[QUOTE=CodeMonkey3;34580244]To be fair you probably have the wrong impression of a conservative. Like Facepunch bad.
I'm an atheist, I believe in gay rights and I'd reelect Obama (because all the Republicans running right now are fucking idiots)
I just believe in different approaches to government and social issues. Hence why I hate the Occupy movement, but I digress.[/QUOTE]
i didn't ask for your political opinions dude, i was giving you a compliment.
[QUOTE=Turnips5;34580334]eh, as long as nothing gets too heated I'm fine with discussing political stuff with my girlfriend (then again we share almost every single motherfucking view on everything ever, right up to and including fringe shit like transhumanism (SERIOUSLY HOW DID I FIND THIS GIRL) - so I'm not one to preach)
I need to find things that my girlfriend vehemently disagrees with me on (that aren't stupid views to hold) and debate about it with her :D
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
yeah
he should
lol
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
nah I don't get it, are you saying that I'm trying to force my views on him or something, because I said they should learn from each other, not "she's right, you're an idiot"[/QUOTE]
im saying he was asking for love advice and you told him "your opinions about drugs are wrong"
its not surprising seeing as you and your girlfriend seem to agree on everything, maybe you're just not used to differing opinions
I know a wicca girl
she's pretty hot
says most people get over the wicca aspect pretty fast.
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34580615]I know a wicca girl
she's pretty hot
says most people get over the wicca aspect pretty fast.[/QUOTE]
Embrace the wicca culture and cast a spell on her that makes her S your D all day.
Okay guys, having a bit of an issue, and I figured "who better to help with my girl problems than my bros on Facepunch!?"...
So recently I broke up with a girl whom I'd been with for a short time, we had been friends for a very long time and were "together" for a very short time. The break up was a tad ugly, with her pretty much telling me I was too much of an outcast (her words) for her and that she was too embarrassed to be public about being with me and that I needed to change a lot about myself for her to accept me. I told her to fuck off, moved on, started seeing other girls I met at concerts, but now that she's found out about my being with other girls, she's started acting strangely. She apologized for "being a bitch" and has started flirting with me quite a bit. When she acts like this, I begin to think that she's finally learned to accept me for who I was but other times she's just a complete bitch to me and pretends that I don't exist and that we were never together. I'm not sure how to proceed here, because part of me realizes that she is, and always will be shallow, but the other side still misses her and remembers the great times we had and is hopeful that she may have accepted me for being who I am.
Thanks a ton in advanced guys.
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;34581573]Okay guys, having a bit of an issue, and I figured "who better to help with my girl problems than my bros on Facepunch!?"...
So recently I broke up with a girl whom I'd been with for a short time, we had been friends for a very long time and were "together" for a very short time. The break up was a tad ugly, with her pretty much telling me I was too much of an outcast (her words) for her and that she was too embarrassed to be public about being with me and that I needed to change a lot about myself for her to accept me. I told her to fuck off, moved on, started seeing other girls I met at concerts, but now that she's found out about my being with other girls, she's started acting strangely. She apologized for "being a bitch" and has started flirting with me quite a bit. When she acts like this, I begin to think that she's finally learned to accept me for who I was but other times she's just a complete bitch to me and pretends that I don't exist and that we were never together. I'm not sure how to proceed here, because part of me realizes that she is, and always will be shallow, but the other side still misses her and remembers the great times we had and is hopeful that she may have accepted me for being who I am.
Thanks a ton in advanced guys.[/QUOTE]
Gonna have to tell you to move on man. Don't go back to her, she's a bitch and you don't need to be with someone shallow like that. Trust me, I've wasted so much time chasing shallow girls and it's not even worth it. I actually have a girl I just gave up on who was the same way, really cool and nice when we hung out out of public spectacle, but treated me like the invisible man otherwise, especially on facebook. Just find someone who likes you for you, without going on a tangent about how you don't ___ enough or you ___ too much.
Well, I honestly think that she showed her true side when she broke up with you, and her change of heart could be related to the part where you started seeing other girls.
That's just my opinion tho, I may be completely wrong.
Also, yeah she's just jealous if she's coming back to you after you see other girls. My ex was doing this too, just leave it be and let her be jealous if she wants. She's not worth it in all likelihood man, sorry.
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;34581573]Okay guys, having a bit of an issue, and I figured "who better to help with my girl problems than my bros on Facepunch!?"...
So recently I broke up with a girl whom I'd been with for a short time, we had been friends for a very long time and were "together" for a very short time. The break up was a tad ugly, with her pretty much telling me I was too much of an outcast (her words) for her and that she was too embarrassed to be public about being with me and that I needed to change a lot about myself for her to accept me. I told her to fuck off, moved on, started seeing other girls I met at concerts, but now that she's found out about my being with other girls, she's started acting strangely. [b]She apologized for "being a bitch" and has started flirting with me quite a bit. When she acts like this, I begin to think that she's finally learned to accept me for who I was[/b] but other times [b]she's just a complete bitch to me and pretends that I don't exist and that we were never together.[/b] I'm not sure how to proceed here, because part of me realizes that she is, and always will be shallow, but the other side still misses her and remembers the great times we had and is hopeful that she may have accepted me for being who I am.
