[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34533477]tell us about this drama[/QUOTE]
She send me sms like this : I am angry at you now it seriuos you can just delete my number. Later sends me sms: you won't apologize me? I say no, because i have nothing to apologize. She says you won't love me and tralalal and tralala something like that and that i should never write her again.
[QUOTE=Shovelpass;34534189]Maybe means no.[/QUOTE]
From mine experience , not always
[QUOTE=overpain;34539926]She send me sms like this : I am angry at you now it seriuos you can just delete my number. Later sends me sms: you won't apologize me? I say no, because i have nothing to apologize. She says you won't love me and tralalal and tralala something like that and that i should never write her again.[/QUOTE]
Man, what a keeper she is.
I think in this case you should probably look elsewhere. Girls can be emotionally unstable, but the flip-flop shown there can only get worse.
do any of you have a manual on how to have sex with a female object?
put your willy in her front bottom and wave it about
[QUOTE=overpain;34539926]She send me sms like this : I am angry at you now it seriuos you can just delete my number. Later sends me sms: you won't apologize me? I say no, because i have nothing to apologize. She says you won't love me and tralalal and tralala something like that and that i should never write her again.
From mine experience , not always[/QUOTE]
like did she get angry randomly?
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34547787]like did she get angry randomly?[/QUOTE]yup
[editline]4th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Moose;34547567]do any of you have a manual on how to have sex with a female object?[/QUOTE] step 1. Find a perfect girl. I keep failing at that
[QUOTE=overpain;34547851]yup
[editline]4th February 2012[/editline]
step 1. Find a perfect girl. I keep failing at that[/QUOTE]
Fortunately for you, there are no perfect girls. Which probably makes you feel better, because there's always a near-perfect girl right around the corner.
[QUOTE=overpain;34547851]yup[/QUOTE]
2 possibilities then
#1: that means she's crazy
#2: you did something that ticked her off
if situation #1: don't stick your dick in the crazy, feel good that it ended now before you were too attached.
if situation #2: tell us what happened for advice
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34549069]2 possibilities then
#1: that means she's crazy
#2: you did something that ticked her off
if situation #1: don't stick your dick in the crazy, feel good that it ended now before you were too attached.
if situation #2: tell us what happened for advice[/QUOTE] i did nothing i swear
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34549069]that means she's crazy
[/QUOTE]
Went out with the girl I like and a few of her friends to see a horror movie tonight. It was nice and I got to put my arm around her shoulders during the scary parts.. I think I might invite her to hang out at the cafe next time I see her.
So… For my very first post, I have a question or two… What are your opinions on how long it takes to actually know you love somebody…? And how do you know if you love someone? I know these are stupid questions, but I am curious as to what you all think.
[QUOTE=Mad4life;34552873]So… For my very first post, I have a question or two… What are your opinions on how long it takes to actually know you love somebody…? And how do you know if you love someone? I know these are stupid questions, but I am curious as to what you all think.[/QUOTE]
People have to decide that for themselves. Hard and fast rules don't work in this situation. There is no "After four years, you are in love" limit. Though I think that everyone here agrees that the first leg of a relationship is the infatuation both people have for each other. People around here have said that that can last upwards of a year or two even. It really all depends. I personally don't think that it lasts quite that long, but that isn't backed up by as much experience as the other people have.
[QUOTE=sam6420;34553739]Just broke up with my girlfriend after a two and a half year relationship.. feelsbadman.jpg[/QUOTE]
I dated my ex for like a year and a half. It felt good to me. In time you'll probably be happy you did.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34553088]People have to decide that for themselves. Hard and fast rules don't work in this situation. There is no "After four years, you are in love" limit. Though I think that everyone here agrees that the first leg of a relationship is the infatuation both people have for each other. People around here have said that that can last upwards of a year or two even. It really all depends. I personally don't think that it lasts quite that long, but that isn't backed up by as much experience as the other people have.[/QUOTE]
Very true… Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I really do appreciate it.
Holy shit, so if anyone remembers formspring and how it was moderately popular about a year or two years ago, it just made my night.
Some girl that I thought never really even paid attention to me (extremely cute and cool) just messaged me on facebook telling me that this confession about how she thought I was really cool and handsome and stuff just came up front about it. She posted something on my formspring like a year+ ago. Gonna ask this girl on a date! She's mad cute and we go to the same University now.
Hell yeah.
[editline]5th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=sam6420;34553983]I'm crazy happy, still feel bad for her though..[/QUOTE]
Dude, I was feeling bad for my ex for about a week, but she was saying so much shit about me and telling me all of this stuff about how I'm a shitty person that I just dropped any remaining feelings for her. Hopefully yours has a bit more respect for you as a person than mine did, but just enjoy your newfound freedom and take it easy. Go on some dates and see some other people, but I would take a break before I invest in someone so much again, at least I know I am.
