[QUOTE=NoDachi;37038392]is it bad that I want to sleep with my girlfriends friend? :v:[/QUOTE]
Depends how open your girlfriend and her friend are to threesomes.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37038833]My Bf still cant get me to orgasm :c No actually does not matter at all, its hard as shit to get that to happen. Besides I would say the pleasure isn't all in orgasm as much as it is for guys. Doesn't mean as much at all.[/quote]
how often do you go on top?
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37038833]Uhhh Not exactly possible. Are you sure you arn't confusing separate waves of one orgasm as seperate orgasms?[/QUOTE]
[sub][sub]he was joking...[/sub][/sub]
[QUOTE=Legend286;37038873]Depends how open your girlfriend and her friend are to threesomes.[/QUOTE]
She used to be back in the very beginning then things got more serious, and the thing is they're always joking by saying "oh if you died can I have your bf laff laff laff"
and im like bitch you can have me now
[QUOTE=Autumn;37038893]how often do you go on top? [/QUOTE]
About 50% of the time. He likes to start out like that if we have time.
Why is it I have to get 3 different one night stand possibilities in 4 days, when I have a girlfriend. Well, that sucks. Havent had sex with my girlfriend in almost 2 months either which makes turning them down even harder!
Does anyone else seem to get more attention from girls when you are already in a relationship or is it just me?
[QUOTE=Bread Dog;37039286]Why is it I have to get 3 different one night stand possibilities in 4 days, when I have a girlfriend. Well, that sucks. Havent had sex with my girlfriend in almost 2 months either which makes turning them down even harder!
Does anyone else seem to get more attention from girls when you are already in a relationship or is it just me?[/QUOTE]
Maybe because you already have a girlfriend, you're more relaxed around other attractive girls. Which in turn increases your chances.
Either that or your thesis lacking empirical observation.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37039306]I'm too ugly to get attention from anyone else.[/QUOTE]
don't even start with that
it's about having confidence dude
I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37039778]I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.[/QUOTE]
how old are you?
[QUOTE=Mobon1;37039851]how old are you?[/QUOTE]
17, i know its pathetic. Right before the bj, I almost got into a car crash, I was having problems back home and had the sat the next day. I was not in the right mood to get it up and she didn't help either by just being motionless.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37039778]I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.[/QUOTE]
Everyone's had one of [I]those[/I] girls. You're not alone. Just start proving her otherwise, if you catch my drift.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37039006]About 50% of the time. He likes to start out like that if we have time.[/QUOTE]
Sounds like the whole thing is rushed to fit a time frame. Find more time which will allow you to put more effort into the whole thing.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37039778]I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.[/QUOTE]
Spread rumors about how she couldn't get it up either.
Jokes aside, just forget her. You're only 17, you'll have plenty of time and women in your life, forget this bitch. She's not worth brooding over.
[QUOTE]shot gun beers in da bath w me[/QUOTE]
The sexiest thing a gf has ever said to me.
Thanks for all the comments, I did finally manage to text her but only after I insulted her about her awkwardness and breasts did she text me. Apparently she only told her best friend who told other people (I know her best friend who claims my ex did the talking but I don't like her either. At least she can speak to my face unlike my ex). Wheather or not she did spread it to other people, I don't know but I still don't respect her.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37042701]Thanks for all the comments, I did finally manage to text her but only after I insulted her about her awkwardness and breasts did she text me. Apparently she only told her best friend who told other people (I know her best friend who claims my ex did the talking but I don't like her either. At least she can speak to my face unlike my ex). Wheather or not she did spread it to other people, I don't know but I still don't respect her.[/QUOTE]
I really don't get what's the problem about you not getting hard.
And, it kinda sucked she spoke to her best friend about it so whatever.
I'm not going to tell you "you're only 17" because at that age you're mature enough to take your own conclusions about relationships. also I'm barely older than you (21)
It's not something you should feel ashamed of. You don't have any condition preventing you from getting hard so the issue is the pressure and the restraint you felt during the act. That and some possible remarks she made about it and things get worse.
I think it's a common belief among girls that all men are easily aroused and that isn't true. Such is your case and such is the case of many other men.
The fact that you didn't feel aroused enough was maybe because you didn't feel comfortable around her in the first place. Maybe after a while you felt so obliged to please her that you felt pressured during sex and you thought it to be humiliating not being able to get it up.
It happens and it isn't your fault. She should have put you at ease about it and make you feel in a safe enough for you to take your time.
You'll see that in your future relationship. The ones in which you'll feel comfortable. you'll find it easier to get aroused, specially if it's someone you really like.
As for her. The way you describe her, she seems like she's nothing special. So forget about it.
