[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;37791741]well don't force her[/QUOTE]
I had a similar problem once, and you are right Fire Kracker, it isn't a good idea to force someone into sexual intimacy.
My advice for you Ritave is do what I do and use evil Atheist fetus eating mind control abilities against her. Talk her into sex, use spontaneity, romance, etc...Of course, I suggest using this if your intentions to be with her are good because with a girl like that she may find herself becoming attached very easily. My last girlfriend did the same exact thing, she wanted things to go slower because she felt it was wrong in what her beliefs were and all I did was treat her like a princess and say the right things.
[QUOTE=Bredirish123;37789798]Women are naturally jealous and protective of their man(...)[/QUOTE]
And men aren't?
[QUOTE=NuclearAnnhilation;37791076]so my lady friend wants to be a bit more, lets say expressive, now. she all ready has some tattoo on her back of like an elephant and i dont get it or its meaning but whatever i guess. but now she wants another and wants like her entire ear filled with piercings and her other with some more too
my issue is that i dont like tattoos or piercings at all. i like to grow my hair out and have a bit of a beard but thats as "edgy" as i'll go, i like being normal. i understand its her body and i dont want her to not be happy and not get what she wants but i really dont like it. she's a very girly girl and i like that, always wearing dresses, make up etc and its really cute, i like feminine girls but having her talk about wanting more tattoos made me stomach drop
i told her i dont like them but idk. i guess just deal with it?[/QUOTE]
imho deal with it. its not the end of the world, is it? and it doesn't matter what you think is edgy or normal, because she is not you.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37793152]And men aren't?[/QUOTE]
I didn't say they aren't, it just wasn't relevant to my point.
[QUOTE=Bredirish123;37795223]I didn't say they aren't, it just wasn't relevant to my point.[/QUOTE]
Sure. But assuming women in general are jealous it's a really unfair generalization.
World is unfair, but you're not running around fixing it, aren't you? What's your point, really?
[QUOTE=Seith;37796390]World is unfair, but you're not running around fixing it, aren't you? What's your point, really?[/QUOTE]
to ask someone not to generalize women? you malfunctioning or something dude? it was p obvious what his point was
[QUOTE=Seith;37796390]World is unfair, but you're not running around fixing it, aren't you? What's your point, really?[/QUOTE]
hahahahah wtf
[QUOTE=Seith;37796390]World is unfair, but you're not running around fixing it, aren't you? What's your point, really?[/QUOTE]
"Don't point out bad things unless you're fixing them"
He was pointing out common and shitty bigotry, that in it self helps.
You're useless Seith when will you get the hint.
[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37795986]Sure. But assuming women in general are jealous it's a really unfair generalization.[/QUOTE]
That's because most people in general have jealous tendencies; some are worse than others. For example, I occasionally get jealous, but not to the point that it jeopardizes my relationship. The same is with my girlfriend, she does get jealous, but it's not over the top or accusative. My last girlfriend was the exact opposite and always had questions for me, even as simple as when a girl-friend would post on my Facebook wall.
I honestly feel that you're turning this into a sexism issue when it isn't; it's human nature.
The reason I said most women are jealous and protective of their man is because it honestly is true. If your woman isn't protective over you then you need to drop her; if she's overly-protective you need to drop her. There's a fine balance that should be kept; so yes woman are jealous; but so are men in that regard. The only reason I specifically stated women was because ZonicTH was asking for advice dealing with a [I]Woman[/I].
[QUOTE=BrainDeath;37797231]"Don't point out bad things unless you're fixing them"
He was pointing out common and shitty bigotry, that in it self helps.
You're useless Seith when will you get the hint.[/QUOTE]
Your username fits you perfectly....
[editline]25th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Kopimi;37796404]to ask someone not to generalize women? you malfunctioning or something dude? it was p obvious what his point was[/QUOTE]
Really??? To ask someone not to generalize??? How had that eluded my all-knowing foresight???
> dodge questions
> answer all questions with questions
> repeat
??? ??? ??? - Seith 2012
Seith for mod 2013
"why have you banned me?"
"Why have you gotten yourself banned?"
[QUOTE=ChestyMcGee;37801179]> dodge questions
> answer all questions with questions
> repeat[/QUOTE]
Where are they, the questions?
[QUOTE=Seith;37804382]Where are they, the questions?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Shugo;37682843]long-ass post[/QUOTE]
Follow-up if anyone cares:
I finally got together with her officially.
Broke up with her a week later. Found out she was cheating on me with her ex. That 'theory' I had? Even truer than I thought. :suicide:
Oh well. I sort of feel...better now. Still depressed, but it's dissolving into this nicer feeling now that I'm getting back on my feet.
