So a girl really seemed to like me and then a day or two later after adding me on facebook and just about saying "Did you get home, ok? Had a nice time yesterday. " she blocks me on facebook.
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I've been having a string of bad luck with women after they show interest before, lately.
nobody blocks somebody for no reason you probably said or did something really weird
[QUOTE=Scotchair;37910288]
To be honest, I reckon it sounds like she's not into you but genuinely doesn't want to lose you as a friend.[/QUOTE]
what makes you say this
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;37918504]also on an unrelated note, i threw a party this summer w/ heavy drinking weed usage etc.
turns out some chick there who i thought was p hot is actually a high school freshman. i feel unclean.[/QUOTE]
I know that feel, bro. When I was 19, maybe 20, one day I was chilling on Facebook, thing on left, people you may know, "whoa, that girl's pretty hot, maybe I DO know her, heheheh." Another minute of investigating tells me she's in eighth grade (13-14). In my defense, all I could see was her head/face, and she did look at least 18 in that one picture. My friends have yet to let me live it down.
[QUOTE=Y'all.;37918975]what makes you say this[/QUOTE]
because her response to you telling her you like her was "well, okay" and "i'm okay with that" and then she avoided the topic.
you probably would've received a much ambiguous reply if she was interested, and she wouldn't be avoiding the topic. also because she messaged you saying she didn't want to lose your friendship.
i'm not sure what more needs to be said..?
[QUOTE=Autumn;37919238]because her response to you telling her you like her was "well, okay" and "i'm okay with that" and then she avoided the topic.
you probably would've received a much ambiguous reply if she was interested, and she wouldn't be avoiding the topic. also because she messaged you saying she didn't want to lose your friendship.
i'm not sure what more needs to be said..?[/QUOTE]
i hate how i didnt see this but someone else did as soon as i asked about it
god damn my pathetic optimism
[QUOTE=DarkendSky;37918504]not every man who measures his manliness by the fact he can talk to girls successfully is a serial rapist in the making, seith.
[editline]4th October 2012[/editline]
it's always been simultaneously the most depressing and the most hilarious thread in GD.
[editline]4th October 2012[/editline]
girls are people. talk to them like they are people. this is the secret that all the dudes who got it made in the lady department know. i probably come off like i am a jerk (tired as shit) but seriously this is the golden secret
[editline]4th October 2012[/editline]
also on an unrelated note, i threw a party this summer w/ heavy drinking weed usage etc.
turns out some chick there who i thought was p hot is actually a high school freshman. i feel unclean.[/QUOTE]
wtf are you on about.
[QUOTE=TM Gmod;37918872]So a girl really seemed to like me and then a day or two later after adding me on facebook and just about saying "Did you get home, ok? Had a nice time yesterday. " she blocks me on facebook.
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I've been having a string of bad luck with women after they show interest before, lately.[/QUOTE]
It's okay bro, I'm apparently the worst human on earth so any girl that shows any interest in me quickly desists after they get to know me better.
Get to see my girlfriend today after 2 weeks of not seeing her! Making dinner together tonight and watching a film then going shopping tomorrow and then in the evening going out for a meal at an oriental restaurant. :D
[QUOTE=TM Gmod;37918872]So a girl really seemed to like me and then a day or two later after adding me on facebook and just about saying "Did you get home, ok? Had a nice time yesterday. " she blocks me on facebook.
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I've been having a string of bad luck with women after they show interest before, lately.[/QUOTE]
I doubt luck has anything to do with it. It's your fault ,learn from it.
[editline]5th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37919488]oh that reminds me, it's my first anniversary soon and i have no fucking idea what to do because i basically never had one
what do normal couples do pls help[/QUOTE]
you watch a movie and have sex. If you're not normal you could anything...
[QUOTE=TM Gmod;37918872]So a girl really seemed to like me and then a day or two later after adding me on facebook and just about saying "Did you get home, ok? Had a nice time yesterday. " she blocks me on facebook.
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I've been having a string of bad luck with women after they show interest before, lately.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37918911]nobody blocks somebody for no reason you probably said or did something really weird[/QUOTE]
"Did you get home ok?"
Kind of obvious after she's on facebook.
no, that's not obvious and completely irrelevant.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37917496]uh sure whatever dude, it's not like we ruined your life or are going to stalk you???[/QUOTE]
No, I just feel like I have all the advice I need at the moment and I don't wanna bother people with it anymore :v:
hey guys. so I like this girl. let's call her Brittany. she's cool, she's never had sex and I probably wouldn't have sex with her for quite some time if we were together. furthermore, she sends very mixed signals about how she feels about us. she just got out of a relationship and I think she still loves her ex. also, when I ask to hang out most of the time she says her parents won't let her. I can't tell if that's a real thing or an excuse. to be fair, I can see why her parents wouldn't like me.
there are plenty of other attractive girls that I could actually fuck, but there's something special about how I think of Brittany, even though there's a good chance me and her will never happen. so what should I do?
