[QUOTE=RopaDope;36819489]i didnt even get close to it so i think im fine[/QUOTE]
You mean to squirt squirt?
You'll be fine
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;36815168]of all the weird pet names people use in this thread, this is definitely the weirdest because it implies you're married when you're not[/QUOTE]
Fucking 'Straya cunt. We call our girls the misses even when we're not married.
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
But you're right it does mean wife, haha.
[editline]18th July 2012[/editline]
If you didn't actually come inside her you should be fine. I've done that loads of time and then put a condom on later.
Soon enough she'll become your misses...
yes
soon...
[QUOTE=JohnnyMo1;36818503]shit I gotta break up with my girlfriend she didn't want to use Kwisatz Haderach as a safe word[/QUOTE]
You should have made her say The Holy Emperor of Mankind.
Aight, i gotta know. Romance in the workplace, good or bad?
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36825912]Aight, i gotta know. Romance in the workplace, good or bad?[/QUOTE]
Without being psychic its pretty difficult to tell. If things go badly wrong, you're fucked, it can be awkward, unpleasant or the other person could make your working life outright hell. It's also pretty distracting at times to work with the person you're in a relationship and it means you have even less time apart, which can go either way depending on how much time you spend with them already.
generally it's a bad idea, considering that you'll still have to see the person and even interact with them daily if things go wrong. if you end up angry at each other if things don't work out it could impact your job.
Hey guys. I kissed a girl for the first time last night. Being a shy 17 year old Facepuncher, I am extremely proud. Now that I vented my happiness, I will go lurk some more...
[QUOTE=Chase827;36828822]Hey guys. I kissed a girl for the first time last night. Being a shy 17 year old Facepuncher, I am extremely proud. Now that I vented my happiness, I will go lurk some more...[/QUOTE]
How much was it?
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36828331]generally it's a bad idea, considering that you'll still have to see the person and even interact with them daily if things go wrong. if you end up angry at each other if things don't work out it could impact your job.[/QUOTE]
Relationship or casual, both are as awkward as you make 'em.
[QUOTE=Lick;36829334]How much was it?[/QUOTE]
:10bux:
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36828331]generally it's a bad idea, considering that you'll still have to see the person and even interact with them daily if things go wrong. if you end up angry at each other if things don't work out it could impact your job.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=metallics;36826065]Without being psychic its pretty difficult to tell. If things go badly wrong, you're fucked, it can be awkward, unpleasant or the other person could make your working life outright hell. It's also pretty distracting at times to work with the person you're in a relationship and it means you have even less time apart, which can go either way depending on how much time you spend with them already.[/QUOTE]
I know its a bad thing, but I'm trying to find as many outside sources that say that as possible in order to prevent myself from reasoning it in my head.
I got a friend at the same job that is significantly higher on the food chain than I and now he's dating a newhire. We've [I]all[/I] told him that this is a really bad idea and he's convinced that nothing will go wrong and everything will be fine regardless of how things turn out. That and there are several really cool girls where I work that if they weren't working here I'd so be pushing forward with...
There's a difference between a manager dating a newhire and you dating someone who works with you. Sounds like bullshit to me, your reasoning that is.
[QUOTE=Seith;36835967]There's a difference between a manager dating a newhire and you dating someone who works with you. Sounds like bullshit to me, your reasoning that is.[/QUOTE]
Okay. Why?
Fucking your boss sure is intimidating, but man, does it boost your ego!
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36837519]Okay. Why?[/QUOTE]
"[b]I know its a bad thing, but I'm trying to find as many outside sources that say that as possible in order to prevent myself from reasoning it in my head.[/b]; You know it's a bad thing, yet you still want answers. If you truly want something, why does it matter what others think? Try out for yourself instead of listening to other people's experiences.
[b]I got a friend at the same job that is significantly higher on the food chain than I and now he's dating a newhire. We've all told him that this is a really bad idea and he's convinced that nothing will go wrong and everything will be fine regardless of how things turn out. [/b]; While I find your friends behaviour a bit pathetic and needy, I also admire him for his consistency and stubbornness. He wants something and he goes for it, regardless of the consequences, which is what winners do.
[b]That and there are several really cool girls where I work that if they weren't working here I'd so be pushing forward with..."[/b]; I need your reasoning here. Give me your honest opinion on why would it turn out bad.
dating someone at work really isn't as big a deal as is being made out here, especially if where you work isn't tiny
i work in a small supermarket and there are at least 3 work-place relationships going on there that i know of. one is between two semi-managerial staff, one is between two young shop assistants and the other one transcends the two positions of authority. i've also shagged a girl from work after the christmas party and we still share lifts to work on a weekly basis and it isn't awkward at all
sometimes you just gotta go with shit and risk it because it's way better to fuck something up than to have never even bothered trying
[QUOTE=Seith;36838121]"[b]I know its a bad thing, but I'm trying to find as many outside sources that say that as possible in order to prevent myself from reasoning it in my head.[/b]; You know it's a bad thing, yet you still want answers. If you truly want something, why does it matter what others think? Try out for yourself instead of listening to other people's experiences.
[b]I got a friend at the same job that is significantly higher on the food chain than I and now he's dating a newhire. We've all told him that this is a really bad idea and he's convinced that nothing will go wrong and everything will be fine regardless of how things turn out. [/b]; While I find your friends behaviour a bit pathetic and needy, I also admire him for his consistency and stubbornness. He wants something and he goes for it, regardless of the consequences, which is what winners do.
[b]That and there are several really cool girls where I work that if they weren't working here I'd so be pushing forward with..."[/b]; I need your reasoning here. Give me your honest opinion on why would it turn out bad.[/QUOTE]
It puts both of our jobs at risk. In my friends case, all this girl has to do is imply to anyone else in the company that he's mistreating her, and management will come down on his head like a ton of bricks. If anyone even [I]thinks[/I] that she's getting special treatment because of her relationship, then he's fucked. If she's the vengeful type and something goes south, he's fucked.
