
[QUOTE=Pedro the Fuzzy;25841006]I understand that part, but you can't live your life in fear, especially when there are options right in front of you. Venting to an internet forum is an option, but it's pointless. You have to take a stand for yourself, and not be afraid.[/QUOTE] Please understand that they really cant, because of how scared they are. And i believe suggesting a glock and crowbar for protection against him is actualy a good idea.
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