[QUOTE=Vedicardi;35819870]this thread is just as stupid as I thought it would be[/QUOTE]
This is the much less serious thread of the two "relationship" threads, for lack of a better way to describe them. It has been that way for a LOOOOONG time. If you want a more serious discussion, head to the [URL="http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1160400"]The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice[/URL]
So I've got this small problem, not a problem per se. But an annoyance. Everytime during sex, the first time I finish is after almost no time. Literally everytime is around the same. The first time is always the fastest, and the bad part is that I'm never as hard as the first time... I thought after I got used to having sex I would start to build some stamina. But it feels just as amazing everytime and I finish really fucking fast and it's hard to STOP it. I never leave the girl unsatisfied I just wish I could fucking use my dick when it can make the girl feel the best, but no, I've gotta jizz. I don't even think there is a solution. I've tried changing positions, holding my dick to stop it, doing whatever the fuck I can.
It just hit me that I haven't gotten laid in almost a year.
This needs to change.
[QUOTE=Kite_shugo;35822614]So I've got this small problem, not a problem per se. But an annoyance. Everytime during sex, the first time I finish is after almost no time. Literally everytime is around the same. The first time is always the fastest, and the bad part is that I'm never as hard as the first time... I thought after I got used to having sex I would start to build some stamina. But it feels just as amazing everytime and I finish really fucking fast and it's hard to STOP it. I never leave the girl unsatisfied I just wish I could fucking use my dick when it can make the girl feel the best, but no, I've gotta jizz. I don't even think there is a solution. I've tried changing positions, holding my dick to stop it, doing whatever the fuck I can.[/QUOTE]
Sex god method. download it, I am not kidding.
I would elaborate myself, but atm too busy. tomorrow :)
[QUOTE=articpenguin;35822665]It just hit me that I haven't gotten laid in almost a year.
This needs to change.[/QUOTE]
Please. It's been three years since I lost my v-card, which is the one and only time I've ever had sex.
[sp]It sucked[/sp]
[sp]Might have sex with my current girlfriend this weekend though, woohoo![/sp]
[QUOTE=junker|154;35805922]Yeah, you sound like love is a disease :v:
How is your pregnancy going on if I may ask?[/QUOTE]
great, i'm not pregnant anymore
Facepunch, I need advice.
I like this chick in my high school, and she likes me, but there is a problem(like always).
Next year, the chick is going to a different high school(although she'll still be in the same town).
If I ask her out, I just feel like I'll have to break up with her before the summer(which is in like a month).
What do.
if she's still in the same town, why would you need to break up? you don't have to see her all day every day, it's okay if she's going to a different high school. it'll let you two have a break from each other, too.
[QUOTE=Lord Derp;35829661]Facepunch, I need advice.
I like this chick in my high school, and she likes me, but there is a problem(like always).
Next year, the chick is going to a different high school(although she'll still be in the same town).
If I ask her out, I just feel like I'll have to break up with her before the summer(which is in like a month).
What do.[/QUOTE]
You'e in highschool, you have all the free time in the world to see her outside of school. Changing schools may make the situation harder to deal with at first, but you'll soon realize that it's not much of a difference in the long run. Sure, you won't be able to spend time with her during class or lunch, but you should be spending most of your time with her outside of the schoolyard anyways. You'll be getting a taste of the real world a bit sooner than your friends with a relationship extending outside of a single confined space.
Yeah, breaks are always good. My girlfriend goes to the same school and we spend most of our time together. So much that I haven't gotten much quality time with my friends, but I feel bad leaving her alone because she doesn't fit in with any of the groups of kids and doesn't have any true friends anymore because they all either back stabbed her or just hang with her to try and get rides from me or easy answers from her :/
[editline]4th May 2012[/editline]
Highschool sucks.
[QUOTE=highvoltage;35829874]
[editline]4th May 2012[/editline]
Highschool sucks.[/QUOTE]
agreed.
Thanks for all the advice guys! :smile:
[QUOTE=highvoltage;35829874]Yeah, breaks are always good. My girlfriend goes to the same school and we spend most of our time together. So much that I haven't gotten much quality time with my friends, but I feel bad leaving her alone because she doesn't fit in with any of the groups of kids and doesn't have any true friends anymore because they all either back stabbed her or just hang with her to try and get rides from me or easy answers from her :/
[editline]4th May 2012[/editline]
Highschool sucks.[/QUOTE]
My girl goes to a different school than me and surprisingly it really isn't bad. We talk at least a little bit over the phone every day or every other day and see each other every weekend. It works out pretty well.
She actually just left my house. Tomorrow I'm going with her and her cousin to a book sale in Richmond, then a Skynyrd concert, and a cook out on Sunday. High school does not suck for me, not at this moment at least haha.
So, something occurred! After we saw a play, my now-ex (sort of?) started breaking down about how stressful her life was. She eventually said that she couldn't be a good girl friend anymore, I was too good for her, and how she was a terrible girlfriend and we needed to take a break.
We'll be talking more tomorrow to actually mutually agree to what we will be doing (Still in a casual relationship? Breaking up for good? etc.) I'm surprisingly not really that disappointed or "heartbroken" like many friends were when this sort of thing occurred.
I've never been in a relationship before, and the tail end is a new experience. Any advice?
[QUOTE=Chezhead;35830534]So, something occurred! After we saw a play, my now-ex (sort of?) started breaking down about how stressful her life was. She eventually said that she couldn't be a good girl friend anymore, I was too good for her, and how she was a terrible girlfriend and we needed to take a break.
