That's interesting, I'll have to talk to her about those big confusing words.
I can't scroll through the dictionary fast enough to keep up with half of this, but I think I got it.
It seems that all of this is saying... [I]talk to your/her doctor[/I]
holy shit im a bad poster
[QUOTE=thisispain;36574946]does she have pituitary gland issues? sounds like she has hormone over-sensitivity, in which case she should look for very low dose hormonal birth-control.
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and she's not allergic to alcohol dum dum, hormone over-sensitivity can manifest as hypopituitarism causing the alcohol to not be metabolized well.[/QUOTE]
i feel like some kind of gay wizard when i can read this stuff and understand it
everyone should take first responder classes
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36584203]So I know how to cook taco pie, and yesterday I taught myself how to cook rice (thanks to the back of an insta-rice box)
I think I'm going to cook my girlfriend a nice little dinner, since she's been stressed out from work lately.
I'm thinking we could eat on the outside deck, under the umbrella. Or I could just take her out to eat somewhere.
What should I do? Cook for her or go out somewhere with her?[/QUOTE]
Cook for her, it's more personal.
Chicken and rice is always a nice combo.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36584203]So I know how to cook taco pie, and yesterday I taught myself how to cook rice (thanks to the back of an insta-rice box)
I think I'm going to cook my girlfriend a nice little dinner, since she's been stressed out from work lately.
I'm thinking we could eat on the outside deck, under the umbrella. Or I could just take her out to eat somewhere.
What should I do? Cook for her or go out somewhere with her?[/QUOTE]
I made some delicious Shepards Pie for my girlfriend, she is not familiar with english cuisine. Making a dessert will result in instant wins.
Anyone know how effective spermicidal lube is?
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36585308]Well she might be tired of taco pie since she'd eaten it twice already, any suggestions on other easy-to-fix meals?
I am considering chicken and rice, as Legend said.[/QUOTE]
Chicken Alfredo. Easy, tasty.
Gru (don't ask about the name) Ground beef and shells and cheese. Goes great with things like corn, green beans, any veggie really.
Is there anything you could make together? A meal that can be made by two people? I once made a homemade pizza with a friend, we had a lot of fun.
Lately I have been having some weird thoughts on cheating on my girlfriend and I do not why. We have now been for 4 months together and I really love her, she is wonderful and we both had a great time so far. Although we will be seperated for 3 months now.
Somehow I really feel a desire to cheat on her with another girl during those 3 months, also when I just stroll on the streets I am really looking for other girl, also I tend to flirt with all the girls that I meet. I feel so terribly bad.
I have always been a loyal and faithful boyfriend to any girl, I had no interest in anyone during a relationship. So I am quite confused right now. And my current girl is like the best one I have ever met.
Uh, I'm pretty sure sitting her down and saying "I've been thinking about cheating on you, but i don't know why" is not a good idea. I think most females are somewhat prone to paranoia about that sort of thing and saying it to her is unlikely to help anything, and more likely cause you problems. So long as you don't act on it (pleasedon't cheat on her) they there's no reason she should know.
Not that you shouldn't talk anyway and maybe find out if there's anything missing between you two that is causing you to feel like this. But don't tell her what you'vejust told us. I can almost guarantee it'llonly make things worse
Thanks, I was a bit concerned because a few days ago we had a huge fight about our future and some other stuff. I acted ignorant, she was insulting me and I got even more pissed. Then we conciliated, afterwards she told me that during one particular day where we had that fight, she was studying in a room at our university. There was a guy constantly smiling and blinking at her, then he wrote her a letter on a small piece of paper inviting her for a coffee. It is pretty obvious that he had interest in her. Then my girlfriend agreed and they both had a coffee. She stated to me that "we had a great time, he was really sympathetic and good looking". They exchanged their fb and phone numbers. Then he invited her to watch football at a local club at night. She also agreed to go there with him.
Later that day we both saw eachother and were arguing heavy, then she said like "By the way I need to go home to learn and later on and I am having an appointement tonight". I though it was with a friend of hers. Anyway during the evening we talked and we reconciliated, like I mentioned. Then I asked if we both could watch the match and she said yes. Well during our trip to another pub she told me the whole story. I was really jealous and she acted like it would be totally normal and that this guy was not interested in her. Seriously? This guy wanted her so much. I asked her to stop doing that. She replied with "Well I was frustrated and angry at you, that guy offered me some fun and distraction".
Usually I am not a jealous type at all, I have some healthy jealousy but this got a bit to far. I reacted calm and said that I was very displeased of her reaction. What do you guys think of this story?
You might want to reassess your relationship and how much each party really values it.
