[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35789073]alright, uh, well let me stop you for a second there. you're a senior. let's assume you're 18. you're gonna be out of high school this is summer. you're gonna fuck a freshman? she's 14 or 15. that's kinda fucked. i mean, people do it, but just don't be that guy. nobody likes the senior (or in your case, high school graduate) who has sex with 15 year old children
plus, it just means you're that desperate[/QUOTE]
When he inevitably shits himself it wont matter though, because he'll be gone before she graduates
[editline]1st May 2012[/editline]
We all shat ourselves our first time right?
I started dating my ex when I was 17 and she was 14. We were together for nearly 3 years. Well at the end I was 19 and she was 17. That doesn't sound as bad in the end. But she was very mature and looked older, we looked good together.
It sounds bad at first but honestly most people thought she had the same age as me and I looked pretty young. It was fine.
All a matter of perspective. fast forward 5 years for both people and it doesn't matter at all.
Its still weird though, the senior banging the newbies.
It might be the same case like me, she might look older and be more mature. When I look at the newbies at my old school. They look grown-up and dress pretty mature (or like complete sluts).
their birthdays are probably about half a year apart
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;35789712]their birthdays are probably about half a year apart[/QUOTE]
This guy is a genius!
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;35789383]All a matter of perspective. fast forward 5 years for both people and it doesn't matter at all.
Its still weird though, the senior banging the newbies.[/QUOTE]
fasting forward five years doesnt make it better in the present. 23 and a 19 year old, that's fine, they're both physiologically on about the same level. 14/15 and 18 are not. just because your middle-aged parents are perhaps six years apart doesn't make it okay for a 20 year old to date a 14 year old. sure, i suppose it's a matter of perspective, but most people's perspectives see that as wrong
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35790212]fasting forward five years doesnt make it better in the present. 23 and a 19 year old, that's fine, they're both physiologically on about the same level. 14/15 and 18 are not. just because your middle-aged parents are perhaps six years apart doesn't make it okay for a 20 year old to date a 14 year old. sure, i suppose it's a matter of perspective, but most people's perspectives see that as wrong[/QUOTE]
Why yes, that is absolutely what I was saying, just worded better.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35790212]fasting forward five years doesnt make it better in the present. 23 and a 19 year old, that's fine, they're both physiologically on about the same level. 14/15 and 18 are not. just because your middle-aged parents are perhaps six years apart doesn't make it okay for a 20 year old to date a 14 year old. sure, i suppose it's a matter of perspective, but most people's perspectives see that as wrong[/QUOTE]
Yeah, once both people are at/over 20 the age difference doesn't matter as much. But mentally and emotionally there are huge gaps between the age ranges from 13 to 20.
Hey there Bropunch.
Never been in a relationship, nowhere close.
Now, I sit next to a girl in my science class, and we pretty much joke around the entire time, cracking jokes at the others expense and generally just being funny. I like this girl, she isn't stuck-up like most of the other girls in school. She is awkward in that good kind of way, that it is cute.
But, I do not know if she likes me back. I've mulled the idea of talking to one of her best friends, who has become my friend over the last two years, and having her "test" the waters for me.
What should I do?
Testing the waters means just kind of inconspicuously saying "Hey do you like -insert here- ?"
Just tell her, how you feel about her.
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35801808]Just tell her, how you feel about her.[/QUOTE]
No, ask her out.
Just ask if she wants to go out and get a coffee or something.
Well it seems as though I have been single for about seven months now. I'm in this mindset that I can't love anymore and I have yet to find a girl that interests me like my past ones. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm still in highschool, almost out of junior year.
Just don't know what to do anymore. I've pretty much given up trying...
test the waters?
tell her?
what the hell guys.
yeah listen to Lukeo, ask her out.
[editline]2nd May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=neutra;35801919]Well it seems as though I have been single for about seven months now. I'm in this mindset that I can't love anymore and I have yet to find a girl that interests me like my past ones. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm still in highschool, almost out of junior year.
