[QUOTE=Seith;34727004]"gonna go with it" why?[/QUOTE]
Why not.
[editline]16th February 2012[/editline]
I couldn't really give a toss about getting into a relationship right now - it's not a priority. But, if I got the opportunity to have an almost-relationship with a lassie who understood I'm not looking for a relationship, I would go for it.
The man has it lucky, don't discourage him. No-commitment relationships are the best.
[QUOTE=Bawbag;34684421]Steak dinner for one after filming a follow-up to the "free hugs" (Filming with [url=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_pbHmupg-4M]j1j8[/url] who did one of the first on-youtube free-hugs events) [url=http://www.freehugscampaign.org/]campaign[/url], university. And then proceed to watch several of the SAW films. With plenty of drink.[/QUOTE]
Filming went well. I wasn't feeling so great so I missed out on it, but it still got done.
Result:
[video=youtube;K_4kotbuLKs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K_4kotbuLKs[/video]
Yeah well its still a relationship and unless she is very honest to you and says she's into someone else if the time comes, you're going to get hurt when you find out she's with someone else because its a "no commitment" relationship.
[QUOTE=Seith;34726379]
read sex god method.[/QUOTE]
Oh wow. Was expecting this to be one of those crappy things people try to sell by just adding tons of bullshit in big white letters but I was beyond damn wrong. I read it online and it blew my mind, will be using this everytime I have a problem now. Thanks a lot man.
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[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34728272]Yeah well its still a relationship and unless she is very honest to you and says she's into someone else if the time comes, you're going to get hurt when you find out she's with someone else because its a "no commitment" relationship.[/QUOTE]
I'm guessing you're responding to my post, though not sure since you didn't quote.
Anyways, I'm not going to be hurt one bit if she ends up liking / seeing someone else. It's one of those hit it and quit it deals.
to me it sounds like she's the one that's going to get hurt
but if you've already laid it out to her that you're not looking for a relationship then it's not your fault if she takes it too seriously
Welp.
Valentine's Day was about as lonely and horrible as I thought it was going to be. I don't know what the fuck happened. I promised myself that I was just going to go about my business as usual and ignore everyone, but it's hard to do on a campus with a guy/girl ratio of about 1:1.
[QUOTE=Bawbag;34727914]Why not.
[editline]16th February 2012[/editline]
I couldn't really give a toss about getting into a relationship right now - it's not a priority. But, if I got the opportunity to have an almost-relationship with a lassie who understood I'm not looking for a relationship, I would go for it.
The man has it lucky, don't discourage him. No-commitment relationships are the best.
Filming went well. I wasn't feeling so great so I missed out on it, but it still got done.
Result:
[/QUOTE]
1. You misunderstood. I never discouraged anyone. I was simply asking why would he settle? I got the impression he wasn't really into her, not the relationship.
Also, when I clarify to the women I go out with that this isn't an exclusive relationship, I say; "I am going to go out with other women, will that bother you?"
Did you do the same? Sometimes, it's not that clear....
2. Who was filmed in that clip? that was pretty funny.
[QUOTE=Seith;34738732]2. Who was filmed in that clip? that was pretty funny.[/QUOTE]
[url=http://www.youtube.com/user/j1j8]j1j8[/url]
[QUOTE=Seith;34738732]Also, when I clarify to the women I go out with that this isn't an exclusive relationship, I say; "I am going to go out with other women, will that bother you?" [/QUOTE]
Not really, I didn't find the need to. She understood that it wasn't a serious relationship. I didn't feel the need to get with anyone else during that time though.
[QUOTE=Autumn;34737657]to me it sounds like she's the one that's going to get hurt
but if you've already laid it out to her that you're not looking for a relationship then it's not your fault if she takes it too seriously[/QUOTE]
So I'm getting kind of skeptical about doing this whole thing actually. She's 16 and I'm 19. We work together too. If this goes down and she decides to say something or pull some stunt then my ass is screwed. I think I might back out of this. I'd rather do it with a consensual woman of age. It sucks though, this girl has got some damn fine features.
you got a lot more years to spare... beautiful women are everywhere my friend...
tee hee I was tidying up a bit in my room and found my girlfriend's bra under the bed, dunno how I didn't see that for a week
[QUOTE=Doozle;34740480]tee hee I was tidying up a bit in my room and found my girlfriend's bra under the bed, dunno how I didn't see that for a week[/QUOTE]
Blog punch.
[QUOTE=Godline;34740523]Blog punch.[/QUOTE]
Youre in a thread about girlfriend experiences and you say blogpunch?
That is like me going to LMAO pics and saying image macro spam.
It's related to my girlfriend, we have sex and everyday I take a shit.
[editline]17th February 2012[/editline]
She doesn't do poos, she's a lady
bahahaha
fishing under the bed
So there's this chick who i'm really getting in to, she shares a passion of photoshop and photography with me, and we really seem to get along; but we talk occasionally.
How do I get to the point where I can ask her if she wants to hang out or whatever
talk to her more?
Do you even have to get to a certain point?
Asked a girl on my course out today, going for drinks tomorrow, but i get the opinion she was slightly reluctant as she said she was busy and i asked about another time. Am i right?
Oh well, i'll see how it goes.
[QUOTE=GameDev;34745836]
How do I get to the point where I can ask her if she wants to hang out or whatever[/QUOTE]
You you know, ask her to do something. Cinema/coffee/food/dinner/drinks/whatever floats your/her boat.
So... any tips on not lasting so long..? I know its kind of a good thing to last a while but its getting to the point where she has came three times and the condom breaks by the time I start to feel myself close... I've made sure I'm not doing anything myself a few days before I know were going to have sex but its not really having a difference. Plus we are kind of limited on positions because she has a hip problem atm which basically makes it impossible to do any her on top positions. Hopefully that should be sorted in a few months though.
[QUOTE=JohanGS;34746040]Do you even have to get to a certain point?[/QUOTE]
Yeah after the lecture today i just randomly asked.
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34748436]So... any tips on not lasting so long..? I know its kind of a good thing to last a while but its getting to the point where she has came three times and the condom breaks by the time I start to feel myself close... I've made sure I'm not doing anything myself a few days before I know were going to have sex but its not really having a difference. Plus we are kind of limited on positions because she has a hip problem atm which basically makes it impossible to do any her on top positions. Hopefully that should be sorted in a few months though.[/QUOTE]
Lasting too long is related with comfort most of the time. You need to clean your head of thoughts, and try and be fully immersed in the situation.
Read the sex god method, it will explain this better than me.
[QUOTE=Seith;34753858]
Read the sex god method[/QUOTE]
oh my god what the fuck kind of shit did you direct me towards?
I don't think I want to read it now... And I'm perfectly comfortable, that's what I don't understand..
[QUOTE=thisispain;34753902]oh my god what the fuck kind of shit did you direct me towards?[/QUOTE]
You don't have to like everything I do, honey. :)
[editline]18th February 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Mort and Charon;34754075]I don't think I want to read it now... And I'm perfectly comfortable, that's what I don't understand..[/QUOTE]
If you put aside our differences in opinion, and just try and read it... maybe, you'll find some interesting answers.
Being comfortable is not nessecarily an entirely conscious thing. Even if you think you are comfortable, you might not be.
Full comfort with another person, intimately and in general with one another is something that takes time.
Try taking the condom off if you're girlfriend is on the pill. I've found that condoms can sometimes stop me reaching climax.
Or if she's come, let her give you a banging blow job
banging
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