• Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III
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[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36936635]My girlfriends worried about how we'll be after high school, and I am too. Normal, right?[/QUOTE] If you aren't going to the same Uni, your relationship won't last.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36937259]Cite your sources[/QUOTE] [url]http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19653781[/url] physical contact is pretty important in relationships and is a huge part of communication. when not speaking in person, it's a lot easier to misinterpret one and other because you aren't physically together and can't communicate through touch. [editline]25th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36936635]My girlfriends worried about how we'll be after high school, and I am too. Normal, right?[/QUOTE] most couples break up after high school. in your teens you're still changing a lot as a person and it's likely your personalities/interests will diverge.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36937259]Cite your sources[/QUOTE] Every single one of my friends who had relationships out of Gymnasium left each other within their freshman year. So far, only one couple has lasted, and they are engaged. There is just too much new stuff to experience and be tempted with past the close knit community of school, you see so many new faces and rarely your partner's face. It also doesn't help that love is rarely fostered in primary school relationships, just infatuation. Good luck regardless, but its better to break up amicably before you start college.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36937365]Good luck regardless, but its better to break up amicably before you start college.[/QUOTE] i'd have to disagree with this part. you don't need to rush a breakup just because of distance in the foreseeable future - your relationship will naturally phase out over time if distance proves to be a huge issue.
honestly you shouldn't worry about it. it seems scary now, but if you two drift apart from each other because of distance it isn't really going to hurt, it's just going to feel natural. i was with my ex for a bit over three years and it took me less than a week to get over it when we finally broke up. the previous few months had sort of been leading up to it so i didn't feel much at all.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36937429]i'd have to disagree with this part. you don't need to rush a breakup just because of distance in the foreseeable future - your relationship will naturally phase out over time if distance proves to be a huge issue.[/QUOTE] This can happen, or your partner ignores or even goes as far to cheat on you, while you are still thinking you are in a relationship. You won't know until you meet again, maybe not at all. At the very least you need to have a serious talk before separating, especially if the distance is far enough you will not see each other commonly.
[QUOTE=G3rman;36937365]Good luck regardless, but its better to break up amicably before you start college.[/QUOTE] I'm just gonna go ahead and say no. My first girlfriend tried that route. First we needed to break up in June. Then July. Then August. We kept putting it off because neither of us wanted to do so. But the constant stress, the constant worry and fear that I was going to lose her for [I]three goddamn months[/I] drove me to the point of cutting it off half a month early because I simply couldn't take it anymore. It hurt so damn much to never be sure if the next time I saw her was the last. We lasted about 3.5 months apart. I tried dating someone else halfway through, didn't last 2 weeks. We got back together around Christmas, and went strong for another year.
Getting girls' numbers in public is a real confidence booster. ...which is kind of a cool cycle actually.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36937725]I think I'll wing it. Hell, not much else I can do. Hard to prepare for all this, 17-19 is the worst age ever. College, relationship, paperwork, so much shit to deal with.[/QUOTE] Its kind of cute that you two are in the whole teenage we will be together forever phase. However the odds are you wont be. Dont worry about it. If your girlfriend wants to make future plans, make them, changevthem, dream a bit, be happy. The relationship will end when it ends. In future you may well take a more reserved and realistic approach to relationsips but that comes with age and experience. For now enjoy your youth :)
My girlfriend will steal your soul! [img]http://img39.imageshack.us/img39/2018/webcamtoyphoto2y.jpg[/img]
that first moment is scary though :(
Wow Jarate your girlfriend is ugly as fuck
[QUOTE=Lukeo;36943646]Wow Jarate your girlfriend is ugly as fuck[/QUOTE] You clearly fail to appreciate my hillarious joke so here's a picture with no mask. [img_thumb]http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/518/webcamtoyphoto1ya.jpg[/img_thumb] [editline]27th July 2012[/editline] She's 18 and all mine. :downs:
This is the part where someone says she looks like Jay Leno's daughter and Seith is banned forever (or something like that).
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[QUOTE=Yahnich;36945263]at first glance it kinda looked like she has a unibrow [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] also this is a very silly approach to life, you can't enjoy things knowing they'll end? Well, just commit suicide already, you ARE going to die. Just enjoy the ride, who knows, maybe you'll marry and be together forever and ever[/QUOTE] Your response is pretty immature and poorly thought out too. Let him be, he has no need to grow up yet.
