[QUOTE=Bread Dog;37052117]Its been just over 6 months together. Whenever we talk about anything she just cries and I cant get a word in so it turns into a cuddle and we just continue. I have tried to talk a million different times, trust me.[/QUOTE]
She sounds a bit childish.
yea she does, how old are you guys
Both 17. Shes 18 very soon though
[QUOTE=loopoo;37050533]Rhenae, are you a girl? Cause I can assure you lol girls legs aren't thin and shiz, they're just as coarse, or even coarser than guys hair.[/QUOTE]
i don't know if you have a lot of hispanic/middle eastern female friends but [B]i [/B]can assure [B]you[/B] that the majority of caucasian girl's leg hair is considerably thinner than guys hair and/or pubes.
[QUOTE=loopoo;37050533]but it's a general rule of thumb to wax your vagina rather than shave it, cause shaving it cause it to itch like hell.[/QUOTE]
actually it's a general rule of thumb to let the girl do whatever she likes and feels comfortable doing, and not just conforming to whatever you would like on her.
i personally find shaving doesn't give quite as smooth results as i would like, but it's advantages over waxing are that it requires no preparation and is incredibly easy, you can do it any time. razors (even more expensive ones) are still nothing on the cost of a professional wax.
waxing on the other hand a) hurts like fuck, and i mean not being able to wear knickers for several hours, not being able to have a bath for 24+ hours b) is expensive to get done professionally, which is probably the only way you're going to get pro results c) you have to let the hair grow out to a certain length before waxing it. sure, once it's done you have a completely hairless (or, as you choose) nether regions for something like a couple of weeks, then it'll start to grow back again. for things like weddings/honeymoons/hotel weekends away then i'm sure the cons outweigh the pros, but on a daily basis shaving is the easier, better option for most people.
"eww but it's a bit prickly..." - i'm sure you'll get over it. it's generally younger males that seem to have this problem with any tiny hint of pubic hair despite a) it being completely natural b) rarely returning the favour, but automatically expecting women to be completely bald.
[editline]2nd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Stormcharger;37050785]My friend she went to beauty school and she needed someone to practice on and so I got a free massage and one of my legs waxed cause I thought it would be funny to only have one leg waxed and when waxing is done properly, like not those pre made wax strips its really not that bad at all.[/QUOTE]
leg skin sensitivty =/= labia areas sensitivity
I think its because a lot of guys get conditioned to porn where most the time noone has hair so they think real life will be like that or something along those lines
[editline]2nd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Autumn;37052312]
leg skin sensitivty =/= labia areas sensitivity[/QUOTE]
Im pretty sure the convo was about leg hair when I said that
[editline]2nd August 2012[/editline]
Wait I read it wrong, it was about guys pubic hair
but still no mention of labias :v:
[sub]it was more you were saying that waxing isn't so bad... but since the general topic is about waxing your pubic hair saying that it's not so bad, based only on having your legs waxed, seems to suggest you don't think genital waxing would be too painful[/sub]
I apologize for my post not being clear, I have no idea what genital waxing would be like as I have no experience with it.
Waxing? What about epilation?
[QUOTE=Lamar;37052448]Waxing? What about epilation?[/QUOTE]
always seemed like a good idea! i have yet to try it though. anybody with any experience care to share?
My mum bought one for my sister and she fucking hates it, she uses it for her legs and says it hurts more than waxing and Told me to see how much it hurts, and let me tell you, it really fucking hurts don't even bother.
How can one tell his girlfriend that you cheated on her and that you do not want to be actually with that girl anymore, but the one with whom you cheated with?
[QUOTE=Autumn;37052474]always seemed like a good idea! i have yet to try it though. anybody with any experience care to share?[/QUOTE]
I epilate my chest, it's painful at first. But after you've done it a dozen times, it feels like a tingling sensation. Nothing bad really.
