here have a song about over-eager-christian-societies:
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cEXbWEu_OzY[/media]
[QUOTE=Ritave;37745655]My girlfriend feels ashamed when she's having fun-naked-time with me, because that's what over-eager-christian-society said she should feel, and thus doesn't want to get intimate any more. Well, FUCK YOU TOO SOCIETY![/QUOTE]
does she want to wait until marriage?
take that heathen
[editline]21st September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Chezhead;37743964]What's the best way to reject someone when they ask you out?[/QUOTE]
"i'm washing my hair that night"
[QUOTE=BoysLightUp;37745678]does she want to wait until marriage?
take that heathen[/QUOTE]
She doesn't actually - she's an atheist, but in my country christianity is strong enough to be interwoven in mentality of many people - mostly older ones. Even though she doesn't believe in god, listening for 12+ years in school to teachers talking about abstinence and shaming doesn't help.
People will judge you endlessly. All the people in the world know better than you; "study this", "do this", "only go to this guy". She needs to stop the comparisons and let herself feel completely immersed and experience things for herself. I can ask people for opinions, but I am the only dictating who I am, will become and what I enjoy.
Update! For those who remembered my plans for my girlfriends birthday, they went off without a hitch. Dinner went really well (I couldn't make the barbecue sauce, so I cheated and used Reggae Reggae sauce), presents went down a treat as well. I went into Lush on the day and bought a scented candle, couldn't find a florist that didn't make my wallet weep (£25 for a handful of roses? Piss off). Only problem is I'm now more or less broke, totally worth it though.
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;37743636]My ex was Puerto Rican and black and oh-my-god pretty. Her sister was too, though there wasn't any weirdness there or anything. Just an appreciation for the general appearance that those genes combined to make.
If Maverick were here, he could have a whole conversation with me in which we agreed about something I bet. Brown skin is yummy. Unlike him however, I don't hold the whole 'white girls are hideous how could anyone ever be with them at all you are all pussies' mindset. Just a strong appreciation for certain skin.
Connected to that, I hate most piercings. Earrings are fine. Some people can pull off lip piercings and nose piercings. Bellybutton and onwards on the piercing scale though, and I am put off. I like skin a whole lot, and they're just a big jaggedy marring of it. Like, run your hands along and then you bump into that and it's in the way. It upsets the aesthetic of nice smoothness people naturally have going most of the time. Then again, I really dig simplicity in appearance on most people anyway.
I'm rambling because I'm tired and the guy talking about his mulatto girlfriend and self reminded me of that first part.[/QUOTE]
My girlfriend doesn't even have earrings heh
[editline]21st September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=cyclocius;37747194]Update! For those who remembered my plans for my girlfriends birthday, they went off without a hitch. Dinner went really well (I couldn't make the barbecue sauce, so I cheated and used Reggae Reggae sauce), presents went down a treat as well. I went into Lush on the day and bought a scented candle, couldn't find a florist that didn't make my wallet weep (£25 for a handful of roses? Piss off). Only problem is I'm now more or less broke, totally worth it though.[/QUOTE]
Not sure if you can get it in the UK, but Sweet Baby Rays BBQ sauce is one of the best, and if you like spicy try to get your hands on some Arthur Bryants.
Also, that's damn expensive for roses, I got a half dozen for $10, could've gotten a vase with them for 20.
So I asked this girl out about a month ago at the mall and she said yes and gave me her number, but when I tried to call her it would get cut out and when I texted her she said after a while her phone was being weird and she wasn't getting a lot of her texts and told me to add her on facebook, so I did and she never accepted it so I figured the whole thing was because she lost interest or something.
Fast forward to today and she accepted my request, but apparently she "just" set her relationship status to single.
I'm not sure what's going on
It's been a month? You should start looking for other people who are more interested in you and would rather not make you wait a month because of very silly reasons.
Everyone was ass ramming me in Mario Party tonight because I mopped the floor with everyone at Smash Bros Melee.
Land on Boo? Steal shit from Wario.
Purposely try to hit the ? spot to manipulate the map into me getting mugged by that shithead Bowser.
Chance time? Screw over Wario!!!
Somehow I managed to get second though ;)
[QUOTE=Jmir 54;37756807]Everyone was ass ramming me in Mario Party tonight because I mopped the floor with everyone at Smash Bros Melee.
Land on Boo? Steal shit from Wario.
Purposely try to hit the ? spot to manipulate the map into me getting mugged by that shithead Bowser.
Chance time? Screw over Wario!!!
