just ask her some bullshit question to get her to start talking, and once she's started just keep the conversation going
everything she says can be turned into dozens of new conversation topics, and as long as you're being a relatively good listening you should have no problem coming up with something to say
keep in mind that she might just give you single word answers if she really doesn't want to talk to you, which is a bad sign
or you two might just really not click, but I doubt that's the case
'youre cute lets go behind the gym shed and make out'
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34285253]just ask her some bullshit question to get her to start talking, and once she's started just keep the conversation going
everything she says can be turned into dozens of new conversation topics, and as long as you're being a relatively good listening you should have no problem coming up with something to say
keep in mind that she might just give you single word answers if she really doesn't want to talk to you, which is a bad sign
or you two might just really not click, but I doubt that's the case[/QUOTE]
An example of a bullshit question? :o
It's pretty easy to tell when the girl isn't in to you
[QUOTE=Flash;34286652]It's pretty easy to tell when the girl isn't in to you[/QUOTE]
Well i barely met her.. I won't jump to that conclusion just yet.
Your thinking to hard ...... Just be calm be cool. You will be fine ok get some sleep
If you share a class, start with something that's common between the two of you. An offhand comment about the topic of study, the teacher, the homework, an upcoming assignment, etc etc. Ideally say something that you actually care about so it doesn't come across as "hi ummm this is an excuse to talk to you which i thought really hard about" and also so that the conversation can flow on naturally from whatever you've said. This feels silly but I'll give you an example just so you can see how conversation works because you sound pretty crazy about something which is in reality, very easy and insignificant. Obviously don't use this.
"Hey, did you get that homework done?"
"I did actually, <whatever>"
"Yeah, how retarded was that last question. Can't wait for the weekend now though."
"I know right, and yeah same I'll be busy with <whatever>"
"Oh cool, I'm doing <whatever>, how long have you been <doing whatever I don't know she might say she's got some sport or work commitment but you get the idea>"
Just relax, stop getting so caught up in your head and enjoy the conversation, it'll flow if you let it.
Also go read the other thread's OP, and the previous ones if you haven't already. ^^
[QUOTE=Region;34285853]An example of a bullshit question? :o[/QUOTE]
"Your views on dinosaurs?"
"Favourite TV chef?"
[sp]these have actually worked for me before :v:[/sp]
So I have this problem where I lose all motivation to have sex with a girl if I find out I like her emotionally. Like at first I find her physically attractive, I feel like making the sex with her, we talk, I like her personality a lot, I no longer wish to have sex with her.
Like back when I was visiting Montreal with my friends for New Years, it was the night before New Years Eve.. we were out clubbing and this very pretty Iranian lady started dancing with me, I really wanted to take her back to the hotel for a one night stand, but she gives me her number and asks for me to call her tomorrow.
So I do, next day I invite her back to the hotel lobby for drinks, she comes in a sexy white dress, fucking love classy ladies, and we have some wine and it's a romantic date n everything, keeping in mind it's New Years Eve, around 6pm.. and she knew before giving me her number that I have a flight back to California the next day, so neither of us are here for a relationship if you know what I mean. We talked for a bit, I found that I liked her more and more, I took her up to the second floor of the hotel where it was a waiting hall for business conferences, that was empty. Only a piano and some chairs, I sat her down and started playing a bit for her(don't think she liked it though lol), and eventually invited her up to my room to do a drawing of her at her request after she found out I was an artist..
Upstairs I'm drawing her and as I'm doing so we converse even more and more, and it goes on for hours, the drawing was done ages ago but we're just sitting and talking.. And me at this point having lost the desire for physical relations with this girl, just sit there not making a move where she eventually gets a call and says she needs to go get ready for new years.. She thanks me for a great night and gives me a kiss and says to give her a call after New Years if I'm still up for some fun. She leaves, and I never ended up calling her.. Went to a strip club with my friends and that was the end of that.. She did add me on Facebook though.
Stuff like this happens all the time, even with my girlfriends that I've had, I never liked to make a move on them, they'd get pissed thinking I don't find them attractive or I'm gay or something, and I don't flirt with girls I like, so I always end up in really crappy relationships with girls I don't even like.
Anyone know what's up? or what's my problem?
sounds like you're friend zoning them rather than the other way around.
[editline]19th January 2012[/editline]
In other news I kept having dreams about my girlfriend, then I'd wake up and she wouldn't be there. Lame.
My dad and my girlfriend's mom think that I'm a 'player' for some reason. I'm 17 and have kissed a total of one girl, that being my girlfriend. I have a lot of friends that are girls, but it's not like I hang out with them nearly as much as her, so from anyone else's view I can't see how it would come off as me getting around. I think my dad has pretty much gotten past that view, but her mom is convinced that I have multiple girls on the side which, while it's funny, is also just stupid. Apparently she doesn't trust me anymore. It's not really a serious issue or anything. I just thought it was funny.
[QUOTE=Region;34284490]Sooo i like this girl in my PE class, said hi to her, AWKWARDLY AS FUCK. It was horrible. I think she knew i liked her, she probably did. She was baiting me to say she was cute. Like.. She looked in her phone and went: "I'm so ugly :(" Where i coulda said "No you're not you're cute" But i didn't because i was a nervous fucking wreck and im gonna stab myself in the balls. How the fuck do i get over being nervous? What the fuck do i talk about?