[QUOTE=Jarate Lover;36944057]You clearly fail to appreciate my hillarious joke so here's a picture with no mask. [img_thumb]http://img15.imageshack.us/img15/518/webcamtoyphoto1ya.jpg[/img_thumb] [editline]27th July 2012[/editline] She's 18 and all mine. :downs:[/QUOTE] Is she ok with you posting her photo in a thread called "sex, Girlfriends & shit"?
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;36945678]Is she ok with you posting her photo in a thread called "sex, Girlfriends & shit"?[/QUOTE] yawn.... [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Dark_Light;36944234]This is the part where someone says she looks like Jay Leno's daughter and Seith is banned forever (or something like that).[/QUOTE] I don't get it
Got a girlfriend recently, do I shave my pubes? She has never done anything with any guy so it's not like she knows any different. Also they're long enough that I would probably have to cut them with scissors at this stage.
Do whatever you like.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;36947162]Got a girlfriend recently, do I shave my pubes? She has never done anything with any guy so it's not like she knows any different. Also they're long enough that I would probably have to cut them with scissors at this stage.[/QUOTE] It's up to you. The majority of guys I know (including myself) trim to a reasonable length, not shave.
Right okay thanks, it's at the point where I could give my dick an emo fringe so maybe I will 'trim', as long as I don't miss and spear my dick.
I wish my gf would shave down there
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;36947366]Right okay thanks, it's at the point where I could give my dick an emo fringe so maybe I will 'trim', as long as I don't miss and spear my dick.[/QUOTE] I read this in Cheryl Cole's voice and I can't stop laughing now.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;36947162]Got a girlfriend recently, do I shave my pubes? She has never done anything with any guy so it's not like she knows any different. Also they're long enough that I would probably have to cut them with scissors at this stage.[/QUOTE] Well, you should do whatever you feel most comfortable with. The good thing about shaving is that it gets a lot easier for her to give you blowjobs, it looks nice an clean and it can also give the illusion of having a slightly bigger penis due to the fact that there is no hair tht might be covering parts of it. The bad things are that you can get pretty annoying red bumps if yu aren't carefull when you shave it can also itch a lot when the hair begins to grow back. I also don't recommend you to shave if you're very lazy and won't be able to maintain it.
[QUOTE=Stonem;36947411]Well, you should do whatever you feel most comfortable with. The good thing about shaving is that it gets a lot easier for her to give you blowjobs, it looks nice an clean and it can also give the illusion of having a slightly bigger penis due to the fact that there is no hair tht might be covering parts of it. The bad things are that you can get pretty annoying red bumps if yu aren't carefull when you shave it can also itch a lot when the hair begins to grow back. I also don't recommend you to shave if you're very lazy and won't be able to maintain it.[/QUOTE] Cheers for the info. Maybe I'll do it someday. What are you supposed to shave them with anyway, a disposable? Using the same Gillette razor I use on my face around my dick doesn't appeal.
I've shaved completely before, and it DOES get itchy from time to time. My gf said I look bigger, but I wonder if trimming it would be any better.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;36947482]Cheers for the info. Maybe I'll do it someday. What are you supposed to shave them with anyway, a disposable? Using the same Gillette razor I use on my face around my dick doesn't appeal.[/QUOTE] I would suggest that you first stand over a bin or something similar and cut the hairs down to a shorter length so that the shaving process will be easier. Then buy a new razor to use for your pubes only. Make sure to use some kind of soap ( perfume free) or something else that is made for the private area, then just begin to shave, but be carefull. i would also sugget bying an intimate aftershave ( if that is avalible in your country) since they cool off and moisterises the area to prevent red bumps. [editline]26th July 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=G3rman;36947549]I've shaved completely before, and it DOES get itchy from time to time. My gf said I look bigger, but I wonder if trimming it would be any better.[/QUOTE] I think trimming would work. What makes it look smaller is the long hairs that cover the root of the penis, and as long as they are cut very short it will make a difference!
I just do it the shower with soap, a designated pube shaving razor, and some clippers
My girl shaves daily. Also georgia fucking sucks.
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