In my case it'd be a similar story, minus the "special treatment". If somethign goes wrong, I have to see her EVERY SINGLE DAY. Anyone else who knows of it could be made uncomfortable by any conflict we have, if either side chooses to do so they can accuse the other of unwanted sexual contact, if it pisses off management at all then we're gone, the list goes on. Its just so fucking dangerous. Unless I'm planning on knocking one up and starting a family, then simply no girl here at work is worth losing my job over and the more that is beaten into my head, the better.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36839124]It puts both of our jobs at risk. In my friends case, all this girl has to do is imply to anyone else in the company that he's mistreating her, and management will come down on his head like a ton of bricks. If anyone even [I]thinks[/I] that she's getting special treatment because of her relationship, then he's fucked. If she's the vengeful type and something goes south, he's fucked.[/QUOTE]
wait a sec are we talking about real life here or a really bad film because i can't tell
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
what is this job you have. is it just a summer job or a part-time thing to get you through uni/college or something? i'd probably risk love over that
(i'm ignoring the fact for the moment that all the 'risk' sounds purely fantastical at worse or incredibly pessimistic at best)
Guys, my lovely girlfriend has gone away for a month.. hold me.
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;36839228]wait a sec are we talking about real life here or a really bad film because i can't tell
[editline]19th July 2012[/editline]
what is this job you have. is it just a summer job or a part-time thing to get you through uni/college or something? i'd probably risk love over that
(i'm ignoring the fact for the moment that all the 'risk' sounds purely fantastical at worse or incredibly pessimistic at best)[/QUOTE]
No no, this is my [I]job[/I] job. Summer job? DUde fuck it I'd risk that, its temporary. But this is my sole and central form of employment.
Personally, this is all "what if". There's a "what if" with everything, you can't control reality. You might lose your job regardless.
I'd rather you go out a meet women on the street or whatever it is comfortable for you, I don't give a fuck if you hit on women at your work.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36839336]No no, this is my [I]job[/I] job. Summer job? DUde fuck it I'd risk that, its temporary. But this is my sole and central form of employment.[/QUOTE]
oh right. anyways though i think you're still being really pessimistic. it's kinda worrying that the first thing you'd think about getting with someone you like is "but wait what if we break up and what if she turns out to be a psycho crazy hose beast and takes me to court and ruins my entire career for the rest of my life"
i'd hope you'd be able to read someone slightly better than that. i've never met anyone in my life who i thought would try to lie and take legal action against me and ruin my life if we broke up
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;36839442]oh right. anyways though i think you're still being really pessimistic. it's kinda worrying that the first thing you'd think about getting with someone you like is "but wait what if we break up and what if she turns out to be a psycho crazy hose beast and takes me to court and ruins my entire career for the rest of my life"
i'd hope you'd be able to read someone slightly better than that. i've never met anyone in my life who i thought would try to lie and take legal action against me and ruin my life if we broke up[/QUOTE]
I can read people pretty well I'd like to think, but sorry if I'd rather just look elsewhere or stay single if the alternative is unemployment.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36839577]I can read people pretty well I'd like to think, but sorry if I'd rather just look elsewhere or stay single if the alternative is unemployment.[/QUOTE]
But you can still be in a relationship at the same time you're working. Doesn't need to be something that serious or harmful to your career.
Sure it can go wrong, but I guess it won't be that damaging to your work. Won't hurt giving a relationship a shot if you keep things outside the work place.
Also isn't there a document at your company for you to sign in case you're in a relationship with a co-worker?
I'm about to turn 27 my girlfriend is by far the hottest I've ever been with just turned 21, and I find her sometimes laying around the house curled up with her feet tucked beneath her butt, wearing these small hot little pjs, these tiny little white short short pjs with a little hand print design on the butt, sometimes able to see her gstring right through them, and wearing this light pink low cut hello kitty shirt, an sleeping with no bra can slightly see her nipples. I love it when her lower back tattoo is showing. Although theree been times when I had guy friends come over and she's be asleep on the couch in that attire. And it's times like that I wish I'd remember to get a damn blanket. But yea I don't know just a random girlfriend thought, although I do hate when I come home from class or swing by on my way to work and can't stay long and find her like that, dammit woman I just want to utterly violate you in your sleep and I cant! It makes it really hard to focus on school or work after that haha
[QUOTE=ShadowWolf85;36847479]I'm about to turn 27 my girlfriend is by far the hottest I've ever been with just turned 21, and I find her sometimes laying around the house curled up with her feet tucked beneath her butt, wearing these small hot little pjs, these tiny little white short short pjs with a little hand print design on the butt, sometimes able to see her gstring right through them, and wearing this light pink low cut hello kitty shirt, an sleeping with no bra can slightly see her nipples. I love it when her lower back tattoo is showing. Although theree been times when I had guy friends come over and she's be asleep on the couch in that attire. And it's times like that I wish I'd remember to get a damn blanket. But yea I don't know just a random girlfriend thought[/QUOTE]
i have an erection now but i'm still not sure how to respond to this post
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;36839577]I can read people pretty well I'd like to think, but sorry if I'd rather just look elsewhere or stay single if the alternative is unemployment.[/QUOTE]
1. the only alternative isn't direct unemployment. again, read my post about pessimism
2. if you're not arsed at all about being single why are you making such a big deal about this situation in the first place
make up your mind mate
[QUOTE=BoysLightUp;36847700]i have an erection now but i'm still not sure how to respond to this post[/QUOTE] I guess it is kind of a response in itself? Because I can't wrap my head around what guy WOULDNT have one haha, guilty as charged
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