Thanks a ton in advanced guys.[/QUOTE]
so let me get this right:
after you broke up
she treats you really well and flirty-like some of the time? and like a total bitch the rest of the time?
chances are, like most people are saying, she's a shallow bitch, but this is good to know.
Do you suppose a small coffee shop is a nice spot for a second date? (Though it's technically a "first date" since her friends were with us the first time.) I'm planning on taking her to there for lunch or dinner and maybe then we could walk down to the docks down the street or to the small green/park area that has a dock right next to the river.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34581704]Do you suppose a small coffee shop is a nice spot for a second date. (Though it's technically a "first date" since her friends were with us the first time.)[/QUOTE]
fuck coffee shops, lol
I took 3 college interviews in them, they have a very "artificial" vibe to me. Then again it depends on the girl, some girls really dig the couches and fireplace at a starbucks.
Go full turkey and go for a restaurant.
Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with you guys. I mean at first I thought she was just scared because she had been very sheltered for most of her life until recently and she thought I was her first "Love" and her first legitimate relationship, but she is probably shallow at heart. I mean she was always upset with me for growing my hair in or listening to "weird" music. Thanks guys, good advice.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34581681]so let me get this right:
after you broke up
she treats you really well and flirty-like some of the time? and like a total bitch the rest of the time?
chances are, like most people are saying, she's a shallow bitch, but this is good to know.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, she is rather bi-polar with me.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Juice_Layer;34581631]Gonna have to tell you to move on man. Don't go back to her, she's a bitch and you don't need to be with someone shallow like that. Trust me, I've wasted so much time chasing shallow girls and it's not even worth it. I actually have a girl I just gave up on who was the same way, really cool and nice when we hung out out of public spectacle, but treated me like the invisible man otherwise, especially on facebook. Just find someone who likes you for you, without going on a tangent about how you don't ___ enough or you ___ too much.[/QUOTE]
Exactly, thanks mate!
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;34581745]Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with you guys. I mean at first I thought she was just scared because she had been very sheltered for most of her life until recently and she thought I was her first "Love" and her first legitimate relationship, but she is probably shallow at heart. I mean she was always upset with me for growing my hair in or listening to "weird" music. Thanks guys, good advice.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
Yeah, she is rather bi-polar with me.[/QUOTE]
well, is it just how you treat the physical aspects of yourself that causes her to dislike you?
I can understand if you were a slob (which long hair can infer, not saying you are) and she doesn't like you because of that, but if it's for a lot of things about your personality (being a gamer, perhaps?) then yeah, shallow bitch.
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;34581745]Yeah, I'm going to have to agree with you guys. I mean at first I thought she was just scared because she had been very sheltered for most of her life until recently and she thought I was her first "Love" and her first legitimate relationship, but she is probably shallow at heart. I mean she was always upset with me for growing my hair in or listening to "weird" music. Thanks guys, good advice.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
Yeah, she is rather bi-polar with me.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
Exactly, thanks mate![/QUOTE]
You just described my ex. Get the hell away from this girl hahaha, it's in your best interests.
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34581779]well, is it just how you treat the physical aspects of yourself that causes her to dislike you?
I can understand if you were a slob (which long hair can infer, not saying you are) and she doesn't like you because of that, but if it's for a lot of things about your personality (being a gamer, perhaps?) then yeah, shallow bitch.[/QUOTE]
No its more than that, and I'm, not really a slob, more of a scene/hipster type look. She told me that I'm an "outcast" and that she "cares too much what other people think to deal with that right now".
Its basically because I'm not exactly the popular type in my school.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Juice_Layer;34581802]You just described my ex. Get the hell away from this girl hahaha, it's in your best interests.[/QUOTE]
Hahaha, was she asian too? :v:
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34581730]fuck coffee shops, lol
I took 3 college interviews in them, they have a very "artificial" vibe to me. Then again it depends on the girl, some girls really dig the couches and fireplace at a starbucks.
Go full turkey and go for a restaurant.[/QUOTE]
It's not a Starbucks, it's a small coffee shop where I already know the owner. My friends and I already hang out at the place on a usual basis. The location is in a small alleyway between storefronts with a nice brick walkway and lots of potted plants and small trees.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34581927]It's not a Starbucks, it's a small coffee shop where I already know the owner. My friends and I already hang out at the place on a usual basis. The location is in a small alleyway between storefronts with a nice brick walkway and lots of potted plants and small trees.[/QUOTE]
go for it.
[editline]6th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=johnlmonkey;34581902]
Hahaha, was she asian too? :v:[/QUOTE]
not to be racist, but that sort of explains a lot :3
"asian girls marry the money/power"
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34582307]
not to be racist, but that sort of explains a lot :3
"asian girls marry the money/power"[/QUOTE]
This is you [i]not[/i] being racist?
