Not at all, I am 18.
Also what's the most polite way of telling someone like this:
[img]http://i741.photobucket.com/albums/xx52/joshdasmif/Untitled-24.png[/img]
To go away
ignore
ask them if they can show you their magic typing fingers in person
I have been trying that for 3 days with no luck, I get excited when I get a mail but majorly disappointed when I see who from...
lock them in a basement w/ a computer logged into your IM client but with no keyboard/mouse so they are forced to witness the horror they have wrought upon your retinas
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37502803]i dunno i think this is really really entirely anecdotal. all of the americans i've ever met or overheard in places have been mega middle/upper-class tourists and they were frighteningly polite and pompous and scared of cussing/sexual language
edit: my girlfriend said the same thing. all of the americans she made friends with on cruises around the states were posh americans and they were aghast at the forwardness of her and her sister, especially the girls[/QUOTE]
I think to take good conclusions about a certain species, you must observe them in their natural habitat.
[editline]2nd September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37503165]Not at all, I am 18.
Also what's the most polite way of telling someone like this:
[img]http://i741.photobucket.com/albums/xx52/joshdasmif/Untitled-24.png[/img]
To go away[/QUOTE]
If you really really want to make her disappear, just start smoochin back and being a cute and farts. She'll eventually put you in the friend zone or something, hopefully.
If you just don't want to deal her for now and leave for later, don't talk so much, drop a line once in a while but she won't be like that forever so you can always just ignore her
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37503165]Not at all, I am 18.
Also what's the most polite way of telling someone like this:
[img]http://i741.photobucket.com/albums/xx52/joshdasmif/Untitled-24.png[/img]
To go away[/QUOTE]
It appears she wants you to
[IMG]http://i.qkme.me/36fne9.jpg[/IMG]
[QUOTE=D3TBS;37503274]If you really really want to make her disappear, just start smoochin back and [b]being a cute and farts.[/b] She'll eventually put you in the friend zone or something, hopefully.
If you just don't want to deal her for now and leave for later, don't talk so much, drop a line once in a while but she won't be like that forever so you can always just ignore her[/QUOTE]
I have to fart over the internet and it must be cute? I am somewhat confused sorry
I wanted to write cutesy and fartsy but I didn't know how the cute part was spelled, either cutesy, cutesey, cutsey? whatever
Oh! I prefer option 2, less talking involved
I'm in an annoying situation that I'm not sure how to resolve. So the girl I'm currently going out friend-zoned a guy she she still had a crush on me, this was also not long before she asked me out in the first place. The reason for that was mostly because she was interested in me at the time, but it was also that this guy is a major "alpha male" douche tough guy. He's also a semi-jock. I've been around him only once, but I was with said female and she was acting pretty flirtatious with me. The problem there was that his mood at the time was "thug" as far as I could tell. And when I would joke around with the other people present I was being jovial around everyone like I always like to be, but he's got it out for me and he made it pretty clear with the few words he said and his general demeanor. This guy seems like the violent type but according the the girl, if he were to try anything she would tell her Father (who's in the Navy,) about how he's tried to have sex with her on multiple occasions, and he would proceed to beat the everliving shit out of him. Still I'm just going to try to be nice and make sure I don't give him any extra reasons to hate me. If he does try to beat me up or something, I plan to just try to get away from him and walk directly to a figure of authority.
How old are you? I'd advise just staying away from the douchebag. Tell your girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable hanging around in groups that include him.
Also, if he does try to beat you up, being beat up isn't the worst. I know this sounds crazy, but honestly, if you stick up for yourself, he won't go for you, whereas if you present yourself as an easy target, he'll get a confidence boost and make your life miserable. I'd recommend just staying away from him, but if it does come down to confrontation, don't go to the nearest figure of authority. If you don't stand up for yourself now, you'll be targetted by him again and again. If the prick decides to start a fight, you'll be in the right, and other people will help you and tell the other guy to fuck off. Plus, I'm not sure how it works where you live, but going to a figure of authority only works (where I live) when some random asshole starts a problem with you (walking through town or something). With confrontations in school, going to an authority figure just leaves you with a bad reputation (cowardice).
The few times I've been in a situation like yours (some tough-guy douchebag who just has it out for me), I've either stayed away from him, or stuck up for myself when he tries to act the jerk. Like you said, you're jovial around others, so people will know you're a decent guy. They'll stick up for you. When you're anxious and worried around the bullies, they can see it, and it only feeds their ego and makes them more confident in making you miserable.
