[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37691681]I know I was wrong to do it but I've been cheated on so many damn times too.[/QUOTE]
stop making bullshit excuses for it
Go Guy Mannly, u rock :-)
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37691708]stop making bullshit excuses for it[/QUOTE]
It isn't an excuse foolish man, read what I wrote underneath.
Guys I need help.
I've been thinking about volunteering for deployment (in the army) for a few weeks now. This would pretty much benefit me in every way except that I'd be leaving my girlfriend and fam behind for the better part of a year. Benefits include at least $16000 in pay to take care of schooling costs, a 50% increase on a college benefit, and delaying my graduation to after my unit is deployed in 2016 (when I contract with ROTC, I won't be deployable until I graduate). My girlfriend of 27 months doesn't want me to, and she thinks that there might not be a relationship to come back to. I feel that if it doesn't last the deployment, what's stopping our marriage in the future from falling apart when I deploy (because I'm pretty much guaranteed to deploy at some point.
What are your thoughts?
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37691681]I am that guy yes, I know I was wrong to do it but I've been cheated on so many damn times too.[/QUOTE]
Is there any logic behind that thought? Or are you just playing the whole "poor me vs. the world" thing?Being cheated on doesn't mean you can cheat.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37692017]It isn't an excuse foolish man, read what I wrote underneath.[/QUOTE]
you're trying to belittle your own mistakes by emphasizing the fact that others have done the same to you
same thing.
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37691681]I am that guy yes, I know I was wrong to do it but I've been cheated on so many damn times too.[/QUOTE]
oh man for a second i thought you were a total cunt but if you got cheated on then its all good
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37692769]doing upon other as they do to you is just saying you want everyone to feel as shitty as you felt[/QUOTE]
Sounds like a spiteful prick
Okay ffs we all make mistakes, get over yourselves. I'm only human so you think I'm the only person to do this? Lots of people to it and they learn from it which I believe I have so stop acting all high and mighty cause you've never been drunk and had a vagina placed in front of you ready for a smashing
joshdasmif, seriously, please stop posting in this thread. and i'm also pretty sure this is the second time i've asked you to stop this.
you're not being the least bit constructive, you don't really ask for advice, you don't offer it - or if you do it's bloody awful. just do us all a favour and leave us on our pedestals being all high and mighty, cheers
[QUOTE=Autumn;37693599]joshdasmif, seriously, please stop posting in this thread. and i'm also pretty sure this is the second time i've asked you to stop this.
you're not being the least bit constructive, you don't really ask for advice, you don't offer it - or if you do it's bloody awful. just do us all a favour and leave us on our pedestals being all high and mighty, cheers[/QUOTE]
Could I speak to you somewhere private autumn? I tried PM'ing you there but I don't think you got it, I just want to be 'enlightened' about something if you don't mind
[QUOTE=joshdasmif;37693568]stop acting all high and mighty cause you've never been drunk and had a vagina placed in front of you ready for a smashing[/QUOTE]
did you come here for advice or did you come here to have a go at us i can't tell mate
26 posts....you know shits going down
[QUOTE=Disotrtion;37694468]26 posts....you know shits going down[/QUOTE]
I've arrived to 150 before
crazy shit
Yahnich, you're one of my favorite posters.
So guys, I'm quite confused and torn right now. Girlfriend of three years comes over and things have been quite rough lately. I feel nothing with her anymore really- it hurts to say it though. I honestly don't know why. But anyways, we hung out. Right before she left, she proceeds to tell me that she took pregnancy test and is pregnant. Well, this about fucking broke me- as in :suicide: broke. I just sat there for about 20 minutes wondering what I was gonna do, because I REALLY don't want a kid and I'm a broke ass college student as is. I just walked out, and she begged me to come to her car with her. I gave in and said yes, and she proceeds to tell me that she was joking and messing with me.
Fucking FUCK. I just don't know what to do anymore. That just broke me.
that's really mean of her
that's not really something that should be joked about imo
No kidding. I got cussed out at work today by a customer, had to work in the rain all day, a good friend of mine got sent to the hospital in an accident, someone hit a baby deer in front of my house (I live out in the middle of bumblefuck nowhere,) and had to kill it right in front of its mother who was trying to lay down beside it and protect it- if that didn't shake me up enough, I have to put up with the shit she told me.