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37921557]Go for it, if it doesn't work, go for some of the other girls that are crawling all over to get your dick.
Simple as that really.[/QUOTE]
that was my instinct but I really can't figure out what she thinks of me. know what I mean?
[QUOTE=fairy;37921531]hey guys. so I like this girl. let's call her Brittany. she's cool, she's never had sex and I probably wouldn't have sex with her for quite some time if we were together. furthermore, she sends very mixed signals about how she feels about us. she just got out of a relationship and I think she still loves her ex. also, when I ask to hang out most of the time she says her parents won't let her. I can't tell if that's a real thing or an excuse. to be fair, I can see why her parents wouldn't like me.
there are plenty of other attractive girls that I could actually fuck, but there's something special about how I think of Brittany, even though there's a good chance me and her will never happen. so what should I do?[/QUOTE]
I'm a tad confused. Are you interested in her because she's pulling you by the balls and the "wanting something i can't have" syndrome or is it because something about her physically, mentally is attracting you despite all the other women you have to go around? I am asking this to give you a clearer perspective perhaps, as this sounds like it might be along the lines mentioned above...
[QUOTE=Seith;37921615]I'm a tad confused. Are you interested in her because she's pulling you by the balls and the "wanting something i can't have" syndrome or is it because something about her physically, mentally is attracting you despite all the other women you have to go around? I am asking this to give you a clearer perspective perhaps, as this sounds like it might be along the lines mentioned above...[/QUOTE]
well I've known the girl for years and I think she's pretty awesome all around. she's cute, she's funny and she makes a good girlfriend. but I feel like the fact that I cant have her might draw me towards her aswell. its really hard for me to say.
[editline]5th October 2012[/editline]
[QUOTE=RenegadeCop;37921231]When girls tend to only take the "half face, all boob" photos, it can be hard to tell their age.[/QUOTE]
good point. thanks for the advice.
I think i might just go for both and see how that works out?
Up to you to decide whether its ultimately your dick talking oe an accumlation of her qualities that made an actual connection for you. If i had a lot of women generally to engage myself with i guess stuff like appearance plays less off a role but rather passion, playfulness and intellegene. If its somewhere along those lines for you then you know what to do :-)
[QUOTE=Seith;37922337]Up to you to decide whether its ultimately your dick talking oe an accumlation of her qualities that made an actual connection for you. If i had a lot of women generally to engage myself with i guess stuff like appearance plays less off a role but rather passion, playfulness and intellegene. If its somewhere along those lines for you then you know what to do :-)[/QUOTE]
thanks for the advice bro. I think I'm going to take my chances with Brittany for now. if some other girl comes along then so be it. if she meets some other guy she likes then so be it.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37923123]the way I'm reading it is that you just want her because she's forbidden fruit. think about this because if you start dating eventually and then you're like wow i'm bored and dump her, well that would just be in poor taste really[/QUOTE]
I've thought about it plenty and I know her well enough to know I wouldnt get bored in the foreseeable future, but you may be right.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37923619]i just meant bored as in not quite as interested romantically[/QUOTE]
i don't think i'd lose that interest personally, but my foresight is not the best..
[QUOTE=Rusty100;37918911]nobody blocks somebody for no reason you probably said or did something really weird[/QUOTE]
Nope, just said that and she saw it later didnt reply, few hours later noticed i was blocked.. and the previous night she was very interested. so obviously she just sobered up and looked at my pictures and went "ew" or something...
Went to see Brave the other day with that lass and she started crying at the end and all I could think was "Advantage Scotchair...." Comforted her like nobody's business.
[editline]5th October 2012[/editline]
Also Brave is amazing... as an artist, an animator and a Scotsman, it fucking blew me away.
I have to see Brave. Disney movies are awesome to watch with a "lass" :v:
Had sex today for first time, it was fucking awesome!
Foreplay was like almost hour long, actual sex was somewhere 10 minutes, orgasm was sick as shiiit :D
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That's so unbelievably awkward and creepy.
[quote]I'd be burned, shot, stung by thousands of bees, and stabbed just to see you smile.[/quote]
wtf dude
go say hi, and ask her if she wants to go get coffee sometime or something. not that spaghetti-laden note.
Thanks for the responses everybody, snipped it myself.
I have no idea how to talk with girls, so I'm getting really, really, worried I'm gonna screw this up.
Better wait for a time I can talk with her.
Also, can anybody explain the spaghetti thing to me? I've seen it tons of times and never understood it.
[QUOTE=Yahnich;37928309]DEFINITELY do not buy her jewelry
like how old are you, 13-14 right[/QUOTE]
13, turning 14 really soon
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