Found the other thread, posting there instead (snip)
SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35840480]SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
"Friend"? Sounds like a cunt to me.
I realize that now
Just got back from my girlfriends, stayed with her for a few days.
I agreed that if we can keep the house tidy when we move in together we can get a cat.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
Also she's letting me go to Fabric on the 18th even though it'd be our year together.
Lovely. School ends memorial day weekend, so we'd finally be able to start hanging out. Well I'll be in Oklahoma that weekend. -adds another week to the waiting list-
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35840480]SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
Seriously? What a bitch, good riddance for you.
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35840480]SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
some people just don't seem to understand bros before hoes; it really does sadden me.
I've been interested in this girl since the summer of last year. She is the friend of my ex girlfriend. Ex girlfriend was kind of a nut case and I got along more with her friend then her and I started talking to her a few months after we broke up.
First problem is she lives an hour south of me so I see her whenever I get the chance. I'm really happy when I'm around her. She's smart, has a great sense of humor, and has an amazing personality overall. Not to mention her curves and long red hair just add to her beauty.
I like her a lot but I can never really say anything around her because I'm afraid of fucking up. Fucking up in the sense of we're good friends now and if I decide to ask her out it might make the friendship very awkward or give her the "not hinting at any intentions so I'll act this way". I went to visit her and was planning on asking her out that night at her apartment but she ended up having guests come over to drink. That went bad and some of the guests had gotten into a fight and trashed her apartment. I kicked them all out and she was crying in her bathroom and I tried cheering her up by watching Juno and eating ice cream with her until she passed out. I carried her to bed and left the next morning. So my night of "going to ask her out" ended up dealing with a bunch of shit heads.
Plus I'm pretty sure she's friend-zoned me. Usually ending texts with "-----, friend" and not really being all too interested in me unlike she was when we started talking to each other.
I really don't know what to do and it really kicks my ass when I tell myself I need to move on and not bother with her.
girlfriends are one thing, exes are different, depending on how long ago they were broken up
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35840480]SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
DTMFA
Yeah I dropped it, she tried to talk to me again "I was confused, I was looking for the love that you didn't supply to me"
Um.
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35844138] "I was confused, I was looking for the love that you didn't supply to me" [/QUOTE]
Leprosy?
[QUOTE=poopiecrap;35840480]SO. Girlfriend of 5 months breaks up with me, regrets it, wants to try again, cheats on me with friend same day.
Shit.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like a person who couldn't get what they wanted, so they went for the next best thing. You should feel complimented.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Bobie;35842213]some people just don't seem to understand bros before hoes; it really does sadden me.[/QUOTE]
For some, who usually don't have hoes around, bros suddenly don't seem like much.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35843400]i seriously do not get friends that would think about sleeping with a bro's girlfriend or even ex. you just don't do that[/QUOTE]
You are such a saint. Seriously, you should become a priest.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35844848]should've explained her that love isn't a synonym for penis[/QUOTE]
I bet that would make such a difference.
Today is my 5 year anniversary with my girlfriend. I can't believe it's been this long. Got her a Kindle Fire.
Is it wrong that we still don't want to get married yet? We do want to get married but not for another 2-3 years.
Reading some of the stories in this thread made me really sad.
nope we're not keen on getting married either
dunno why, just sounds off putting
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35846061]i'm going to assume that wasn't sarcasm and ask you this: why am i a saint? isn't it simple good manners to not fuck your goddamned friend's girlfriend? hell, even an ex just would make stuff awkward, at least ask a brother[/QUOTE]
It was naive, that's why I called you a saint. "I seriously don't get....." as in, "I would never have done that, even with someone aiming a gun at me" and as if you have somehow grown out of the common needs of human and transcended into being an actual "saint". As if you never made a mistake before.
You can't judge a person, even if that logic is the most sound thing on Earth to do. We are complex creatures that are driven by a lot of factors besides logic, so to claim you don't get something so simple... is basically saying you are a saint - someone who's not pestered by basic human emotions and lust. A demigod
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35846071]don't get married. there are no upsides, besides costing you a fuckton of money it doesn't even imply a step forward in your relationship. if you truly love each other you don't need to promise your eternal love before the church[/QUOTE]
I think most people are trying to promise their eternal loves to themselves, not church.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35846184]yes, realizing that a woman is attached to a friend and opting not to seduce her is definitely saint-like and worthy of a nobel peace prize[/QUOTE]
I think not realizing people make mistakes even though that logic exists in their minds, is a saint-like and worthy of a nobel peace prize.
[QUOTE=Bobie;35842213]some people just don't seem to understand bros before hoes; it really does sadden me.[/QUOTE]
Fuck bro's before hoes.
Make it clear to your friends that if they don't make a move quickly on a girl you mutually like, that you're going to go for it anyway.
