please dont talk about vaginas they scare me
[editline]27th August 2012[/editline]
please im having a panic attakc stop it
[QUOTE=Boaraes;37422667]So last week, I went on a date with this amazing girl. She's smart, funny, and pretty. We went to see TDKR and later went to the arcade. Everything went smoothly, and we had a nice good-bye kiss. The thing is, she smokes a LOT of weed. I'm talking pretty much every day. I don't have a problem with recreational use of weed, but she has told me that she needs to smoke it to do well on her tests (she's online schooling). I don't think this is a very healthy thing to be doing. I've told her to try to cut back on it, and even her dad said so too. Lately she's been feeling ill, and she told me it happens around two times a month. I'm not sure if it's the weed lowering her immune system (which it probably isn't but I dunno), or she just has a generally weak immune system. If it's the weed doing it, give me some tips on trying to convince her. Also I would like some advice on trying to tell her that she shouldn't be dependant on weed to ace tests. I feel like it's unhealthy.[/QUOTE]
Yeah, you shouldn't be dependent on anything to go through your daily life. Thing is, you barely know her, so you aren't going to have much effect in what she does. I am surprised that her father doesn't mind her smoking, that just seems weird to me.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37422946][Sp]
The taste lingers, and it seems to slowly seep a bit down over time just to make my underwear excessivly dirty. [/sp]
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can't be sober for this srry
Fuck me.
This girl who I was 99% sure liked me and wanted me to ask her out is now texting me saying "I don't feel I'm ready for another relationship because of how things went with my ex" .
I mean, I know she likes me. Or I used to at least, maybe shes just saying this as a way to say shes over me?
I don't know, urgh.. What should I do? I really like her!
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37423578]Fuck me.
This girl who I was 99% sure liked me and wanted me to ask her out is now texting me saying "I don't feel I'm ready for another relationship because of how things went with my ex" .
I mean, I know she likes me. Or I used to at least, maybe shes just saying this as a way to say shes over me?
I don't know, urgh.. What should I do? I really like her![/QUOTE]
Timespan between you and ex?
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37423578]"I don't feel I'm ready for another relationship because of how things went with my ex"[/QUOTE]
sounds like a very distinct "no".
please try to stop thinking about her as a romantic interest - concentrate on a hobby or something
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;37423662]Timespan between you and ex?[/QUOTE]
Like, 10 months? That's why I'm not sure how to interpret it.. I would think she would be well over him at this point.
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37423693]Like, 10 months? That's why I'm not sure how to interpret it.. I would think she would be well over him at this point.[/QUOTE]
then this is an even more obvious no
Well I haven't even asked her out.
We had a thing, we've made out and fooled around. I thought for sure she liked me.
She just kind of texted me out of the blue explaining how she doesn't feel she's ready.
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37423707]Well I haven't even asked her out.
We had a thing, we've made out and fooled around. I thought for sure she liked me.
She just kind of texted me out of the blue explaining how she doesn't feel she's ready.[/QUOTE]
10 months is a rather long period of time, but there isn't really anything that can be said. She's obviously not interested, for whatever that reason may be.
well dude, you know the situation better than any of us, and whatever you do is up to you in the end, but it kinda sounds like she's trying to preempt something. so my advice is to take what she said sincerely - maybe you should talk to her to understand properly
[QUOTE=Turnips5;37423753]well dude, you know the situation better than any of us, and whatever you do is up to you in the end, but it kinda sounds like she's trying to preempt something. so my advice is to take what she said sincerely - maybe you should talk to her to understand properly[/QUOTE]
I have been. I mean, according to her her last boyfriend acted like he loved her, and just ended it abruptly and she's still upset over it.
But the thing is she's sort of doing the same thing to me it feels like. But I don't know, I'm just confused at the moment.
[QUOTE=gufu;37423367]Yeah, you shouldn't be dependent on anything to go through your daily life. Thing is, you barely know her, so you aren't going to have much effect in what she does. I am surprised that her father doesn't mind her smoking, that just seems weird to me.[/QUOTE]
Well I actually did know her quite well before we went on the date, but I agree that we need to be together longer in order for her to trust my judgment more. Regardless of my judgment, she should be doing what her dad says. And yeah, he's okay with it, but like me he knows it's not good for her to be entirely dependant on it.
