My assumptions were correct.
The guy my gf was supposedly going on dates with was one of those guys that pretend to be homosexual in order to get girls. At least we both agreed that the guy was indeed creepy.
She said she was sorry she doubted me. But I have some reason to think I can't trust her any more.
[QUOTE=sHiBaN;36408233]My assumptions were correct.
The guy my gf was supposedly going on dates with was one of those guys that pretend to be homosexual in order to get girls. At least we both agreed that the guy was indeed creepy.
She said she was sorry she doubted me. But I have some reason to think I can't trust her any more.[/QUOTE]
she was hanging out with him under the presumption he was gay. i don't see why you mistrust her now?
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;36408347]she was hanging out with him under the presumption he was gay. i don't see why you mistrust her now?[/QUOTE]
Because I'm an insecure misogynist and I have a terrible temper with a childhood and past filled with violence
I dunno, I've met people who are truly gay and they do not act like the guy she was with. Generalizing here, but isn't that creepy? A little bit? Well, she made a decision to stay with me anyway. We're going on a date tomorrow actually. :dance:
[QUOTE=sHiBaN;36408423]Because I'm an insecure misogynist and I have a terrible temper with a childhood and past filled with violence
I dunno, I've met people who are truly gay and they do not act like the guy she was with. Generalizing here, but isn't that creepy? A little bit? Well, she made a decision to stay with me anyway. We're going on a date tomorrow actually. :dance:[/QUOTE]
your sarcasm belies truth. i'm hip to your jive, hombre.
And so, I learned that my past relationship was a lie. Hooray.
[QUOTE=gufu;36408959]And so, I learned that my past relationship was a lie. Hooray.[/QUOTE]
elaborate! i feel as though we may be in the same boat.
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;36409019]elaborate! i feel as though we may be in the same boat.[/QUOTE]
Me and my Ex are still friends. Recently, I asked her what she would have preferred to an actual relationship, if we could have started differently. She said that she would have preferred us to just be friends. A few more questions later, she told me that she was never interested in me at all, and the only reason why she ever told me that she loved me, is because she was afraid that I would leave her completely alone.
As stupid as it seems to feel something like that towards your ex, I felt (and I still feel) completely betrayed. Today, I spoke to her on how I am feeling, and the only answer I've really gotten is "Just leave our past behind, and just stay friends with me". I really am not sure what to think, even.
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
And it feels rather jarring to learn that someone you cared (and still do care) doesn't think anything of you.
[QUOTE=JoeyZ;36407042]What's your guys' advice on dating an ex of an old friend?
I met her three years back when she was with one of my friends. He cheated on her and they broke up, and he ended up moving to another state two years ago. I helped them both out with the drama of the break up and I've been talking to the girl ever since. She's always been easy to talk to and I've always kind of liked her.
Do you guys think it would be a bad idea to go for her?[/QUOTE]
go for it
[QUOTE=DeepDish;36406739]You should urinate into her shampoo and conditioner. Start out small; maybe only a squirt or two the first day, but by the end of the week have the ratio be about 25% piss, 75% shampoo. She will start noticing her permanent, faint odor of urine and become slightly more self conscious.
At the same time, you should mix cat/dog excrement with her laundry loads (this should be easy to do while at her house - simply bring the fecal matter vacuum sealed in a bag and mix it into her laundry while she isn't there). She will begin to notice shit-stains on her clothes in odd places and a faint tinge of urine permeating her very being. She will scrub away at her skin in the shower until it is raw, but since her clothes and hair are now coated in filth, the smell will remain. She will be driven near mad searching for the source of the smell.
Eventually her friend will notice her odd odor and behavior and distance himself from her. She will collapse into a pitiful cycle of self-loathing and inadequacy in response to this rejection. This, my friend, is where you step in.
Slowly ease yourself back into her life like an infant on a slip 'n' slide - not too fast, but quick enough to capitalize on her newfound insecurity. Success! You've broken your first woman![/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFkzRNyygfk[/media]
[QUOTE=gufu;36409346]Me and my Ex are still friends. Recently, I asked her what she would have preferred to an actual relationship, if we could have started differently. She said that she would have preferred us to just be friends. A few more questions later, she told me that she was never interested in me at all, and the only reason why she ever told me that she loved me, is because she was afraid that I would leave her completely alone.
As stupid as it seems to feel something like that towards your ex, I felt (and I still feel) completely betrayed. Today, I spoke to her on how I am feeling, and the only answer I've really gotten is "Just leave our past behind, and just stay friends with me". I really am not sure what to think, even.
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
And it feels rather jarring to learn that someone you cared (and still do care) doesn't think anything of you.[/QUOTE]
if it's any consolation, it's very easy for someone to say that a while after it's over.
[QUOTE=gufu;36409346]Me and my Ex are still friends. Recently, I asked her what she would have preferred to an actual relationship, if we could have started differently. She said that she would have preferred us to just be friends. A few more questions later, she told me that she was never interested in me at all, and the only reason why she ever told me that she loved me, is because she was afraid that I would leave her completely alone.
As stupid as it seems to feel something like that towards your ex, I felt (and I still feel) completely betrayed. Today, I spoke to her on how I am feeling, and the only answer I've really gotten is "Just leave our past behind, and just stay friends with me". I really am not sure what to think, even.
