[QUOTE=1chains1;34685442]Never put your eggs in one basket. Talking to other people makes it seem like you have plenty of friend girls so the girl you like feels more comfortable around you and has a sense of competition with the other girls. It also makes you seem like a sociable guy who can do his own thing and girls dig that.[/QUOTE]
Just trying to figure this out lol. One girl wants to hook up (which I aim to) and the other one wants me to be like her casual valentine and go on a date soon (which I aim to). The other one is on the backburner. Just trying to work things out tactfully.
I plan to ask someone out tomorrow, wish me luck.
If IRL ends up failing, I'm asking someone out on the internet.
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34688246]I plan to ask someone out tomorrow, wish me luck.
If IRL ends up failing, [B]I'm asking someone out on the internet[/B].[/QUOTE]
Is it me?
I don't have a valentines this year, LOL jk couldn't give 2 shits about this day.
My first single Valentine's Day in 6 years... I am finally free of obligations for an extra day this year. EPIC
Happy Valentines facepunch.
Today I am working from 1pm to 10pm. At work that is, that's no euphamism.
[QUOTE=1chains1;34689911]Is it me?[/QUOTE]
no, sorry.
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34693822]no, sorry.[/QUOTE]
It was a joke sir
[QUOTE=1chains1;34693834]It was a joke sir[/QUOTE]
I knew it was, serious answer was sarcasm.
[quote=Casnus]ur avatar gives me boner(s)[/quote]
[quote=GhostProject]i'd let you rape me any day of the week[/quote]
[QUOTE=Doozle;34692362]Happy Valentines facepunch.
Today I am working from 1pm to 10pm. At work that is, that's no euphamism.[/QUOTE]
But don't feel bad for me, we had our valentines day on saturday and I got a nice card in the post :3
Wow spent all last night and today with my girlfriend and it didn't cross either of our minds that it was Valentines day. Woops :v:
We'd both decided we weren't doing cards or presents as it was a waste of money and time, and she said it wasn't fair on me as her Birthday was three days before.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34696226]Wow spent all last night and today with my girlfriend and it didn't cross either of our minds that it was Valentines day. Woops :v:
We'd both decided we weren't doing cards or presents as it was a waste of money and time, and she said it wasn't far on me as her Birthday was three days before.[/QUOTE]
I made my girlfriend a card (with an inexplicably decent drawing of Biggie Smalls on the reverse - I was a bit pissed and [url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EJpP7ZId-mc]listening to this[/url] while I was making it) and got her some chocolate. She did something similar for me. :)
Well I got her some white gold earrings with a zircona crystal in the middle for her birthday so it kinda made up for no Valentines present.
awesome.
I made an agreement not to get anything for or from my girlfriend on Valentines Day. We went out to dinner but we do that every week or two anyway. Affordable as.
well, I ended up taking the internet option (for now)
[QUOTE=trotskygrad;34701273]well, I ended up taking the internet option (for now)[/QUOTE]
Yes, we are a very happy couple!
[QUOTE=Evilan;34691053]My first single Valentine's Day in 6 years... I am finally free of obligations for an extra day this year. EPIC[/QUOTE]
You lucky bastard.
It's better than never having a coupled valentines day.
[QUOTE=Mr. Smartass;34705651]You lucky bastard.
It's better than never having a coupled valentines day.[/QUOTE]
It's honestly about the same. The only difference is today I got far more warm wishes because I was single and some of my friends who are women get desperate for a date this time of year. I seem to attract a lot of hopeless romantics.
[QUOTE=Evilan;34707782]It's honestly about the same. The only difference is today I got far more warm wishes because I was single and some of my friends who are women get desperate for a date this time of year. I seem to attract a lot of hopeless romantics.[/QUOTE]
Probably because you are one. :)
Shit so there's this girl I'm hooking up with next week, and we aren't like "dating" and I still consider myself "single" nor do I plan to date her. However, I feel that her wanting to hold hands is a bad sign. I've never done this before, am I over analyzing?
I feel like a total asshole in retrospect. Around November, there was a girl I really liked and was planning to ask out for a few weeks until I was chatting casually and found out that she was moving. It turned out it was only about 30 minutes away so if we wanted we could still easily meet. I told her how I felt and I was delighted to find out that she felt the same way. We talked a lot on the phone afterwards and decided that because we both have demanding lives for plenty of reasons I don't want to elaborate on, we would meet this June after school was out.
The problem was that as time went on I stopped talking as much with her and sort of just let go. And then recently a girl seemed to be coming on to me in one of my classes, and recently she "asked me out" to come with her friends to see a horror flick. she seemed incredibly flirty and I was under the assumption that this was some sort of a date judging by the way she was acting and led me on. I mean she even fucking put my arm around her when she was scared. Then this week I asked her if she wanted to hang out alone with me at a coffee shop as a sort of date and she just acted all weirded out by this? So it turned out that she "acted like this around all of her friends." And she was genuinely sorry that she mislead me. And here's the kicker, she's moving away in a month and that's apparently the only reason she doesn't want to start a relationship with me. So thinking back on this event I feel like a major douche bag. During the last two weeks involving the second girl don't think I even thought once of the first and how this would affect her feelings. Now I'm resolving to talk to her and really see if the prospect of meeting up is all that realistic even or just a pipe dream at this point.
