[QUOTE=Camper99;36240097]So, I got here to get some advice of you guys.
Posted the story in fast threads somewhere before but this place seems more fitting.
There's this girl which I know for nearly 3 years now and I started 'liking' her about one year ago. She was in a relationship and friendzoned me but now I managed to slip out of there and even persuaded her to break up with her BF, because she wasn't happy at all and he's a douche.
Suddenly the next day she made out with another dude and did it again the next day (today, right as I write this.)
She told me she just wants to "play around" a bit, after breaking up and being single again and asked me if I could give her some time, but actually I'm scared that she might start a new relationship with the new dude. Should I attempt to interfer and make my move or wait?
The new dude is 28 and in a relationship himself by the way, the girl im talking about is 18. so 10 years difference.[/QUOTE]
has she ever explicitly said she's interested in you or whatever? sounds like you're just a friend to her and now she's having a good time. there isn't any real reason for you to interfere. let her make her own mistakes
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;36240088]Um actually bro I'm sitting here at work bored posting without much care as to what I post. I understand people have problems and issues and all sorts of shit that I can't relate to and I'm sorry they're in their situations.
And to me, boredom is a perfectly good excuse to act like a jackass on the Internet in substitute of my generally kind/understanding self.
You can reply to this if you want but I'm not gonna say anything as I really don't feel like it[/QUOTE]
"im bein a cunt but its cool because i dont care"
[QUOTE=Derubermensch;36240357]I was dating this girl for a good 3 months and we were really happy together. Last friday we were totally fine, with pretty much nothing antagonizing our relationship. She told me two days ago that she thought we should break up. She seemed determined to break up and not talk it out, so we broke up. With girls before I've felt angry or regretful after breaking up with them... But I just want to be with this girl again. I asked her why she broke up with me on facebook and she said she felt "caged" at how serious it was getting. And from all accounts, her facebook wall, etc, she seems happy without me. Is it right for me to try and get her back? Is it possible to get her back?[/QUOTE]
No, sorry dude :(
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;36238840]yeh how dare people have medical conditions or be unable to easily control themselves after a horrible hardship. suck it up faggots!!
AAA advice from cyclocius[/QUOTE]
I don't really, that's a silly thing to do. If you keep doing that you go over your boyfriends house and cry on the end of the bed and...oh.
I'm in love... enough stuffing around, today's the day I let her know how I really feel. 26 years and I've never felt this way about someone EVER, it's crazy! I'd do anything for her and I'm hoping she feels the same way. Just sent her some nice flowers at work, will see how that goes down... I'm sure she'll love it but you just never know right?
Fuck I feel like I'm 13 or something.
youre acting like it too!
[editline]8th June 2012[/editline]
here's a tip, if you she has no idea how you feel about her, its not love
and the worst way to tell her is to buy her something, then it feels like there are weird obligations money-wise
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36241659]youre acting like it too!
[editline]8th June 2012[/editline]
here's a tip, if you she has no idea how you feel about her, its not love
and the worst way to tell her is to buy her something, then it feels like there are weird obligations money-wise[/QUOTE]
Respectfully disagree, man. It's just flowers.
they wouldn't be just flowers, if they would be just flowers he wouldn't be sending them
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;36239829]Good parenting/no childhood trauma master race[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;36240088]Um actually bro I'm sitting here at work bored posting without much care as to what I post. I understand people have problems and issues and all sorts of shit that I can't relate to and I'm sorry they're in their situations.
And to me, boredom is a perfectly good excuse to act like a jackass on the Internet in substitute of my generally kind/understanding self.
You can reply to this if you want but I'm not gonna say anything as I really don't feel like it[/QUOTE]
thinks parenting 100% determines child's development
acts like an ass on the internet to people who really weren't asking for it
obviously the most popular kid in 8th grade
It is in a small way 'just flowers'. I maybe exaggerated a bit when I said enough is enough, what I mean is I'm not going to be coy about it any more. I have no doubt she's aware about how I feel for her, and that's been hinted at, but she's a bit like me in that we've always been a bit...not 'shy' but just not overly expressive about our feelings. She knows I love giving little gifts like that (and I have done so in the past, just not to quite as big a degree) so I do know she'll appreciate it and acknowledge that it's a bit of a step up for me. I'm not diving in head first, I just want to make it clear how much I care for her.
