Why is being a Virgin shameful? - General

[QUOTE=jjjohan;15809737]I'm asexual/celibatic too IceCKryss :).[/QUOTE] Nothing wrong with not marrying in today's society

[QUOTE=Bile demon;15811910]Nothing wrong with not marrying in today's society[/QUOTE] I'm absolutely not against it, I guess it's not really the right wording. Agh.. confusing thread is confusing. Asexual =/= gay

wow, it's threads like these where all the virgins feel "safe" to expose their truths. seriously, just because it's on the internet doesn't mean that you being a virgin makes you less of a loser. you tell anyone in real life you're a virgin, and they will see you for the loser you probably are (unless you're in a church). kids in my class started having sex when they were 7 - i know you know this is true, this is the most recent developing trend. we were the kids who socialized with others and went to parties. we weren't those mean "bully" kids (that would be the jocks) and we weren't a gang (that would be the dealers). we were just socially-active people who got "deeply involved" with those of the opposite sex. in today's day and age, virginity is not a positive status trait, and it's a mark that causes people to judge you as unsociable or possibly unfriendly (because you haven't gotten any pussy).

Theres nothing shameful about it. Most girls find a guy being a virgin more attractive and a little cuter. The girls who make fun of you for it aren't worth your time.

[QUOTE=Boyblunder;15811839]I'll ask you now not to be the asshole that fucks a drunk chick. I hate those people.[/QUOTE] Hell no, I'm not that type, I mean if, you know, push comes to shove at a party.

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812055]wow, it's threads like these where all the virgins feel "safe" to expose their truths. seriously, just because it's on the internet doesn't mean that you being a virgin makes you less of a loser. you tell anyone in real life you're a virgin, and they will see you for the loser you probably are (unless you're in a church). kids in my class started having sex when they were 7 - i know you know this is true, this is the most recent developing trend. we were the kids who socialized with others and went to parties. we weren't those mean "bully" kids (that would be the jocks) and we weren't a gang (that would be the dealers). we were just socially-active people who got "deeply involved" with those of the opposite sex. in today's day and age, virginity is not a positive status trait, and it's a mark that causes people to judge you as unsociable or possibly unfriendly (because you haven't gotten any pussy).[/QUOTE] Don't be an asshole. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing, and in most cases it'll earn you respect. You hang out with the wrong people. You're probably 14.

If ashamed of being a virgin your head isn't in the right place [editline]12:00AM[/editline] PS I'm a virign

[QUOTE=Sero;15812080]Theres nothing shameful about it. Most girls find a guy being a virgin more attractive and a little cuter. The girls who make fun of you for it aren't worth your time.[/QUOTE] This man right here. This is completely correct. [QUOTE=Canuhearme?;15812094]Hell no, I'm not that type, I mean if, you know, push comes to shove at a party.[/QUOTE] Good man.

[QUOTE=Boyblunder;15812098]Don't be an asshole. Being a virgin isn't a bad thing, and in most cases it'll earn you respect. You hang out with the wrong people. You're probably 14.[/QUOTE] Try 20, and my friends are not the "wrong people" thank you very much. And no, being a virgin could never get you respect unless you're a really hot young girl, in which case every guy would consider you to be a fucking trophy.

[QUOTE=Xystus234;15810566]Yeah, well it means that *HUGE WALL OF WORDS* if you follow this advice your chance at getting laid is far more.[/QUOTE] Very helpful. Thanks, I think I actually learned something, and I was wondering how to naturally go about said actions. Thanks man.

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812055]wow, it's threads like these where all the virgins feel "safe" to expose their truths. seriously, just because it's on the internet doesn't mean that you being a virgin makes you less of a loser. you tell anyone in real life you're a virgin, and they will see you for the loser you probably are (unless you're in a church). kids in my class started having sex when they were 7 - i know you know this is true, this is the most recent developing trend. we were the kids who socialized with others and went to parties. we weren't those mean "bully" kids (that would be the jocks) and we weren't a gang (that would be the dealers). we were just socially-active people who got "deeply involved" with those of the opposite sex. in today's day and age, virginity is not a positive status trait, and it's a mark that causes people to judge you as unsociable or possibly unfriendly (because you haven't gotten any pussy).[/QUOTE] Sex at 7 is a trend? At that age most don't even know what sexual intercourse even is so don't bring that bullshit. Being a virgin does not class someone as anti-social. I had my share of relationships in middle/high school but most got cut off early, becomes time consuming and I don't really feel like dedicating my life to something like that right now. Soon as I graduate from college and get into a good university there won't be any time for a relationship. So for me it's career now, sex later. Atleast later I can afford to take my girlfriend on an actual date, because behind "Bob's Bar" does not count.