Going through this thread makes me so much more appreciated that my girlfriend isn't a bad person. It was out 9 month yesterday too. :)
I get boners at random times so easily, but whenever you would expect to get one right away it took me a little while. One time a few of my friends traveled and went to a strip club, but it took me a little while to get 'excited'. I guess the expectations were set too high or something.
But then one of the girls brought my face between her legs and I was solid. Pheromones.
my girlfriend's a pretty bad person because she says "videogames are childish masturbatory aids"
"but you like minecrafT! OBVIOUSLY YOU DON'T THINK SO liar"
she retorts:
"oh okay i'm the hypocrite, but by your logic you couldn't insult pop music because michael jackson made pop music. you slag off pop music all the time."
"OH YEAH well uh"
just awful why am i with her
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37039778]I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.[/QUOTE]
IMO she's only making herself look bad by spreading something like that. what happened was completely normal and the fact she's using it to slander you just goes to show she's immature and uninformed about male anatomy. anyone who actually looks at you differently because of that kind of trivial information isn't worth interacting with.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37039778]I hate my ex. If anyone remembers, I was saying a while ago that she broke up with me because I couldn't get hard the first time. Now its been some time since we talked with each other. I didn't really hate her for what she did at first, I wasn't what she wanted and I understand that. I did realize it takes two to tango for it to get up though and shes not what I wanted either, too quiet and awkward but I was blinded by what I thought was love so I kept dating her for that time. But now, shes been telling people about the whole not getting hard thing even though we agreed we wouldn't talk about it. And when I try to talk to her, she ignores me. This is fucking pathetic. She lied to me throughout our relationship and even though I treated her well, she does this shit. First real gf and I go through this, fuck.[/QUOTE]
true talk; she sounds like an awful person.
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37042701]Thanks for all the comments, I did finally manage to text her but only after I insulted her about her awkwardness and breasts did she text me.[/QUOTE]
even if she's slandering you, don't stoop to her level. you guys aren't involved anymore for a reason, trying to start arguments won't do anything.
-Snip- Latteeeeeee
[QUOTE=BLOB Fish Dude;37042701]Thanks for all the comments, I did finally manage to text her but only after I insulted her about her awkwardness and breasts did she text me. Apparently she only told her best friend who told other people (I know her best friend who claims my ex did the talking but I don't like her either. At least she can speak to my face unlike my ex). Wheather or not she did spread it to other people, I don't know but I still don't respect her.[/QUOTE]
just leave her alone you don't need this
[QUOTE=chewable;37041306]Sounds like the whole thing is rushed to fit a time frame. Find more time which will allow you to put more effort into the whole thing.[/QUOTE]
It isn't, spend quite a while like that. Also spent over an hour yesterday trying to not through sex but hands or mouth stuff. Xp Part of it might also just be nerves and stuff on my part. it's not i'm not comfortable with him at all or anything it's just some subconsciousness junk. Just gonna have to get used to it I guess Xp
Edit:
Also on the note of not being able to get hard, it's not a bad thing. The first time with my boyfriend he didn't have much of a problem getting hard but he couldn't finish just cause of the stress from first time expectations, even after an hour and a half. That was fine and it took a few times after that till he could. MOST girls should understand those sorts of problems and such so don't worry about it, not make a big thing of it. :)
I'm glad my bf doesn't read these sorts of threads otherwise this would be really awkward : D
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37043483]It isn't, spend quite a while like that. Also spent over an hour yesterday trying to not through sex but hands or mouth stuff. Xp Part of it might also just be nerves and stuff on my part. it's not i'm not comfortable with him at all or anything it's just some subconsciousness junk. Just gonna have to get used to it I guess Xp
Edit:
Also on the note of not being able to get hard, it's not a bad thing. The first time with my boyfriend he didn't have much of a problem getting hard but he couldn't finish just cause of the stress from first time expectations, even after an hour and a half. That was fine and it took a few times after that till he could. MOST girls should understand those sorts of problems and such so don't worry about it, not make a big thing of it. :)
I'm glad my bf doesn't read these sorts of threads otherwise this would be really awkward : D[/QUOTE]
try going for g-spot stimulation if you haven't already
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37043483]even after an hour and a half.[/QUOTE]
so polite and patient
[QUOTE=djshox;37043919]try going for g-spot stimulation if you haven't already[/QUOTE]
Have done, feels quite nice if you can hit it but it's clit stimulation that I can orgasm off of. Internal stimulation is hard enough to orgasm from I haven't even been able to get myself to. And believe me I tried.
lol maybe if everyone keeps postings tips I'll find one that works XD
[quote] so polite and patient[/quote]
hm? XP
if i was a girl and it took longer than 15 minutes i would say i think we're done here, we'll contact you in the future
i would be a very busy woman
XD XPPP
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