[QUOTE=thisispain;37278409]i never said hold everything inside
ya problem vinny is that you don't fuckin listen[/QUOTE]
That's pretty much what you are implying.
[QUOTE=Zee Captain;37278431]That's pretty much what you are implying.[/QUOTE]
that's your problem, instead of rudely making assumptions and projecting you could have just asked.
calling me a push-over, well i never
and rating me dumb is just being a cock
[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37278303]Could always passive-aggressively pay for her cab. Prove you're the bigger man by forgiving her, thus deepening her shame, and winning some small revenge. Julius Caesar would have forgiven her. Julius Caesar probably would have [I]bought[/I] her the cab. You want to be like Julius Caesar, don't you? He was the emperor of Rome. He got stabbed by, like, thirty people. You don't get stabbed by thirty people unless you've really made an impact.[/QUOTE]
I have never seen you make a bad post and this just made my day. Never change.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37278452]No, he's not saying hold everything inside, he's saying he shouldn't get mad about it.
(Which I disagree with, but don't put words in his mouth)[/QUOTE]
But thats such a defeatist attitude.
[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;37278420]Paying for her cab just seems so unnecesary to me. Why would you? Because its seen as chivalrous to pay for the woman?[/QUOTE]
eh if you're gonna propose to someone ideally you'd be pretty fond of that person. love's not conditional, it doesn't just completely disappear at the moment someone says they've cheated on you.
when my ex told me she cheated on me i was still very fond and caring of her. you can call it being a "submissive pushover" if you want, but you can afford to be one sometimes.
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[QUOTE=CheeserCrice;37278467]But thats such a defeatist attitude.[/QUOTE]
defeatist? you don't earn anything by being angry towards a girlfriend who cheats on you. pick your battles.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278456]that's your problem, instead of rudely making assumptions and projecting you could have just asked.
calling me a push-over, well i never
and rating me dumb is just being a cock[/QUOTE]
You know you might be right, I guess I was being rude. But I still disagree with you about not getting mad. Thats like getting raped in prison but never fighting back...it like you just stood there and take it.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278499]eh if you're gonna propose to someone ideally you'd be pretty fond of that person. love's not conditional, it doesn't just completely disappear at the moment someone says they've cheated on you.
when my ex told me she cheated on me i was still very fond and caring of her. you can call it being a "submissive pushover" if you want, but you can afford to be one sometimes.
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defeatist? you don't earn anything by being angry towards a girlfriend who cheats on you. pick your battles.[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying he should have raged at her, but the way he paid for her cab was the equivalent of giving a bully his lunch money; its not helpful at all.
[QUOTE=Zee Captain;37278543]Thats like getting raped in prison but never fighting back...it like you just stood there and take it.[/QUOTE]
wtf no it's not
Seriously tho 2 years if long as fuck for a affair. Why didn't she just broke up with him.
There needs to be some kind of godwin's law about people bringing prison rape into forum discussions.
[quote]the way he paid for her cab was the equivalent of giving a bully his lunch money;[/quote]
it's just a nice gesture?
again that's sooo not a valid comparison.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278570]wtf no it's not[/QUOTE]
Yea that's more of a extreme situation but either way you just let them abuse you, sometimes even rewarding them for it.
[QUOTE=Zee Captain;37278608]Yea that's more of a extreme situation but either way you just let them abuse you, sometimes even rewarding them for it.[/QUOTE]
i really think you're projecting pretty hard here
paying for someone's cab isn't rewarding them with anything, it's not like she spent two years creating an elaborate plot to steal his cab money.
i mean how much money are we even talking about here that warrants any comparison to prison rape
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278596]it's just a nice gesture?
again that's sooo not a valid comparison.[/QUOTE]
Why would you do a nice gesture to somebody that has greatly wronged you for 2 fucking years.
It's not like somebody accidently tripping you, she fucking played him for 2 fucking years.
tbh I don't understand why anyone would want a relationship with someone already in one. Does it not occur to the other guy that he himself might be cheated on? 2 years is so long its just taking the piss; if she had a shred of compassion herself she would have told him earlier.
[QUOTE=Zee Captain;37278638]Why would you do a nice gesture to somebody that has greatly wronged you for 2 fucking years.[/QUOTE]
because you still care about them?
like i said when they cheat on you your feelings about that person don't suddenly disappear. it's why it hurts pretty bad.
This is quick becoming a very petty argument. The woman this dude wants to marry breaks his heart, and we spend two pages arguing about whether or not he should have paid her cab fare.
Silly, silly, silly!
you don't have the right to call anyone else silly, Mr. "what would Caesar do"
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278668]because you still care about them?
like i said when they cheat on you your feelings about that person don't suddenly disappear. it's why it hurts pretty bad.[/QUOTE]
Just because you still have feelings for somebody after they fucked you up doesn't man you should still baby them.
If you had a child and care about them doesn't mean you are never going to get mad at them for doing something bad, it also doesn't mean you can spoil them after doing something bad.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278722]you don't have the right to call anyone else silly, Mr. "what would Caesar do"[/QUOTE]
Which Caesar? Julius Caesar would have shamed her with forgiveness, but Caesar Millan would probably just pinch her neck. It's important to clarify, TIP!
At least Julius Caesar would be getting some sort of revenge.
[QUOTE=Zee Captain;37278732]Just because you still have feelings for somebody after they fucked you up doesn't man you should still baby them.[/QUOTE]
dude it's just cab fare
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[QUOTE=Big Dumb American;37278748]Which Caesar? Julius Caesar would have shamed her with forgiveness, but Caesar Millan would probably just pinch her neck. It's important to clarify, TIP![/QUOTE]
Augustus Caesar would have probably annexed her house
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278785]dude it's just cab fare
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Augustus Caesar would have probably annexed her house[/QUOTE]
And banished her to a tiny island for the rest of her life. And that's only if he really liked her.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37278785]dude it's just cab fare
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Augustus Caesar would have probably annexed her house[/QUOTE]
I don't give a fuck about the money. It is the reason about it that counts. Helping somebody that greatly wronged you is illogical and stupid. It's like a Jewish kid that witness his parent's murder by Nazis gives Hitler a ride home.
[quote]It's like a Jewish kid that witness his parent's murder by Nazis gives Hitler a ride home.[/quote]
we've reached a new plateau in silliness
You've done it now, Zee. You've set a new bar for silly comparisons. Do you know how hard I'm going to have to work to top this?
Okay maybe I slightly over-exaggerated with the Jewish kid thing...
I'm going to break this one up with a question...
Alright... I am stuck in what normal people never have to see...
Currently there are 2 girls that I really care about right now... One of them, I [I]have[/I] gotten to date, but the problem is she falls for ANYONE that just looks at her... So, I turned to girl #2 which I have never really dated... Over Time I developed feelings for her as well as she has feelings for me but, she distances herself from dating..
What Am I supposed to do?!
I say go smack at girl #2
I been thought girl just like girl #1 and it didn't ended good.
skip girl #1
if girl #2 can't commit, skip her too
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