Why is being a Virgin shameful? - General

[QUOTE=hahaha221;15813047]Virginity is part of becoming a man, but becoming a man does not mean losing it as fast as you can. How does that make you become a man?[/QUOTE] I'm not saying its a race. But I guess you could say its sort of like a sport. What is wrong with practicing? Why wait till your 20+ (assuming you are actually waiting and not just ugly/loser) and be a crappy player? Having sex for pleasure isn't a bad thing. [editline]01:11AM[/editline] [QUOTE=sleepyperson;15813048]Science says after puberty you have become a adult which under the language means you have become a man if you are male or a women if you are female.[/QUOTE] I know that Mr.Smartass. You know what I meant.

[QUOTE=Aman;15813064]I'm not saying its a race. But I guess you could say its sort of like a sport. What is wrong with practicing? Why wait till your 20+ (assuming you are actually waiting and not just ugly/loser) and be a crappy player? Having sex for pleasure isn't a bad thing.[/QUOTE] Woops maybe I should browse FP at normal text size.

[QUOTE=darkheadcrab;15812357]fuck you virgin, you don't know shit about sex so don't fucking talk down to me of course it doesn't matter to you because all your virgin friends are just like you i dare you to go out to a bar, talk with some guys and say "hey, ive never been laid, lololol" guess what, you just lost all their respect[/QUOTE] bahhahaahahaahahaaha I don't think getting raped by your uncle counts as losing your virginity.

This thread is getting a little out of hand. Most of you speaking in an elitist manner need to chill the fuck out. [b]Edit:[/b] That means [i]you[/i] too, darkheadcrab.

TL:DR THREAD VERSION Sex is fun. Why not do it?

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813105]bahhahaahahaahahaaha I don't think getting raped by your uncle counts as losing your virginity.[/QUOTE] Hurrrr nice insult :downs:

[QUOTE=TrueWolF;15812898]excuse me but you are being ignorant.. I am 18 and a virgin by choice.. not because i "can't get any".. [url]http://fc01.deviantart.com/fs31/f/2008/215/c/0/My_ID_xD_by_TrueWolf.jpg[/url] look at this and tell me i can't get any.. (older pic btw)[/QUOTE] I'd do you, if that is your real picture... [editline]10:17PM[/editline] [QUOTE=Aman;15813117]Hurrrr nice insult :downs:[/QUOTE] Thanks. You can get my collected works for 20 Euros.

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813121] You can get my collected works for 20 Euros.[/QUOTE] I ain't using your crazy monopoly money.

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813121]I'd do you, if that is your real picture... [/QUOTE] it is.. but please refrain from doing so :v:

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[QUOTE=IceCKryss;15802109]I took an oath of celibacy and am antisexual. In my opinion, sex and romantic relationships are way too complicated and dangerous to get involved in.[/QUOTE] well that sucks

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[QUOTE=TrueWolF;15813147]it is.. but please refrain from doing so :v:[/QUOTE] Damn it. Why can't a perfectly heterosexual man like me get a random dude on the internet to sleep with me?

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813167]Damn it. Why can't a perfectly heterosexual man like me get a random dude on the internet to sleep with me?[/QUOTE] it's an imperfect world my friend.... i'm sorry..

[QUOTE=TrueWolF;15812898]excuse me but you are being ignorant.. I am 18 and a virgin by choice.. not because i "can't get any".. [url]http://fc01.deviantart.com/fs31/f/2008/215/c/0/My_ID_xD_by_TrueWolf.jpg[/url] look at this and tell me i can't get any.. (older pic btw) anyways.. as i said ealier.. you're only a loser if you try to get laid then fail.. but if you make a choice to not get laid until you find the one you love.. this is a strong decision made by a lot.. and is not looked up upon because of people like you.. who like to believe sex is just an activity between to animalistic human beings.. which is true.. but... it can be a lot greater if done correctly. thus the term making love.. i'm not gunna go clubbing just to find some drunk chick willing to blow me infront of every1 and then take me to the bathroom to get laid and lose my virginity.. also i really don't feel like having sex.. there are ppl who have their primal insticts set above their mental insights.. so when they see a hot chick walking down the street.. they autimatically look at their bouncing breasts and nod their heads up and down in rythem.. while a very few others.. would stop and think bout the girl her self.. not her "assets" this is why we have many virgins who are who they are by choice.. i know a couple that have been going out for 2 years now.. and love each other very much, and never even had sex yet.. both of them.. no they are not christians or doin it for their religion.. it's because they believe they don't need sex to like each other.. and this is what i believe in..[/QUOTE] 100% Agree with you.

