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I think she's beautiful. And plus, she's tall! I'm 6ft 3, and she's 5ft 11.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36481410]MY girlfriend is really annoying me a lot lately. She constantly asks me to visit her and see eachother. Usually I do not mind but she is really ramping up the frequency because we will see eachother not for 3 months soon.
But at the moment I have tons of work and I do not feel like seeing her all the time, even with that long seperation. Now she is constantly pissed because I am always in a bad mood.[/QUOTE]
She wants you to care, she wants to feel you..
[QUOTE=junker|154;36481410]MY girlfriend is really annoying me a lot lately. She constantly asks me to visit her and see eachother. Usually I do not mind but she is really ramping up the frequency because we will see eachother not for 3 months soon.
But at the moment I have tons of work and I do not feel like seeing her all the time, even with that long seperation. Now she is constantly pissed because I am always in a bad mood.[/QUOTE]
Use Skype for things like this, I say.
[QUOTE=Seith;36481656]She wants you to care, she wants to feel you..[/QUOTE]
I care, I want to feel her. But not right now.
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[QUOTE=junker|154;36481706]I care, I want to feel her. But not right now.[/QUOTE]
You didn't catch my drift. I didn't mean it to be physically and right now. She wants you to show you care, she wants to hear the emotions
[editline]25th June 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Aetna;36481909]My bipolar girlfriend of three years left me roughly a month ago. Today she told me that for the past 2 years she didn't love me and that she just felt trapped being with me and relying on me for my emotional support. I've spent the past month torn up over this, and looking into her eyes that I still love so much and hearing her tell me with no emotion that she doesn't love me and that our relationship was terrible for her just killed me. I feel like such a piece of shit. I always devoted as much time and energy as I could give to making her happy, but I can't help but look back on every little thing I might have done wrong and hate myself for it. It's so hard to focus on my work, my friends, and everything I enjoy because I feel so stupid now.[/QUOTE]
I doubt you should think those things of yourself, especially considering she gave you the truth out of sincere respect and understanding that you'd be able to cope with that truth.
Most people can't even blur half-truths when dealing with these kinds of situation, she must be a pretty great person as well as yourself. I see nothing wrong with what you are going through, hopefully you will understand this soon enough.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36481410]MY girlfriend is really annoying me a lot lately. She constantly asks me to visit her and see eachother. Usually I do not mind but she is really ramping up the frequency because we will see eachother not for 3 months soon.
But at the moment I have tons of work and I do not feel like seeing her all the time, even with that long seperation. Now she is constantly pissed because I am always in a bad mood.[/QUOTE]
Keep the balance. Spend time with her yes, but keep time for yourself, otherwise things will turn sour. Explain to her though. As always communication is key. Tell her you have a high workload. Explain that you enjoy spending time with her, but also make it clear you need your own time too. With good communication she will understand. Make your feelings known and if you're going to reduce the amount of time you spend with her, make an (obvious, but not too obvious) effort to make the time you do spend together more special. Doesn't have to be anything lavish, when I cut down on time with one of my girlfriends, while we were doing that, I'd take her a pack of her favourite biscuits every time I went to visit. Just because. It's "cute"
I always forget that my girlfriend is taller than her older sister. It amuses me that they are short people. I don't know why, but it does. :v:
I just had a huge fight with my girlfriend on the phone. I just want to be left alone for a while and she just constantly asks me what is wrong with me. Make dumb accusations and throwing random insults, now she is crying and totally pissed.
Why the fuck can't she understand that I need some lonelyness.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36487238]Why the fuck can't she understand that I need some lonelyness.[/QUOTE]
You sir, are one of the stranger people I have had the honor of reading description of life events from.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36487238]I just had a huge fight with my girlfriend on the phone. I just want to be left alone for a while and she just constantly asks me what is wrong with me. Make dumb accusations and throwing random insults, now she is crying and totally pissed.
Why the fuck can't she understand that I need some lonelyness.[/QUOTE]
Why the fuck can't you understand a relationship is a 2-way street and that she probably needs something... either emotional support of some sort or just you
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36487827]Girlfriend should be No. 1 Priority.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps for you, I need to get my studies done and do all my work. Besides I really neglected my friends recently because of her.
I am still there for her, we talk everyday and see eachother a lot. We are at the same university and town. I even wanted to surprise her today and visit her, but she wasn't there. I am currently a bit emotional because of some family stuff. She knows that I will never leave her, but I cannot be now with her and hug her, kiss her or have sex with her. On the emotional side, I am always there for her. She just needs to call me, she knows that.
I know a lot of people are confused why a guy with an amazing girlfriend wants to be alone, but seriously I cannot stand to be 24/7 with someone. It is all a matter of perspective.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36487238]I just had a huge fight with my girlfriend on the phone. I just want to be left alone for a while and she just constantly asks me what is wrong with me. Make dumb accusations and throwing random insults, now she is crying and totally pissed.