[QUOTE=junker|154;37052522]How can one tell his girlfriend that you cheated on her and that you do not want to be actually with that girl anymore, but the one with whom you cheated with?[/QUOTE]
You tell her then run for your life
[QUOTE=junker|154;37052522]How can one tell his girlfriend that you cheated on her and that you do not want to be actually with that girl anymore, but the one with whom you cheated with?[/QUOTE]
oh christ. uhm. just tell her.
she is going to find out, and it's much better you save everyone undue distress by telling her as soon as possible. then at least she can think "he's a dick, but at least he was honest and told me straight away and that was that" rather than "he's a dick, and i can't believe he didn't tell me for another week/fortnight, letting me believe everything was okay when it wasn't. what a disgusting, lying asshole"
also good luck with trust with your new girl, since she knows you'll cheat. "but baby, i only cheated so i could get with youu <333" doesn't work.
this is all assuming it is you we are talking about!!
[QUOTE=thisispain;37048861]yeah i thought that too
it was a mistake[/QUOTE]
fuk that smoke weed errryday 420
[QUOTE=Autumn;37052570]oh christ. uhm. just tell her.
she is going to find out, and it's much better you save everyone undue distress by telling her as soon as possible. then at least she can think "he's a dick, but at least he was honest and told me straight away and that was that" rather than "he's a dick, and i can't believe he didn't tell me for another week/fortnight, letting me believe everything was okay when it wasn't. what a disgusting, lying asshole"
also good luck with trust with your new girl, since she knows you'll cheat. "but baby, i only cheated so i could get with youu <333" doesn't work.
this is all assuming it is you we are talking about!![/QUOTE]
I told her the truth and how I truly feel, she is hurt but really mature about it. I apologized and well it went better than expected.
[QUOTE=Autumn;37052570]
also good luck with trust with your new girl, since she knows you'll cheat. "but baby, i only cheated so i could get with youu <333" doesn't work.
this is all assuming it is you we are talking about!![/QUOTE]
oh christ, this. kinda hard trusting someone you know cheated on their girl/guy.
[QUOTE=junker|154;37053499]I told her the truth and how I truly feel, she is hurt but really mature about it. I apologized and well it went better than expected.[/QUOTE]
good man
respect goes to you for being a man about it
Bad move to begin with, but handled in a mature way.
instead of trimming i shaved down there this morning, it was my first time actually shaving my genitals and i was worried i'd slip in the shower or something!
im very proud of my work it looks v beautiful
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
i would post my artwork in here but im sure nobody wants to see it
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;37058817]instead of trimming i shaved down there this morning, it was my first time actually shaving my genitals and i was worried i'd slip in the shower or something!
im very proud of my work it looks v beautiful
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
i would post my artwork in here but im sure nobody wants to see it[/QUOTE]
I like the look of it when I shave, and I rarely itch. But when I do itch, oh god.
I've never trimmed because all I have are razors, no scissors.
yeah but its a nice itch
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
its better than when you have long hair and it gets pulled into the crevices between your legs and your junk and it yanks at them
I think I need to purge my text message history. I had hours of free time at work today, got bored, and started going back through all of mine and my ex's text messages. I'm now intensely depressed.
[QUOTE=Autumn]i don't know if you have a lot of hispanic/middle eastern female friends but i can assure you that the majority of caucasian girl's leg hair is considerably thinner than guys hair and/or pubes.[/QUOTE]
I've got quite a few Irish girls who are good friends of mine, and when they don't shave their arms or legs, it's quite thick. Not as thick as mine, granted, but still fairly thick. I may have exaggerated. And I do know a lot of Hispanic / Middle-Eastern girls, but if anything, they're way on top of their preening cause they are very self-conscious about hair.
(happy) vent time!
So I've been in a e-relationship (since the summer of 2011) until about 2 weeks ago when I finally drove up (about 20 hours of driving) to see her. As much as I fell in "love" (to deflect any criticism about using the L word) with her through Skype or whatever, it was nothing compared to what I felt when I actually spent time with her. The good (and possibly bad) things about seeing someone for the first time after you've been in an e-relationship with them for a while is that it takes all the guess work of what kind of person they are with regards to their sense of humor, values, nuances, and most other aspects of their personality. Needless to say we ended up getting busy about an hour after we first meet.