[QUOTE=Epidemick;15801977]I mean, back in the old days it was preferred. But now its a shameful thing. I know, society is always changing, but shouldn't it change for the better? Isn't this why we have things like AIDS?:confused:[/QUOTE] When someone makes fun of you for being a virgin, either: 1.) The non-virgin who is making fun of you [i]thinks[/i] he's funny, and/or is trying to boost his own self-esteem for 10 seconds. 2.) The "non-virgin" who is making fun of you, is also a virgin, and... Is trying to boost his own self-esteem for 10 seconds.

[QUOTE=IceCKryss;15802285]Yes, sexual intercourse IS natural. I just feel that since humans are the first animals to achieve sentience, I'd rather do something that requires sentience to perform. Sexual Intercourse's function is to further the species. Humans doing it for sexual pleasure does not further the species.[/QUOTE] We're just another animal on the earth that has evolved through the ages. Why do you have to prove yourself better than them?

Hilarious, a dude saying that his reputation will be shit if he talks to virgins online. That statement alone makes him one hell of a loser. I personally believe that virginity shows self restraint, focusing on more important things then sex, which is kinda what makes us different from a bunch of fucking monkeys. Only inbred douches who require the attention of "the in crowd" at every moment of the day are the ones who lose their virginity early. Sad too, because their lack of intelligence also results in pregnancy, which just continues to lower the global IQ...

[QUOTE=DTkach;15813462] I personally believe that virginity shows self restraint, focusing on more important things then sex, which is kinda what makes us different from a bunch of fucking monkeys. Only inbred douches who require the attention of "the in crowd" at every moment of the day are the ones who lose their virginity early.[/QUOTE] Or you know, they felt unloved by their mother, and needed to seek female love in exhausting ways. Just so you know, psychology exists so you don't have to make dumb statements like these.

[QUOTE=TrueWolF;15812898]excuse me but you are being ignorant.. I am 18 and a virgin by choice.. not because i "can't get any".. [url]http://fc01.deviantart.com/fs31/f/2008/215/c/0/My_ID_xD_by_TrueWolf.jpg[/url] look at this and tell me i can't get any.. (older pic btw) anyways.. as i said ealier.. you're only a loser if you try to get laid then fail.. but if you make a choice to not get laid until you find the one you love.. this is a strong decision made by a lot.. and is not looked up upon because of people like you.. who like to believe sex is just an activity between to animalistic human beings.. which is true.. but... it can be a lot greater if done correctly. thus the term making love.. i'm not gunna go clubbing just to find some drunk chick willing to blow me infront of every1 and then take me to the bathroom to get laid and lose my virginity.. also i really don't feel like having sex.. there are ppl who have their primal insticts set above their mental insights.. so when they see a hot chick walking down the street.. they autimatically look at their bouncing breasts and nod their heads up and down in rythem.. while a very few others.. would stop and think bout the girl her self.. not her "assets" this is why we have many virgins who are who they are by choice.. i know a couple that have been going out for 2 years now.. and love each other very much, and never even had sex yet.. both of them.. no they are not christians or doin it for their religion.. it's because they believe they don't need sex to like each other.. and this is what i believe in..[/QUOTE] I... agree... with... you.. but.... you really... must.. stop using... "..." so much...

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813484]Or you know, they felt unloved by their mother, and needed to seek female love in exhausting ways. Just so you know, psychology exists so you don't have to make dumb statements like these.[/QUOTE] What does having sex simply to appease other bound-for-McDonalds neanderthals have to do with loving one's mother? Or am I missing some kind of sarcasm from your entire post? Lets face it, people who have sex early do it because they either forget their humanity and simply manipulate those of the opposite sex for their pleasure, or they do it simply because they want to be accepted by their peers. Having sex for love =/= desperately trying to be accepted.

[QUOTE=DTkach;15813549]What does having sex simply to appease other bound-for-McDonalds neanderthals have to do with loving one's mother? Or am I missing some kind of sarcasm from your entire post?[/QUOTE] Human sexuality goes far deeper than "BAR BRO's BRO", in fact, an entire person spent his time studying it, you might have heard of him, a mister Sigmund Freud? [QUOTE=DTkach;15813549]Lets face it, people who have sex early do it because they either forget their humanity and simply manipulate those of the opposite sex for their pleasure, or they do it simply because they want to be accepted by their peers. Having sex for love =/= desperately trying to be accepted.[/QUOTE] Absolutely incorrect, I made that motherly love statement because it specifically refers to me.

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813578]Human sexuality goes far deeper than "BAR BRO's BRO", in fact, an entire person spent his time studying it, you might have heard of him, a mister Sigmund Freud? Absolutely incorrect, I made that motherly love statement because it specifically refers to me.[/QUOTE] I never said that human sexuality all equates to bad. If you truly love someone, then its perfectly fine to have sexual relations with them. But be realistic; my previous statements are the norm almost everywhere. Look at the poster on the previous page, talking about how sex equals the center of human society, and that he had sex at age 7. This is completely different from any form of love.

