Why is being a Virgin shameful? - General

[QUOTE=phill977;15805761]If you're 16 and under, you can only really get laid if either: The girl is in a [B]good[/B] relationship with you. Or she's drunk.[/QUOTE] The latter is far more likely at sixteen.

There is nothing more natural than the act of making luuuv. We should not be thinking or planning on how, when and where we do it - it usually comes naturally to all. However, if you have somewhat of a disability in any way, such as having no legs or you're unusually large, then having sexual intercourse at any time would be quite the task.

you cant get no pussy

Keep it for a girl you really like, not some chick yelling at you "sucky sucky five dolla" on the streets

[QUOTE=j00g0t0wnd;15805181]Society rewards idiots with lack of any real willpower, such as the people who can't contain their horniness, losing their virginity at ages around 18-25. Losing your virginity before marriage in general is a massive sign that you're a slut. It's that simple.[/QUOTE] keep telling yourself your waiting for the right one.

[QUOTE=Alex_DeLarge;15805951]Keep it for a girl you really like, not some chick yelling at you "sucky sucky five dolla" on the streets[/QUOTE] There's really nothing special making it worth saving. I can pay five bucks for a quick suck, or I can por hundreds of hours and dollars into a relationship for a shitty fuck. I prefer quick hook ups. Pretty much like a mini-date to a party and by the end of the night, you're both in your best friends back seat with the windows down.

[QUOTE=bravehat;15806141]keep telling yourself your waiting for the right one.[/QUOTE] And I'm sure Mr. "Bravehat" that you have the most experience with this right?

No but i lost my virginity at 15 and still don't give a fuck, why experience just one person in your life, really?

[QUOTE=Kronik;15806149]There's really nothing special making it worth saving. I can pay five bucks for a quick suck, or I can por hundreds of hours and dollars into a relationship for a shitty fuck. I prefer quick hook ups. Pretty much like a mini-date to a party and by the end of the night, you're both in your best friends back seat with the windows down.[/QUOTE] It's not about the sex, it's about the accomplishment.

[QUOTE=bravehat;15806174]No but i lost my virginity at 15 and still don't give a fuck, why experience just one person in your life, really?[/QUOTE] You are a disgusting piece of human trash.

I'm a virgin. You know why? because i was born in a german WWII battlefield full of snipers. One of these snipers shot my mother because she was jew. He was going to shoot me too but he thought he'd better let me live a bit longer because i had just been born and shot my penis off so i can't spred the jew genes. After he shot me I killed him WITH MY BARE HANDS! Say that I ain't manly and i will shoot yours off..... i might want to practice my aiming first though.

[QUOTE=Spacewolf;15802063]People used to think virginity was a trophy or something, but since people have a tendency to become the absolute opposite of what [b]their parents were[/b], this happens.[/QUOTE] this. Also people are obsessed with sex nowadays and apparently to some immature people sex is seen as the pinacle of coolness, little do they realize once they do it their first time (not having any skill yet) it's not really that great, unless you and your partner know what eachother like.

lolol virgins are losers seriously there isn't anything wrong, unless you're like 22.

I dont really understand why most people are making such a massive deal out of it. No one who matters gives much of a shit wether your a virgin or not, mostly because sex is a completely natural and normal thing. Saying that, i do disagree with people waiing till they're married at 30 to have sex, you're just missing out on a huge part of life, sex can be fun and at the same time meangful or meaningless. To repress sex until marriage is unnatural, and to have it before doesn't make you a slut or a hero, it just makes you human. But hey, thats just my opinion. [editline]11:43PM[/editline] I dont really understand why most people are making such a massive deal out of it. No one who matters gives much of a shit wether your a virgin or not, mostly because sex is a completely natural and normal thing. Saying that, i do disagree with people waiing till they're married at 30 to have sex, you're just missing out on a huge part of life, sex can be fun and at the same time meangful or meaningless. To repress sex until marriage is unnatural, and to have it before doesn't make you a slut or a hero, it just makes you human. But hey, thats just my opinion.

I don't care if people are virgins, in my head they can be 80 years old and still a virgin, their sex life ain't my business.

Being Virgin makes people think you are either gay or have low self confidence. This makes you look weak. Weak is shamefull. Low self confidence is a weakness. Being gay around nowday's teens is bad unless you are strong, have a boyfriend and have lots of female girls. Sex is also linked to growing up. When you have sex you are no longer considered a Kid. If you don't have sex people can't really say when you stopped being a kid and thus think you are still someone who's mom still wipes their butt. And that is considered as a weakness. Weakneses are shamefull. The fact that we do not have a growing up ritual that prooves we are "mans" makes us consider having sex this ritual. Being virgin is shameful because our society is shameful. I hate this society and i don't mind saying im 18 and virgin. Think whatever you like.

[QUOTE=agun;15807136]Being Virgin makes people think you are either gay or have low self confidence. This makes you look weak. Weak is shamefull. Low self confidence is a weakness. Being gay around nowday's teens is bad unless you are strong, have a boyfriend and have lots of female girls. Sex is also linked to growing up. When you have sex you are no longer considered a Kid. If you don't have sex people can't really say when you stopped being a kid and thus think you are still someone who's mom still wipes their butt. And that is considered as a weakness. Weakneses are shamefull. The fact that we do not have a growing up ritual that prooves we are "mans" makes us consider having sex this ritual. Being virgin is shameful because our society is shameful. I hate this society and i don't mind saying im 18 and virgin. Think whatever you like.[/QUOTE] Interesting logic, agun.