We'll be talking more tomorrow to actually mutually agree to what we will be doing (Still in a casual relationship? Breaking up for good? etc.) I'm surprisingly not really that disappointed or "heartbroken" like many friends were when this sort of thing occurred.
I've never been in a relationship before, and the tail end is a new experience. Any advice?[/QUOTE]
Well you're gonna learn from it so you can always be grateful in that if it does get you down. Wish you the best mate.
[QUOTE=Teal Moose;35830571]Well you're gonna learn from it so you can always be grateful in that if it does get you down. Wish you the best mate.[/QUOTE]
Thanks. She just texted me and said of the current situation that it was a "not technically in a relationship but possibly in the future."
"I can't handle life and I don't know if it's the fact that I'm overwhelmed or just a douche that stopped liking a great boyfriend"
Well, this puts me in a strange position. I can't really move forward onto future relationships without looking like a jerk. (Basically, waiting until she figures out her life.)
[QUOTE=Chezhead;35830659]Thanks. She just texted me and said of the current situation that it was a "not technically in a relationship but possibly in the future."
"I can't handle life and I don't know if it's the fact that I'm overwhelmed or just a douche that stopped liking a great boyfriend"
Well, this puts me in a strange position. I can't really move forward onto future relationships without looking like a jerk. (Basically, waiting until she figures out her life.)[/QUOTE]
Nah man I honestly wouldn't worry. You said this is your first serious relationship? You'll make it out alright man. The only practical advice I can give you here is don't get more involved than you need to. Sounds like she needs space right now. You can never solve it for her. If it goes on too long, you might just have to let it go. It isn't worth the time to be tied down in something that won't go anywhere. I really don't think you're going to be seen as an asshole.
If she drags this shit on just break up with her. A good girlfriend is one who would never "need space" or "time to think about things" unless you were abusing her or were permanatly moving across the country.
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35831103]If she drags this shit on just break up with her. A good girlfriend is one who would never "need space" or "time to think about things" unless you were abusing her or were permanatly moving across the country.[/QUOTE]
If he were abusing her and she said she needed space or time to think, then she's not a good girlfriend, she's a fucking idiot. Not that that's the case.
I didnt really read it all anyways
Im sorry
[QUOTE=Chezhead;35830659](Basically, waiting until she figures out her life.)[/QUOTE]
Don't. I've had friends do this and they've gotten fucked over more time then they can count. Don't let her problems hold you back and literally control your happiness. You don't need to be held down by one person.
Is it possible that me and my girlfriend are too clingy
we are always wanting to see each other, when we are with each other always holding hands, hugging, etc. Except if we have to do something (eat, go to the toilet, etc) we are always as close as possible.
We are always saying thing like "i cant wait to see you again" as soon as she has to go, i have to go etc. I have no problems with this, but i am just asking, is this normal?
[QUOTE=Lord Derp;35829661]Facepunch, I need advice.
I like this chick in my high school, and she likes me, but there is a problem(like always).
Next year, the chick is going to a different high school(although she'll still be in the same town).
If I ask her out, I just feel like I'll have to break up with her before the summer(which is in like a month).
What do.[/QUOTE]
ask her out anyway, im in highschool, my girlfriend lives on the other side of the city, about an hours bus and train trip there.
We still manage to hang out allot
[QUOTE=WingedAssailant;35834664]Is it possible that me and my girlfriend are too clingy
we are always wanting to see each other, when we are with each other always holding hands, hugging, etc. Except if we have to do something (eat, go to the toilet, etc) we are always as close as possible.
We are always saying thing like "i cant wait to see you again" as soon as she has to go, i have to go etc. I have no problems with this, but i am just asking, is this normal?[/QUOTE]
How long have you been together? That sounds rather normal in any relationship which is new. It calms down at some point, but there is nothing wrong with that if you aren't disturbing anyone else with your behavior.
[QUOTE=Inufin;35834952]How long have you been together? That sounds rather normal in any relationship which is new. It calms down at some point, but there is nothing wrong with that if you aren't disturbing anyone else with your behavior.[/QUOTE]
nearly 3 weeks
it's not abnormal, but it is really silly and you should try to see that sooner rather than later. saying "i cant wait to see you again" minutes after she left when you'll probably see her the next day? i dont like using my own relationship as an example, but just for some perspective, i've been dating my girlfriend for coming up on 11 months, only two of which have i actually been in the same state and able to see her. hopefully you can understand how very, very infatuated you are to act like that constantly.
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Just go on a date with her, make your own opinion.
Yeah, it's normal to be looking forward to see her again.
You sound like the average couple, which really isn't too bad.
[QUOTE=articpenguin;35831353]Don't. I've had friends do this and they've gotten fucked over more time then they can count. Don't let her problems hold you back and literally control your happiness. You don't need to be held down by one person.[/QUOTE]
That's what I was worried about. I'm also not sure if she really needs to "take control of her life", or the excessive compliments and "I'm sorry"'s are just excuses, being an overly polite way of breaking up.
Anyways, I'll move on with my life. I'm not terribly upset by this, but going from having a great night at a play, and breaking up twenty minutes later, it was a bit stressful.
[QUOTE=FlakAttack;35820925]This is the much less serious thread of the two "relationship" threads, for lack of a better way to describe them. It has been that way for a LOOOOONG time. If you want a more serious discussion, head to the [URL="http://www.facepunch.com/threads/1160400"]The Super Friendly Social and Love Advice[/URL][/QUOTE]
that's why I said it is as stupid as I expected it to be
ok
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