I shouldn't have looked in this thread. Skeletons are popping out of my closet, emotions I thought I'd conquered are welling back up to the surface. Fuck love. I gave in to it and it tore my heart out and crushed it. It's horrible reading how many girls are alike.
All too common to see that bullshit scenario where a guy lets a girl know his feelings about her, only for her to go and say "sorry, I don't feel the same, but hey! Now that I know you love me, I'll be sure to keep on flirting with you so you're wrapped around my finger. I love the thought of having a best guy friend who I [I]know[/I] will do anything for me."
Girls can be such bitches some times.
I told trevor to just dump her and stop trying get back with her (she keeps flip flopping on who she wants) with the reasoning she's too stupid to make a decision on her own.
He says I should dump my girl because she's in another state, like it's totally comparable.
So i called him a limp dish towel.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36972732]I told trevor to just dump her and stop trying get back with her (she keeps flip flopping on who she wants) with the reasoning she's too stupid to make a decision on her own.
He says I should dump my girl because she's in another state, like it's totally comparable.
So i called him a limp dish towel.[/QUOTE]
don't get involved dude
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972731]I shouldn't have looked in this thread. Skeletons are popping out of my closet, emotions I thought I'd conquered are welling back up to the surface. Fuck love. I gave in to it and it tore my heart out and crushed it. It's horrible reading how many girls are alike.
All too common to see that bullshit scenario where a guy lets a girl know his feelings about her, only for her to go and say "sorry, I don't feel the same, but hey! Now that I know you love me, I'll be sure to keep on flirting with you so you're wrapped around my finger. I love the thought of having a best guy friend who I [I]know[/I] will do anything for me."
Girls can be such bitches some times.[/QUOTE]
yeah fuck girls
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36972706]I rated because that's actually being pretty optimistic about the situation.
I wouldn't like that at all. I suppose it's different for your boyfriend, but my girlfriend tends to lets people take advantage of her kindness. She's always been sweet, but sometimes too sweet. Too friendly to strangers.[/QUOTE]
probably just has to do with our situation tbh. we met online and both hated the idea of an online relationship, so we spent 7 months trying to get over each other and trying to date other people. later on we talked about it again and realized both of us had ended up just comparing everyone we met to each other and weren't remotely interested in being with anyone else.
we also seem to have mutual feelings about absolutely everything. i haven't even had any sort of romantic thoughts toward anyone since i met him, so it's safe for me to assume he feels the same.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972731]I shouldn't have looked in this thread. Skeletons are popping out of my closet, emotions I thought I'd conquered are welling back up to the surface. Fuck love. I gave in to it and it tore my heart out and crushed it. It's horrible reading how many girls are alike.
All too common to see that bullshit scenario where a guy lets a girl know his feelings about her, only for her to go and say "sorry, I don't feel the same, but hey! Now that I know you love me, I'll be sure to keep on flirting with you so you're wrapped around my finger. I love the thought of having a best guy friend who I [I]know[/I] will do anything for me."
Girls can be such bitches some times.[/QUOTE]
uh, guys can be bitches too. i had a guy do the exact same shit to me when i was in high school.
[QUOTE=thisispain;36972746]don't get involved dude
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
yeah fuck girls[/QUOTE]
I'm done i'm done, i said what i gotta say and i'm out of it.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36972760]I'm done i'm done, i said what i gotta say and i'm out of it.[/QUOTE]
i don't believe you, if you're not the one that's gonna butt in it's likely someone's gonna try to pull you in.
speaking from personal experience
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972731]I shouldn't have looked in this thread. Skeletons are popping out of my closet, emotions I thought I'd conquered are welling back up to the surface. Fuck love. I gave in to it and it tore my heart out and crushed it. It's horrible reading how many girls are alike.
All too common to see that bullshit scenario where a guy lets a girl know his feelings about her, only for her to go and say "sorry, I don't feel the same, but hey! Now that I know you love me, I'll be sure to keep on flirting with you so you're wrapped around my finger. I love the thought of having a best guy friend who I [I]know[/I] will do anything for me."
Girls can be such bitches some times.[/QUOTE]
If the feeling isn't mutual, then what worth does it have?