[QUOTE=DTkach;15813660]I never said that human sexuality all equates to bad. If you truly love someone, then its perfectly fine to have sexual relations with them. But be realistic; my previous statements are the norm almost everywhere. Look at the poster on the previous page, talking about how sex equals the center of human society, and that he had sex at age 7. This is completely different from any form of love.[/QUOTE] Sex is the center of human society, it's the epitome of human experience and controls our actions everyday. And sex at age 7 isn't sex at all, that's rape. Stop fucking around with wild assumptions, and learn some basic physiology.

Okay. What about dolphins? They have sex for fun too. Does ANYONE care about any dolphins being a virgin? Humans make relationships, and sex is a way of showing they truly care and love each other. However, due to a genetic mishap, men haven't got one little quirk out of their systems from caveman days: make the population GROW. Look: if there's a village of women, and a man comes along, he can get them all pregnant. and his body knows he needs to, at least in that situation. However, if there's one woman and about ten guys, that's going to take a while. People are just driven to sex, whatever their size, shape and race, it's natural, but in this time and age, please realize that if it's not to procreate (if that isn't the goal). Do it to show love, to whomever your with, be it a guy, girl, it, or even a dolphin it.

[QUOTE=Hogarth;15813494]I... agree... with... you.. but.... you really... must.. stop using... "..." so much...[/QUOTE] i do it on forums a lot because i like to add a pause.. people mostly pause after seeing "...'s" .. but don't pause as long with commas or a period :P well maybe that's just me........... :v:

[QUOTE=thisispain;15813686]Sex is the center of human society, it's the epitome of human experience and controls our actions everyday. And sex at age 7 isn't sex at all, that's rape. Stop fucking around with wild assumptions, and learn some basic physiology.[/QUOTE] I disagree with the first statement 100%. From a general standpoint, yes it does, but that's the same for every species on the planet. Procreation is the only way a species can live on, but we as humans are above that. Its what makes us capable of creating things like computers and other complex items. Why must we be grouped together with everything else? We don't act the same, not in the least. These were kids having sex at age 7, not being forced to, but doing it to be "cool". That isn't rape, its stupidity. Why do I need to learn physiology, I'm in high school, I'm surrounded by this shit 180 days a year. People in such systems, people way too young and immature to have sex, are constantly doing so simply out of approval from their peers. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that, it takes one day in a public high school.

[QUOTE=TK Rainy;15813695]Okay. What about dolphins? They have sex for fun too. Does ANYONE care about any dolphins being a virgin? Humans make relationships, and sex is a way of showing they truly care and love each other. However, due to a genetic mishap, men haven't got one little quirk out of their systems from caveman days: make the population GROW. Look: if there's a village of women, and a man comes along, he can get them all pregnant. and his body knows he needs to, at least in that situation. However, if there's one woman and about ten guys, that's going to take a while. People are just driven to sex, whatever their size, shape and race, it's natural, but in this time and age, please realize that if it's not to procreate (if that isn't the goal). Do it to show love, to whomever your with, be it a guy, girl, it, or even a dolphin it.[/QUOTE] Not everyone is driven by sex, or to it. But i agree with the rest of what you say.

[QUOTE=TK Rainy;15813695]Do it to show love, to whomever your with, be it a guy, girl, it, or even a dolphin it.[/QUOTE] Sadly, sex with dolphins is illegal. Though, I have read on the chans that the dolphin's vagina is a million times more pleasurable than a human's.

[QUOTE=DTkach;15813752]I disagree with the first statement 100%. From a general standpoint, yes it does, but that's the same for every species on the planet. Procreation is the only way a species can live on, but we as humans are above that. Its what makes us capable of creating things like computers and other complex items. Why must we be grouped together with everything else? We don't act the same, not in the least.[/QUOTE] Please, all human behavior is linked in sexuality, this is a biological fact. Read some books about psychology. [QUOTE=DTkach;15813752]These were kids having sex at age 7, not being forced to, but doing it to be "cool". That isn't rape, its stupidity.[/QUOTE] Are you kidding me? Kids at age 7 still think girls are yucky. In fact, age 7 kids don't get hard at all. Get a troll detector. [QUOTE=DTkach;15813752]Why do I need to learn physiology, I'm in high school, I'm surrounded by this shit 180 days a year. People in such systems, people way too young and immature to have sex, are constantly doing so simply out of approval from their peers. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that, it takes one day in a public high school.[/QUOTE] What the fuck, I said psychology, not physiology.