what is your guys opinion on casual sex? my friend has been freaking out because he drunk-banged a girl and now he thinks he's committed to be in some sort of relationship with her. I'm trying to explain to him that sex can be a casual occurrence but he is dead set in his opinion that it is always a display of love.
[QUOTE=ShadowSocks8;36336702]what is your guys opinion on casual sex? my friend has been freaking out because he drunk-banged a girl and now he thinks he's committed to be in some sort of relationship with her. I'm trying to explain to him that sex can be a casual occurrence but he is dead set in his opinion that it is always a display of love.[/QUOTE]
Your friend is dumb
Alcohol is never the excuse to commit to such thing
thanks guys
going to dump my gf asap
Is it bad that I've never really had a girlfriend?
I've hooked up with girls before but I've never actually had a girlfriend.
Yes, it's like AIDS.
Every time an "is it bad..." question is asked here, the answer is almost always no.
[QUOTE=Webby2020;36340967]Is it bad that I've never really had a girlfriend?
I've hooked up with girls before but I've never actually had a girlfriend.[/QUOTE]
That's not bad.
I always choke when a attractive girl/woman suddenly speaks to me.
I like girls, no doubt about that. I like their smell, and hair, AND TITS. But when they're to close I just want to run off D:
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;36339464]Alcohol is never the excuse to commit to such thing[/QUOTE]
Why's that? I'm not trying to start an argument, rather a discussion, because I disagree with you(Sort of).
Okay, I have a classical question for you guys. I will probably try oral soon with my girlfriend, never done that before with any girlfriends because it was somewhat disgusting to me, but this girl is really fine in every way.
So any advice?
[QUOTE=junker|154;36342732]Okay, I have a classical question for you guys. I will probably try oral soon with my girlfriend, never done that before with any girlfriends because it was somewhat disgusting to me, but this girl is really fine in every way.
So any advice?[/QUOTE]
I always write stories with my tongue.
Sometimes I come up with some interesting shit, might actually write some of them down.
[editline]15th June 2012[/editline]
Alright after reading this thread a bit and being completely anonymous I trust I can dump some baggage on all of yall.
So a few years ago I actually had these real feelings for this girl, and we tried going out for a few months (ye I know I said I never had a real girlfriend before, but I'll elaborate on that shit) and things were going real well.
This was when I was still a virgin and hadn't really done anything but kiss a girl before, so after about 4 months we decided to try and do it. Fast forward 45 seconds and I thought things went somewhat well. Of course, 2 weeks later my girl calls me up and says that she is late on her period and thinks the condom broke and she is pregnant. Engage freakout mode, because she is extremely mad at me for this shit. Few days after that, she has her period (thank the lord) and it all turns out it was just a very big ass scare. After that, she completely cuts off communication with me, even her friends wouldn't talk to me. That hurt the shit out of me, I actually had feelings for this chick and boom, just ends like that. I haven't really been able to have a relationship since, only drunken one night stands.
Ok, so I just asked a girl out. (I had to do it over Facebook, since I couldn't FUCKING FIND HER in school today to do it in person). She responded with "Are you serious or are you just being sarcastic?". What do I say? I came up with either "I'm being serious" OR "I don't know, why don't you choose?". Any ideas? Before anyone asks, yes, I am 14, today was my last day of 8th grade, and this is pretty much the first time I've asked someone out. I just need some slight assistance here.
[QUOTE=Beefbars;36344676]Ok, so I just asked a girl out. (I had to do it over Facebook, since I couldn't FUCKING FIND HER in school today to do it in person). She responded with "Are you serious or are you just being sarcastic?". What do I say? I came up with either "I'm being serious" OR "I don't know, why don't you choose?". Any ideas? Before anyone asks, yes, I am 14, today was my last day of 8th grade, and this is pretty much the first time I've asked someone out. I just need some slight assistance here.[/QUOTE]
Being sarcastic or coy about it is probably the worst thing you can do.
[QUOTE=metallics;36344852]Being sarcastic or coy about it is probably the worst thing you can do.[/QUOTE]
Ok, so telling her flat out that I'm serious is the best idea then?
[QUOTE=Beefbars;36344676]Ok, so I just asked a girl out. (I had to do it over Facebook, since I couldn't FUCKING FIND HER in school today to do it in person). She responded with "Are you serious or are you just being sarcastic?". What do I say? I came up with either "I'm being serious" OR "I don't know, why don't you choose?". Any ideas? Before anyone asks, yes, I am 14, today was my last day of 8th grade, and this is pretty much the first time I've asked someone out. I just need some slight assistance here.[/QUOTE]
Honestly you should have waited. Asking out on FB is only a tiny ass step above asking via text or something.