[QUOTE=thisispain;36972773]i don't believe you, if you're not the one that's gonna butt in it's likely someone's gonna try to pull you in.
speaking from personal experience[/QUOTE]
well i'm incredibly stubborn and wont bat an eye saying "I don't give a fuck" if someone pulls me in.
My name is Trevor and I'd appreciate it if you would stop talking about me please.
[sp]Even though I'm not the Trevor being discussed[/sp]
Well let's change the subject. You guys ever call your girlfriend a cute nickname?
[QUOTE=Sunday_Roast;36972785]If the feeling isn't mutual, then what worth does it have?[/QUOTE]
When a girl flirts with you, to the point where you develop feelings for her and "fall" for her, only to find out it was all a ruse on her part to get a guy friend who she knows would be loyal to her, you can't really just bail out. It's difficult. I've learnt from my mistake and I know I won't let it happen to me again. Feelings can make you their bitch.
[QUOTE=MightyMax;36972810]Well let's change the subject. You guys ever call your girlfriend a cute nickname?[/QUOTE]
Well, she calls me "Trevs" and I hate it (which is probably why she does it).
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972829]When a girl flirts with you, to the point where you develop feelings for her and "fall" for her, only to find out it was all a ruse on her part to get a guy friend who she knows would be loyal to her, you can't really just bail out. It's difficult. I've learnt from my mistake and I know I won't let it happen to me again. Feelings can make you their bitch.[/QUOTE]
I know.
I have overcome it.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36972753]probably just has to do with our situation tbh. we met online and both hated the idea of an online relationship, so we spent 7 months trying to get over each other and trying to date other people. later on we talked about it again and realized both of us had ended up just comparing everyone we met to each other and weren't remotely interested in being with anyone else.
we also seem to have mutual feelings about absolutely everything. i haven't even had any sort of romantic thoughts toward anyone since i met him, so it's safe for me to assume he feels the same.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
uh, guys can be bitches too. i had a guy do the exact same shit to me when i was in high school.[/QUOTE]
How old are you? Internet relationships, for a late-teen, is a bit strange. I used to have internet relationships when I was 12, playing Habbo, when the extent of my knowledge of love was just saying the words but not actually understanding what love was truly was. I don't mean to be a dick, but internet relationships are nothing like real relationships. Internet relationships, you get to be someone you're not. When you're living day-to-day with another human being - that's when you truly get to know the person for who they really are.
My ex was dating some guy she met over FB before she got with me. By the end of our relationship, I could tell she wanted to go back to that idealistic internet love. When you're with someone for the better part of two years, you really get to know them. You can spend as long as you want talking to someone online, you'll never truly know them.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
You get to know them for their good as well as their bad, by the way. Whereas with internet relationships, I don't know, you both act as the ideal person you want to be.
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972858]How old are you? Internet relationships, for a late-teen, is a bit strange. I used to have internet relationships when I was 12, playing Habbo, when the extent of my knowledge of love was just saying the words but not actually understanding what love was truly was. I don't mean to be a dick, but internet relationships are nothing like real relationships. Internet relationships, you get to be someone you're not. When you're living day-to-day with another human being - that's when you truly get to know the person for who they really are.
My ex was dating some guy she met over FB before she got with me. By the end of our relationship, I could tell she wanted to go back to that idealistic internet love. When you're with someone for the better part of two years, you really get to know them. You can spend as long as you want talking to someone online, you'll never truly know them.[/QUOTE]
we've been together in person. you don't know anything about our relationship and are in no position to judge the quality of it based on how we met.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
and we're able to see each other every 3-4 months. and get along GREAT in person, thank you very much.
jesus christ, i don't think anything makes me angrier than someone treating me like a kid because i'm in a long distance relationship that started over the internet.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36972876]we've been together in person. you don't know anything about our relationship and are in no position to judge the quality of it based on how we met.[/QUOTE]
I wasn't judging you so much as giving you advice from knowledge that I've gained from doing what you've done, or seeing my friends do what you do.