Why the fuck can't she understand that I need some lonelyness.[/QUOTE]
The whole [I]point[/I] of having a girlfriend is so that there is a girl that is there [I]for you.[/I] One that [I]cares[/I] about [I]you[/I] and asks [I]you[/I] what is [I]wrong[/I] with [I]you[/I] when [I]you[/I] aren't happy. She wants you to be happy, not lock yourself away and mope about god knows what. She's making dumb accusations because she has nothing to go on because you won't [I]give her anything to go on.[/I] She makes random insults because she's desperate and hurt because you won't fucking talk to her.
Talk about your feelings, let her make you happy, let her support you, let her do what is usually expected of a girlfriend. Whats she's doing is her part of the bargain, shes trying to scratch your back and you're all "no fuck stop being nice what the hell I wanna be alone"
If you haven't gathered, TALK TO THE GIRL DAMNIT.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36488240]The whole [I]point[/I] of having a girlfriend is so that there is a girl that is there [I]for you.[/I] One that [I]cares[/I] about [I]you[/I] and asks [I]you[/I] what is [I]wrong[/I] with [I]you[/I] when [I]you[/I] aren't happy. She wants you to be happy, not lock yourself away and mope about god knows what. She's making dumb accusations because she has nothing to go on because you won't [I]give her anything to go on.[/I] She makes random insults because she's desperate and hurt because you won't fucking talk to her.
Talk about your feelings, let her make you happy, let her support you, let her do what is usually expected of a girlfriend. Whats she's doing is her part of the bargain, shes trying to scratch your back and you're all "no fuck stop being nice what the hell I wanna be alone"
If you haven't gathered, TALK TO THE GIRL DAMNIT.[/QUOTE]
I told her that I wanted to concentrate on studying in the recent time, I am quite busy. When it's over I can be there for her all the time, I am right now but just not physically. Besides you cannot judge the situation by the few poorly written sentences that I just posted here.
Fake problems?
You are absurd, besides she knows that and I told her that from the beginning.
Less than a month until I get sex. It's only been half a year already. Goddamn.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;36488905]Less than a month until I get sex. It's only been half a year already. Goddamn.[/QUOTE]
Same here, but throw in an another 5 months. She can't wait either, which is probably why it's so hard to hold a serious conversation with her on Skype when she's naked 80% of the time
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Well I didn't think it was possible, but she deleted me from my life. Literally. All because I made a promise I couldn't keep, because things changed between us and she looks at me differently. Her and I were close and had alot in common then you think but now the only person that ever mattered to me, doesn't want anything to do with me. Love hurts, now I know what it feels like to be heartbroken.
[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;36488905]Less than a month until I get sex. It's only been half a year already. Goddamn.[/QUOTE]
man, and i thought 4 months was bad
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;36490909]okay so my phone contract is in my girlfriends dads name because i couldn't get a contract due to not a good enough credit rating, so we were going to switch it over after like 6 months.
He has gone online and looked through my call history and seen that i've been talking to a particular number for lengthy amounts of time at random times and he's called me out and asked me if I'm seeing anyone else. I said no, which is true.. although i am speaking to someone a lot.
I tried to break it off with my girlfriend even though her parents have paid for a holiday to thailand in a month. I guess ill have to pay him off (even though its not my fault I've lost feelings) and just be done with it. I have some feelings for her, but its got too far and i think it would be better in the long run.
Just feels a little odd, her dad confronting me about it and saying that he thinks i should do something about it now. Even before my girlfriend really knows. I told her i just feel like we're best friends and she was bugging me so i said we're together, but now i have to break it off again.
Worst situation ever haha[/QUOTE]
"even though it's not my fault i've lost feelings"
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[QUOTE=lil_n00blett;36488905]Less than a month until I get sex. It's only been half a year already. Goddamn.[/QUOTE]
I haven't had sex with my current girlfriend yet, and we've dated for over a year.
[editline]26th June 2012[/editline]
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[QUOTE=Seith;36494272]"even though it's not my fault i've lost feelings"
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well i didn't like, actually choose to?
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;36495360]well i didn't like, actually choose to?[/QUOTE]
Surely
[QUOTE=BlazeFresh;36490909]okay so my phone contract is in my girlfriends dads name [/QUOTE]
Rookie mistake. I would live without a phone or go pre paid rather then put my phone in someobe else's name.
I would also find it completely creepy if my girlfriends dad went through my call history and confronted me about it.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36507190]I just got my wisdom teeth out, and tomorrow my girlfriends comming over to take care of me.
She's such a sweetie.
I'll be so doped up on oxycontin though.[/QUOTE]
Don't let her near you with markers.
[QUOTE=SparkDog;36490759]Same here, but throw in an another 5 months. She can't wait either, which is probably why it's so hard to hold a serious conversation with her on Skype when she's naked 80% of the time[/QUOTE]
3 months here, September is gonna be a good month.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;36508871]it took 8 months for me and it took almost two years for a friend of mine
hang in there buddy[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend was with her ex for about a year and they still didn't have sex. We've been together for about one and a half months, and she told me she wants me to be her first and almost went for it when we sleptover last week. I was kind of holding her back then, don't want her to be rushing it.
This weekend is going to be a good weekend, though.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36507190]I just got my wisdom teeth out, and tomorrow my girlfriends comming over to take care of me.
She's such a sweetie.
I'll be so doped up on oxycontin though.[/QUOTE]
post-anesthesia blowjob
do it
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