Your relationship has some issues which you both need to sit down and figure out. Neither of you are expressing your dissatisfaction with each other in very healthy ways at all, and either you learn to communicate those feelings to each other maturely and find an amicable solution together, or your relationship is just going to continue to go downhill until one of you does something retarded. The fact that she was honest and trusting enough to bring that up with you is telling though, similar to how you're recognizing how you're feeling towards other girls and wanting to do something about it, and if you both genuinely want to put in the effort to make things work again, it's not too late.
Like Autumn said, be honest with her but just do so tactfully, and empathetically.
It sounds like she was upset that you were arguing, and tried to get back at you by making you jealous by going off with that guy. I wish it wasn't the case but people seem to do that a lot, though i think it's pretty horrible.
She should apologise though, or at least feel bad for doing it. And if she doesn't, or thinks she entitled to do so because you'd argued... then you might have a problem
also you said you were talking about your future and that turned into an argument, what sort of future were you discussing? You've only been together 4
[editline]2nd July 2012[/editline]
*months right?
[QUOTE=Dark_Light;36589650]Your relationship has some issues which you both need to sit down and figure out. Neither of you are expressing your dissatisfaction with each other in very healthy ways at all, and either you learn to communicate those feelings to each other maturely and find an amicable solution together, or your relationship is just going to continue to go downhill until one of you does something retarded. The fact that she was honest and trusting enough to bring that up with you is telling though, similar to how you're recognizing how you're feeling towards other girls and wanting to do something about it, and if you both genuinely want to put in the effort to make things work again, it's not too late.
Like Autumn said, be honest with her but just do so tactfully, and empathetically.[/QUOTE]
We have great communication, we talk so much about our feelings and issues. Actually she helped me out on some of my issues and I helped her out in some other stuff. Only this one time we kind of failed, it was mostly my fault for ignoring her. Happens from time to time. I also understood how she felt but still it is not nice to do such a thing.
[editline]2nd July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Autumn;36589674]It sounds like she was upset that you were arguing, and tried to get back at you by making you jealous by going off with that guy. I wish it wasn't the case but people seem to do that a lot, though i think it's pretty horrible.
She should apologise though, or at least feel bad for doing it. And if she doesn't, or thinks she entitled to do so because you'd argued... then you might have a problem
also you said you were talking about your future and that turned into an argument, what sort of future were you discussing? You've only been together 4
[editline]2nd July 2012[/editline]
*months right?[/QUOTE]
She apologized afterwards and said that she will no do it again. But she still argued that it was nothing to worry about.
What I meant about our future is that we are seperated for three months, we talked about what we are going to do and we actually talked about cheating and came to the conclusion that we both are really in love with eachother, but we had loads of stress past weeks because of exams, work and emotional unstableness :v:
Things went a bit overboard, so we had this fight. Just now I worry for those three months if such things would happen again, on the other hand she told me how much she loves me and so on.
to be honest it sounds like she's not very secure, or maybe not very serious, about her relationship with you.
if she's going to another guy to get that relationship feeling just because you two had a little spat, then maybe you need to rethink just what this relationship means to both
if you talk to her about it, make sure you ask what her feelings about the relationship are, and let her know that doing something like going to another guy is not an OK thing to do
We talked a lot about it, this incident will hopefully be the only and last one. Also you guys seem to make it like she is really insecure about it, my story proves that quite a bit. But during our mutual time we had some revelations and insights on what is truly a good relation, according to her, her prior relations were bad and totally superficial. I had the same kind of stuff, considering at how things are now. I'd even call our relationship mature, but this incident is a bit worrying for me.
She is really dedicated to our relationship. I noticed that a lot. Besides our story is really unique. But you guys prove a point here.
Oh for christ sake, during our chat I made a slight comment of the incident with that guy, suddently my mood goes to shit and I am starting to be annoyed by her and realize how much this actually hurt me.
Now we have a fight again, this is really annoying me.
Then stop fighting it. What are you trying to prove, know more than you do now? Think about what really bothers you about this and stop blaming it on her as if she can control your mood.
What she did might have been annoying, weird and maybe even dumb, fact is she did it. You got two choices - move on, or fix this.
[QUOTE=junker|154;36591877]Oh for christ sake, during our chat I made a slight comment of the incident with that guy, suddently my mood goes to shit and I am starting to be annoyed by her and realize how much this actually hurt me.
Now we have a fight again, this is really annoying me.[/QUOTE]
You need to let her know how much that actually hurt you/ is hurting you. It's not fair to you that because of one little fight, you have suffer for it.
If merely bringing the incident up causes a huge fight, and really annoys you, then like everyone else said, she doesn't seem to be taking this all to seriously and it seems like you're the only one who's hurting here.