Is this good? what i'm gonna sya to her next?
"I'm sorry about last time being so awkward, I just never talk to girls, especially cute girls like you"
Would that be good or cheesy?
Did i blow it with her?? IM SO PISSED GOD[/QUOTE]
The details are irrelevant. Be more social, with random people. Awkward would soon become your norm, trust me.
Also, you didn't blow it.
[editline]19th January 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34290318]My dad and my girlfriend's mom think that I'm a 'player' for some reason. I'm 17 and have kissed a total of one girl, that being my girlfriend. I have a lot of friends that are girls, but it's not like I hang out with them nearly as much as her, so from anyone else's view I can't see how it would come off as me getting around. I think my dad has pretty much gotten past that view, but her mom is convinced that I have multiple girls on the side which, while it's funny, is also just stupid. Apparently she doesn't trust me anymore. It's not really a serious issue or anything. I just thought it was funny.[/QUOTE]
Ensure your mom you fuck them passionately and safely. You check for HIV every end of the month.
My ex gf.
[img]http://img220.imageshack.us/img220/9316/39256421936613701621506.jpg[/img]
I left her because she was a real leech, if she doesnt see me for a day, she will be totally dissapointed, so its hard to see my friends, and shes pretty weird sometime, i also remember when she knew that i smoked weed, she panicked and cryed.
I mean what the fuck?
Looks like a class A fucking weirdo.
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;34299300]Looks like a class A fucking weirdo.[/QUOTE]
[img]http://www.codinghorror.com/.a/6a0120a85dcdae970b01538e3ee72e970b-800wi[/img]
I'd bang her.
Does she cross the Vicky Mendoza diagonal?
hey for that girl that i was talking about, could i just be like
"you know what? I think you're cute, and would like to get to know you better, would you give me a number?"
or would that blow it? :v:
thats a good idea
maybe just ask her on a date as well instead of just asking for her number
Just ask her what her favorite color is and go from there.
[QUOTE=Region;34301105]hey for that girl that i was talking about, could i just be like
"you know what? I think you're cute, and would like to get to know you better, would you give me a number?"
or would that blow it? :v:[/QUOTE]
It could work and even if it doesn't, if you've managed to ball up enough to say that then you shouldn't have anything to worry about anyway. Realistically though, looking at the last post you wrote here, would you actually say anything like that to her?
Also I would suggest telling her to give you her number rather than asking for it (~alpha as fuck~). But even still I wouldn't come out with something as explicit as that especially with a girl I don't know at all. Just chat with her a bit dude, break the ice first, establish some rapport, then organize to meet up out of school.
Did you read my reply on the previous page btw?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;34301444]It could work and even if it doesn't, if you've managed to ball up enough to say that then you shouldn't have anything to worry about anyway. Realistically though, looking at the last post you wrote here, would you actually say anything like that to her?
Also I would suggest telling her to give you her number rather than asking for it (~alpha as fuck~). But even still I wouldn't come out with something as explicit as that especially with a girl I don't know at all. Just chat with her a bit dude, break the ice first, establish some rapport, then organize to meet up out of school.
Did you read my reply on the previous page btw?[/QUOTE]
Ya i read your reply :p
So tommorow ima say something like:
"Hey can i have your number? You're really cute and i'd like to get to know you..."
There ya go ! Now your thinking with your dipstick jimmy.
[QUOTE=Flash;34301916]There ya go ! Now your thinking with your dipstick jimmy.[/QUOTE]
:D
I got so many agrees and yet Ive never even had a first girlfriend or kiss. Ok ok . . Ill go back to my basement now.
Oh and for this:
"Hey can i have your number? You're really cute and i'd like to get to know you..."
If i only met her once in a previous awkward ass conversation i mentioned earlier. wouldn't i sound kinda desperate and even more beta?
Don't try and plan out the conversation too much.
[QUOTE=Region;34303715]Oh and for this:
"Hey can i have your number? You're really cute and i'd like to get to know you..."
If i only met her once in a previous awkward ass conversation i mentioned earlier. wouldn't i sound kinda desperate and even more beta?[/QUOTE]
If you feel you created enough attraction, next time keep doing so and ask for her number.
this is what you wrote: Hey can i have your number? You're really cute and i'd like to get to know you
how it looks in my eyes: Can I please have your number, I gave you two reasons to why you should give it to me please approve.
what it should look like (depends) : You seem interesting enough, give me your number
if she doesn't nevermind why, keep talking about something else and try creating interest again with her.. and ask for it again.
Just found out that the girl I was planning on asking out is a Junior, and I'm a Sophomore. It's weird considering I feel like I shouldn't have a problem, but now it seems so weird for me to ask her out. When if I was a Junior and I was dating a Sophomore I wouldn't have a problem at all? I don't understand why I this is throwing me off so much.
It shouldn't. Junior to Sophomore, that's only a one year difference yeah?
A friend of mine is (prepare for Scottish terminology) in 6th year at high school and the girl he his going out with is in 4th year, which I find pretty weird, but it really isn't at all.
[QUOTE='[CWG]RustySpannerz;34312903']6th year at high school[/QUOTE]
I've never heard of a super super senior before.
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