It's not shameful if you aren't ashamed of it. I'm ashamed of not being a virgin.

[QUOTE=Boyblunder;15811368]When people ask me I don't give them a clear answer because it's none of their fucking business knowing. <3[/QUOTE] That would work for me but if I didn't they would stop looking at me as a MASSIVE nerd.

[QUOTE=SomeGuest;15812159]Sex at 7 is a trend?[/QUOTE] If this surprises you, you're ignorant.

[QUOTE=Canuhearme?;15811556]It's shameful when you have the chance to have sex (as in, the social skills are there) but you just never use them. Also, I think the age when it becomes automatically shameful is around sophomore year in college, since you HAD to have had sex in college during freshman year.[/QUOTE] Yeah, especially if she's 300 pounds or smells like fish.

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812055]wow, it's threads like these where all the virgins feel "safe" to expose their truths. seriously, just because it's on the internet doesn't mean that you being a virgin makes you less of a loser. you tell anyone in real life you're a virgin, and they will see you for the loser you probably are (unless you're in a church). kids in my class started having sex when they were 7 - i know you know this is true, this is the most recent developing trend. we were the kids who socialized with others and went to parties. we weren't those mean "bully" kids (that would be the jocks) and we weren't a gang (that would be the dealers). we were just socially-active people who got "deeply involved" with those of the opposite sex. in today's day and age, virginity is not a positive status trait, and it's a mark that causes people to judge you as unsociable or possibly unfriendly (because you haven't gotten any pussy).[/QUOTE] Haha, you're stupid as fuck dude, that makes about 0 sense. I don't give a shit if people my age, or even in upper classes are virgins (I'm 16). I can tell you I have my share of friends, and none of us are "outcasts" or whateverthefuck.

[QUOTE=Beastly_Boy;15812295]Haha, you're stupid as fuck dude, that makes about 0 sense. I don't give a shit if people my age, or even in upper classes are virgins (I'm 16). I can tell you I have my share of friends, and none of us are "outcasts" or whateverthefuck.[/QUOTE] fuck you virgin, you don't know shit about sex so don't fucking talk down to me of course it doesn't matter to you because all your virgin friends are just like you i dare you to go out to a bar, talk with some guys and say "hey, ive never been laid, lololol" guess what, you just lost all their respect

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812357]fuck you virgin, you don't know shit about sex so don't fucking talk down to me of course it doesn't matter to you because all your virgin friends are just like you i dare you to go out to a bar, talk with some guys and say "hey, ive never been laid, lololol" guess what, you just lost all their respect[/QUOTE] If all respect is based on to you is sex? Then all hope for humanity is lost. Good day sir. Go have more meaningless animalistic sex.

Lets see, Sex today, unwanted pregnancies and STDs tomorrow. If you're dumb enough to have sex without being married or even mature, then have the brains to test for STDs before going out. I've never gotten into the love game, not when I was young and going to a Catholic school, not now in college. One of the older ladies I work with said she never went to any parties in college, and I'm ending up in the same situation and I don't really give a damn about parties. I'm no party animal; I like the quieter, simpler life. My idea of a good time is a soccer game or a hike in the woods or a ride on a train or a fishing/camping trip or even going out to the local range to fire off my einfield, I even enjoy working on the landscape around the house. Haven't met any women with my taste for fun yet.

