Ok so there's this girl I used to know in grade 9, I thought she was beautiful and I got her some flowers on valentines and it never went further than that cause I was shy, anyhow. I never had any idea of how she felt about me and I never got any confirmation on what she thought of the situation so I didn't think it was going anywhere.
But every few months or so this girl always pops up on whatever social network site I'm trying out at the time and she's always really friendly and seems to want to talk and shit but whenever we do it just winds up being like a small talk conversation that lasts like 6 minutes.
So what should I make of this? I haven't seen this girl in person for like 6 years, but she always pops up wanting to talk to me a lot. Might be worth noting, she lives in a different province than me now so hooking up isn't an option, but she knows that I like her cause of the flower shit.
[QUOTE=Cureless;35931503]Ok so there's this girl I used to know in grade 9, I thought she was beautiful and I got her some flowers on valentines and it never went further than that cause I was shy, anyhow. I never had any idea of how she felt about me and I never got any confirmation on what she thought of the situation so I didn't think it was going anywhere.
But every few months or so this girl always pops up on whatever social network site I'm trying out at the time and she's always really friendly and seems to want to talk and shit but whenever we do it just winds up being like a small talk conversation that lasts like 6 minutes.
So what should I make of this? I haven't seen this girl in person for like 6 years, but she always pops up wanting to talk to me a lot. Might be worth noting, she lives in a different province than me now so hooking up isn't an option, but she knows that I like her cause of the flower shit.[/QUOTE]
Okay it depends on a few things. Considering she lives in another province and all, do you ever think if things heated up between you too, you could possibly end up moving to where she lives or vice versa? Also depends on your age because if you're young, that's obviously not an option.
If she's going to be living there for the rest of her life, and you're living in your province.. There isn't really a point in getting close. You could always have a long term relationship but that might end up with heartbreak and shit. It's up to you dude.
[QUOTE=Kel|oggs;35910276]17, never had a real GF, never had sex. Should I be concerned?
[editline]10th May 2012[/editline]
I think I should be, but idk, that's just me.[/QUOTE]
Maybe to late but i turn 17 in some days and I just got a girlfriend, which meanssex at least 2 times a day(for me and count out periods) so there is hope
yes because the first and most important thing in any relationship is fucking.
[editline]13th May 2012[/editline]
me and my girlfriend didn't even mention sex until 6 months in
well guys, I've always sucked with girls. The two times my love was corresponded i was a fucking idiot so i didn't do anything, like...because iam shy and you know, that kind of stuff that stops you from doing things that take some courage.
now, im 17, never kissed or had a girlfriend...i mean, i holded hands and told the girls i loved them getting good feedback, but that and nothing more.
Now, i really like this girl...but im sure she doesn't like me. Recently i had lunch with her and she was so shy i felt like i was talking to myself...she says so many things so low...like for herself, but its on purpose...and i don't really have any idea why shes like that, shes beautiful and almost all the time its because they feel ugly and similar things
which steps should i take now? she does have some guys around her...but they are all like just joking with her..i though maybe she needed someone with clear intentions...so i though maybe i should ask her out? i don't know....fuck.
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[editline]12th May 2012[/editline]
Not looking for a reply just ventilating.
[editline]12th May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=autodesknoob;35933263]well guys, I've always sucked with girls. The two times my love was corresponded i was a fucking idiot so i didn't do anything, like...because iam shy and you know, that kind of stuff that stops you from doing things that take some courage.
now, im 17, never kissed or had a girlfriend...i mean, i holded hands and told the girls i loved them getting good feedback, but that and nothing more.
Now, i really like this girl...but im sure she doesn't like me. Recently i had lunch with her and she was so shy i felt like i was talking to myself...she says so many things so low...like for herself, but its on purpose...and i don't really have any idea why shes like that, shes beautiful and almost all the time its because they feel ugly and similar things...heres a pic
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which steps should i take now? she does have some guys around her...but they are all like just joking with her..i though maybe she needed someone with clear intentions...so i though maybe i should ask her out? i don't know....fuck.[/QUOTE]
Why do you like her so much if you went on lunch date with her and she barely spoke?
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;35933476]-snip wrong thread-
[editline]12th May 2012[/editline]
Not looking for a reply just ventilating.
[editline]12th May 2012[/editline]
Why do you like her so much if you went on lunch date with her and she barely spoke?[/QUOTE]
i know her since like 4 years, shes a very kind person, not like the others...shes special in her way.
i just started talking to her like these 2 weeks? because now i had an excuse, we are in the same selling group (in our classes we have selling groups to get money for the final classroom trip).