I suppose for you guys, without knowing the history of her life and the time between the two of us, it's not really easy for you to make a call on the effectiveness or sanity of what I do with her. All I can say is that I know it feels RIGHT, and I can only hope she feels the same way. We'll see...
[editline]8th June 2012[/editline]
She loved it... Will probably talk to her more a bit later since she's at work but, that's what I was hoping for :) Just got a couple of messages from her saying everyone else in the office is jealous. Ace!
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;36240088]Um actually bro I'm sitting here at work bored posting without much care as to what I post. I understand people have problems and issues and all sorts of shit that I can't relate to and I'm sorry they're in their situations.
And to me, boredom is a perfectly good excuse to act like a jackass on the Internet in substitute of my generally kind/understanding self.
You can reply to this if you want but I'm not gonna say anything as I really don't feel like it[/QUOTE]
You come to a place where people want help with their lives, so you can misrepresent your own view on life just to make people feel bad about themselves because you're bored at work? And to top if off, no one thought you were funny! How sad, mate.
My girlfriend got shipped off to georgia because her parents are fucking psycho :(
I didn't even get a good bye.
I hate everything. I love her.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36246148]My girlfriend got shipped off to georgia because her parents are fucking psycho :(
I didn't even get a good bye.
I hate everything. I love her.[/QUOTE]
Why?
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;36240360]has she ever explicitly said she's interested in you or whatever? sounds like you're just a friend to her and now she's having a good time. there isn't any real reason for you to interfere. let her make her own mistakes[/QUOTE]
Yeah, she did actually.
That was also on year ago, but she said I'm getting more and more complicated for her, becuase she starts feeling in ways that go beyond friendshiep, when thinking of me.
But yeah, that was some time ago. Mhh.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36246148]My girlfriend got shipped off to georgia because her parents are fucking psycho :(
I didn't even get a good bye.
I hate everything. I love her.[/QUOTE]
She get shipped off to relatives in the area or something?
Regardless, skype, man... lots of skype. You still have a way to get ahold of her I assume?
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36246148]My girlfriend got shipped off to georgia because her parents are fucking psycho :(
I didn't even get a good bye.
I hate everything. I love her.[/QUOTE]
i'm assuming you're both still high school age because that shit is a non issue otherwise, she a grown ass woman who dont gots to go nowhere
I am such a dumbfuck, please forgive me god for all the sins I have commited.
i'm pretty sure he meant the US state of georgia, not the country
I am a huge fucking dumbass.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36247298]I am such a dumbfuck, please forgive me god for all the sins I have commited.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=junker|154;36247421]Suck my cock, I suck so much.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=junker|154;36247587]I am a huge fucking dumbass.[/QUOTE]
jeez its not such a big deal...
Oh, let the man repent
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36247815]jeez its not such a big deal...[/QUOTE]
Actually, I just wante to snip my posts and add a comment :v:
My Girlfriend just hit my sack with her knee while she was rolling over, it hurts; a whole lot.
[QUOTE=dark_console2;36258641]My Girlfriend just hit my sack with her knee while she was rolling over, it hurts; a whole lot.[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend hits me in the balls a lot both on purpose and accidentally.
She simply doesn't understand how painful it is; she underestimates the severity of such an assault.
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;36260653]My girlfriend hits me in the balls a lot both on purpose and accidentally.
She simply doesn't understand how painful it is; she underestimates the severity of such an assault.[/QUOTE]
I would so not put up with that shit.
Hit her back, man. It hurts there for them too.
thats hot
[QUOTE=~ZOMG;36260653]My girlfriend hits me in the balls a lot both on purpose and accidentally.
She simply doesn't understand how painful it is; she underestimates the severity of such an assault.[/QUOTE]
that's fucked man
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