[QUOTE=Sero;15812462]If all respect is based on to you is sex? Then all hope for humanity is lost. Good day sir. Go have more meaningless animalistic sex.[/QUOTE] Yeah, I'm afraid that when you grow up you will realize this. Not saying it's right, but it's the truth. And sex is a wonderful thing, my friend. Fucking try it, why the hell do you wanna stay a virgin? That's what makes me upset about this thread, there is no ambition whatsoever. No one is telling the truth by saying they feel like a loser because of their virginity. Just be fucking honest with yourself, geeze. Don't sugercoat it by just accepting that fact that you're a virgin, go out and fucking change that fact.

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812504]Yeah, I'm afraid that when you grow up you will realize this. Not saying it's right, but it's the truth. And sex is a wonderful thing, my friend. Fucking try it, why the hell do you wanna stay a virgin? That's what makes me upset about this thread, there is no ambition whatsoever. No one is telling the truth by saying they feel like a loser because of their virginity. Just be fucking honest with yourself, geeze. Don't sugercoat it by just accepting that fact that you're a virgin, go out and fucking change that fact.[/QUOTE] Its not the right? But its the truth?... So its wrong but the truth? I think you were staring at Sally too much in English. Second, who said I'm a virgin?

[QUOTE=Wolf_Marine;15812487] I'm no party animal; I like the quieter, simpler life. My idea of a good time is a soccer game or a hike in the woods or a ride on a train or a fishing/camping trip or even going out to the local range to fire off my einfield, I even enjoy working on the landscape around the house. Haven't met any women with my taste for fun yet.[/QUOTE] Probably because all of that besides the hiking sounds pretty boring

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812504]Yeah, I'm afraid that when you grow up you will realize this. Not saying it's right, but it's the truth. And sex is a wonderful thing, my friend. Fucking try it, why the hell do you wanna stay a virgin? That's what makes me upset about this thread, there is no ambition whatsoever. No one is telling the truth by saying they feel like a loser because of their virginity. Just be fucking honest with yourself, geeze. Don't sugercoat it by just accepting that fact that you're a virgin, go out and fucking change that fact.[/QUOTE] I think someone is raging because there not so smart. I had a chance for it but I said fuck that shit, Why you ask? Because what in the fuck is the point if I don't like the person and I am only horny? I base all my choices off logic and weighting out risks and stuff.

[QUOTE=sleepyperson;15812561]I think someone is raging because there not so smart. I had a chance for it but I said fuck that shit, Why you ask? Because what in the fuck is the point if I don't like the person and I am only horny? I base all my choices off logic and weighting out risks and stuff.[/QUOTE] 100% Agree dude.

[QUOTE=JasperWB;15802248]Here is more circular logic. All men are supposed to lose their virginity, but girls are supposed to stay pure. Your only choice seems to be get gay or don't have sex.[/QUOTE] why do girls have to stay pure? they have those things down there for a reason!

This thread is straining my will to live.

[QUOTE=Sero;15812526]Its not the right? But its the truth?... So its wrong but the truth? I think you were staring at Sally too much in English. Second, who said I'm a virgin?[/QUOTE] First, that comment is funny if anything. And yes, it's not morrally right that guys judge your repute by how many girls you've banged, but that's still what they do. Second, I can tell you're a virgin because you refer to sex as "meaningless" and "animalistic" - you've never had it, man.

Lol 72 agrees on OP. Losers.

[QUOTE=SilverHammer;15812534]Probably because all of that besides the hiking sounds pretty boring[/QUOTE] Boom headshot. This is the problem with most of you guys, i'm sure, if you can't get laid its probably mostly because you are a boring individual. And saying that it's not bad to be a virgin? [i]That makes you even more boring [/i]

[QUOTE=sleepyperson;15812561]I think someone is raging because there not so smart. I had a chance for it but I said fuck that shit, Why you ask? Because what in the fuck is the point if I don't like the person and I am only horny? I base all my choices off logic and weighting out risks and stuff.[/QUOTE] Um... maybe because sex is an enjoyable experience? [editline]09:36PM[/editline] [QUOTE=abigserve;15812612]Boom headshot. This is the problem with most of you guys, i'm sure, if you can't get laid its probably mostly because you are a boring individual. And saying that it's not bad to be a virgin? [i]That makes you even more boring [/i][/QUOTE] THANK YOU, finally someone here who's not a retard.