[QUOTE=junker|154;36770486]Man, sometimes my girlfriend gets really butthurt when I make some jokes, which are absolutely harmless. Well that in my opinion, then she gets all mad at me for no reason, I did not meant to hurt anyone.[/QUOTE]
Perhaps its her time of the month.
:v: that would be highly plausible and actually that is the case.
or maybe your jokes are terrible
secret to telling jokes, if your audience doesn't like them you're a shit comedian.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36773825]or maybe your jokes are terrible
secret to telling jokes, if your audience doesn't like them you're a shit comedian.[/QUOTE]
implying that speaking a joke to ones girl exposes it to every person ever.
Its highly possible that the jokes were designed to be at the expense of another, but her (and looks like yours too) especially fucked up hormones skewed the way she took it.
yeah it's my hormones you're right
even though i'm a male and almost 30
good one
Sometimes girls laugh at even the stupidest jokes ever. It's not about the quality of the jokes, it's about whether she likes you or not. If she does, she'll laugh. (well except if the joke is really really really bad or in terrible bad taste).
Or maybe you say way too many jokes all the time.
I don't know. The truth is jokes are no longer working with her, for fuck's sake.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36774807]yeah it's my hormones you're right
even though i'm a male and almost 30
good one[/QUOTE]
My point exactly. You're male and almost 30, but you sure as hell ain't acting it.
because i think if you tell jokes and people don't laugh it means it's a bad joke?
that's really not that radical of a concept
i think you're grasping at straws here, and to say someone doesn't like a joke because of hormones is pretty immature so you aren't in any position to make a judgement like that.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36776361]because i think if you tell jokes and people don't laugh it means it's a bad joke?
that's really not that radical of a concept
i think you're grasping at straws here, and to say someone doesn't like a joke because of hormones is pretty immature so you aren't in any position to make a judgement like that.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, if [I]everyone[/I] didn't like it, then its a bad joke. Thats basic, moving on.
BUT. Only one person didn't like the joke. We have no idea how anyone else reacted, and then you implied that because she didn't like it, everyone else has to hate it too. If she was being screwed over by "that time of the month", then her hormones are going nucking futs. The way she reacts to everything is going to be different, therefore if a joke is told then there is a chance that she may just explode. I don't understand how acknowledging that a girl's emotions are screwed up by hormones every month is immature.
because that's not what happens to every girl during menstruation.
[url]http://www.nih.gov/news/pr/jan98/nimh-21.htm[/url]
i find it funny that you are calling me immature when you don't even know that PMS isn't something every single woman experiences, it's isolated to 3-7% of the population and can be a significant issue.
and as for the joke, if the girlfriend doesn't like the joke then you are just screwing up hard. i play favourites.
It's standard procedure to get a new condom if you cum in the one your wearing, even if you're still good to go right afterwards, right?
Because sometimes I'm still perfectly hard afterwards, but I get worried that you're not supposed to keep using it, so I get a new one, which means that there's this period where the moment kinda dies down and it's strange. I would prefer to just be able to keep going, but I would also prefer that it not break.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36776709]Bull fucking shit. Anyone with a girlfriend will tell you they can be totally different people.[/QUOTE]
nope sorry not in my experience
Maybe that's a weird question...
[editline]15th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Rusty100;36776762]nope sorry not in my experience[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend breaks down over the smallest things when she's on her period. Like, does weird things like go all bolemic after a meal and over reacts to everything and makes wild assumptions like "you hated such-and-such and it ruined it" even though I may have thoroughly enjoyed such-and-such. It's kinda scary because she gets really sad. Then again, this isn't every period or the whole time she's on it, it's just occasionally it's really bad for her.
[editline]15th July 2012[/editline]
And don't think I instantly mentally chalk it up to 'Ah, she's on her period, ignore her'. That's an awful stance for anyone to take.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36776709]Bull fucking shit. Anyone with a girlfriend will tell you they can be totally different people.[/QUOTE]
and if they take birth-control pills?
[editline]14th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;36776764]
My girlfriend breaks down over the smallest things when she's on her period. Like, does weird things like go all bolemic after a meal and over reacts to everything and makes wild assumptions like "you hated such-and-such and it ruined it" even though I may have thoroughly enjoyed such-and-such. It's kinda scary because she gets really sad. Then again, this isn't every period or the whole time she's on it, it's just occasionally it's really bad for her.[/QUOTE]
sounds more like bipolar because i do the same exact thing hahaha
people are different on their period but its not always a case of pms
but who cares the guy's point was the same no matter what it's called: when shes on her period she acts differently
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;36776754]It's standard procedure to get a new condom if you cum in the one your wearing, even if you're still good to go right afterwards, right?[/QUOTE]
it's just good habits, a condom is much more likely to break the more you use it.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36776623]because that's not what happens to every girl during menstruation.
[url]http://www.nih.gov/news/pr/jan98/nimh-21.htm[/url]
i find it funny that you are calling me immature when you don't even know that PMS isn't something every single woman experiences, it's isolated to 3-7% of the population and can be a significant issue.
and as for the joke, if the girlfriend doesn't like the joke then you are just screwing up hard. i play favourites.[/QUOTE]
Don't put words in my mouth, I said you weren't acting like a 30 year old male. If anything else is considered immature to you, then there are other things wrong here than just your attitude. I also never attributed it to PMS, and never implied that ALL women are fucking insane on their period. I said they're [I]different.[/I]
you're [i]different[/i]
Well, the girl I was talking to started talking to her ex again. It's pretty obvious she's lost interest in me, she won't return any of my messages and I guarantee that in a few weeks when talking to him turns out badly she'll come to me with her problems. I'm tired of this, I'm done for a while.
just forget about her, you don't have to be someone's arm to cry on.
I agree, I've been good friends with this girl for two years now and it's becoming clear that she thinks I'll just always be there no matter what she does. Not anymore.
This just leaves me at a loss, I don't know if I should even bother looking for a girlfriend this summer. I'm starting to think I'm the type of person that should stay single.
You don't know? Next summer would be better? Stop with the self-pity and keep going.
You're probably right. This whole situation has just got me really bummed. I'll give it a few days then try to meet some new people.
Can't say I'd want to start a new relationship this summer as uni is coming up; I do not want to start something that will quickly become long distance.
Who says relationship is the only path?
if you're talking about a fuck-buddy I can't say I'm really into that.
Сall it whatever you want, mate. Why not? Give a tangible reason, not emotions please (i.e I don't feel it's right for me / it's not my thing)
I think it would feel a bit meaningless because it can be a strong way of emotionally bonding you with someone else; I can't really give you a reason that excludes emotion because that plays a large part in it (at least to me). Take that away and it's just pleasure. Maybe if I knew someone who I was quite close to and could have that with, but there's no one really at the moment.
Well, I won't force you to be any clearer. My assumption is;
1. meaningless is actually a synonym for comfort. I say this from personal experience; In my very long past, I used to think the same. Until I realized it was just being afraid, as romantic relationships are the easiest way to get sex and not be judged for it.
We are all afraid of what we don't have control of.
Do I want it? Sure. If it was a close friend I could trust I suppose yeah I would. Mind you, having sex with a friend will likely lead onto one or the other liking each other which would suck in my case because of uni.
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