that's why you don't have sex with a prostitute?
she doesn't have to be a virgin for it to be special. you just need to find someone who is having sex with you because they want to share that with you, not to just have sex with you. you're putting on a sort of "not a virgin anymore means a girl no longer places value on sex" attitude that's pretty misogynistic to be honest
i dont see how any of its misogynistic, its just sort of selfish
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36148648]Well I'm not going to go tell my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years to go have sex so sex with me will be better.
Besides, wouldn't be awkward at all. I've "slipped" in a few times.[/QUOTE]
if you have a virgin (even though you said slipped) girlfriend already then it shouldn't matter if you want your first time to be with a virgin. Though I have to agree with you, my girl's a virgin and we don't have a problem with learning a few things about each other
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36148921]I sure did. I didn't go very deep at all though.
Learning about each other is a big part of any relationship. (Very fun part, too.)[/QUOTE]
"just the tip" apparently still works, who knew
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36148648]Well I'm not going to go tell my girlfriend of 1 1/2 years to go have sex so sex with me will be better.
Besides, wouldn't be awkward at all. I've "slipped" in a few times.[/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSAr4p4YOVQ[/media]
My first time was hilarious because I actually couldn't come. I think I was half not ready half nervous as shit so while I did last over an hour before we stopped, I actually never had an orgasm.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;36149988]yeah that's the bit that flabbergasted me, slipping it in is okay yet just going ahead and having sex wasn't on the table?[/QUOTE]
Read this as slipping in it and having sex on the table
[editline]31st May 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Badballer;36150204]My first time was hilarious because I actually couldn't come. I think I was half not ready half nervous as shit so while I did last over an hour before we stopped, I actually never had an orgasm.[/QUOTE]
Kinda like when you give someone a prank peanut jar, and they expect snakes to fly out, but then you don't cum
So my girlfriends mum yelled at my girlfriend as she always does not good relation s between them mum is a control freak But now my girlfriends all depressed and teary and feeling like she screwed everyone life up how can i make her feel better
[QUOTE=Lexinator;36151705]So my girlfriends mum yelled at my girlfriend as she always does not good relation s between them mum is a control freak But now my girlfriends all depressed and teary and feeling like she screwed everyone life up how can i make her feel better[/QUOTE]
Its just girl-mom stuff, give her a massage and let her vent to you about her mom
[QUOTE=Lexinator;36151705]So my girlfriends mum yelled at my girlfriend as she always does not good relation s between them mum is a control freak But now my girlfriends all depressed and teary and feeling like she screwed everyone life up how can i make her feel better[/QUOTE]
Just do something nice for her. Doesn't have to be a grand gesture, as babyarm suggested backrubs work well, or buy her something small snackwise you know she enjoys. Just something a little bit different to normal and put a bit of effort in and assuming shes fairly reasonable she will probably be cheered up and appreciate it.
We were in my room in the middle of the day when the sunlight comes through the window just right and everything looks really nice. My first time I went all wet-noodle when I got the condom on. We kept trying, but I ended up being unable to. Later that night, we did it in the back of my car. Much less comfortable, but it was really enjoyable. I kinda count that as my first instead because the actual first didn't really work.
My Girlfriend watched some Walking Dead with me yesterday morning, 2am this morning I got a distraught phone call concerning the impending zombie apocalypse...
seeing my girlfriend for the first time in two months soon
I will be apart from my girlfriend for three months this summer, it is going to be bad.
May the force be with you, my friend. Be strong....... :P
I hate feeling like this. I try to tell myself that getting attached is bad but it never works. It totally ruins me and people around me.
I can get over small crushes easily but as soon as I get, well, emotionally dependant I guess, it breaks my mind. Especially when that specific person just gets closer and closer to you and then bang, that's it, the climax of the whole thing before it either breaks apart or slowly dies down. But you're still stuck there, at the climax, so close that you can almost feel it but just fall short. You want to care for that person, you want to make them happy, you just want them to be happy but they don't realise how much they've affected you and they don't have the mutual feeling to understand.
It's teasing, taunting, but most of all painful. No matter how many times I try and break through I just can't and well...it just sucks.
It's the second time it's happened and although not nearly as intense it makes up for it in time, and it definitely takes a toll on my mental health.
I'm sorry to vent like this and put a downer on the thread but it feels good to let it out.
So, I'm 17. Never dated, kissed, had sex with or even hung out with a girl. No lie.
Now, this isn't because of lack of opportunity. In fact, I seem to attract all the most beautiful women at my school. This pisses all of my guy friends off, not only because I'm 240 lbs. and considerably less good looking than them, but because despite having all these women around me, I don't do anything about it. I can't help but laugh though, as all my female friends really admire this about me :v:
Honestly, I just never felt an urge to so much as flirt with any girl, and it kind of makes me wonder how maddening it must be for my friends who try to fuck everything that moves.