[QUOTE=kaine123;34582372][URL="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHjtij5vZfA"]Thread music. [/URL][/QUOTE]
[URL=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JL3E90TZNAo]My New Anthem[/URL]
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
So we were on the topic of shallow girls, there's this girl I was going after (gave up on her as previously mentioned) who would post pictures on facebook. If she doesn't get more than 10 "likes" on her picture in roughly 5 hours she deletes it and posts a new one. Usually they're ones where it's just her face.
People only like the one's where she's either wearing something skimpy or her cleavage is good (not saying I don't "like" these, they're hot as fuck). It just irks me I guess. You're really that insecure that you have to post pictures like that to look popular on facebook instead of posting a nice picture of your own face?
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
/rant
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34580615]I know a wicca girl
she's pretty hot
says most people get over the wicca aspect pretty fast.[/QUOTE]
Can you give me her number? I wanna do it before I get over her.
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34581730]fuck coffee shops, lol
I took 3 college interviews in them, they have a very "artificial" vibe to me. [/QUOTE]
From your extensive research you sound like a real cafe expert, I think he should listen to you.
This girl I've started going out with fucking owns. It's one of those things where everything feels really natural and we're both super comfortable with each other. Everything just sort of clicks. I've never really experienced it before, and neither has she. She's had a pretty rough life. The things she told me that happened to her has sort of made me feel naive about the world. She's super chill and wicked smart, and has a drive to do better for herself that is really attractive.
I used to be a jealous person, but for some reason I'm at ease with her. I trust her, and she trusts me. I haven't been this happy in a long ass time. I really hope this goes somewhere.
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;34580444]im saying he was asking for love advice and you told him "your opinions about drugs are wrong"
its not surprising seeing as you and your girlfriend seem to agree on everything, maybe you're just not used to differing opinions[/QUOTE]
okay, no I didn't but whatever
she's my first girlfriend, it's purely down to chance that we happen to agree on a lot of issues. what do you think is more likely, the idea that I rejected hundreds of girls prior to this because they happened to have UNACCEPTABLE OPINIONS or that I happened to meet a girl at university who agreed with me on a lot of stuff and that I'm exaggerating about us agreeing on everything?
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
please refrain from making snide remarks when they're not even backed up by anything
[QUOTE=T2L_Goose;34586172]This girl I've started going out with fucking owns. It's one of those things where everything feels really natural and we're both super comfortable with each other. Everything just sort of clicks. I've never really experienced it before, and neither has she. She's had a pretty rough life. The things she told me that happened to her has sort of made me feel naive about the world. She's super chill and wicked smart, and has a drive to do better for herself that is really attractive.
I used to be a jealous person, but for some reason I'm at ease with her. I trust her, and she trusts me. I haven't been this happy in a long ass time. I really hope this goes somewhere.[/QUOTE]
That's lovely :) I just got out of a relationship like that because he moved away for uni and i have previous work related commitments in this town. Really didn't want to end it but it's hard when you go from being with each other every day to once a month for a couple of days. It's really good though, when you've found a best friend in a loved one.
The break up wasn't rough or mean either, but we're both didn't know where to go so we just stopped talking :(
Which brings me to why I'm here!
I'm a normal girl, better side of normal looking, normal body, nothing special. Hardly get out, like my video games, work at a game store etc. This ripped fucking gym guy, attractive as fuck is all of a sudden interested in me. How do you date someone when you feel so... inadequate? I don't think I could be comfortable with my appearance no matter how nice he is - but then that's ME being shallow, not him. Argh, fucking confusing.
Advice.. please? :)
[QUOTE=Turnips5;34586267]okay, no I didn't but whatever
she's my first girlfriend, it's purely down to chance that we happen to agree on a lot of issues. what do you think is more likely, the idea that I rejected hundreds of girls prior to this because they happened to have UNACCEPTABLE OPINIONS or that I happened to meet a girl at university who agreed with me on a lot of stuff and that I'm exaggerating about us agreeing on everything?
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
please refrain from making personal attacks especially when they make no damn sense[/QUOTE]
...He never attacked you.
[editline]7th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=bree;34586294]That's lovely :) I just got out of a relationship like that because he moved away for uni and i have previous work related commitments in this town. Really didn't want to end it but it's hard when you go from being with each other every day to once a month for a couple of days. It's really good though, when you've found a best friend in a loved one.
The break up wasn't rough or mean either, but we're both didn't know where to go so we just stopped talking :(
Which brings me to why I'm here!
I'm a normal girl, better side of normal looking, normal body, nothing special. Hardly get out, like my video games, work at a game store etc. This ripped fucking gym guy, attractive as fuck is all of a sudden interested in me. How do you date someone when you feel so... inadequate? I don't think I could be comfortable with my appearance no matter how nice he is - but then that's ME being shallow, not him. Argh, fucking confusing.
Advice.. please? :)[/QUOTE]
He should make you feel comfortable.. Life is full of adventures, you should at least try one.
I wish I could go to bed with her now. Only two days away.
Is that normal if my girlfriend is in one my sex slave too? Lol.
[QUOTE=Soret;34587751]Is that normal if my girlfriend is in one my sex slave too? Lol.[/QUOTE]
depending on your definition, I'd say yes
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