[QUOTE=Guy Mannly;37852689]he's way too young for that, though. 17 year olds don't need to get tied down to a long-term relationship. i'm sure his attitude will change once he's older and has met someone worth committing to.[/QUOTE]
Yeah I agree with that. He was talking about how he's thought about just staying single. Just trying to make him aware that his feeling about this will most defiantly change as things around him change.
[QUOTE=pansarkurt;37847829]Im 17 and i have never ever felt the need of a girlfirend.
I just think there are so many other ways to enjoy life and love.
It can be the love of a great friend, or the love of a pet.
But the thing is, people find it strange im not interested in meeting a partner. Since when did searching for a partner become the norm?
Hell, one might even say i would rather stay single. This is the part where people say i have never had a girlfriend and therefore dont know what im missing.
And that might be true. I dont really know what to think..
Can you guys lecture me on the subject? I feel i need more perspectives to form an opinion.
(Im speaking more towards older men who has gone through the phase of confused emotional teenager.)
I dont even know if this post has a specific purpose.[/QUOTE]
I'm 20 so I'd say that I've just passed that stage of confused teenager in the last couple years so I'll speak honestly. I made a post about this the other day actually.
You've got a mature approach to relationships, and that's great. Relationships aren't something you jump into for the sake of having a partner. Hell, if you don't meet the right girl for you ever, you're better off staying single. Believe it or not there are straight people in the world who have never married and are 100% contented with never having marry who aren't asexual either.
That said I reckon one day you will find a girl that attracts you enough to consider a relationship with her - but you'll be safe knowing that it's because of the girl, not the relationship. But trying to push it to happen is retarded so yeah, no, you're fine.
I just saw the girl i've liked for a long time for the first time in months. I was starting to get used to the "fact" that she's probably forgot that i exist, but now i'm right back where i was..
She immediately said hi when she noticed me and started talking with me when we were left alone for a while. We had a nice chat, she laughed a lot and even said that it's always a good time when she's with us. ("us" meaning me and my best friend) If i wasn't already feeling awesome, i sure as hell did when she said that.
I actually had a sudden burst of confidence and was just about to say something like "Hey, hit me up if you need a designated driver or something" and give her my number, but at the last moment my brain decided that i should pussy out. So close...
Well, time to man the fuck up next time.
[QUOTE=DudesonFan;37856007]I actually had a sudden burst of confidence and was just about to say something like "Hey, hit me up if you need a designated driver or something" and give her my number, but at the last moment my brain decided that i should pussy out. So close...
Well, time to man the fuck up next time.[/QUOTE]
That's only a good route if you want to be 'that whipped friend'. Too many girls use guys for lifts I've seen.
One of the benefits of living city center and not needing a car.
yep, thank god you didn't say that. Sure route to friendzone
I think it's a fair enough way to exchange numbers. He's just offering to help, I don't see how that makes him instantly friend zoned or whipped. Being at beck and call to pick her up anywhere and her friends always is a bit different.
My girlfriend's stepdad pisses me off to no end. First of all, we're not allowed to talk on Sundays(it's their "family day" even though her mom is at work for most of it) and now I can't even spend any time with her outside of school until [i]November[/i] because of some petty bullshit about chores.
High School relationships are weird.
[QUOTE=Tacosheller;37858466]My girlfriend's stepdad pisses me off to no end. First of all, we're not allowed to talk on Sundays(it's their "family day" even though her mom is at work for most of it) and now I can't even spend any time with her outside of school until [i]November[/i] because of some petty bullshit about chores.
High School relationships are weird.[/QUOTE]
Just try to deal with it for a bit and maybe he'll begin to respect you for putting up with it or something. And if nothing improves, just do your own thing. People need to learn to lay off and you've got to make it that way.
[QUOTE=Rhenae;37857573]I think it's a fair enough way to exchange numbers. He's just offering to help, I don't see how that makes him instantly friend zoned or whipped. Being at beck and call to pick her up anywhere and her friends always is a bit different.[/QUOTE]
I think if he likes this girl and wants to be in a relationship with her, he shouldn't start out with "yeah I'll drive you places..." it should be "hey, we should get a drink/coffee/movie sometime". That kinda establishes that he likes her a bit more than offering her a lift.
[QUOTE=Whittall;37858790]Just try to deal with it for a bit and maybe he'll begin to respect you for putting up with it or something. And if nothing improves, just do your own thing. People need to learn to lay off and you've got to make it that way.[/QUOTE]
I can attest to that. I was caught in my girlfriends bed a week after we officially started dating. Her dad now loves me. You just need to keep going, show him that you're willing to put up with the bullshit because she's worth it.
hehe why is it after you break up with someone because you think they're annoying and then your personality changes that you realize that you miss them the most
:(
a little bit late, but thanks to all the guys on the last page who helped me out, she's okay now and things are going well between us, and she is still not accepting my complements :v:
thanks again guys!
