Obliviously, between these two choices, if you'd prefer mind-fucking your computer screen rather than her or just some plain ol' regular human interaction, then I might say you have a problem going on.
sex is good
but sushi is also good
i live with this struggle every day
Have you ever tried..
..[I]putting your dick in sushi?[/I]
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36322860]We seriously have texted for 1 and a half years straight, every possible day since we've been together.
Think that could have something to do with it? I mean I'd love to see her this weekend, just not tomorrow.[/QUOTE]
My analogy stands even firmly then; your relationship is tedious and boring, from my point of view. Expect divorce when you are 40.
If you think there's something wrong, while realizing the above fact, then you should try fixing it as it obviously is bothering you.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36322903]sex is good
but sushi is also good
i live with this struggle every day[/QUOTE]
you feel my pain.
luckily my girlfriend likes sushi so i can have both sometimes
[QUOTE=Seith;36322826]Obliviously, between these two choices, if you'd prefer mind-fucking your computer screen rather than her or just some plain ol' regular human interaction, then I might say you have a problem going on.[/QUOTE]
It really does depend on how often you see her. I see my woman every day, for a lot of the day, so sometimes I find it nice to get some room for myself for an hour or two, but on the other hand if you don't see her very often and feel like you don't want to actually spend time with her then you should probably think about sorting that out. Text her less perhaps? Set aside dedicated time for yourself, perhaps talk to her about it? Make it clear you're off to spend some time on yourself for a bit and you'll be busy but you will go back to communicating/being around after?
[QUOTE=ShootEvryRapper;36323174]Have you ever tried..
..[I]putting your dick in sushi?[/I][/QUOTE]
would you care for a hand roll
[QUOTE=ShootEvryRapper;36323174]Have you ever tried..
..[I]putting your dick in sushi?[/I][/QUOTE]
no!
and you can't prove i did!!
[QUOTE=thisispain;36323777]no!
and you can't prove i did!![/QUOTE]
That plan would go sour anyway around the last step when you cut the roll into slices.
So I've been talking to a girl that I've known for a fair decent time, I asked her to go to the movies awhile back ago, but both our busy schedules conflicted, so I was unable to hook up with her.
Apparently she's gone on dates, but technically not 'seeing' anyone. So I asked her what kind of dates she liked, etc etc. Said she isn't picky. So I'm just discussing what movies are in the theater and if she might want to go see one, or something.
I don't know what to do, it'd be like, my first date if I did. I don't even have a phone anymore, I feel like a poor man and if she sees that it'd be over before it began.
What do I do? Do I just tough it out, see what happens? I can still talk with her on facebook.
just pick something and ask her if she'd like to go see it.
if she's vaguely interested in you then the film won't matter
if she's interested in you but really doesn't want to see what you've suggested then she'll likely say "or how about ___ instead?"
if she's too busy she'll probably suggest an alternative
if she's not at all into you and has no interest in seeing a movie then i'm sure you'll find out soon enough
just get a move on and ask her!
[editline]14th June 2012[/editline]
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[QUOTE=Autumn;36324578]just pick something and ask her if she'd like to go see it.
if she's vaguely interested in you then the film won't matter
if she's interested in you but really doesn't want to see what you've suggested then she'll likely say "or how about ___ instead?"
if she's too busy she'll probably suggest an alternative
if she's not at all into you and has no interest in seeing a movie then i'm sure you'll find out soon enough
just get a move on and ask her![/QUOTE]
Makes sense. Though apparently she's already seen most movies, or seeing them.
I'll ask, I don't want to go to a dinner on the first date, seems more like a second, or third.
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I don't think she's interested, basically turning it down at every point, lol.
[QUOTE=SatansSin;36324645]Makes sense. Though apparently she's already seen most movies, or seeing them.
I'll ask, I don't want to go to a dinner on the first date, seems more like a second, or third.
:
I don't think she's interested, basically turning it down at every point, lol.[/QUOTE]
If she has seen your FP avatar, Im sure that might be a turn off.....unless thats her???
I took my girlfriend for a meal on the first date.....its now 3 years and 6 months later and we are still together......
