Sex, Girlfriends and Shit III - General

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37893868]Alright, I'm gonna introduce myself today. Should I apologize for looking at her in math class yesterday or just ignore it?[/QUOTE] I would try excuse it without actually apollogising for it. For example "Kept thinking I recognised you before" or "I couldn't help but notice..." but generally I dislike lying, but you could only admit you were just staring at her if you've got that sort of nonchalant attitude and not come off as a creep. Alternatively you could not mention it all, look for an oppertunity to comment on something she's doing, or if you're ballsy just walk up to her and show an interest. If you're desperate tell a friend you're interested in her, that little secret should find it's way to her by the end of the day.

ITT: Over Analyzing EVERYTHING

Well, she wasn't at school today until after lunch... And I found out she has cancer. :(

[QUOTE=Jmir 54;37891911]So my roommates had some girls over and we all played super smash bros together. It bugged me that they sucked at it and didnt know any of the pokemon[/QUOTE] i play ssb w/ girls all the time we call them bitchtits one and bitchtits two and they always play peach they also suck

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37893868]Alright, I'm gonna introduce myself today. Should I apologize for looking at her in math class yesterday or just ignore it?[/QUOTE] Lol don't apologize that's weird

alright cool. Peruvian diplomat's daughter and I are going to lunch this weekend, hanging out, and then karaoke bar with blonde friend. It's a date! looking forward to this. She's fun to hang out with.

[QUOTE=Fire Kracker;37903522]Lol don't apologize that's weird[/QUOTE] Thanks, I won't.

I vaguely recall drunkenly posting in here after my first date with a girl last week. Been on two more since and it's going really well! We were playing Sonic the Hedgehog in a bar on the megadrive and she beat me. She is the one.

My university classes start again and now I am constantly confronted with my ex, I broke up with her for another girl during the holidays. Situation is really awful.

Well you were the one who broke up with her for another girl. Not as if you couldn't have changed it

[QUOTE=junker|154;37907258]My university classes start again and now I am constantly confronted with my ex, I broke up with her for another girl during the holidays. Situation is really awful.[/QUOTE] What is keeping you from avoiding her?

[QUOTE=junker|154;37907258]My university classes start again and now I am constantly confronted with my ex, I broke up with her for another girl during the holidays. Situation is really awful.[/QUOTE] i thought you broke up with that girl to get back with your ex before her?

I'm getting confused at who broke up with who to get with who because of who.

hey y'all. since im paranoid about sharing personal information with people i know i decided to try and seek advice from you strangers. theres a girl who i'm interested in, who ive been friends with for a good year and a bit now. i think id consider her my best friend. she has a lot of things going for her, shes ridiculously attractive, is easy for me to talk to, shares a lot of my opinions on things, and is just really fun to be around/with. her only 2 "relationships" have been really brief and uneventful and shitty. the first guy was my douche friend who just hastily left her for someone else. hes the white knight kind of guy whos overly nice to girls and a dick to everyone else. he just showed total neglect towards her, and if i remember the chatlog correctly (facebook) said something along the lines of "i dont love you anymore kthxbai". i dont know if thats exactly correct but im certain about the "kthxbai" (great touch, asshole). this was surprising to her and left her pretty shattered for a while, and is also around the time i started talking to her more and we became friends. the second guy was a typical "swagfag" and devout christian who she never even really seemed to like. he would try to push his religious views, with bullshit like "god loves u no matter wat god is always der 4 u <3", which she disregarded. he also kept posting vague statuses about her that involved taylor swift song lyrics or something like that, which was rather frustrating. eventually she just ended that. so anyway, before i told her how i felt, whenever the topic came up in our group conversations she would say she "didnt really like anyone" and "didnt care anymore", and things like that. when i did tell her, at first she though it was guy number one messing with her yet again. when i eventually convinced her of my legitimacy she was all "well okay" and just sort of avoided talking about it. i brought it up again later and she said she was "okay with that" and avoided the topic again. a bunch of guys in my general peer group found out about it shortly after and started asking her questions, including good old guy number 1. he decided to lie about a bunch of things i said (in a skype conversation, that i was in) and told her i was really upset about it and "talked about her all day" (complete lie). she was worried and sent me a skype message about how she was sorry and didnt want to lose the friendship, and i reassured her that i wasnt actually upset at all and it was just guy number 1 being a dickfucker again. i feel like shes off-put by how the previous relationships have ended up, and possibly still upset. i think the potential for a relationship exists but i dont exactly know what to do, should i wait until shes more comfortable with the idea or try to change her mind somehow. help me facepunch. sorry about the long post, i just like that i can post about this here without anybody i know finding out about and spreading my personal thoughts. can't think of TLDR, my apologies. ignore if lazy. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] fuck, love advice is a different thread, how embarassing i dont want to snip all that so ill just repost it in there tomorrow. im on this ipad and dont seem to be able to copypaste that much text

Love advice and this thread are one and the same man, dont worry about it. To be honest, I reckon it sounds like she's not into you but genuinely doesn't want to lose you as a friend. If you want to keep her as a friend then my advice would be to keep it platonic, and try and meet somebody else for a relationship.

don't make her feel like you're pressuring her into a relationship. it sounds like her past boyfriends have been people she dated only because they were interested in her, even though it wasn't mutual.