Alright so apparently she still likes me a lot which is good news.
But she just says she wants to "wait longer".
So I don't even know, she likes me and wants me to take her on dates still, but she's not ready for me to ask her out.
wtf
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37424024]Alright so apparently she still likes me a lot which is good news.
But she just says she wants to "wait longer".
So I don't even know, she likes me and wants me to take her on dates still, but she's not ready for me to ask her out.
wtf[/QUOTE]
Welp, prepare for Dwarf Fortress-styled fun ahead of you. As much I dislike pointing out the worst, there is a chance that she might be still afraid about leaving her ex.
By Dwarf Fortress, do you mean slow paced?
No, as in she turns into a werebeast and lava starts rising from the ground. Also, your family will kill each other over a dead cat.
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But yeah, as much as I hate saying negative things, it feels like she is trying to reestablish the contact with her past, particularly with her ex. That's what the need for "extra time" could mean.
Hopefully not. I mean, like Turnips said, I do know more about the situation than you guys. And from the looks of things she is not interested in him at all, but it's been 10 months and shes still not over him.
She's basically telling me "I still like you A LOT. But I don't want to move things forward with you yet."
I dunno girls are confusing man...
At this point I'm just trying to figure out if she's still okay with my taking her out on dates and being physical with her, or if she wants me to step into the friend zone.
[editline]26th August 2012[/editline]
I feel like I'm posting in this thread too much.
Sorry for spamming the thread with my venting
[QUOTE=Chocolate.;37424251]Hopefully not. I mean, like Turnips said, I do know more about the situation than you guys. And from the looks of things she is not interested in him at all, but it's been 10 months and shes still not over him.
She's basically telling me "I still like you A LOT. But I don't want to move things forward with you yet."
I dunno girls are confusing man...
At this point I'm just trying to figure out if she's still okay with my taking her out on dates and being physical with her, or if she wants me to step into the friend zone.
[editline]26th August 2012[/editline]
I feel like I'm posting in this thread too much.
Sorry for spamming the thread with my venting[/QUOTE]
she doesnt want to be in a relationship with you.
if she was interested in a relationship with you she wouldn't be making up dumb excuses not to be.
it sounds like you're her second choice and she would choose her ex over you if she was able.
even if she does like you it's not worth it with all this dumb "JUST WAIT A LITTLE BIT LONGER" shit.
Girls are bad for the brain
Can someone explain to me the appeal of anal sex
[QUOTE=dorkson0;37391323]There is this chick who is totally down to fuck, the only thing stopping her is that she has a long distance boyfriend and apparently her "Logic and clear thinking overrides (her) emotional needs".
OH MY FUCKING GGGGGGGGGGGOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
I know I can't force or coerce her into doing anything, that's fuck. But no matter what I do, I can't persuade her.[/QUOTE]
lol..... you sound like a monkey in the zoo. Her logic is still present because you hadn't provided any of her emotional needs.
[editline]27th August 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;37425312]Can someone explain to me the appeal of anal sex[/QUOTE]
From a male perspective, I'd say it's dominance-related. From a female perspective, it could be the same thing and also some people enjoy pain.
[QUOTE=Seith;37425316]lol..... you sound like a monkey in the zoo. Her logic is still present because you hadn't provided any of her emotional needs.
[editline]27th August 2012[/editline]
From a male perspective, I'd say it's dominance-related. From a female perspective, it could be the same thing and also some people enjoy pain.[/QUOTE]
or some people just think it feels good..?
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;37425312]Can someone explain to me the appeal of anal sex[/QUOTE]
taboo
tabutt
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taboobs
this isn't ktt, serious social discussion only!
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37425346]or some people just think it feels good..?[/QUOTE]
As I said.
[QUOTE=Upgrade123;37425312]Can someone explain to me the appeal of anal sex[/QUOTE]
That lil hole is tight as fuck.
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