My girlfriends always wanted to get her nipple and hood pierced. She's got piercings elsewhere but I'm fine with them. I think she's given up on the idea, I never told her she shouldn't get them, but I did say I'd really not like them if she did. The female form is a thing of beauty, can't improve it by sticking bits of metal on it.
sure you can
like my mum says there's always room for improvement
next thread title: Everyone Hates Piercings
I had sex for the first time.
That is all.
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;37806473]next thread title: Everyone Hates Piercings[/QUOTE]
Everyone Hates Piercings and Sex is Awful
[QUOTE=Bredirish123;37797816]That's because most people in general have jealous tendencies; some are worse than others. For example, I occasionally get jealous, but not to the point that it jeopardizes my relationship. The same is with my girlfriend, she does get jealous, but it's not over the top or accusative. My last girlfriend was the exact opposite and always had questions for me, even as simple as when a girl-friend would post on my Facebook wall.
I honestly feel that you're turning this into a sexism issue when it isn't; it's human nature.
The reason I said most women are jealous and protective of their man is because it honestly is true. If your woman isn't protective over you then you need to drop her; if she's overly-protective you need to drop her. There's a fine balance that should be kept; so yes woman are jealous; but so are men in that regard. The only reason I specifically stated women was because ZonicTH was asking for advice dealing with a [I]Woman[/I].[/QUOTE]
Didn't mean to make it sound like a sexist issue. I do believe that there are things that fit more into men than women and vice-verse.
However in this matter I do find men equal to women in terms of jealousy. And frankly I've seen some scary shit from some of my girl friend's boyfriends.
I used to be friends with this girl from Taiwan. She was very sexy in fact and the type of girl that made men stop and stare. Most times because of the fact that there aren't that many Taiwanese people in where I live so it wasn't uncommon for her to be honked at by some pervert when she crossed the street. :v:
Anyway, I was really close to her. I used to go to her place a lot, hang out a lot with her too, although never feeling sexually nor romantically attracted to her (my friends used to tease me about it) I used to have dinner at her place and go out with her a lot.
But this guy kept thinking that I was "screwing" her behind her back.
I got threats from him. Their relationship started going down the drain at some point and for him I was the problem. He became really violent about it too.
So yeah, I do think women and men demonstrate jealousy differently, but you get equal amounts of jealousy from both.
So after a several years of friend zones, unfulfilling one night stands, being used, dating fucking nutcases and getting my heart ripped out by evil she-bitches... I've just came back from a fucking cracking first date. Pretty sure she's not mental, and is actually quite nice and lovely and pretty and everything.
I wanted to share.
Venting time!
I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, but I think I'll feel a bit better about the situation if I let a little off my chest.
I've been with this girl for almost 2 years. Completely in love with her, blah blah blah.
Things were fine until she started at the college I was attending (we started dating when I was a senior in highschool and she was a junior). She got a scholarship through the school's dance team and I was really happy for her and whatnot. From there, she started getting really distant. She never really seemed too keen on hanging out with me, and whenever we did see each other she seemed annoyed at me. This went on for a while until she broke up with me a week or so ago. It hurt like a bitch, but she promised we'd get back together whenever football season is over and the dance team doesn't take all of her time.
I can see where she's coming from, though I would have been fine with just giving her space when she didn't have time for me. What confuses me is though we're "broken up" she still wants to spend the night with me on the weekends. I'm not complaining or anything, it just hurts when we're so close in private but I don't really exist to her when we're at school. She's also been flipping from "I don't know if we'll get back together" to "I love you and I wish we weren't broken up" constantly. I'm just confused and sad man.
sounds like she broke up with you because she wanted your relationship to be part-time, and doesn't want to be around you half the time
she needs to make up her mind
It's like she wants me to be there when she needs me, but she doesn't want to be "mine".
Maybe I'm just other thinking it but it's still a shitty feeling.
[QUOTE=177cheese;37815095]She's also been flipping from "I don't know if we'll get back together" to "I love you and I wish we weren't broken up" constantly. I'm just confused and sad man.[/QUOTE]
this doesn't make any sense, isn't it her decision if you're together or not? why would she have to "wish" you weren't broken up
She's been stressed out lately and she feels like just having a boyfriend in general isn't making it easier on her. Personally I still don't understand it, but what she's saying is she wishes the circumstances were different and we wouldn't "have" to be broken up.
I can see where you'd get that from how she's acting, but she's not that kind of person.
Or at least after 2 years I've never seen that part of her if it does exist.
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