We get along absolutely swimmingly, I'm my awkward self in public and she loves it. We're so wrapped up in each other that both of us pretty much ignore what we hate about PDA and get incredibly mushy in public, which was a huge guilty pleasure.
On day 2 of 8, she starts her period, but somehow we end up having sex about 12 times total in those 7 days. We were both very iffy about period sex, but our instincts got the better of us. I actually didn't mind it as much. Do a lot of people completely rule out sex at that time of the month? Granted it was the only week I could see her for a while, so I may have been extremely biased.
[QUOTE=Autumn]actually it's a general rule of thumb to let the girl do whatever she likes and feels comfortable doing, and not just conforming to whatever you would like on her.
i personally find shaving doesn't give quite as smooth results as i would like, but it's advantages over waxing are that it requires no preparation and is incredibly easy, you can do it any time. razors (even more expensive ones) are still nothing on the cost of a professional wax.
waxing on the other hand a) hurts like fuck, and i mean not being able to wear knickers for several hours, not being able to have a bath for 24+ hours b) is expensive to get done professionally, which is probably the only way you're going to get pro results c) you have to let the hair grow out to a certain length before waxing it. sure, once it's done you have a completely hairless (or, as you choose) nether regions for something like a couple of weeks, then it'll start to grow back again. for things like weddings/honeymoons/hotel weekends away then i'm sure the cons outweigh the pros, but on a daily basis shaving is the easier, better option for most people.
"eww but it's a bit prickly..." - i'm sure you'll get over it. it's generally younger males that seem to have this problem with any tiny hint of pubic hair despite a) it being completely natural b) rarely returning the favour, but automatically expecting women to be completely bald.[/QUOTE]
You totally misunderstood my post. By general rule of thumb, I meant more along the lines of "It's easier to wax". I guess I'm wrong, now that you've made a reply, but in my defense my girlfriend always preferred waxing over shaving, as shaving left her feeling horribly itchy for a good few days. Also, in case you missed my post a few pages back: I love my girlfriend whether or not she's shaved or not. I do not find pubic hair unbecoming or unattractive. I love her just as much if she has it compared to if she doesn't. My personal preference is "I don't mind if it's shaved or not, but I'd like to switch it around every now and then" from waxed to not shaved, and from shaved to waxed. So many times my girlfriend would be prepping for a date, and I KNOW she'd be preparing to wax, and I'd tell her to not do it, or just leave it. I'd assure her it was fine, because it really was. Pubic hair doesn't affect me, and I prefer it at times. My SO was clean and kept herself tidy anyways so it was perfectly okay.
I've never been the type to say - or think, for that matter - "eww it's a bit prickly..." I love the feeling of when she has or hasn't got hair, they're both equally appealing to me. Also, I do return the favour. I never let my pubic hair get unkempt when I know we'll be getting intimate, as I feel it's unfair for her. I always keep it trimmed or shaved, but she had the same preferences as me: sometimes she'd like it shaved smooth, other time she'd like it trimmed.
So yeah, I worded my original post wrong, but I didn't mean it in the sense that "[B]all girls must wax and if you don't, you're doing it wrong![/B]" because that is immature and childish, and like I've already said, it really doesn't bother me. I was just going on what my SO told me, and I suppose she's of the type to just get waxing over and done with so she doesn't have to worry about hair. So yeah, just clearing that up, because I appear to have come across wrong and irritated you a tad bit. So sorry for not wording it right.
[editline]3rd August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=SparkDog;37059344](happy) vent time!