Somehow I managed to get second though ;)[/QUOTE]
what.
remind me never to go to one of mario's parties
So being new to shit and all that how do you Have your first time with a girl who is also a virgin cos i know it will probably be hard as fuck to enter :v:
Do other stuff first, then do a position which lets her control the speed of entry
also, expect it to be kind of awkward and not that great the first time you will probably flop around like a fish
[QUOTE=killerteacup;37758116]Do other stuff first, then do a position which lets her control the speed of entry
also, expect it to be kind of awkward and not that great the first time you will probably flop around like a fish[/QUOTE]
so yeah whats best also i read those last few words to the theme of spongebob
Missionary if shes not cool with being on top, yeah
I just find it easier to put them on top because it means I dont have to worry about whether I'm hurting them
I love a girl on top. Watching her body move is hot. If she's doing it right anyways.
[QUOTE=G3rman;37745578]Pitiful. Nothing in life should make you feel this way, you are getting way too emotional. Man up.[/QUOTE]
i didnt mean because of her. i mean because i actually just posted that online lol like im going to shoot my self over some chick.
anyway she never messaged back and im on to bigger and better things now :)
(and by bigger i dont mean a fat girl)
Been dating the same girl for a good three years now. We've been through hell and back. We both realize we are serious at this point because we would have left each other a long time ago. I'm 18 working full time. She is 17 still in high school. We both want to get married eventually. When do you know in a relationship that you have found the "one"? I know we are both young, but I could seriously see us married one day.
for one, you wouldn't be asking
[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37764306]for one, you wouldn't be asking[/QUOTE]
That is very true. Didn't think about that.
there is no "the one", there is only "the one you settled with"
[QUOTE=MRApples7;37764206]When do you know in a relationship that you have found the "one"? I know we are both young, but I could seriously see us married one day.[/QUOTE]
i can't tell you anything about "the one", but i can tell you never to get married until you read and understand this cracked article:
[url]http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-you-know-its-time-to-get-married/[/url]
yeah i know it's a cracked article, but the guy is actually someone who has experience with this. i don't think many people on FP have had experience with getting married, certainly i haven't.
Never really seen the point in marriage, probably because my parents never married my dad said "Why do I need to ask god or any authority to approve of our partnership?" That's not to say I never would get married, if I was in a long-term relationship with somone who wanted marriage and it was affordable then maybe, but I personally don't see the point in stuff like weddings. Not criticising people in long term relationships who are quite eager to marry, but I just don't really understand why.
Know a couple of people actually who are fairly keen to marry and are saving up and planning it, but if they're spending the rest of their lifes together and they're only in their early 20's without a stable income, what's the rush?
[QUOTE=JohnnyGoGo;37764658]Never really seen the point in marriage, probably because my parents never married my dad said "Why do I need to ask god or any authority to approve of our partnership?" That's not to say I never would get married, if I was in a long-term relationship with somone who wanted marriage and it was affordable then maybe, but I personally don't see the point in stuff like weddings. Not criticising people in long term relationships who are quite eager to marry, but I just don't really understand why.
Know a couple of people actually who are fairly keen to marry and are saving up and planning it, but if they're spending the rest of their lifes together and they're only in their early 20's without a stable income, what's the rush?[/QUOTE]
Because its a fun party where you get to say to your friends and family "look at this total babe I'm gonna be with"
i think a wedding ceremony sounds really wonderful (and personally i really look forward to having one someday), but i totally get where you're coming from as well. the actual bond is what's most important, not some title or some ring that most people seem to get married for.
[QUOTE=thisispain;37764468]i can't tell you anything about "the one", but i can tell you never to get married until you read and understand this cracked article:
[URL]http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-you-know-its-time-to-get-married/[/URL]
yeah i know it's a cracked article, but the guy is actually someone who has experience with this. i don't think many people on FP have had experience with getting married, certainly i haven't.[/QUOTE]
i freaking love john cheese
[QUOTE=thisispain;37764468]i can't tell you anything about "the one", but i can tell you never to get married until you read and understand this cracked article:
[url]http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-you-know-its-time-to-get-married/[/url]
yeah i know it's a cracked article, but the guy is actually someone who has experience with this. i don't think many people on FP have had experience with getting married, certainly i haven't.[/QUOTE]
According to this my girlfriend and I should get married.
get on that prenup
[QUOTE=thisispain;37766789]get on that prenup[/QUOTE]
no.
A prenup violates everything a marriage stands for.
kanye west thinks you're making a huge mistake
[QUOTE=thisispain;37767823]kanye west thinks you're making a huge mistake[/QUOTE]
Well Kanye West isn't in it for life.
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