Shit's getting real. Moving in with my girlfriend at the beginning of next month. Got my job transfer, everything is irie
The place is irrelevant.
[QUOTE=spikeman14;36325114]If she has seen your FP avatar, Im sure that might be a turn off.....unless thats her???
I took my girlfriend for a meal on the first date.....its now 3 years and 6 months later and we are still together......[/QUOTE]
Nah, this was a shut down towards me.
Basically asked if she had any other ideas, or what she'd want to do, and said nada.
So I'm moving on to the next girl I meet, lol
[QUOTE=SatansSin;36324645]I don't think she's interested, basically turning it down at every point, lol.[/QUOTE]
i'd leave it then, you don't wanna come across as desperate or anything
[QUOTE=Autumn;36325219]i'd leave it then, you don't wanna come across as desperate or anything[/QUOTE]
I am. If I can't get a simple movie, then fuck it
Don't beat yourself so much over it dude. Maybe next time try start with something a little lower-key, like lunch or coffee, or if that's too boring then a museum or an art-gallery or something similar works great well too. Anything which allows you to actually talk to each other basically, it comes across as a lot more casual and you're able to actually get to know each other. Movie dates work well later, at least in my opinion.
My friend went ice-skating on his first date. They both never skated before and he told me it was something that needed co-operation with each other in order to stand on the ice without falling. He told me both of them were embarrassed of each other but revealed the soft spot and build up the relationship from that level. They're now together for a year now.
I can't iceskate for shit, I'd probably die or kill the other person
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;36325380]Don't beat yourself so much over it dude. Maybe next time try start with something a little lower-key, like lunch or coffee, or if that's too boring then a museum or an art-gallery or something similar works great well too. Anything which allows you to actually talk to each other basically, it comes across as a lot more casual and you're able to actually get to know each other. Movie dates work well later, at least in my opinion.[/QUOTE]
No worries, I'm not beating myself over it. I wasn't saddened by it, if anything I just shrugged it off.
I'm in an area where one of the only things to do is walk around in the forest, and not many girls like that. There are other areas, but I've yet to see many places sadly.
I'm just getting to an age where I'm tired of being single for most of my life, so kinda want to share a bond between a person. If it doesn't work out, I'm not going to be over burdened by it.
[QUOTE=ShootEvryRapper;36323174]Have you ever tried..
..[I]putting your dick in sushi?[/I][/QUOTE]
mother of god
[QUOTE=Seith;36323264]My analogy stands even firmly then; your relationship is tedious and boring, from my point of view. Expect divorce when you are 40.
If you think there's something wrong, while realizing the above fact, then you should try fixing it as it obviously is bothering you.[/QUOTE]
yes seith, because if given the choice between video games and sex, unless you choose sex every single time without exception, clearly you have some deeper emotional problems and should rethink your life.
Well I think this one girl is really into me but I don't get what is going on right now.
She texts me literally all day. She says we have to hang out and bunch of stuff like that and is always putting winky and smily faces in her texts. When I can hang out I ask her to hang out and she always has some excuse like "I have to babysit" or "I can't today, maybe tomorrow?" which never works because I somehow have a busy schedule. What the hell, what is the deal with this chick?
either she actually does want to see you and schedules are just working out terribly, or she doesn't but she enjoys the attention you give her
Everytime I have a dream in which a girl is trying to kiss me or something like that, either one I know or someone I don't know (the latter one happened to be a girl I've seen in a music vid),
I just stop and push her away because I just don't have it in me to be unfaithful. Not even in my dreams.
whatiswrongwithme.
They're just dreams, relax.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;36332911]either she actually does want to see you and schedules are just working out terribly, or she doesn't but she enjoys the attention you give her[/QUOTE]
I'm leaning towards the former because the 5 times she has asked me to hang out I have family things to take care of or sports and the times I have asked her, seem like there are some pretty logical/feasible excuses.
[QUOTE=Lukeo;36333254]They're just dreams, relax.[/QUOTE]
I know it's just dreams, but it's pretty... wild ones when it happens.
God I wish I were conscious of it, aware that I'm dreaming.
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