[QUOTE=RealMcFool;15885471]this man speaks the truth
i love my girlfriend with all my heart and we do have sex
but i'm not with her for the sex; if i wanted sex its not exactly hard to find like the amazing one-of-a-kind girl I have. Its a benefit, not a necessity.
that being said, i love sex[/QUOTE]
What he's saying is he wants a girlfriend but no sex with her. That's how i'm reading it, anyways. I'm with my girl because I love her, not because I want to have sex with her. That being said, I still consider sex a vital part of any healthy relationship. A vital part, not the core of it though. If you're uncomfortable sharing a sexual experience with you're girlfriend/boyfriend, then the relationship should end. That is, of course, after being with them long enough for the possibility to even arise.
[QUOTE=leet;15885482]What he's saying is he wants a girlfriend but no sex with her. That's how i'm reading it, anyways. I'm with my girl because I love her, not because I want to have sex with her. That being said, I still consider sex a vital part of any healthy relationship. A vital part, not the core of it though. If you're uncomfortable sharing a sexual experience with you're girlfriend/boyfriend, then the relationship should end. That is, of course, after being with them long enough for the possibility to even arise.[/QUOTE]
looks like we're on two different wavelengths
I'm reading it as a there being a difference between liking/loving someone and feeling the need to have sex with them. Sure I might want sex because thats an innate human instinct to reproduce, but it doesn't mean I don't enjoy companionship, too.
[QUOTE=RealMcFool;15885530]looks like we're on two different wavelengths
I'm reading it as a there being a difference between liking/loving someone and feeling the need to have sex with them. Sure I might want sex because thats an innate human instinct to reproduce, but it doesn't mean I don't enjoy companionship, too.[/QUOTE]
I completely understand, there is a difference, but not a very big one. With love comes urges, if you're partner is willing to fulfill them, then so be it.
and to be perfectly frank if you have urges your partner will most likely want to fulfill them, too ;D
Precisely. Me and my partner both have urges, we fulfill them, but that's not all we care about in the relationship.
Not anymore
Losing virginity is one of the things that according to society make someone an adult
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