[QUOTE=sam6420;34554754]First real girlfriend, as I am relatively young. She started off begging and shit, turned in to her telling me that I'm, to quote you, "dropping all feelings for her", honestly though, I'm really enjoying the feeling of freedom as you said. Really enjoying this thread, seems like a chill place.[/QUOTE]
Assuming I'm reading this right, it's good that you didn't give into her begging when you broke up with her, because I did that once before I actually put my foot down and it just lead to like 3 more months of utter shitstorm. You make me sah proud! That was my first real girlfriend too.
[QUOTE=Shovelpass;34534189]Maybe means no.[/QUOTE]
Maybe got me 11 months and still going strong, fuck your shit.
Maybe means shes a hesitant fuck.
Keep on pushing for an answer. that suicidal kid is a pretty good troll hes had them rilled up alright.
I'm not sure whether or not I should introduce my friends to the girl I'm going out with. Seeing as they're just as if not more so introverted and awkward as me. Though her friends seemed pretty strange also (though in a different sort of way.) so I suppose she'll probably like them.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34563962]I'm not sure whether or not I should introduce my friends to the girl I'm going out with. Seeing as they're just as if not more so introverted and awkward as me. Though her friends seemed pretty strange also (though in a different sort of way.) so I suppose she'll probably like them.[/QUOTE] . Worst idea ever. Trust me.
I think I live in the best area for a first date (though semi-second date sort of.) Considering there's a group of Cafes along with some small storefronts on a main street intersecting a small very scenic river with a great ice cream shop right next to the bridge. It's quite beautiful during sunset. Also most of the buildings are converted from some small brick factories from the turn of the century and the rest of the shops are converted from colonial era houses.
[editline]lolitrolu[/editline]Shit I think I killed the thread.
[QUOTE=overpain;34564011]. Worst idea ever. Trust me.[/QUOTE]
Had some bad experiences with girls and your friends?
[QUOTE=overpain;34564011]. Worst idea ever. Trust me.[/QUOTE]
If she's willing to put up the courage to ask me out I think she can handle my friends (who honestly aren't that bad.) We're both pretty shy though so it's funny how her friends and my friends are the people who always get us to engage in conversation. Though I noticed that when we were separate from the group last night she seemed pretty comfortable talking to me at least as far as I could tell.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34567716]Had some bad experiences with girls and your friends?[/QUOTE]
One time I brought my girlfriend to a surprise birthday party for one of my friends. His girlfriend organized the entire party and invited everyone and their girlfriends. So I thought; what could possibly happen?
We get there and finally discuss what movie we wanted to watch and two of my former good friends just started bullying my girlfriend for no reason. Not wanting to make a scene I made shitty jokes at every remark aimed toward her, and then we left. Both pretty upset at what happened. The next day I texted my friend about how shitty he was being and he refused to accept he did anything wrong, so I decided to drop him.
Next time there is a joint party and we get invited I'm just going to hang out at her house or something. My asshole friends can't handle women, apparently.
TL;DR Make sure you don't have shit tier friends like I do.
[QUOTE=EagleEye;34568102]One time I brought my girlfriend to a surprise birthday party for one of my friends. His girlfriend organized the entire party and invited everyone and their girlfriends. So I thought; what could possibly happen?
We get there and finally discuss what movie we wanted to watch and two of my former good friends just started bullying my girlfriend for no reason. Not wanting to make a scene I made shitty jokes at every remark aimed toward her, and then we left. Both pretty upset at what happened. The next day I texted my friend about how shitty he was being and he refused to accept he did anything wrong, so I decided to drop him.
Next time there is a joint party and we get invited I'm just going to hang out at her house or something. My asshole friends can't handle women, apparently.
TL;DR Make sure you don't have shit tier friends like I do.[/QUOTE]
I think my two real friends can talk to her and not make her hate me easily enough.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34568299]I think my two real friends can talk to her and not make her hate me easily enough.[/QUOTE]
That's good. As long as they aren't total assholes it should be fine. My friends unfortunately, are total assholes.
[QUOTE=EagleEye;34568449]That's good. As long as they aren't total assholes it should be fine. My friends unfortunately, are total assholes.[/QUOTE]
Then they aren't your friends. People seem to misuse the term friend a lot I think. A friend is someone you can talk about the most meaningful subjects to you that others wouldn't care about. A friend is someone that actively wants to associate themselves with you rather than just sort of not caring. Anyone else is really an acquaintance. And that's similar to what I want to find in the girl that I"m going out with. I want to have someone that I can connect and talk with and care for at even a higher level than my two really good friends.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34568054]If she's willing to put up the courage to ask me out I think she can handle my friends (who honestly aren't that bad.) We're both pretty shy though so it's funny how her friends and my friends are the people who always get us to engage in conversation. Though I noticed that when we were separate from the group last night she seemed pretty comfortable talking to me at least as far as I could tell.[/QUOTE] your girlfriend asked you out? Is she even pretty? also really dont introduce her to your friends if they are not shy as you. Even i do not introduce my girlfriend to all my friends
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34567716]Had some bad experiences with girls and your friends?[/QUOTE] a lot of friendly mockeries from your buddies thus they followed our every move so its really not worth it
[QUOTE=overpain;34568869]your girlfriend asked you out? Is she even pretty?[/QUOTE]
wow
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