[QUOTE=Doozle;35928551]tell her to fondle your balls while she's doing it
I love that.
[editline]12th May 2012[/editline]
and maybe look up at you every so often, I dunno if that's weird but I like that as well[/QUOTE]
That isn't weird at all, tbh. It's sexy
Whoo! Got FZ'ed by steampunk girl. Man that feels great.
H'oh wait no it doesn't.
Oh well, moving on.
[QUOTE=autodesknoob;35933263]well guys, I've always sucked with girls. The two times my love was corresponded i was a fucking idiot so i didn't do anything, like...because iam shy and you know, that kind of stuff that stops you from doing things that take some courage.
now, im 17, never kissed or had a girlfriend...i mean, i holded hands and told the girls i loved them getting good feedback, but that and nothing more.
Now, i really like this girl...but im sure she doesn't like me. Recently i had lunch with her and she was so shy i felt like i was talking to myself...she says so many things so low...like for herself, but its on purpose...and i don't really have any idea why shes like that, shes beautiful and almost all the time its because they feel ugly and similar things
which steps should i take now? she does have some guys around her...but they are all like just joking with her..i though maybe she needed someone with clear intentions...so i though maybe i should ask her out? i don't know....fuck.[/QUOTE]
Don't be awkward and ask her out if you don't know her well enough or if you two aren't good friends yet. If she's shy then get to know her better and make her see that she doesn't need to be shy around you, but asking her out all of a sudden might scare her off or just make this really uncomfortable for her at first. I would say try to hang out with her more, don't be like "hey wanna go out with me" or something blunt like that. Ask her if you guys wanna go see a movie or something and be casual about it and then afterwards go out to get something to drink or ice cream or something and walk around and talk, i find that sitting down and eating usually just results in more awkwardness. Walking around and talking feels more natural to me at least. You just need to be open with her and see if you get any response.
This actually happened to me a few months ago when me and this girl randomly started talking and we found out we've got a ton of stuff in common and all that and we hung out and whatnot a lot and I think we both sort of thought we would go out but then we just ended up deciding against it and now we're like best friends. It's weird how things end up sometimes.
[QUOTE=Lilyo;35935419]Don't be awkward and ask her out if you don't know her well enough or if you two aren't good friends yet. If she's shy then get to know her better and make her see that she doesn't need to be shy around you, but asking her out all of a sudden might scare her off or just make this really uncomfortable for her at first. I would say try to hang out with her more, don't be like "hey wanna go out with me" or something blunt like that. Ask her if you guys wanna go see a movie or something and be casual about it and then afterwards go out to get something to drink or ice cream or something and walk around and talk, i find that sitting down and eating usually just results in more awkwardness. Walking around and talking feels more natural to me at least. You just need to be open with her and see if you get any response.
This actually happened to me a few months ago when me and this girl randomly started talking and we found out we've got a ton of stuff in common and all that and we hung out and whatnot a lot and I think we both sort of thought we would go out but then we just ended up deciding against it and now we're like best friends. It's weird how things end up sometimes.[/QUOTE]
asking someone out isn't asking "hey will you be my girlfriend?," it's exactly what you said, going to the movies or whatever else, with romantic connotations. obviously you're not going to ask someone if they want to be your girlfriend, this isn't 5th grade (hopefully). it shouldn't really matter if they're extra shy or extremely outgoing, it all works the same. get a conversation going and ask them out somewhere during it. as is in the op, "wanna go out with me to X on Y?"
Tried introducing my girlfriend to Portal, I went away for a few minutes to find her not even having moved the mouse and texting her friends. Rather annoying when she doesn't even bother to try anything in a area she doesn't know :/
Rather annoying? does it bother you or not?
[QUOTE=Seith;35939735]Rather annoying? does it bother you or not?[/QUOTE]
I'd say it's rather bothering to him yes
[QUOTE=Dominic0904;35939687]Tried introducing my girlfriend to Portal, I went away for a few minutes to find her not even having moved the mouse and texting her friends. Rather annoying when she doesn't even bother to try anything in a area she doesn't know :/[/QUOTE]
so maybe it's just of absolutely no interest to her. don't let it annoy you, everybody likes different things.
[editline]13th May 2012[/editline]
an ex of mine a long time ago tried introducing me to warhammer. i had no interest in it whatsoever, but i enjoyed painting the models, so that became our mutual point of interest.