Seriously, I'm so glad I'm in Uni. None of this shit happens anymore. Highschool is bullshit, everyone can be such assholes. When you're in uni though, everyone's more mature.
well since im back in town from college, hung out with lady woman friend today. twas nice, went to the beach which i missed and did the usual lay in her bed and cuddle and listen to music thing we always do at the end of our day
could've been better though, she was on her period so cramps and she was a little moody bu w/e it was mostly cool
we did talk though about us again. im glad we went right back to how we were before, but she told me shes afraid that eventually she'll hurt me and that both us cant just wait around for each other forever. i told her that while i understand her, i'd rather just be blind to it in a sense, and as long as were happy together when were together, everything will be okay and if something big or bad happens, we'll cross that bridge together
idk if thats a great approach to it but idk what else to do
[QUOTE=loopoo;37504132]How old are you? I'd advise just staying away from the douchebag. Tell your girlfriend that you don't feel comfortable hanging around in groups that include him.
Also, if he does try to beat you up, being beat up isn't the worst. I know this sounds crazy, but honestly, if you stick up for yourself, he won't go for you, whereas if you present yourself as an easy target, he'll get a confidence boost and make your life miserable. I'd recommend just staying away from him, but if it does come down to confrontation, don't go to the nearest figure of authority. If you don't stand up for yourself now, you'll be targetted by him again and again. If the prick decides to start a fight, you'll be in the right, and other people will help you and tell the other guy to fuck off. Plus, I'm not sure how it works where you live, but going to a figure of authority only works (where I live) when some random asshole starts a problem with you (walking through town or something). With confrontations in school, going to an authority figure just leaves you with a bad reputation (cowardice).[/QUOTE]
I'm 16 (a junior in high school.) She's a year younger and a Sophomore. I've already told her that but the ordeal occurred at lunch so I couldn't really control who came to be at the table.
Go out with her. He won't do shit.
Also I'm a pacifist mostly because of (at least formerly) religious reasons. And my school has a policy where both people are arrested even if you just try to defend yourself. It's not cowardice, I'm following my values and it would be stupid to get arrested before I even graduate high school.
[QUOTE=kaine123;37504166]I'm 16 (A junior in high school.) She's a year younger and a Sophomore. I've already told her that but the ordeal occurred at lunch so I couldn't really control who came to be at the table.[/QUOTE]
I'm sure he'll stop coming around you guys, seeing as your girlfriend (props to her!) has made it clear she's infatuated with you and not interested in him. All the best, man. Assholes like that suck. Life's too short to be a prick!
If he does anything let him get arrested then, if he is stupid enough to hurt you anyway
Also, I'm not afraid of this asshole, he can't do anything at all to prevent me from going out with her. She's a lovely person and a dickhole like him won't get in the way of us having a good time with each other.
[QUOTE=kaine123;37504207]Also I'm a pacifist mostly because of (at least formerly) religious reasons. And my school has a policy where both people are arrested even if you just try to defend yourself. It's not cowardice, I'm following my values and it would be stupid to get arrested before I even graduate high school.[/QUOTE]
I'm not saying you'd be a coward for going to an authority figure. I'm just saying that in highschool, so many people are incredibly immature. I've seen guys carry the reputation of being a coward all through highschool for going to a teacher just once. It's absolute bullshit and it's unfair. But like luck_or_loss said, he won't do shit.
You guys have been helpful. Thanks. :v:
Best of luck! You've got an awesome relationship ahead of you, for sure. And your girlfriend is loyal, so you're a lucky man.
It's strange how I've been in the opposite end of the spectrum of "friend zones" as people call them. Though I never felt bitter or jealous at the guy whom the female chose instead of me. In fact one of my best friends I got to meet because of that happening. I always just felt that it wasn't right to think that my feelings were more valid than those of the other partner. If he or she doesn't want to go out with me than that's there choice and it's wrong to try to persuade them differently. I also think that there are a lot of sexist connotations to the term "friend-zone."
maybe i just never had it happen to me in the same way but i dont really have a problem w/ being ~~~ friend zoned ~~~
having close female friends is a good thing
[QUOTE=D3TBS;37502757]I heard that Munich was a good spot during the Oktoberfest, but I guess it's more because they're all drunk and stuff[/QUOTE]
A lot of tourists in that time, as well.
Munich's nice, and if you're going to the LMU or another one that's near the Englischer Garten then I guess you'll be hanging out a lot in that park (in spring and summer obviously, not when it's freezing), and there's basically always people there, playing football, frisbee, whatever. So enough people to be social with
Next year, I'll be heading to the UK to start my university life in medicine (hopefully). Although I'm out of topic with the thread title, I just wanted to ask what UK culture is really like. I want to know how girls are in the UK. I heard there's alot of racism to foreigners but I want to confirm this. On slight topic, are people there generally open minded, or closed and serious mostly?
depends on what area of britain.
the area in the south of england where i was born there was plenty of racism but it's not openly said or discussed, but generally to english-speaking americans (if you are american) they are quite nice and curious about america.
be prepared to get slagged off a lot tho
[QUOTE=thisispain;37506394]be prepared to get slagged off a lot tho[/QUOTE]
Just to ask, what type of slagging off do you refer to?
75% of british communication consists of insults
if a girl is insecure, shes told you shes insecure, her friends have told you shes insecure, how do you tell if she is only being insecure or if she doesnt like talking to you
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