Any way, I've really started to like this girl, the only girl that's ever turned me on, and I'm going to try and lose my v-card. She's really happy that she gets to be my first kiss, lover, girlfriend etc. She's got the body of a Victoria's Secret model (which honestly makes me really guilty :v:) and she's just like me in a lot of ways.
What I'm asking for is any tips that will help me out with my first time and maybe even after that. I really wasn't nervous until she told me that she's never really enjoyed sex. Now I'm feeling a lot of pressure and just want to make her feel good.
Thanks in advance, guys
[QUOTE=junker|154;36174771]I will be apart from my girlfriend for three months this summer, it is going to be bad.[/QUOTE]
it's a pretty good test of your relationship, embrace it.
[QUOTE=cueballv2themax;36173712]seeing my girlfriend for the first time in two months soon[/QUOTE]
seeing my girlfriend for the first time in six months in a month and a half
[editline]2nd June 2012[/editline]
kidding though, congratulations making it this far, it isn't easy. there's people who have it worse than me, too
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36140501] i'll leave out all the details about how he was a [B]verbally abusive dickweed[/B] to me while we were still together, but he told me he was going to be out of state for several months while trying to persuade me to come back to him.[/QUOTE]
Isn't calling him a "verbally abusive dickweed" a bit hypocritical?
no, it's not actually
[QUOTE=JoeyZ;36176750]So, I'm 17. Never dated, kissed, had sex with or even hung out with a girl. No lie.
Now, this isn't because of lack of opportunity. In fact, I seem to attract all the most beautiful women at my school. This pisses all of my guy friends off, not only because I'm 240 lbs. and considerably less good looking than them, but because despite having all these women around me, I don't do anything about it. I can't help but laugh though, as all my female friends really admire this about me :v:
Honestly, I just never felt an urge to so much as flirt with any girl, and it kind of makes me wonder how maddening it must be for my friends who try to fuck everything that moves.
Any way, I've really started to like this girl, the only girl that's ever turned me on, and I'm going to try and lose my v-card. She's really happy that she gets to be my first kiss, lover, girlfriend etc. She's got the body of a Victoria's Secret model (which honestly makes me really guilty :v:) and she's just like me in a lot of ways.
What I'm asking for is any tips that will help me out with my first time and maybe even after that. I really wasn't nervous until she told me that she's never really enjoyed sex. Now I'm feeling a lot of pressure and just want to make her feel good.
Thanks in advance, guys[/QUOTE]
You seem pretty sure of yourself, a bit to much I'd say.
sounds more like a defense mechanism; "240 lb and ugly but all the women love me".
Doesn't matter what it sounds like, answer his question. Whether he is, or is not a bit of a show off, it is unrelated.
seith if unrelated conversation wasn't the norm in this thread you'd probably only post once a month
[QUOTE=JoeyZ;36176750] She's got the body of a Victoria's Secret model (which honestly makes me really guilty :v:) and she's just like me in a lot of ways. [/QUOTE]
please teach me how to make love to a .psd. teach me your ways sensei
but in all seriousness it's all in the foreplay
Two of my relationships now have ended with the girl running off with someone else, I can't help but wonder if there's any point getting into long-term relationships if they can just flick the switch about how they feel all of a sudden. I know at the back of my head that neither of those breakups were because of me but just both ended in a shitty way; I know in the future I'll still have to trust them completely. I'm just saying this because I don't want to be worried in the next relationship of whenever my girlfriend comes into contact with a new group of people.
How do you know it wasn't your fault? The thing is, you feed yourself that idea which makes you more insecure about your next relationships and relationships as a whole.
Accept that it may had been your fault and stop feeling so helpless. Once you take responsibility of your own actions, in and outside the relationship, you will find that relationships are rather a breeze and not a constant worry.
[QUOTE=E1025;36181365]Two of my relationships now have ended with the girl running off with someone else, I can't help but wonder if there's any point getting into long-term relationships if they can just flick the switch about how they feel all of a sudden. I know at the back of my head that neither of those breakups were because of me but just both ended in a shitty way; I know in the future I'll still have to trust them completely. I'm just saying this because I don't want to be worried in the next relationship of whenever my girlfriend comes into contact with a new group of people.[/QUOTE]
Pick better. You can't make a hoe a housewife.
-snip no point going back over it again-
[QUOTE=junker|154;36179252]You seem pretty sure of yourself, a bit to much I'd say.[/QUOTE]
How so? Sorry if I came off as arrogant or anything.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36179592]sounds more like a defense mechanism; "240 lb and ugly but all the women love me".[/QUOTE]
No, I went through that in my 'social reject' phase. I grew my hair out, dressed in shitty clothing and sat alone where ever I was. "Girls just don't like me because I'm surrounded by stupid girls"
I got over that my freshman year of high school. I cut my hair and started dressing well, and just stopped caring about a lot of things.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;36180121]but in all seriousness it's all in the foreplay[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it
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