[QUOTE=Autumn;37907366]i thought you broke up with that girl to get back with your ex before her?[/QUOTE] I did, but my girl is now at home, where I used to live. So right now I am at the university again. Well my ex (the girl I cheated on) is constantly in my class. She studies the same stuff and is befriended with all my friends.

Argh, I feel depressed as fuck that she has cancer :( Also, does it mean she likes me if when we pass each other in the hallway, she always tries to divert her eyes to something else?

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37913160] Also, does it mean she likes me if when we pass each other in the hallway, she always tries to divert her eyes to something else?[/QUOTE] I can't believe how insecure you are to be asking such things.

[QUOTE=Behemoth_PT;37913187]I can't believe how insecure you are to be asking such things.[/QUOTE] How is it insecure?

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37913203]How is it insecure?[/QUOTE] He probably assumed you were asking this so you could reassure yourself about what's going on between the two of you. True or not, those questions are really pointless. Be in the now; just do your best

wtf has this forum turned into

[QUOTE=Seith;37913386]He probably assumed you were asking this so you could reassure yourself about what's going on between the two of you. True or not, those questions are really pointless. Be in the now; just do your best[/QUOTE] Thanks for the advice, and yeah, I was just wondering if that's what it means. I'll update once I talk to her.

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37914451]Thanks for the advice, and yeah, I was just wondering if that's what it means. I'll update once I talk to her.[/QUOTE] It means nothing. Even if it means something you shouldn't be wondering what it means. There is no right assumption of the meaning of looks. Maybe she feels embarrassed. I don't know. Talk to her.

in fact i'm a permanently 14 year old nerd

[QUOTE=ForDaNords;37913160]Also, does it mean she likes me if when we pass each other in the hallway, she always tries to divert her eyes to something else?[/QUOTE]Don't take this the wrong way, but you are weird. Go up to her and say hey, try and get to know [i]her[/i]. Do you have any classes together? Talk about the class. Don't make it awkward.

[QUOTE=Yahnich;37916270]tbh i'm wondering more why she told him she has cancer, it's not really i'd spring out on a first meeting[/QUOTE] I sat close to her friends by lunch, and I faintly heard "I hope anon's cancer gets better..." it makes sense too, since my school is 10 minutes away from one of the best hospitals in the USA and she moved in 3 weeks ago. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Badballer;37915348]Don't take this the wrong way, but you are weird. Go up to her and say hey, try and get to know [i]her[/i]. Do you have any classes together? Talk about the class. Don't make it awkward.[/QUOTE] Heh, you bet I am. That's what I'm planning to do when I can find the right time. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] Alright, I'm gonna have to ask for no more advice and/or talk about me. I'm gonna stop asking for advice from the Internet, and get advice from my best friend (Who is able to net girls left and right) but only if I desperately need it. Thanks everybody, for your help and responses, I'd give friendly ratings to all of you but then I'd get banned for spamming ratings.

Aighty then. Thus concludes another riveting chapter in SG&SIII: If she averts her eyes does she like me

[QUOTE=Seith;37844383]His initial reason was "maning up".... I find approaching women for the reason above super weird......[/QUOTE] not every man who measures his manliness by the fact he can talk to girls successfully is a serial rapist in the making, seith. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=Van Gogh;37913446]wtf has this forum turned into[/QUOTE] it's always been simultaneously the most depressing and the most hilarious thread in GD. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] [QUOTE=ForDaNords;37916313]I sat close to her friends by lunch, and I faintly heard "I hope anon's cancer gets better..." it makes sense too, since my school is 10 minutes away from one of the best hospitals in the USA and she moved in 3 weeks ago. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] Heh, you bet I am. That's what I'm planning to do when I can find the right time. [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] Alright, I'm gonna have to ask for no more advice and/or talk about me. I'm gonna stop asking for advice from the Internet, and get advice from my best friend (Who is able to net girls left and right) but only if I desperately need it. Thanks everybody, for your help and responses, I'd give friendly ratings to all of you but then I'd get banned for spamming ratings.[/QUOTE] girls are people. talk to them like they are people. this is the secret that all the dudes who got it made in the lady department know. i probably come off like i am a jerk (tired as shit) but seriously this is the golden secret [editline]4th October 2012[/editline] also on an unrelated note, i threw a party this summer w/ heavy drinking weed usage etc. turns out some chick there who i thought was p hot is actually a high school freshman. i feel unclean.

Wait, how old is a high school freshman in the US?