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
And it feels rather jarring to learn that someone you cared (and still do care) doesn't think anything of you.[/QUOTE]
so...she was basically just using you.
because "mind you're own business. i'll do what i want with my bedroom door especially while my sexual partner is over"?
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36414035]So I need an excuse to keep my door locked when my girlfriends over. Saying "So my sister won't bother me" is getting old, I need new material![/QUOTE]
Watching a movie and don't want to disturb anyone.
yeah, because there's a massive difference in sound between a closed door and a locked door...
renegadecop, if you're anything over 17/18 i'm pretty sure your parents can put two and two together, like chesty said, they should mind their own business, it's your room and you'll do what you damn well like in it!
[QUOTE=Autumn;36414490]yeah, because there's a massive difference in sound between a closed door and a locked door...
renegadecop, if you're anything over 17/18 i'm pretty sure your parents can put two and two together, like chesty said, they should mind their own business, it's your room and you'll do what you damn well like in it![/QUOTE]
There was a time when my mom unbolted my door when I was in my teen years. That pissed me off so much not because of the GF thing, but because I couldn't sleep at night at the anxiety of a missing protective door.
Just turn on the TV really loud
[QUOTE=Autumn;36414490]yeah, because there's a massive difference in sound between a closed door and a locked door...
renegadecop, if you're anything over 17/18 i'm pretty sure your parents can put two and two together, like chesty said, they should mind their own business, it's your room and you'll do what you damn well like in it![/QUOTE]
Exactly, tell your parents to "mind your own business, this is my room and I'll do what ever I like with it!" that would do the trick... for sure.
did i say that he should say that to them, seith? no, i didn't, so well done for reading that wrong!
but if he is old enough to be considered a (semi, at least) adult then i'm sure his parents aren't silly enough to wonder what him and his girlfriend are getting up to, and they can either choose to respect his privacy (in which case locking his door won't be a problem) or if they do have a problem then it'd probably be best to find somewhere else to chill with his girlfriend.
i agree wi†h seith if hes being sarcastic
sure he should be able to do what he wants with his room, but telling him to say that isn't giving him actual advice
if he has the problem to begin with, we already know his parents arent the type of parents who give him personal space
He doesnt pay rent and relies on his parents, suck it up till you can move out.
Go for walks in the park, that'll do it.
(i didn't tell him to say that?!)
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
but it's simple
either they understand and they respect his privacy
or they don't, and he needs to find somewhere else
Good job my friend, now it's time for round 2.
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;36414929]i'm now 100% sure my girlfriend is not pregnant
i can finally sleep in peace
her period was 2 months late, wow[/QUOTE]
Freakiest feeling right. My GF had a couple of those and we're all panicking because we try to be so safe
[QUOTE=Oicani Gonzales;36414929]i'm now 100% sure my girlfriend is not pregnant
i can finally sleep in peace
her period was 2 months late, wow[/QUOTE]
Good for you Naci! Now you won't have to celebrate father's day next year!
In other news, my GF is coming over on friday. What's a polite way to tell my sister that she needs to not be home at this time without telling her why?
"I want to play checkers professionally with my gf, I can't be bothered by your ruckus. Be gone, or face the consequences of a peed on toilet"
[QUOTE=Autumn;36414905](i didn't tell him to say that?!)
[editline]20th June 2012[/editline]
but it's simple
either they understand and they respect his privacy
or they don't, and he needs to find somewhere else[/QUOTE]
psst autumn, chestymcgee told him to say that
I don't mean to brag or anything, but I'm feeling great about my relationship right now. I couldn't be happier with how everything's turning out.
[QUOTE=Zareox7;36417783]I don't mean to brag or anything, but I'm feeling great about my relationship right now. I couldn't be happier with how everything's turning out.[/QUOTE]
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=av8NTy5WkFc[/media]
I took the picture of my girlfriend and the guy from his FB. Put it on my phone.
Showed it to her close to her face:
"Eeeeew get it away!"
"What? I thought you liked him! Look, LOOK"
"EUGH!"
"LOOK YOU BOTH LOOK SO GOOD! KISS HIM KISS HIM"
Then I proceeded to rub the phone on her face
[QUOTE=GoldenGnome;36410556]if it's any consolation, it's very easy for someone to say that a while after it's over.[/QUOTE]
Still painful, and if anything, I simply can't trust her any more.
[QUOTE=azurelao;36411055]so...she was basically just using you.[/QUOTE]
Eh, I guess this is one example that makes a slight amount of sense.
In any case, it's over. She had absolutely no excuse for me to stay with her.
[QUOTE=sHiBaN;36418277]I took the picture of my girlfriend and the guy from his FB. Put it on my phone.
Showed it to her close to her face:
"Eeeeew get it away!"
"What? I thought you liked him! Look, LOOK"
"EUGH!"
"LOOK YOU BOTH LOOK SO GOOD! KISS HIM KISS HIM"
Then I proceeded to rub the phone on her face[/QUOTE]
That was totally the right way to go about that.
...actually... no actually that was actually an interesting way to do it. Possibly more effective than striking serious conversation.
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