There's a saying, "A tree takes deeper roots when it weathers a storm." Love is like that. When you shout, argue and scream at your significant other, yet at the end of the day you still stand there and say "I love you" and they say it back to you? That's real love. Real love is weathering life together, through thick and thin. Based from practically all my internet relationships? Not once did I ever have an argument. Not like you have when you're actually with someone. When you can just log off MSN or say "I'll be back later", that tends to bury a lot of things under the carpet.
why are you giving guy mannly advice she didn't ask for any
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36972876]we've been together in person. you don't know anything about our relationship and are in no position to judge the quality of it based on how we met.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
and we're able to see each other every 3-4 months. and get along GREAT in person, thank you very much.
jesus christ, i don't think anything makes me angrier than someone treating me like a kid because i'm in a long distance relationship that started over the internet.[/QUOTE]
My best friend met his girlfriend trough a hook up site on the internet.
One day she finally had the courage to call him when she was drunk as shit.
And they have been together for almost two years now.
On another note: he got released from his military conscription due to strain injury a few day ago.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36972929]There you have it, the worst part of this thread. I love this thread, but it's impossible for anyone to understand anyone else's relationship.
I call mine:
Sweetie, Angelfish, Sillyfish, Lovebug, Lovedove, Love, and Gummybuns, but she doesn't like that last one.[/QUOTE]
I used to call my ex Stinky. Not because she actually smelled bad. Just good memories from my childhood. My parents would always tap my nose and call me stinky with a smile. Hard to describe, but it wasn't actually meant literally. Plus, my ex always smelled amazing so I used it for the fact that it was a cherished memory from my childhood and the fact that she was the opposite of stinky.
[editline]28th July 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=thisispain;36972932]why are you giving guy mannly advice she didn't ask for any[/QUOTE]
Fair enough. Sorry guy mannly for giving you advice, I'll keep my mouth shut from now on.
[QUOTE=loopoo;36972907]I wasn't judging you so much as giving you advice from knowledge that I've gained from doing what you've done, or seeing my friends do what you do.
There's a saying, "A tree takes deeper roots when it weathers a storm." Love is like that. When you shout, argue and scream at your significant other, yet at the end of the day you still stand there and say "I love you" and they say it back to you? That's real love. Real love is weathering life together, through thick and thin. Based from practically all my internet relationships? Not once did I ever have an argument. Not like you have when you're actually with someone. When you can just log off MSN or say "I'll be back later", that tends to bury a lot of things under the carpet.[/QUOTE]
i'm not a child. i've been in PLENTY of relationships. spare me the condescending attitude.
we've known each other for 15 months and we're both happy and have been happy ever since we met. we don't need any help.
My best friend calls his gf Salsa, as an abbreviation from her real name.
Then there is this one guy I know whom sometimes call his gf by her most common nickname.
And then sometimes calls her stupid or fat for no particular reason.
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;36972995]i'm not a child. i've been in PLENTY of relationships. spare me the condescending attitude.
we've known each other for 15 months and we're both happy and have been happy ever since we met. we don't need any help.[/QUOTE]
To be honest, I wasn't trying to be condescending. Honestly, I was just reminiscing and putting my thoughts to "paper" (or in this case, Facepunch). I haven't slept in about 24 hours so my mind is pretty fucked, but honestly, I didn't mean to come across as condescending.
I'm glad your relationship is still going strong.
in other news
[img]http://i.imgur.com/Cf0l1.jpg[/img]
bf even remembers my favorite flowers. i think this is the third or fourth time he's sent them
it's really nice being with someone who actually treats me like a lady and does traditional things like this. every guy i've gone out with in the past acted like i was just one of the guys and didn't treat me any different from his male friends, except with physical interaction.
My dad used to buy flowers every friday for mom. Don't really know why that doesn't happen anymore... But at the checkout sometimes the cashier would be like "Oh someone's in trouble, eh?" He'd smile and say "Nah, this is insurance"
That's actually quite sweet of him.
toots
I call my gf honeybee most of the time. Not really into nicknames though
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;36972929]There you have it, the worst part of this thread. I love this thread, but it's impossible for anyone to understand anyone else's relationship.
I call mine:
Sweetie, Angelfish, Sillyfish, Lovebug, Lovedove, Love, and Gummybuns, but she doesn't like that last one.[/QUOTE]
The fuck.
All my nicknames that I use sound so silly in english :v:
I call mine sugar cookie :3
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