[QUOTE=A1t;37859737]and she is still not accepting my complements :v:[/QUOTE]
glad to hear it!
but you could try laying off the compliments for a bit, it can become quite awkward when someone's always trying to complement you and it's just not the right time for it, and i'm guessing you don't want her to feel awkward
-snip wrong thread-
[QUOTE=Autumn;37859751]glad to hear it!
but you could try laying off the compliments for a bit, it can become quite awkward when someone's always trying to complement you and it's just not the right time for it, and i'm guessing you don't want her to feel awkward[/QUOTE]
i think she is cuter than me, and she thinks i'm cuter than her :v:
i'm back in her town in a few days so i should be able to see her :dance:
Omg my gf is bein a retard, shes sayin that u can get pregnant from just sticken ur dick inside them, but im tellin her that u have 2 "pre-cum" becus my best guess is thats what she means. Is she bein fuckin dumb F P?
btw she got this insidious idea from speaking 2, u guessed it, her best friend. What a load
Started going to the gym. Cleaned my house and am reorganizing my room right now.
Being all productive makes my brain happy and my body sad.
oh yeah backstory is taht we have tried 2 fuck twice but both times shes sayin it hurts 2 much (im 2 big heh) no but she is a virign. i dident "pre-cum" either time.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861415]Omg my gf is bein a retard, shes sayin that u can get pregnant from just sticken ur dick inside them, but im tellin her that u have 2 "pre-cum" becus my best guess is thats what she means. Is she bein fuckin dumb F P?
btw she got this insidious idea from speaking 2, u guessed it, her best friend. What a load[/QUOTE]
Either your really badly trolling, however if you are being serious I do worry for humanity in general.
The thing is, You shouldn't really be sticking your dick in your "retarded" girlfriend (you said it). without protection unless you are really asking for trouble. Its important to be safe and it makes no sense why you would stick your dick in her without having the intention of cumming.
In-fact from your writing im pretty sure she isn't the one being dumb here. Her friends sound quite intelligent. Please don't discuss your load here.
Thanks Goodbye.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861433]oh yeah backstory is taht we have tried 2 fuck twice but both times shes sayin it hurts 2 much (im 2 big heh) no but she is a virign. i dident "pre-cum" either time.[/QUOTE]
Note to everyone. This users decided to edit his post for whatever reason. So i will reply to this edit. Obviously this person has not got the hang of forum posting yet.
If you don't respect a girl for how much she says it hurts than you sir are a complete douche bag so you need to worry about protection in that case. If you had attempted sex with her two times how is she a virgin? Did you do maths at school? And how come you didn't pre-cum if you had sex with her? I don't want to know what happened.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861415]Omg my gf is bein a retard, shes sayin that u can get pregnant from just sticken ur dick inside them, but im tellin her that u have 2 "pre-cum" becus my best guess is thats what she means. Is she bein fuckin dumb F P?
btw she got this insidious idea from speaking 2, u guessed it, her best friend. What a load[/QUOTE]
Well as far as you should be concerned, that is true.
You're right about precum being what gets her prego in that scenario, but if she's worried about getting pregnant from you having sex, just accept it.
I'm imagining that you're trying to get her to let you have sex without a condom and then pull out or something and that's a dangerous gamble if you're stupid about it and she's not on birth control.
Moral: If you're not using birth control and don't want to get her pregnant, don't stick your dick in her baby hole.
he's trolling, ignore
No guys I just wanted to type like a retard. Do you want me to post the facebook conversaiton?
Oh god this looks bad, I'm on an alt account while I'm banned for the next hour, but seriously can you help me with this?
[QUOTE=Yetteh;37861462]Either your really badly trolling, however if you are being serious I do worry for humanity in general.[/QUOTE]
It's her idea, man. I should probably go out and buy some condoms someday but I never really am prepared for when she wants to do it. Still, she's scared enough that she wants to go on the pill, so I will next time. (use condoms, not go on the pill)
[QUOTE=MindMuncher;37861473]Well as far as you should be concerned, that is true.[/QUOTE]
I just never really worried about it because I never expected to follow through and actually ejaculate.
~not trolling autumn sry~
if you are being serious, then don't post like a dick because no one will take you seriously.
but as it is, go ahead
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861494]No guys I just wanted to type like a retard. Do you want me to post the facebook conversaiton?[/QUOTE]
Its best not. You may be to dangerous if you remain on the internet too long. But i suppose if you wont troll anymore than we can help you to the best of our abilities.