[QUOTE=Dominic0904;35939687]Tried introducing my girlfriend to Portal, I went away for a few minutes to find her not even having moved the mouse and texting her friends. Rather annoying when she doesn't even bother to try anything in a area she doesn't know :/[/QUOTE]
maybe it's not her joint, but it's a bit rude to just not even tell you/try
[QUOTE=Dominic0904;35939687]Tried introducing my girlfriend to Portal, I went away for a few minutes to find her not even having moved the mouse and texting her friends. Rather annoying when she doesn't even bother to try anything in a area she doesn't know :/[/QUOTE]
I don't know what your girlfriend is like but try introducing a competitive element.
Granted she probably won't be bunny-hopping through the levels, but she may be interested if it's seen as a challenge.
So 2 years ago I introduced a female friend to my best friend while I was still together with my ex. we broke up a year ago and they stayed together up until recently. I always had a thing for her and now that they broke up I thought I'd give her some time see if I've got a chance on her but I have no idea on how my friend will react on this.
Suggestions?
[QUOTE=Clunj;35940725]I don't know what your girlfriend is like but try introducing a competitive element.
Granted she probably won't be bunny-hopping through the levels, but she may be interested if it's seen as a challenge.[/QUOTE]
Well she plays Mario Kart at her house from time to time, it's just the whole part that she didn't even bother to try something new that annoyed me a tad. It's like if she asked me to try something she enjoyed and I just played on my phone instead of doing it, she'd be annoyed as well.
Oh well, just a minor annoyance. She's lovely, complete opposite to me (example, she listens to The Wanted and I listen to Metallica) but lovely. Opposites attract I suppose aha.
[QUOTE=Dominic0904;35941350]She's lovely, complete opposite to me (example, she listens to The Wanted and I listen to Metallica)[/QUOTE]
my girlfriend listens to christian rock
your move, facepunch users
[QUOTE=Radley;35940909]So 2 years ago I introduced a female friend to my best friend while I was still together with my ex. we broke up a year ago and they stayed together up until recently. I always had a thing for her and now that they broke up I thought I'd give her some time see if I've got a chance on her but I have no idea on how my friend will react on this.
Suggestions?[/QUOTE]
Don't do it, if you want it so badly then ask your friend about it. Do not fuck a bro in the ass.
[QUOTE=Dominic0904;35939687]Tried introducing my girlfriend to Portal, I went away for a few minutes to find her not even having moved the mouse and texting her friends. Rather annoying when she doesn't even bother to try anything in a area she doesn't know :/[/QUOTE]
I was thinking about pulling off something rather clever with this one highly potential future girlfriend.
Well she ain't much into videogames, but I was concidering buying The Walking Dead - Game and invite her over to play it as she is a fan of TWD. And it would be a game that could work with one taking controll of the keyboard while the other controlling the mouse (the catch being that she would be sitting on my lap).
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;35941479]I was thinking about pulling off something rather clever with this one highly potential future girlfriend.
Well she ain't much into videogames, but I was concidering buying The Walking Dead - Game and invite her over to play it as she is a fan of TWD. And it would be a game that could work with one taking controll of the keyboard while the other controlling the mouse (the catch being that she would be sitting on my lap).[/QUOTE]
I once convinced my ex-girlfriend to play Amnesia, the room was dark and the sound so loud. I just sat in the back and watched her die.
My girlfriend wanted to play LA Noire with me so I borrowed it off my mate, we only tried playing it a few times. We always ended up having sexy time instead.
[QUOTE=cueballv2themax;35941390]my girlfriend listens to christian rock
your move, facepunch users[/QUOTE]
TBH, bands like Skillet aren't too bad.
I think the broken relationship I had last year has killed my libido, as I have close to no drive to get to know women now. I used to get a certain "high" from talking with members of the opposite sex that I felt attracted to. Now, it just feels kind of boring and casual. Is there any way to get my mac back?
[QUOTE=cueballv2themax;35941390]my girlfriend listens to christian rock
your move, facepunch users[/QUOTE]
Suggest [B]mewithoutyou[/B] and hope that she uses it as a gateway to better music. If not, she just has bad taste because, quite frankly, a large majority of Christian rock is just bad.
[QUOTE=Klammyxxl;35943483]
Suggest [B]mewithoutyou[/B] and hope that she uses it as a gateway to better music. If not, she just has bad taste because, quite frankly, a large majority of Christian rock is just bad.[/QUOTE]
nah she also likes music like fleet foxes and everythingeverything so all is not lost
Not fapping is really hard, I gave in once yesterday but its an improvement
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;35944466]Not fapping is really hard, I gave in once yesterday but its an improvement[/QUOTE]
you're a martyr for the cause
[QUOTE=Yahnich;35944693]i can only fap once a week else it takes me forever to finish[/QUOTE]
Lucky :/ me I only really last long if I fap a few hours before or use performa condoms. My dick is a real dick sometimes.
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