Just don't know what to do anymore. I've pretty much given up trying...[/QUOTE]
don't worry that much, things will be different after you leave high-school and go off to college or some other work.
[QUOTE=neutra;35801919]Well it seems as though I have been single for about seven months now. I'm in this mindset that I can't love anymore and I have yet to find a girl that interests me like my past ones. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm still in highschool, almost out of junior year.
Just don't know what to do anymore. I've pretty much given up trying...[/QUOTE]
You're in highschool bro, relax. I was single for all except the last years of secondary school, did have chances but I was an awkward little bastard.
If you find a girl you like, talk to her a bit, ask her out on a date, but it's not the end of the world if that doesn't happen.
I've been single for almost 2 years (not counting a 2 month stint I had with one girl).
[QUOTE=BadderSanta;35801640]Hey there Bropunch.
Never been in a relationship, nowhere close.
Now, I sit next to a girl in my science class, and we pretty much joke around the entire time, cracking jokes at the others expense and generally just being funny. I like this girl, she isn't stuck-up like most of the other girls in school. She is awkward in that good kind of way, that it is cute.
But, I do not know if she likes me back. I've mulled the idea of talking to one of her best friends, who has become my friend over the last two years, and having her "test" the waters for me.
What should I do?
Testing the waters means just kind of inconspicuously saying "Hey do you like -insert here- ?"[/QUOTE]
Like Lukeo says just ask her out. It can be very difficult to do but trust me you will feel much better about yourself if you just do it! It is not that big a deal.
Have a slight problem, need help. I don't know when/how to kiss my girlfriend.
We've been dating for 2 weeks, and have spent the last 2 weekends together. I'm planning to go to her house this weekend for dinner. I've never really kissed a girl before (My first kiss was for like half a second) so I don't really know how to, like what to do with my lips, nor don't know when I should do it. I've been told to "wait for when the time is right," but I don't really know how to tell. I know she's kissed a few guys before me, and knows I never had a real first kiss and waiting for me to finally kiss her, but I've been having alot of trouble trying to look for this "right moment" as some people say.
Any advice?
just look at her, say "let's have a kiss", and stick your tongue in her mouth.
[QUOTE=OH-SNAP!;35802273]Have a slight problem, need help. I don't know when/how to kiss my girlfriend.
We've been dating for 2 weeks, and have spent the last 2 weekends together. I'm planning to go to her house this weekend for dinner. I've never really kissed a girl before (My first kiss was for like half a second) so I don't really know how to, like what to do with my lips, nor don't know when I should do it. I've been told to "wait for when the time is right," but I don't really know how to tell. I know she's kissed a few guys before me, and knows I never had a real first kiss and waiting for me to finally kiss her, but I've been having alot of trouble trying to look for this "right moment" as some people say.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]
When you talk/sit together and it's a bit quiet just go for it
Tighten your lips a bit when you're releasing your lips from hers
[QUOTE=neutra;35801919]. I'm in this mindset that I can't love anymore and I have yet to find a girl that interests me like my past ones. I'm not really sure what to do. I'm still in highschool, almost out of junior year.[/QUOTE]
first, you were almost certainly not in love in any of your past relationships
second, 7 months is not that huge of a deal, especially for a high schooler
third, there's no reason to stress out about not being able to find a girl when you're in junior year of high school
[editline]3rd May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=HeatPipe;35801808]Just tell her, how you feel about her.[/QUOTE]
no this is not good advice
what happened to this thread
[QUOTE=OH-SNAP!;35802273]Have a slight problem, need help. I don't know when/how to kiss my girlfriend.
