Good to know. I'm such a perfectionist in general, it just gets worse with these types of things. I'm the please to the max type of girl.
This is just me brainstorming, but riding the planning wave all the same.
On the 16th, it's my girlfriends 20th, but she's coming up to University on the 17th as her family want her on her birthday. I'm completely fine with that, but she has a 4 hour drive to make the day after, I need to help her move into her house, meet her friends for the first time, then steal her for the evening.
My plan is, walk her to my house, I'll have a table set for dinner and, before serving it up, I'll give her her presents, (Season 1 and 2 of the Walking Dead, some nice underwear and flowers), I'll serve dinner up (Hunters Chicken, her favourite). We'll wait a little bit and watch a film, then I'll serve up some Cheesecake. Massage before bed, she's always said she wanted one and I feel like her Birthday will be the best time to help her unwind after such a busy day.
Is that too much FP? She's dropped hints about what she's got planned for mine in November, maybe she sells it better but hers sounds like there's been a lot more put into it. Just a bit nervous, don't want to bomb the birthday.
Buddy, you're fine. That sounds like a brilliant day for her. You're completely right, her day will be hectic in the morning, and honestly what you have lined up will make her unwind and feel great. You've nothing to worry about, what you've got planned is great. I'm sure she'll really appreciate it and realize how lucky she is to have someone like you. The presents are really nice, the way you'll have dinner set up is really sweet, the way you cooked her favourite meal is like the icing on the cake. Then cheesecake, you can never go wrong with cheesecake. And a massage before bed? Winner winner, chicken dinner (in all senses of the phrase).
Hope it's a really fantastic day. Let us know how it goes!
[QUOTE=cyclocius;37580370]This is just me brainstorming, but riding the planning wave all the same.
On the 16th, it's my girlfriends 20th, but she's coming up to University on the 17th as her family want her on her birthday. I'm completely fine with that, but she has a 4 hour drive to make the day after, I need to help her move into her house, meet her friends for the first time, then steal her for the evening.
My plan is, walk her to my house, I'll have a table set for dinner and, before serving it up, I'll give her her presents, (Season 1 and 2 of the Walking Dead, some nice underwear and flowers), I'll serve dinner up (Hunters Chicken, her favourite). We'll wait a little bit and watch a film, then I'll serve up some Cheesecake. Massage before bed, she's always said she wanted one and I feel like her Birthday will be the best time to help her unwind after such a busy day.
Is that too much FP? She's dropped hints about what she's got planned for mine in November, maybe she sells it better but hers sounds like there's been a lot more put into it. Just a bit nervous, don't want to bomb the birthday.[/QUOTE]
Sounds perfect. Better than a friend of mine got on his birthday. He got to dump her for cheating.
But then again, considering her... That was a gift by itself.
Oh wow, my mum used to make me Hunters Chicken when I was a kid. Last time I had that was so long ago. I love it! Thanks for bringing back some great memories and making me feel all nostalgic. Going to learn the recipe, because that gravy is delicious.
[QUOTE=loopoo;37580428]Buddy, you're fine. That sounds like a brilliant day for her. You're completely right, her day will be hectic in the morning, and honestly what you have lined up will make her unwind and feel great. You've nothing to worry about, what you've got planned is great. I'm sure she'll really appreciate it and realize how lucky she is to have someone like you. The presents are really nice, the way you'll have dinner set up is really sweet, the way you cooked her favourite meal is like the icing on the cake. Then cheesecake, you can never go wrong with cheesecake. And a massage before bed? Winner winner, chicken dinner (in all senses of the phrase).
Hope it's a really fantastic day. Let us know how it goes![/QUOTE]
Cheers mate, I won't have internet until the 18th so you'll have a day late recap. She's also just told me on skype;
"We need to have a night where we get takeaway and watch Friday 13th, watcha think?"
I think she's a keeper :buddy:
[QUOTE=S31-Syntax;37580437]Sounds perfect. Better than a friend of mine got on his birthday. He got to dump her for cheating.
But then again, considering her... That was a gift by itself.[/QUOTE]
I know the type, my friend just got rid of his crazy girl. For good this time, feels good to see him get back on the horse. That said, Hunters chicken is still very good.
[editline]7th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=loopoo;37580467]Oh wow, my mum used to make me Hunters Chicken when I was a kid. Last time I had that was so long ago. I love it! Thanks for bringing back some great memories and making me feel all nostalgic. Going to learn the recipe, because that gravy is delicious.[/QUOTE]
It's the only meal I order at pubs aside from Sunday roasts, Chicken and Bacon with Chips, that divine gravy and lightly drizzled with cheese. Mhm.