If you always make it clear that that's how you roll, you'll never get into any dumb situation where you have to turn a girl you like down for some dumb shit 'rule' that is pretty immature in the first place.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35846071]don't get married. there are no upsides, besides costing you a fuckton of money it doesn't even imply a step forward in your relationship. if you truly love each other you don't need to promise your eternal love before the church[/QUOTE]
there's plenty of upsides like tax breaks and better legal protection
[QUOTE=Seith;35846216]I think not realizing people make mistakes even though that logic exists in their minds, is a saint-like and worthy of a nobel peace prize.[/QUOTE]
[I]Note: English is not my first language and trying to understand what you mean to me is like solving hieroglyphs without the Rosetta Stone.[/I]
Making mistakes? You make it sound like the choices of humans depend on planet alignment? It doesn't require much to consider what an act like sleeping with a friend's girlfriend/ex-girlfriend might cause.
[QUOTE=SCopE5000;35847402]Fuck bro's before hoes.
Make it clear to your friends that if they don't make a move quickly on a girl you mutually like, that you're going to go for it anyway.
If you always make it clear that that's how you roll, you'll never get into any dumb situation where you have to turn a girl you like down for some dumb shit 'rule' that is pretty immature in the first place.[/QUOTE]
Fully agree.
My bros and I have even sworn not dating anyone who has been with another pro, beside of some exception or mutual consent.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;35847922][I]Note: English is not my first language and trying to understand what you mean to me is like solving hieroglyphs without the Rosetta Stone.[/I]
Making mistakes? You make it sound like the choices of humans depend on planet alignment? It doesn't require much to consider what an act like sleeping with a friend's girlfriend/ex-girlfriend might cause.[/QUOTE]
Correct, it doesn't require much, but to completely deny the possibility of it happening to you is to deny you are human. Nobody's a saint and everyone makes mistakes.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35846358]people cheat, i get it, i'm just not getting banging your FRIEND's girlfriend. note i am using friend as in real friend, not acquantaince, you see this dude on a daily basis, you hang out, you are generally bros. finding out my girlfriend slept around with a friend of mine would hurt me a hundred times more.[/QUOTE]
You see, even though this [b]logic[/b] is common sense for everyone, you hear about this kinds of stuff happening over and over again. Why is that? Because common sense and logic can easily be bypassed because we are humans who are also driven by deep emotions, primal ones.
Lust can blind a man. So to say you don't understand it.... To me, is like saying you are some sort of saint.
Seith I think you are going a bit deep into this.
The girl could just pull herself together and have some self-control if she has a sense of morality. People make mistakes yes, but that is just an bitch move of her.
[QUOTE=Seith;35848418]Correct, it doesn't require much, but to completely deny the possibility of it happening to you is to deny you are human. Nobody's a saint and everyone makes mistakes.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
You see, even though this [b]logic[/b] is common sense for everyone, you hear about this kinds of stuff happening over and over again. Why is that? Because common sense and logic can easily be bypassed because we are humans who are also driven by deep emotions, primal ones.
Lust can blind a man. So to say you don't understand it.... To me, is like saying you are some sort of saint.[/QUOTE]
you're essentially saying you can't blame the person for doing something to hurt you or other people because it's part of their human nature and thus isn't their fault. darn, i never thought of it that way, seith. perhaps we should let some of those murderers out of prison; after all, it was a crime of passion, right? human nature? they couldn't control it, they made a mistake because of it. not really their fault.
wait, no, that's the whole point of this argument. whether or not it's human nature, people can exercise self-control, so you have the right to get mad at those who don't.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
more pseudo-psychology from seith, whatafuckingsurprise #sodeep
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;35851747]you're essentially saying you can't blame the person for doing something to hurt you or other people because it's part of their human nature and thus isn't their fault. darn, i never thought of it that way, seith. perhaps we should let some of those murderers out of prison; after all, it was a crime of passion, right? human nature? they couldn't control it, they made a mistake because of it. not really their fault.
wait, no, that's the whole point of this argument. whether or not it's human nature, people can exercise self-control, so you have the right to get mad at those who don't.
[editline]6th May 2012[/editline]
more pseudo-psychology from seith, whatafuckingsurprise #sodeep[/QUOTE]
No, that's what you assumed. What I am saying, is that there's no point in getting angry at them. I am not condoning this behavior as acceptable, but rationalizing this behavior.
People can exercise self-control, and you could the same... or rather you get emotional every time this happens to the people around you and possibly to you?
got back together with my ex, guess it did work out anyway lol :V
shes a keeper and she thinks the same, real mature girl.
fuck me this shit came in fast :V
[QUOTE=Seith;35852688]No, that's what you assumed. What I am saying, is that there's no point in getting angry at them. I am not condoning this behavior as acceptable, but rationalizing this behavior.
People can exercise self-control, and you could the same... or rather you get emotional every time this happens to the people around you and possibly to you?[/QUOTE]
no, there is completely a point in getting angry at them. people are shaped by two things: their genetics and their environment. perhaps you expressing your anger with them and even stopping talking to them will help them to not make the same mistake in the future and hurting someone else. that's the entire reason for disciplinary actions for anything in life.
-cantaloupe-
This girl I'm texting just spelled ungenuine as "ungenuen"
I thought she was speaking chinese lol
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