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37861518]u got 2 beliv n urself an nything u do wil be god[/QUOTE]
Im glad anything he does will be god. Does this mean if he eats shit he will be god? This adds a whole new prospect to religion.
Edited that post, but I got the answers I want so you don't need to reply to it.
I do have a dilemma myself.
I recently started college. Im not sure but I think a girl likes me, however she seems to like me one day and goes off of me the next day. Most days she will smile at me yet i can not figure out if she is flirting with me or just talking normally. (I guess im not experienced enough) I made her laugh a lot the other day but then after that she seemed to show no interest me until around 30 minutes later. Im at the stage where I do not feel lust for her yet so it does not bother me if she likes me in a romantic / sexual way or if she is just being friendly at the current time they are both pluses for me.
Any advice on what I should do here?
Thanks Facepunch.
[editline]30th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861494]No guys I just wanted to type like a retard. Do you want me to post the facebook conversaiton?
Oh god this looks bad, I'm on an alt account while I'm banned for the next hour, but seriously can you help me with this?
It's her idea, man. I should probably go out and buy some condoms someday but I never really am prepared for when she wants to do it. Still, she's scared enough that she wants to go on the pill, so I will next time. (use condoms, not go on the pill)
I just never really worried about it because I never expected to follow through and actually ejaculate.
~not trolling autumn sry~[/QUOTE]
I have three concerns here.
1. Your using Windows Vista.
2. Your not really showing respect for what your girlfriend wants. She is scared man you should'nt be calling her a dumb f*ck and showing no respect towards her.
3. You stuck your penis in her without expecting to follow through to ejaculate. (Have you ever been taught on the concepts of sex?)
[QUOTE=Yetteh;37861577]I have three concerns here.
1. Your using Windows Vista.
2. Your not really showing respect for what your girlfriend wants. She is scared man you should'nt be calling her a dumb f*ck and showing no respect towards her.
3. You stuck your penis in her without expecting to follow through to ejaculate. (Have you ever been taught on the concepts of sex?)[/QUOTE]
I didn't choose this OS, my mom did!
Yeah in this 'man chat' I sound like a dick but irl I'm much more normal (and I show her respect, dw)
Because she has never had sex before and it hurts too much to go on longer than 20 seconds, I don't expect to follow through, that seems understandable
Sorry I can't answer your dilemma though.
Because I don't like making too many posts: [QUOTE=Yetteh;37861669]Everything is solved then. :)
It does concern me that you have to rely on your mother for your independent choice. In my opinion no person should have sex until they are independent to at least make the decision of there operating system. Yet that is my opinion.
Have some nice sex and try to be kind and gentle thats all i can say to help you.
I didn't expect you could help my dilemma. That is okay. :)[/QUOTE]
Hahah it was my mom's computer, she let me keep it though because all her shit was on her old computer (this was in 2008). Thanks for being helpful, anwyay.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861646]I didn't choose this OS, my mom did!
Yeah in this 'man chat' I sound like a dick but irl I'm much more normal (and I show her respect, dw)
Because she has never had sex before and it hurts too much to go on longer than 20 seconds, I don't expect to follow through, that seems understandable
Sorry I can't answer your dilemma though.[/QUOTE]
Everything is solved then. :)
It does concern me that you have to rely on your mother for your independent choice. In my opinion no person should have sex until they are independent to at least make the decision of there operating system. Yet that is my opinion.
Have some nice sex and try to be kind and gentle thats all i can say to help you.
I didn't expect you could help my dilemma. That is okay. :)
[editline]30th September 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37861658]Ask her our man, just go for it. Ask her to go eat some chinese with you.[/QUOTE]
I don't know who your man is. I rather not go for it.
Presuming that was a typo which im 90% sure it was im just being awkward. I don't wish to ask her out when I know so little about her as of yet. We have only met for around a week and I know a date would let me know her more yet it would show to her I have at least some intention to take it further and this means if the date went horribly wrong I would possibly lose her as a friend for a number of reasons including awkwardness. Also my motto is never ask out a woman unless you know if she likes a chinese first. Haha.
I would prefer to ask her out, as I got to know her yet just before the friend-zone kicks in.
[QUOTE=Cheryl Cole;37861494]It's her idea, man. I should probably go out and buy some condoms someday but I never really am prepared for when she wants to do it. Still, she's scared enough that she wants to go on the pill, so I will next time. (use condoms, not go on the pill)[/QUOTE]
Keep one in your wallet like everyone else you dumb fuck. Sure, it's not perfect (and if you have one available that hasn't been in a wallet, use that instead) - but it's better than none...
Edit: Really does look like a troll post.
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