We've been dating for 2 weeks, and have spent the last 2 weekends together. I'm planning to go to her house this weekend for dinner. I've never really kissed a girl before (My first kiss was for like half a second) so I don't really know how to, like what to do with my lips, nor don't know when I should do it. I've been told to "wait for when the time is right," but I don't really know how to tell. I know she's kissed a few guys before me, and knows I never had a real first kiss and waiting for me to finally kiss her, but I've been having alot of trouble trying to look for this "right moment" as some people say.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]
The moment doesn't need to be perfect, just a nice moment, the kiss will make it special.
[QUOTE=OH-SNAP!;35802273]Have a slight problem, need help. I don't know when/how to kiss my girlfriend.
We've been dating for 2 weeks, and have spent the last 2 weekends together. I'm planning to go to her house this weekend for dinner. I've never really kissed a girl before (My first kiss was for like half a second) so I don't really know how to, like what to do with my lips, nor don't know when I should do it. I've been told to "wait for when the time is right," but I don't really know how to tell. I know she's kissed a few guys before me, and knows I never had a real first kiss and waiting for me to finally kiss her, but I've been having alot of trouble trying to look for this "right moment" as some people say.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]
you're not comfortable enough with her yet. it'll come with time, don't worry.
if you feel like you want to practice, start kissing her goodbye. then when the time comes for a ~passionate kiss~ you'll at least know how to get started. the rest is pretty much instinct, you'll just know what to do.
[QUOTE=BadderSanta;35801640]Hey there Bropunch.
Never been in a relationship, nowhere close.
Now, I sit next to a girl in my science class, and we pretty much joke around the entire time, cracking jokes at the others expense and generally just being funny. I like this girl, she isn't stuck-up like most of the other girls in school. She is awkward in that good kind of way, that it is cute.
But, I do not know if she likes me back. I've mulled the idea of talking to one of her best friends, who has become my friend over the last two years, and having her "test" the waters for me.
What should I do?
Testing the waters means just kind of inconspicuously saying "Hey do you like -insert here- ?"[/QUOTE]
"Hey, wanna get lunch/coffee/catch a movie/something that implies that you and I will be doing something together"
[QUOTE=OH-SNAP!;35802273]Have a slight problem, need help. I don't know when/how to kiss my girlfriend.
We've been dating for 2 weeks, and have spent the last 2 weekends together. I'm planning to go to her house this weekend for dinner. I've never really kissed a girl before (My first kiss was for like half a second) so I don't really know how to, like what to do with my lips, nor don't know when I should do it. I've been told to "wait for when the time is right," but I don't really know how to tell. I know she's kissed a few guys before me, and knows I never had a real first kiss and waiting for me to finally kiss her, but I've been having alot of trouble trying to look for this "right moment" as some people say.
Any advice?[/QUOTE]
It really is all situational, bro.
Like, if y'all just gazing wanderlust into the eyes, move in and see how she reacts.
I think i'm in love, I have never felt this way about anyone before and this has really changed my life around, I don't really have anything to ask but I just want to try to spread my joy, this feeling is amazing.
[QUOTE=Charlievrw;35804257]I think i'm in love, I have never felt this way about anyone before and this has really changed my life around, I don't really have anything to ask but I just want to try to spread my joy, this feeling is amazing.[/QUOTE]
happens to everyone
don't worry you'll get over it
Girlfiriends Freaking out Can condoms fail and shit and cause pregnancy even with proper usage if so rates just so i can comfort her
[QUOTE=SaWAH;35804686]happens to everyone
don't worry you'll get over it[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you sound like love is a disease :v:
How is your pregnancy going on if I may ask?
[QUOTE=Lexinator;35805762]Girlfiriends Freaking out Can condoms fail and shit and cause pregnancy even with proper usage if so rates just so i can comfort her[/QUOTE]
Everything can fail, you can never have complete control or guarantee about anything in life.
I asked a girl from my course out a while ago because we seemed to be getting on well. So we went out for drinks and it was more friendly then anything, didn't really feel a "spark", not to be cliche'd, so i left it.
Did i do the right thing or should i have gone on a few more dates before i made up my mind? I've just got next to no money so it was kind of a gamble.
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