[QUOTE=Beefbars;36344873]Ok, so telling her flat out that I'm serious is the best idea then?[/QUOTE]
[I]DO IT.[/I]
"Yes, I'm serious."
Or go the extra mile:
"HELL YEAH I'M SERIOUS"
[sp]don't do that one. just be serious.[/sp]
[QUOTE=Webby2020;36344881]Honestly you should have waited. Asking out on FB is only a tiny ass step above asking via text or something.[/QUOTE]
It's the best thing I can do at this point since I don't have her number and today was the last day of school for me. I would have had to wait until September until I saw her again.
Ok, I'm going to tell her I'm serious now. Hopefully this won't be too embarrassing.
In my current relationship I rarely used my cellphone, I think I wrote her like 16 messages and called her 6 times.
:v: we always use skype and see eachother on a regular basis during university.
I'm a little reluctant to ask you guys for help after what happened last time, but I'm kind of at a loss here. I've been really happy starting things off with my girlfriend these past few weeks, but part of me just wants to stay alone. I don't think I can really have a healthy relationship with the way I am and I don't know if I should break it off with her or just suck it up and try to be happy
[QUOTE=junker|154;36342732]Okay, I have a classical question for you guys. I will probably try oral soon with my girlfriend, never done that before with any girlfriends because it was somewhat disgusting to me, but this girl is really fine in every way.
So any advice?[/QUOTE]
Tease her, kiss the inside of her thighs and get closer and closer, gently brush up against it to start. Obviously try and communicate and see how she is enjoying it, to help you hit the spot. My girlfriend loves me to use my fingers at the same time too .
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36345262]I remember, before me and my girlfriend got together, we'd have shy little conversations on Facebook.
She'd say "Text me!" and go offline, and forget that I never had her cellphone number.[/QUOTE]That's amazingly adorable.
Lol she said no. At least I finally got the balls to ask her.
[QUOTE=Beefbars;36346995]Lol she said no. At least I finally got the balls to ask her.[/QUOTE]
At least you asked.
Just curious, did she like flat out say 'Fuck no', or was it soft?
[QUOTE=Deadman123;36347069]At least you asked.
Just curious, did she like flat out say 'Fuck no', or was it soft?[/QUOTE]
It wasn't that bad actually, she said "Sorry! But no..."
As long as its not super awkward now its fine.
Told a friend of mine today that I like her. We've become fast friends after having class together, and we get along very well. She's been giving me some positive signs, but nothing particularly noticeable.
She smiled and blushed when I told her, but she says that she's still getting over a bad relationship and would like to stay friends. I can vouch it's affected her pretty bad - we have each other added on tumblr, and it appears to be one of the things she posts about the most.
Are my chances pretty much endgame, or is there a possibility that the friendship will go a step further down the road? A few of my friends think I have a decent chance, but was just curious to see some other input.
[editline]16th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=JoeyZ;36345524]I'm a little reluctant to ask you guys for help after what happened last time, but I'm kind of at a loss here. I've been really happy starting things off with my girlfriend these past few weeks, but part of me just wants to stay alone. I don't think I can really have a healthy relationship with the way I am and I don't know if I should break it off with her or just suck it up and try to be happy[/QUOTE]
Like Renegade said, this seems to be something rooted in how you're treating yourself, so you shouldn't abandon the relationship. You should use your relationship to grow as a person and turn your relationship into a healthy one. In my last relationship, I made a lot of mistakes but I also took advantage of opportunities to improve upon my own shortcomings, and in the long-run I was able to fight a lot of my own personal issues with anxiety and other things.
Yeah, that's how I feel too. Give her some time, don't push anything, but keep the door open.
And yeah, we became friends pretty fast. I'm actually pretty surprised, since I usually take my time with forming friendships. Most of my friends think of me as friendly and extroverted, but I'm really extremely introverted. Which is why I get along so well with my friend, since she's very shy and introverted too :v:.
Just curious, are there lots of pretty/hot girls in England, particularly London? I'm going to start university next year in England. I wish to start anew and start a relationship with nice looking girls who are sociable, "party"-ic, not drowned in alcohol or drugs, not slutty or pretty bitchy, also have "hot" characteristics such as Rosie Jones.
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;36352189]I wish to start anew and start a relationship with nice looking girls who are sociable, "party"-ic, not drowned in alcohol or drugs, not slutty or pretty bitchy, also have "hot" characteristics such as Rosie Jones.[/QUOTE]
nope
don't exist in London
[QUOTE=Deathhunter;36352189]I wish to start anew and start a relationship with nice looking girls who are sociable, "party"-ic, not drowned in alcohol or drugs, not slutty or pretty bitchy, also have "hot" characteristics such as Rosie Jones.[/QUOTE]
not that you have high standards or anything
[editline]16th June 2012[/editline]
"she just has to look like a porn star"
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