So I've been in a e-relationship (since the summer of 2011) until about 2 weeks ago when I finally drove up (about 20 hours of driving) to see her. As much as I fell in "love" (to deflect any criticism about using the L word) with her through Skype or whatever, it was nothing compared to what I felt when I actually spent time with her. The good (and possibly bad) things about seeing someone for the first time after you've been in an e-relationship with them for a while is that it takes all the guess work of what kind of person they are with regards to their sense of humor, values, nuances, and most other aspects of their personality. Needless to say we ended up getting busy about an hour after we first meet.
We get along absolutely swimmingly, I'm my awkward self in public and she loves it. We're so wrapped up in each other that both of us pretty much ignore what we hate about PDA and get incredibly mushy in public, which was a huge guilty pleasure.
On day 2 of 8, she starts her period, but somehow we end up having sex about 12 times total in those 7 days. We were both very iffy about period sex, but our instincts got the better of us. I actually didn't mind it as much. Do a lot of people completely rule out sex at that time of the month? Granted it was the only week I could see her for a while, so I may have been extremely biased.[/QUOTE]
Rated winner for taking things into your own hands and driving the 20 hours (like a boss) to go visit her.
As for the period sex, uh. I personally wouldn't. Whenever my SO had her period, we make that time of the month just cuddles and bonding on a non-intimate level. It was good. I personally wouldn't want to have period sex, and neither would she. But to each his own!
[QUOTE=SparkDog;37059344](happy) vent time!
So I've been in a e-relationship (since the summer of 2011) until about 2 weeks ago when I finally drove up (about 20 hours of driving) to see her. As much as I fell in "love" (to deflect any criticism about using the L word) with her through Skype or whatever, it was nothing compared to what I felt when I actually spent time with her. The good (and possibly bad) things about seeing someone for the first time after you've been in an e-relationship with them for a while is that it takes all the guess work of what kind of person they are with regards to their sense of humor, values, nuances, and most other aspects of their personality. Needless to say we ended up getting busy about an hour after we first meet.
We get along absolutely swimmingly, I'm my awkward self in public and she loves it. We're so wrapped up in each other that both of us pretty much ignore what we hate about PDA and get incredibly mushy in public, which was a huge guilty pleasure.
On day 2 of 8, she starts her period, but somehow we end up having sex about 12 times total in those 7 days. We were both very iffy about period sex, but our instincts got the better of us. I actually didn't mind it as much. Do a lot of people completely rule out sex at that time of the month? Granted it was the only week I could see her for a while, so I may have been extremely biased.[/QUOTE]
period sex is awesome
[QUOTE=SparkDog;37059344]Do a lot of people completely rule out sex at that time of the month?[/QUOTE]
some women experience some pain or soreness during their cycle that might factor into it
[QUOTE=SparkDog;37059344](happy) vent time!
So I've been in a e-relationship (since the summer of 2011) until about 2 weeks ago when I finally drove up (about 20 hours of driving) to see her. As much as I fell in "love" (to deflect any criticism about using the L word) with her through Skype or whatever, it was nothing compared to what I felt when I actually spent time with her. The good (and possibly bad) things about seeing someone for the first time after you've been in an e-relationship with them for a while is that it takes all the guess work of what kind of person they are with regards to their sense of humor, values, nuances, and most other aspects of their personality. Needless to say we ended up getting busy about an hour after we first meet.
We get along absolutely swimmingly, I'm my awkward self in public and she loves it. We're so wrapped up in each other that both of us pretty much ignore what we hate about PDA and get incredibly mushy in public, which was a huge guilty pleasure.
On day 2 of 8, she starts her period, but somehow we end up having sex about 12 times total in those 7 days. We were both very iffy about period sex, but our instincts got the better of us. I actually didn't mind it as much. Do a lot of people completely rule out sex at that time of the month? Granted it was the only week I could see her for a while, so I may have been extremely biased.[/QUOTE]
Depends on the period. I had sex with my girlfriend fine the past 2 but then the most recent one we tried... nope nope nope, Looked like my dick went through the Battle of Antietam and it was too wet for her to feel much.
my girl enjoys sex more on her period.
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