[QUOTE=G3rman;37207461]Let us know if its a boy or a girl, I hear you're expecting thousands of them down there.[/QUOTE]
I hope all those women I shagged are proud
WAOH
I HAVE MILLIONS
MUILIIONS
why thank you
[QUOTE=SatansSin;37207843]I hope all those women I shagged are proud[/QUOTE]
we don't appreciate lying in this thread
So any ideas on getting my gf to be more open to talking about sex? I find it really odd since she really isn't that timid about actually having sex but it's really hard to talk to her about anything related to it unless it's over text or msn. I'd just like to know what she'd like, but she gets all embarrassed we the topic comes up.
talk about what you want to do with her. get her legitimately excited, don't just put her on the spot.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37207865]we don't appreciate lying in this thread[/QUOTE]
I.. I...
okay.
:(
[QUOTE=thisispain;37207883]talk about what you want to do with her. get her legitimately excited, don't just put her on the spot.[/QUOTE]
I think he means more asking about stuff related to sex, not just dirty talk type discussions during sex.
same concept. people open up to you easier if you let them feel like there's nothing to be ashamed about.
it should feel fun
I guess but how would i make her feel it's nothing to be ashamed about would be the question then.
[QUOTE=diddy500;37208002]I guess but how would i make her feel it's nothing to be ashamed about would be the question then.[/QUOTE]
Ask her during the act, she can't back out then.
This has been attempted, only mildly successful as it still takes a fairly long conversation to get an actual answer that not so vague as to have no meaning at all. And it's not that she doesn't want to talk about it exactly, but i can tell she gets embarrassed when it comes up.
it's a possibility she doesn't want to talk about it.
but i would bring it up during sex. that's not a bad idea.
[QUOTE=diddy500;37208133]This has been attempted, only mildly successful as it still takes a fairly long conversation to get an actual answer that not so vague as to have no meaning at all. And it's not that she doesn't want to talk about it exactly, but i can tell she gets embarrassed when it comes up.[/QUOTE]
How long have you been together and been having sex? I remember I was a bit shy about talking about things but I've got a lot more relaxed about it now.
Anyone else here feel a hint of regret after their first time?
I mean, I may have enjoyed every second of it but I couldn't help but get all tearful for a few hours afterwards.
Regret about what?
[QUOTE=MasterFen007;37210342]Anyone else here feel a hint of regret after their first time?
I mean, I may have enjoyed every second of it but I couldn't help but get all tearful for a few hours afterwards.[/QUOTE]
I tried to kill myself after my first time. Guess that pretty much says it all (Y)
It's weird, you go a few months or a year without a serious relationship, and you get to thinking that you're sexually frustrated. Then, you finally get involved with a good woman, mutually decide to take your time with sex, and discover that you never knew the half of it.
My will towards a short period of abstinence is rapidly breaking down, and I blame my woman's wily machinations. Evil wears sun dresses.
idk, you can go several months without a serious relationship and still fulfil your uh, sexual needs
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37211655]wow that must've been some terrible sex[/QUOTE]
I was ironic though. But yeah. It was terrible.
Sex is pri cool
unfortunately me and my girl have nowhere to do it and are trying to apply our fiendish minds to the matter without ever going into a public toilet
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37211024]It's weird, you go a few months or a year without a serious relationship, and you get to thinking that you're sexually frustrated. Then, you finally get involved with a good woman, mutually decide to take your time with sex, and discover that you never knew the half of it.
My will towards a short period of abstinence is rapidly breaking down, and I blame my woman's wily machinations. Evil wears sun dresses.[/QUOTE]
This is lame you are being lame
Nobody enjoys being without a sexual partner for extended periods of time but plenty people including myself do that because I do not want to bang anybody I don't have a connection with, so don't go whining about it when you are even currently banging someone (who you do have one with)
gosh bda
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;37209591]How long have you been together and been having sex? I remember I was a bit shy about talking about things but I've got a lot more relaxed about it now.[/QUOTE]
We've been together for a little over a year and have been most of that time. And I'd think that she would be more relaxed the more we talk about it, it's just been getting those first few conversations that's been difficult. But after bringing this up after posting here we were able to talk a bit so maybe i'll just take some time.