Sorry for the rant, it's just been a long one. I'm lost in life.
[QUOTE=kman866;37695639]No kidding. I got cussed out at work today by a customer, had to work in the rain all day, a good friend of mine got sent to the hospital in an accident, someone hit a baby deer in front of my house (I live out in the middle of bumblefuck nowhere,) and had to kill it right in front of its mother who was trying to lay down beside it and protect it- if that didn't shake me up enough, I have to put up with the shit she told me.
Sorry for the rant, it's just been a long one. I'm lost in life.[/QUOTE]
that's amazing
you spoke to a deer
hurr hurr :v:
You get what I mean though. I walked up to it and she would run away and look back, but whenever I walked away, she would go back and lay down beside her. I'm into hunting when it's deer season, but that just really got to me for some reason.
Probably because of your girlfriend issues the world now suddenly seems so abruptly cruel...
I have a slight problem Facepunch.
Around 5 days ago I said that I got a girlfriend. It's been quite amazing these last 5 days, but there is something that is keeping me back.
Yesterday we went out for a drink. She told me that she wanted me NOT to get in love with her too much, because in 2 weeks she's going to school somewhere around 100 km away from here. She will come home on weekends, but she said it's going to be hard for both. I agreed (although in my mind I didn't) I also asked if we accidentaly meet my parents outside, can I introduce her? (had to ask because I have bad experience with this)
She said No. I rather introduce her as a friend (even though we hold our hands all the time outside)
The same night I somehow ended up at her place and we went to bed. I knew she wanted to do something more than just cuddle, but I didn't let her. I wasn't even up for it. I was only thinking about what she said, how my friend is angry at me(he's thinking I stole her from him), how my other friend said that if I lose her, he will kick the fuck out of me,...
And this morning, she says this:"You can introduce me to your parents now, you know?"
She changed her mind. Or is she just playing around? I would tell my parents what's been going on, but shit, I'm not so sure this might work out. I can see she's more interested in me now (probably because she seen I'm not with her just for sex) giving me kiss on a cheek and hugs more often, but I can't get more in love until I get these things straight.
Any advice?
Got a fuck buddy. Woo.
[QUOTE=kman866;37695774]hurr hurr :v:
You get what I mean though. I walked up to it and she would run away and look back, but whenever I walked away, she would go back and lay down beside her. I'm into hunting when it's deer season, but that just really got to me for some reason.[/QUOTE]
I would probably have tried to take the baby deer into the forest to let it die with its mother.
i dunno, if it'd been hit by a car, chances are it was in a fair bit of pain. it's more humane to kill it there and then so it's not suffering any more
why do girls never take compliments?
[B]"you looked good today"[/B]
"no i looked awful"
[B]"you looked great"[/B]
"no it was terrible"
all [B]the[I] FUCKING [U]TIME[/U][/I][/B]
"i don't like my glasses"
[B]"i think they make you look cute"[/B]
"no they don't i hate them"
:suicide:
[QUOTE=A1t;37703081]why do girls never take compliments?
[B]"you looked good today"[/B]
"no i looked awful"
[B]"you looked great"[/B]
"no it was terrible"
all [B]the[I] FUCKING [U]TIME[/U][/I][/B]
"i don't like my glasses"
[B]"i think they make you look cute"[/B]
"no they don't i hate them"
:suicide:[/QUOTE]
Best one:
"Do I look fat in this dress?"
Do not ever hesitate to say yes. NEVER! If so, prepare for another hour of waiting.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37703124]Best one:
"Do I look fat in this dress?"
Do not ever hesitate to say [b]yes[/b]. NEVER! If so, prepare for another hour of waiting.[/QUOTE]
the quicker you break her spirits the faster she will fall for you
tell her "yes" she looks fat as soon as possible!
[quote=Girl i like]
do you know when there's that time in your life where it doesn't seem real because its so good? That time is now for me:)
[/quote]
guys am i doing it right?
Well guys. I broke up with my girlfriend of 7 months today. The constant arguing, not having time for eachother (Jobs) finally got to me and I did it. I felt like it was going to end and my feelings were beginning to change. Im starting to regret my decision though. I feel terrible because she was so upset.
Did I do the right thing facepunch?
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