[QUOTE=Stonem;37579848]There will be loads of sex, theres always loads of sex.
I won't have sex on my dessert though. I would rather eat it.[/QUOTE]
Come on, [sp]imagine having sex on a bed of Jell-O[/sp] haha
I'm really upset and so is my girlfriend. we did it for our first time today and she finished.. twice whilst I didn't finish at all.. we tried her on top and me on top and her just doing stuff to get me to. but I just couldn't. and she thinks she's shirt but she was really good and it felt awesome. I'm not gonna lie I was nervous.. could this be why? cause I went and finished myself off and it was instant. she had a good time though she was just upset
[QUOTE=Erasus;37590826]I'm really upset and so is my girlfriend. we did it for our first time today and she finished.. twice whilst I didn't finish at all.. we tried her on top and me on top and her just doing stuff to get me to. but I just couldn't. and she thinks she's shirt but she was really good and it felt awesome. I'm not gonna lie I was nervous.. could this be why? cause I went and finished myself off and it was instant. she had a good time though she was just upset[/QUOTE]
everyone is complete shirt their first time. don't worry about it, it's a part of sex
my girlfriend still simply cannot finish me with oral sex. I'm sure she feels bad about it, I keep telling her it's nothing to worry about and it's just me (which it almost certainly is), but I don't think she buys it
[QUOTE=Erasus;37590826]I'm really upset and so is my girlfriend. we did it for our first time today and she finished.. twice whilst I didn't finish at all.. we tried her on top and me on top and her just doing stuff to get me to. but I just couldn't. and she thinks she's shirt but she was really good and it felt awesome. I'm not gonna lie I was nervous.. could this be why? cause I went and finished myself off and it was instant. she had a good time though she was just upset[/QUOTE]
Probably the nerves, the first 2-3 times me and my bf did it he couldn't finish because of it. No big deal you'll get over it :)
I concur this , I can only finish in actual intercourse. oral/hands dont work. but they are really nice of course.
Part of me wants to put college on hold and enlist in the military and part of me wants to just stay in school.
This year has been a total kick in the balls due to my sudden breakup and I just wanna enlist in the military as a means to follow my dream and find myself
follow your dreams then
So the passenger side door in my gf's car refuses to open from the inside. That's gonna get annoying...
[QUOTE=Chaotic Lord;37597360]So the passenger side door in my gf's car refuses to open from the inside. That's gonna get annoying...[/QUOTE]
maybe you are being too clingy with it
try leaving it alone for a bit and seeing if it opens by itself
[QUOTE=Maloof?;37597787]maybe you are being too clingy with it
try leaving it alone for a bit and seeing if it opens by itself[/QUOTE]
That's a neat metaphor. I rated you winner due to how amazing that is.
Oh uh, I broke the last page. Well if it helps, I am going to see my girlfriend tomorrow to go swimming in her pool and shoot some stuff in the woods behind her house. Should be tons of fun! I haven't seen her in a month due to school. I really should stay home and do the school work that is due on monday that I haven't even started but fuck that, I'd rather spend time with her.
hi i just met a girl and i thought we were hitting it off so i ended up walking pretty far to this bar with her
i didnt really know anyone else who we were going with so i was counting on being at a table with her
but she left like 5 minutes after we got there so i was alone at some random bar far away
when i told my friends about this of course they all said she was the mean one and she should have stayed and stuff (they were being supportive i guess??)
but it started to get me wondering, if you accompany someone to a bar with a group of people, is there any obligation to stay or is it perfectly acceptable that she left me there?
[QUOTE=Jo The Shmo;37598806]hi i just met a girl and i thought we were hitting it off so i ended up walking pretty far to this bar with her
i didnt really know anyone else who we were going with so i was counting on being at a table with her
but she left like 5 minutes after we got there so i was alone at some random bar far away
when i told my friends about this of course they all said she was the mean one and she should have stayed and stuff (they were being supportive i guess??)
but it started to get me wondering, if you accompany someone to a bar with a group of people, is there any obligation to stay or is it perfectly acceptable that she left me there?[/QUOTE]
i think it's just like a dick move to leave someone stranded at some random bar. especially if they're drinking heavily.
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;37597301]Part of me wants to put college on hold and enlist in the military and part of me wants to just stay in school.
