[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34472642]Talking about a blowjob here...[/QUOTE]
Wait what? You're talking about a BJ?
Settle down then, you don't have to worry about anything. You aren't judged for how fast you blow your load when it comes down to a BJ. Sit back, relax and let her do the work. Why was the issue of masturbation even brought up for a BJ?
I'm pretty sure that your nerves will keep you from ejaculating. This is at least from my experience and what I've heard from a few others, so I might not be right.
I'm so never getting my first question answered, am I?
Do you do other things prior to getting a blowjob? Messing around in other ways for a while might loosen you up a bit.
[QUOTE=Pepin;34473605]I'm pretty sure that your nerves will keep you from ejaculating. This is at least from my experience and what I've heard from a few others, so I might not be right.[/QUOTE]
Nerves can work both ways.
I'm missing my girl so much. We had phone sex last night, then she sent me a text afterwards and I think it was the nicest thing I'd ever read and I had a little manly cry. It confirmed that yes I would like to be with her forever, even if that is an idealised world and you guys probably think it's sappy nonsense. She makes me feel so and treats me so well, no one has ever made me feel the way she does. I wouldn't normally tell people about this but I feel I really need to, I want to shout about it.
[QUOTE=Doozle;34477338]I'm missing my girl so much. We had phone sex last night, then she sent me a text afterwards and I think it was the nicest thing I'd ever read and I had a little manly cry. It confirmed that yes I would like to be with her forever, even if that is an idealised world and you guys probably think it's sappy nonsense. She makes me feel so and treats me so well, no one has ever made me feel the way she does. I wouldn't normally tell people about this but I feel I really need to, I want to shout about it.[/QUOTE]
No one ever thinks it is sappy nonsense. We know what youre saying is genuine, it is just as you grow older and more experienced you tend to find that these things do not last.
You could very well become highschool sweethearts, but let me just tell you those are few and far in between. Currently though, I wish you good luck in your relationship.
I'm 20, she's 21 so we're a bit older than high school sweetheart age. I've been with girls before but they've never lasted as long or been as rewarding.
We're hopefully moving in together around June sort of time.
[QUOTE=1chains1;34477420]No one ever thinks it is sappy nonsense. We know what youre saying is genuine, it is just as you grow older and more experienced you tend to find that these things do not last.
You could very well become highschool sweethearts, but let me just tell you those are few and far in between. Currently though, I wish you good luck in your relationship.[/QUOTE]
What was the point of this post?
"Hey, it seems like you are feeling great and is in a happy relationship, but let me just tell you that it's probably not gonna last."
I think he meant you shouldn't feel bad if it ends.
[QUOTE=Doozle;34477494]I'm 20, she's 21 so we're a bit older than high school sweetheart age. I've been with girls before but they've never lasted as long or been as rewarding.
We're hopefully moving in together around June sort of time.[/QUOTE]
I hope your relationship is long lived and rewarding
[QUOTE=TheDKer;34478039]What was the point of this post?
"Hey, it seems like you are feeling great and is in a happy relationship, but let me just tell you that it's probably not gonna last."[/QUOTE]
I was addressing how he said people here think it is sappy nonsense. I explained to him our reasoning behind it, but told him best of luck.
It's great and all, it's just dangerous. Big decisions (such as moving in together) shouldn't be made while you're still too infatuated to really think logically. Doesn't automatically make them bad decisions, just makes them blind ones.
[QUOTE=Doozle;34477338]I'm missing my girl so much. We had phone sex last night, then she sent me a text afterwards and I think it was the nicest thing I'd ever read and I had a little manly cry. It confirmed that yes I would like to be with her forever, even if that is an idealised world and you guys probably think it's sappy nonsense. She makes me feel so and treats me so well, no one has ever made me feel the way she does. I wouldn't normally tell people about this but I feel I really need to, I want to shout about it.[/QUOTE]
aww that's cute.
[QUOTE=Shovelpass;34485396]It's great and all, it's just dangerous. Big decisions (such as moving in together) shouldn't be made while you're still too infatuated to really think logically. Doesn't automatically make them bad decisions, just makes them blind ones.[/QUOTE]
Exactly. Things may be awesome now when you don't [I]have[/I] to see them every day... but just wait when you not only have to see them every day, but also deal with their home habits.
Taking 2 people and making them cooperate over extreme spans of time is [I]super[/I] difficult, but I wish you the best of luck!
pfah neither of you know what you are talking about.
moving in together is the greatest thing ever.
now i can sleep with her without having to fucking travel back for 20 minutes.
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;34490778]Exactly. Things may be awesome now when you don't [I]have[/I] to see them every day... but just wait when you not only have to see them every day, but also deal with their home habits.
Taking 2 people and making them cooperate over extreme spans of time is [I]super[/I] difficult, but I wish you the best of luck![/QUOTE]
I spent every day and every night with her for 5 months before she went back to uni. We've both got our habits that annoy the other so we know what to expect :)
[QUOTE=Doozle;34491326]I spent every day and every night with her for 5 months before she went back to uni. We've both got our habits that annoy the other so we know what to expect :)[/QUOTE]
Preparation and situational awareness is good. :smile: I hope you two do well.
[QUOTE=Doozle;34491326]I spent every day and every night with her for 5 months before she went back to uni. We've both got our habits that annoy the other so we know what to expect :)[/QUOTE]
A piece of advice, distance is healthy in a relationship. Try to do your own thing and have your own friends and do not become dependent on her for something to do. No matter how much you like someone, spending too much time with them will result in eventually being tired out and annoyed at either person. This happened to me in my first relationship which lasted almost two years, so it may take a while, but it will eventually boil down that everyone needs their space.
I think it is good to talk about this when you first start dating a girl. With my last girlfriend I told her that a lot someone in a relationship might want some distance for a little bit and that it would be best for the other to understand and respect that. I think there are some advantages to talking about it during the initial dating phase, mostly to make sure you are both on the same page.
Which reminds me, I've only been in one relationship, but it was for 3 years. I wonder how long my next will last.
who wants 2 be my gf
My girlfriend became horny as fuck now that she's off the pill. The pills fucked her menstrual cycle up and there were times when she had her periods like three times in a row.
Back to condoms which sucks.
Tell her to get a different set of pills.
[QUOTE=Seith;34508680]Tell her to get a different set of pills.[/QUOTE]
That was the third set she tried so basically they're not an option anymore.
[QUOTE=Oxu365;34508721]That was the third set she tried so basically they're not an option anymore.[/QUOTE]
[url]http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/best-birth-control-pill/MY00996[/url]
You sure?
[QUOTE=Seith;34508755][url]http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/best-birth-control-pill/MY00996[/url]
You sure?[/QUOTE]
Yeah I'm sure. Too much for a hassle for her. She's told me she doesn't want to try pills anymore so I'm not going to pressure her into it.
So, now you're in charge of the prevention part. Godspeed my friend.
Lasted 30 minutes in the other thread before mod wanted to wave his e dick.
Good luck with the rubbers!
can you use spermicide prevention or caps?
get a coil :D
[editline]2nd February 2012[/editline]
she'll have to love you though. good idea to cook dinner afterwards too
I just had a vasectomy after my 100th woman, 2 years ago.
Youngsters and their newly "advanced" tools of prevention, ha!
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