[QUOTE=SatansSin;37207367]Update:
Went to the ER, I couldn't take it.
Got my balls examined, after waiting fucking 4 hours. Thankfully though. The doctor examined them, found no lumps, no anything. It was a bit tender when he was pushing his fingers through my sac, but nothing that made me go, "Hnnngg!" as he described(pain feeling). He also checked for hernias, and that stuff.
I do however have to go in for a ultrasound, just to check even more further, to clarify.[/QUOTE]
Be prepared to pay $700 even with insurance.
[QUOTE=diddy500;37214674]We've been together for a little over a year and have been most of that time. And I'd think that she would be more relaxed the more we talk about it, it's just been getting those first few conversations that's been difficult. But after bringing this up after posting here we were able to talk a bit so maybe i'll just take some time.[/QUOTE]
That is quite a long time for her still to be uncomfortable talking about sex. I'm definitely not the type of person who talks about intimate things with people, even joking around with friends, but I have no problem with talking about things with my girlfriend, and haven't done since the first few months of our relationship.
I'm not bangin', though. That's my point! My brain is turning into goop and I am dying. I dig this girl, and am completely willing to respect her wish to continue to take our time before having sex, but my conscious decision to not push her on the issue if she's not ready for it doesn't stop my libido from going all crazy when she's pulling at my clothes and grinding up on me and whatnot! It's like when you put a bowl of water just outside the reach of a dog's chain on a hot day; I'm the dog, and I'm just kinda sprawled out scratching the air makin weird faces and shit.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37227091]I'm not bangin', though. That's my point! My brain is turning into goop and I am dying. I dig this girl, and am completely willing to respect her wish to continue to take our time before having sex, but my conscious decision to not push her on the issue if she's not ready for it doesn't stop my libido from going all crazy when she's pulling at my clothes and grinding up on me and whatnot! It's like when you put a bowl of water just outside the reach of a dog's chain on a hot day; I'm the dog, and I'm just kinda sprawled out scratching the air makin weird faces and shit.[/QUOTE]
Every dog has his day and dammit BDA, you will get yours!
Now go sit in the corner and wait.
[QUOTE=G3rman;37227779]Every dog has his day and dammit BDA, you will get yours!
Now go sit in the corner and wait.[/QUOTE]
does your gf/partner make you do that
[QUOTE=ice445;37214831]Be prepared to pay $700 even with insurance.[/QUOTE]
I live in Canada
Just got back from the ultrasound, felt odd, the room was cold. She was saying that nothing appears to be wrong, the guy who examines the pictures and sent the results said everything looked good. No signs of a twisted testicle, or anything like that.
Just recommended me some rest, ibuprofen.
Me and my now ex girlfriend broke up :/ She apparently lost her feelings for me. Not as sad as I thought I'd be, will hit me later I guess. Just a month of our year's anniversary as well. Oh well, for the best I suppose.
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37227091]I'm not bangin', though. That's my point! My brain is turning into goop and I am dying. I dig this girl, and am completely willing to respect her wish to continue to take our time before having sex, but my conscious decision to not push her on the issue if she's not ready for it doesn't stop my libido from going all crazy when she's pulling at my clothes and grinding up on me and whatnot! It's like when you put a bowl of water just outside the reach of a dog's chain on a hot day; I'm the dog, and I'm just kinda sprawled out scratching the air makin weird faces and shit.[/QUOTE]
this is pretty much exactly how i feel, except it's even worse in that we go to third base but coach isn't letting me hit any homers, you know
Why are you gf not letting you have sex with them if they go that far otherwise?
Try advancements and see if they object?
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