This year has been a total kick in the balls due to my sudden breakup and I just wanna enlist in the military as a means to follow my dream and find myself[/QUOTE]
Find myself, as in, not found yet what you were looking for or is it find myself in the army, because that is my dream?
[QUOTE=lotusking;37598866]i think it's just like a dick move to leave someone stranded at some random bar. especially if they're drinking heavily.[/QUOTE]
well the thing is we did go with a group of people, and maybe she thought i knew some of the other kids (even though i didnt)
i think if i knew everyone that would be pretty fine, but i really only went because of her
[quote=Girl I've Known Forever And Had The Hots For]
Truthfully I've known for a while that you have had a crush on me. I thought it died out after a while and that was fine. I thought it was sweet how you said I was your first crush too. Honestly you are a great guy. you really are and because I knew you were crushing on me I was kinda scared to hang out with you or see you because I didn't wanna fuel the fire or make you think I was playing with you. I didn't wanna hurt your feelings expecially because I was and am dating ****. I know we have not seen eye to eye on my relationship but I'm glad we fight it out only to fall back into place again. Truthfully when we became friends again you have filled a need that I have wanted to fill for a long time. I have never had a good guy friend. I always talked about how I wanted to have a guy friend who I could talk to, confide in, learn from and cry on. It's crazy but it is a void a lot of girls have. Me being one, and when you came along I have never seemed to connect with anyone on the level we have. i think you are so funny and great to talk to. I trust you and I'm glad you are there for me. I know sometimes I weed in and out of your life but that doesn't mean I am gone. It means I am busy, or going through stuff. It doesn't mean I'm not here for you. I am, I'm very excited for you and your new job. & how well you are doing. I do wish to see you sometimes but out of respect for **** being my boyfriend I can't . I hope you understand. I still enjoy your friendship and am very thankful for you.[/quote]
[B]FUCKING SHITFUCK. [/B]
Long story short, this girl has a boyfriend that has treated her like shit for the past few years and he's also a drunk. Always been there for her, and she always tells me how she feels nothing when she is with him, yet doesn't want to ditch him. I just don't get it. The guy is good looking, but other than that he has absolutely jack shit... Just damn. I'd do most anything for this girl, but if I had a chance to be with her, I'd take her up on it in a heartbeat.
[QUOTE=kman866;37599016][B]FUCKING SHITFUCK. [/B]
Long story short, this girl has a boyfriend that has treated her like shit for the past few years and he's also a drunk. Always been there for her, and she always tells me how she feels nothing when she is with him, yet doesn't want to ditch him. I just don't get it. The guy is good looking, but other than that he has absolutely jack shit... Just damn. I'd do most anything for this girl, but if I had a chance to be with her, I'd take her up on it in a heartbeat.[/QUOTE]
the heart wants, I guess
the fact that two people love each other doesn't always make sense to outsiders
I just don't understand how someone could love someone that is like that though. Love makes people blind, but still- maybe stupidity?
stupidity?
hey, you're the one who wants to date her
Some girls get turned on by being treated like shit
[QUOTE=Maloof?;37599319]Some girls get turned on by being treated like shit[/QUOTE]
So what you are telling me is that if I beat the shit out of her, I will get to tap it, got it :v:
But seriously though, She calls me crying about him all the time. I've suggested dumping him, but she says "It's just so hard."
[QUOTE=kman866;37599391]So what you are telling me is that if I beat the shit out of her, I will get to tap it, got it :v:
But seriously though, She calls me crying about him all the time. I've suggested dumping him, but she says "It's just so hard."[/QUOTE]
Like I said, she still loves him for whatever reason.
It's like if a family member that you cared about went through something difficult and turned into a complete asshole; you may still love and care about that person because you know that deep down they are still 'good'
[QUOTE=kman866;37599391]So what you are telling me is that if I beat the shit out of her, I will get to tap it, got it :v:
But seriously though, She calls me crying about him all the time. I've suggested dumping him, but she says "It's just so hard."[/QUOTE]
You should keep seeing her and treating her as if she is very special to you. You treating her good might just get her to take a look at the relationship she is in, and then leave her current guy.
Sometimes a little awakening is all we need.
I might just try this. Thank you guys for the advice.
I've been working at this with her for a while, just gonna keep being nice...
[QUOTE=kman866;37599391]So what you are telling me is that if I beat the shit out of her, I will get to tap it, got it :v:
But seriously though, She calls me crying about him all the time. I've suggested dumping him, but she says "It's just so hard."[/QUOTE]
yeah seriously keep at it
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