-Forget what I said-
(Angst incoming)
Really don't know what's going on with me and my girlfriend. Been going out 6 and a half months and things had been going much the same, but fine, until a few days ago when another 'friend' messages her on facebook saying how I deserve someone better than her and she's fake, not even talking to me, (I swear this guy is determined to mess up our relationship, he's done other shit before). Whilst all this is happening I'm away for the weekend with my family so all I can do is text, basically, the messages really got to her so she ask's me if there's any problems, nothing major, but I say a few, then she stopped replying to my texts, though she wanted to talk things through.
Today I actually saw her though she seemed pretty down (I am too) and was blanking me, not really talking to anyone. I feel really bad for not making more of an effort to talk to her, but I really don't know what to do, I guess this is the culmination of not communicating properly, just ignited by that message she got sent. Our relationship is by no means perfect (IE, she's taking things a lot more slowly than I would like, but I'm reasonably patient and can deal with that), but seeing someone you love and know so well, as if they were a total stranger is one of the worst feelings.
Any advice? at the moment she hasn't replied to any of my texts and I couldn't talk to her (and she was basically avoiding me)
/vent
Okay, so I recently bought my girlfriend a trip to London (we live in Denmark) we have been together for 7 months now (wow times are really moving fast.)
So, I have been in London once before, but I was thinking if anyone has an idea of what we could do? We have 6 nights in London (departing the 15th). Any advice? I was of course thinking London Eye, some of the parks (if the weather is nice), maybe even the Zoo (as we have talked about doing that this summer, as we enjoy this kind of stuff)
But anyone got any other advice? And I was thinking restaurants, do you have any good suggestions?
right so okay
i met this girl in school and she seems awesome, some similar interests, nice looking, etc
so, got her on tumblr, we've talked and today she tagged a post saying something about her girlfriend.
[I]fuck[/I].
Just become friends?
[QUOTE=mikkeljuhl;36593307]Okay, so I recently bought my girlfriend a trip to London (we live in Denmark) we have been together for 7 months now (wow times are really moving fast.)
So, I have been in London once before, but I was thinking if anyone has an idea of what we could do? We have 6 nights in London (departing the 15th). Any advice? I was of course thinking London Eye, some of the parks (if the weather is nice), maybe even the Zoo (as we have talked about doing that this summer, as we enjoy this kind of stuff)
But anyone got any other advice? And I was thinking restaurants, do you have any good suggestions?[/QUOTE]
Go for long walks. Especially at night or in the evening. I've been to london before. The city really shines at night if you go around the Big Ben area, if I remember correctly. And by the bridge near big ben. Atleast it shines for us when we're from Denmark, our cities are quite boring.
I'm going to Latvia with my girlfriend again this year for three weeks. We've been together for two years this august, so everything seems alright. It's basically all the small things on the trip from last year that we remember.
Going on walks, shopping, cooking, laughing, the nights. Even eating on restaurants and living into the culture is great. So yeah, do whatever you wish and be VERY spontaneous, even if it doesn't sound that fun or worth the cash.
[QUOTE=cueballv2themax;36593578]right so okay
i met this girl in school and she seems awesome, some similar interests, nice looking, etc
so, got her on tumblr, we've talked and today she tagged a post saying something about her girlfriend.
[I]fuck[/I].[/QUOTE]
generic threesome comment here
[QUOTE=mikkeljuhl;36593307]Okay, so I recently bought my girlfriend a trip to London (we live in Denmark) we have been together for 7 months now (wow times are really moving fast.)
So, I have been in London once before, but I was thinking if anyone has an idea of what we could do? We have 6 nights in London (departing the 15th). Any advice? I was of course thinking London Eye, some of the parks (if the weather is nice), maybe even the Zoo (as we have talked about doing that this summer, as we enjoy this kind of stuff)
But anyone got any other advice? And I was thinking restaurants, do you have any good suggestions?[/QUOTE]
Science Museum, Natural History Museum. Both free and vaguely interesting. Tower of London is pretty cool although I don't know what the prices are like.
See if you can find a weatherspoons pub and try a guest ale (usually fairly cheap and vaguely representative of what a real tasty British beer is like) assuming you're old enough of course. Boat trip on the Thames is a use for an afternoon, see a bit more of the city. Perhaps find a West End play to see?
[QUOTE=metallics;36594008]Science Museum, Natural History Museum. Both free and vaguely interesting. Tower of London is pretty cool although I don't know what the prices are like.
See if you can find a weatherspoons pub and try a guest ale (usually fairly cheap and vaguely representative of what a real tasty British beer is like) assuming you're old enough of course. Boat trip on the Thames is a use for an afternoon, see a bit more of the city. Perhaps find a West End play to see?[/QUOTE]
I like the idea of a West-End play, I was thinking about The Lion King (as it's her favourite Disney movie) but it's around 80 pounds, is it worth it?
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