[QUOTE=kaine123;34720391]I feel like a total asshole in retrospect. Around November, there was a girl I really liked and was planning to ask out for a few weeks until I was chatting casually and found out that she was moving. It turned out it was only about 30 minutes away so if we wanted we could still easily meet. I told her how I felt and I was delighted to find out that she felt the same way. We talked a lot on the phone afterwards and decided that because we both have demanding lives for plenty of reasons I don't want to elaborate on, we would meet this June after school was out.
The problem was that as time went on I stopped talking as much with her and sort of just let go. And then recently a girl seemed to be coming on to me in one of my classes, and recently she "asked me out" to come with her friends to see a horror flick. she seemed incredibly flirty and I was under the assumption that this was some sort of a date judging by the way she was acting and led me on. I mean she even fucking put my arm around her when she was scared. Then this week I asked her if she wanted to hang out alone with me at a coffee shop as a sort of date and she just acted all weirded out by this? So it turned out that she "acted like this around all of her friends." And she was genuinely sorry that she mislead me. And here's the kicker, she's moving away in a month and that's apparently the only reason she doesn't want to start a relationship with me. So thinking back on this event I feel like a major douche bag. During the last two weeks involving the second girl don't think I even thought once of the first and how this would affect her feelings. Now I'm resolving to talk to her and really see if the prospect of meeting up is all that realistic even or just a pipe dream at this point.[/QUOTE]
you forgot, I don't see what's so bad about that.
[QUOTE=Juice_Layer;34719656]Shit so there's this girl I'm hooking up with next week, and we aren't like "dating" and I still consider myself "single" nor do I plan to date her. However, I feel that her wanting to hold hands is a bad sign. I've never done this before, am I over analyzing?[/QUOTE]
Maybe I'm incorrect, but people who just wanna screw and scram don't generally want to hold your hand. That's more of an emotional connection thing.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34720936]Maybe I'm incorrect, but people who just wanna screw and scram don't generally want to hold your hand. That's more of an emotional connection thing.[/QUOTE]
some people just like holding hands though
[QUOTE=Juice_Layer;34719656]Shit so there's this girl I'm hooking up with next week, and we aren't like "dating" and I still consider myself "single" nor do I plan to date her. However, I feel that her wanting to hold hands is a bad sign. I've never done this before, am I over analyzing?[/QUOTE]
It's a compliance test. If you choose to comply, then in her mind, you have agreed to terms she put up for a relationship with her.
If you don't plan on dating her, then why at all hook up with her? Do you wish to acquire some brand new female friends?
[editline]16th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=kaine123;34720391]I feel like a total asshole in retrospect. Around November, there was a girl I really liked and was planning to ask out for a few weeks until I was chatting casually and found out that she was moving. It turned out it was only about 30 minutes away so if we wanted we could still easily meet. I told her how I felt and I was delighted to find out that she felt the same way. We talked a lot on the phone afterwards and decided that because we both have demanding lives for plenty of reasons I don't want to elaborate on, we would meet this June after school was out.
The problem was that as time went on I stopped talking as much with her and sort of just let go. And then recently a girl seemed to be coming on to me in one of my classes, and recently she "asked me out" to come with her friends to see a horror flick. she seemed incredibly flirty and I was under the assumption that this was some sort of a date judging by the way she was acting and led me on. I mean she even fucking put my arm around her when she was scared. Then this week I asked her if she wanted to hang out alone with me at a coffee shop as a sort of date and she just acted all weirded out by this? So it turned out that she "acted like this around all of her friends." And she was genuinely sorry that she mislead me. And here's the kicker, she's moving away in a month and that's apparently the only reason she doesn't want to start a relationship with me. So thinking back on this event I feel like a major douche bag. During the last two weeks involving the second girl don't think I even thought once of the first and how this would affect her feelings. Now I'm resolving to talk to her and really see if the prospect of meeting up is all that realistic even or just a pipe dream at this point.[/QUOTE]
It's possible yes, but I would suggest to keep moving forward. The past should remain untouched, as it is, the past.
Got a question, do you guys have any advice on how to, y'know, hold out a little bit longer?
practice makes perfect
[QUOTE=Kias20;34726055]Got a question, do you guys have any advice on how to, y'know, hold out a little bit longer?[/QUOTE]
Increase your immersion. Practice will make immersion better with each and everytime, but it's an active mental process as well.
read sex god method.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;34720936]Maybe I'm incorrect, but people who just wanna screw and scram don't generally want to hold your hand. That's more of an emotional connection thing.[/QUOTE]
She asked if I liked her last night, I said that I did but I don't want a relationship for a long time. She said that basically what we were doing / going for is mutual. So I'm just gonna go with it.
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