^ Thats fair enough if that is what you want, but have you ever considered a lot of people just see sex as something fun, or omething to bring two people closer together, or a million other things, rather than some kind of coming-of-age ritual? And, personal question h ere, would you actually turn down sex if it was offered to you?

If you are a virgin it either means a. you don't get out enough b. you aren't confident enough c. you are an ugly motherfucker Choose!

[QUOTE=Zoombini;15807241]^ Thats fair enough if that is what you want, but have you ever considered a lot of people just see sex as something fun, or omething to bring two people closer together, or a million other things, rather than some kind of coming-of-age ritual? And, personal question h ere, would you actually turn down sex if it was offered to you?[/QUOTE] Yup, do it quite a bit actually; so many slutty women these days.

[QUOTE=abigserve;15807250]If you are a virgin it either means a. you don't get out enough b. you aren't confident enough c. you are an ugly motherfucker Choose![/QUOTE] Or you could have other reasons, like choosing not to. Sex education is there for a reason.

[QUOTE=Boyblunder;15805547]Oh, I know! That's the point I was trying to make. I believe for it to be a good relationship you have to be good friends first.[/QUOTE] That's how my present relationship is right now, best relationship I've ever been in with a girl. We are already comfortable with each other, and know each other really well and can understand each other. It's the way to go.

[QUOTE=RichardNixon;15807270]Yup, do it quite a bit actually; so many slutty women these days.[/QUOTE] That's kind of highlighting my whole point, just because you have a lot of sex doesn't mae you a slut necessarily, it can just mean you enjoy the fun of sex or the closeness. Although i agree that there are what you could call sluts out there, who would give it up just for the reputation. Just another opinion.

[QUOTE=JasperWB;15802248]Here is more circular logic. All men are supposed to lose their virginity, but girls are supposed to stay pure. Your only choice seems to be get gay or don't have sex.[/QUOTE] This made me lol cause its true. Ah fucked up logic.

[QUOTE=Zoombini;15807310]That's kind of highlighting my whole point, just because you have a lot of sex doesn't mae you a slut necessarily, it can just mean you enjoy the fun of sex or the closeness. Although i agree that there are what you could call sluts out there, who would give it up just for the reputation. Just another opinion.[/QUOTE] When you act like, well Paris Hilton, go to parties all the time, wear makeup(although a tiny bit is acceptable), and are motivated solely by sex you are a slut. Personally I find sluts highly unattractive, the first thing that comes to mind is a gaping vagina infected with STD's. I don't even want to touch these people.

[QUOTE=Zoombini;15807241]^ Thats fair enough if that is what you want, but have you ever considered a lot of people just see sex as something fun, or omething to bring two people closer together, or a million other things, rather than some kind of coming-of-age ritual? And, personal question h ere, would you actually turn down sex if it was offered to you?[/QUOTE] I'm not saying sex is bad and i can imagine it being awesome. If a girl offered me sex and she is hot I would say YES. It's like being in the desert and someone offers you some water. My point here is that it's seen as something necesary in order to be treated as an adult and not as a kid. Some tribes jump of bamboo towers. I think both of them are stupid. In fact, the term being a "man" is stupid. (for males).

[QUOTE=IceCKryss;15807296]Sex education is there for a reason.[/QUOTE] emphasis on [i]education[/i]. it's meant to educate you about what can happen if you have sex, how it happens, and precautions that should be taken into account for when you do have sex. you're not taught to avoid sex at all costs unless you're married and shit like that. that's religion that does that.

[QUOTE=IceCKryss;15802109]I took an oath of celibacy and am antisexual. In my opinion, sex and romantic relationships are way too complicated and dangerous to get involved in.[/QUOTE] Have sex once. I guarantee you you'll change your tune pretty quickly.

[QUOTE=agun;15807424]I'm not saying sex is bad and i can imagine it being awesome. If a girl offered me sex and she is hot I would say YES. It's like being in the desert and someone offers you some water. My point here is that it's seen as something necesary in order to be treated as an adult and not as a kid. Some tribes jump of bamboo towers. I think both of them are stupid. In fact, the term being a "man" is stupid. (for males).[/QUOTE] Back to my point about sex not necessary for individual survival. It's not. If a guy in the desert offered me water, I would take it. If an attractive female offered me sex, I would [B]not[/B] take it. [editline]11:14PM[/editline] [QUOTE=wind8ws;15807474]Have sex once. I guarantee you you'll change your tune pretty quickly.[/QUOTE] I can guarantee I won't, because I'm not going to. It's called an [B]oath[/B] of celibacy, not a "suggestion".

[QUOTE=IceCKryss;15807478]Back to my point about sex not necessary for individual survival. It's not. If a guy in the desert offered me water, I would take it. If an attractive female offered me sex, I would [B]not[/B] take it.[/QUOTE] That's so unrelated it's funny.